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Hey gents. Don't post too often as I don't dream too often. Was feeling the urge and decided to hit up this girl ([URL]https://liveescortreviews.com/search?search=7574537288&city=virginiabeach[/URL]). Set up everything through text and arrived at the location about an hour later. Get the room number and head on up after waiting only a few minutes in the parking lot. The door opens and the girl is hiding behind the door. As in walk in I hit a wall of smoke and as I turn around to introduce myself, it's clear this isn't the girl in the pics. The only pic that MAYBE resembles her is the one where she's wearing red pants, and even then that looked to be 15-20 years and a few habits ago. She was clearly on something. Anyway I should've left right away but I was really feeling the urge, and I've never walked out on anyone before. She turns off the lights and I lay the donation on the table, then told me before we start that she had to use the restroom. At this point I'm regretting my decision to stay, and I see she didn't take my donation when she went to the bathroom. So while she's taking a piss I just grab my money and get the hell out of there and just run straight for my car. Left the hotel and didn't look back. It was pretty late by then so I didn't get to scratch a much needed itch, but I was glad I didn't waste any money for what I know I would've greatly hated myself later for. Be safe out there as always.

[QUOTE=TabooPleasures;3967892]Hey gents. Don't post too often as I don't dream too often. Was feeling the urge and decided to hit up this girl ([URL]https://liveescortreviews.com/search?search=7574537288&city=virginiabeach[/URL]). Set up everything through text and arrived at the location about an hour later. Get the room number and head on up after waiting only a few minutes in the parking lot. The door opens and the girl is hiding behind the door. As in walk in I hit a wall of smoke and as I turn around to introduce myself, it's clear this isn't the girl in the pics. The only pic that MAYBE resembles her is the one where she's wearing red pants, and even then that looked to be 15-20 years and a few habits ago. She was clearly on something. Anyway I should've left right away but I was really feeling the urge, and I've never walked out on anyone before. She turns off the lights and I lay the donation on the table, then told me before we start that she had to use the restroom. At this point I'm regretting my decision to stay, and I see she didn't take my donation when she went to the bathroom. So while she's taking a piss I just grab my money and get the hell out of there and just run straight for my car. Left the hotel and didn't look back. It was pretty late by then so I didn't get to scratch a much needed itch, but I was glad I didn't waste any money for what I know I would've greatly hated myself later for. Be safe out there as always.[/QUOTE]Most of the time before the act they 98% of the time go to the restroom, I believe they take a hit of something to numb themselves or to get out of it before someone else digs into there guts, you have to definitely feel comfortable Stay safe.

[QUOTE=Keith2012;3968923]Most of the time before the act they 98% of the time go to the restroom, I believe they take a hit of something to numb themselves or to get out of it before someone else digs into there guts, you have to definitely feel comfortable Stay safe.[/QUOTE]Interesting, I have never had one go to the restroom before the act.

I believe those pics are of a famous fitness model.

[QUOTE=BryanMills;3965597]Anyone ever been with her? I remember her from BP but could never get a hold of her? Tgbt?

[URL]https://www.adultlook.com/p/2962276[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Keith2012;3968923]Most of the time before the act they 98% of the time go to the restroom, I believe they take a hit of something to numb themselves or to get out of it before someone else digs into there guts, you have to definitely feel comfortable Stay safe.[/QUOTE]Does anybody even slightly enjoy or want to be with someone that is having to "numb themselves" so they can stand to be with you? That's just creepy on so many levels.

Va Voyuer it seems the majority I have seen lately are blatantly self medicated or lack the couth to even brush their teeth to kill the smell of whatever they're drinking. Was mentioned in earlier post about some of them needing to go to la la land to get through the event. It just seems more obvious now. Guess I'm stuck in the past with wishing for the "good old days".

[QUOTE=VaVouyer;3969795]Does anybody even slightly enjoy or want to be with someone that is having to "numb themselves" so they can stand to be with you? That's just creepy on so many levels.[/QUOTE]Hell no. I have as good a time from giving a girl an O as from anything else. If we're in the midst of things and for all I can tell her mind is on her shopping list, I don't go back.

This discussion of providers "numbing themselves" right before an encounter is turning into an interesting conversation. One doesn't find this kind of introspection, psychoanalysis, and pop psychology on these boards all that often.

Whether a lady is "really into" a session depends on, among other things, the specific woman, her temperament, her reason (s) for being a sex worker, the particular day, anything / everything else going on in her life, how she feels (both physically and mentally), whether you are her first customer that day, or seventh, or tenth, and whether she is being coerced into providing, or worse (being trafficked). And there are obviously many other factors I'm not listing.

Many of the negative factors are self-evident and do not warrant spending much time on. I'm referring to examples like: someone with a sick child, or in a major jam, or fighting with their boyfriend or girlfriend, etc. Sometimes a person just has a bad day.

Assuming a lady is not being coerced or trafficked, because no one here reading these boards wants any part of a situation like that, most especially me!, these are some thoughts on women with different motives:

Those who may need to "numb themselves"

Unfortunately, many of these women are in the game to get money for drugs. Some hate having to prostitute themselves, but it is a quick way to make a buck. The need for the drug wins, so they do whatever it takes. They are not there to get an orgasm. They may or may not be attracted to a customer. They may hate themselves and all their customers. Some would never be in this line of business were it not for their addictions. These ladies may need to medicate themselves to go through with the acts a guy wants. That just seems like common sense.

Or perhaps she is a provider because she has a need for money for any number of things: paying the rent, buying clothes for her kid, purchasing her kid's school supplies, food, medicine, needing a new washing machine, making a car payment, buying gasoline, etc. And some are putting themselves through college or grad school. The way they go about doing what they do while they're spending time with a customer depends on all the things listed above, plus anything else you can think of. The list of financial needs is practically endless.

And while that list of financial reasons is practically endless, it always boils down to a financial transaction between the provider and her customer. And I believe it's best we never lose sight of that fact. Some folks say these women view customers as simply walking ATM machines. For many, that is no doubt true.

Those who may not need to "numb themselves"

However, some women like men in general, like pleasing men, have a high libido, or just love to screw. They may ask themselves: Why not hang a shingle and get paid for it rather than just being a floozy? They may like the variety of men they see. They may like getting off ten times a day. They may be fascinated with the male anatomy. They may have a fetish. They may feel a sense of empowerment by controlling someone else's pleasure. They might enjoy the time they spend with a guy. The list goes on and on.

Overall, a guy should be happy if the lady he chooses to see maintains communication, entertains them at or near the time they said they would, gives them the amount of time they're paying for and gives her attention to the customer during most of that time, and presents herself being freshly clean. Anything beyond that, such as one of them being a great actress to make the customer think she cums or in some way enjoys herself is simply icing on the cake.

Bottom line: It depends on the person. But if you find someone in this endeavor who pleases you, be sure to tell her you appreciate her. And give her an extra tip!

Finally, for those who are caught up in the desire to have a session where the lady enjoys herself, or at least appears to enjoy herself, always look for women in the second category. That is what this board is designed to help you do.

Best of luck,

~RM

[QUOTE=SwordKnight;3970539]Hell no. I have as good a time from giving a girl an O as from anything else. If we're in the midst of things and for all I can tell her mind is on her shopping list, I don't go back.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ExNihilo;3970463]Va Voyuer it seems the majority I have seen lately are blatantly self medicated or lack the couth to even brush their teeth to kill the smell of whatever they're drinking. Was mentioned in earlier post about some of them needing to go to la la land to get through the event. It just seems more obvious now. Guess I'm stuck in the past with wishing for the "good old days".[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=VaVouyer;3969795]Does anybody even slightly enjoy or want to be with someone that is having to "numb themselves" so they can stand to be with you? That's just creepy on so many levels.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Keith2012;3968923]Most of the time before the act they 98% of the time go to the restroom, I believe they take a hit of something to numb themselves or to get out of it before someone else digs into there guts, you have to definitely feel comfortable Stay safe.[/QUOTE]

Truth be told virtually none want to be with you. They may prefer you to another visitor but it's a delusion to believe they want to be there. The good ones are good little actresses LOL.

My real wonder is what the better (real SB types -- not BP druggies) think afterwards. Very, very few stick around and make it a business. 98% come and quickly leave the scene. Never really had an honest discussion as to why.

Significant other gets back from sponsored vacation. Part of process to regain child custody. Entered into residential rehab. Legit job. Started own business. Develop monogamous relationship with former client. Relocate to better escort business climate. Client becomes stalker and gets seriously scary and they fear harm. Newbie taken off open market to be UTR. OD. Murdered. Religious conversion. Jealous girlfriend. That's what little I've come across. Sure these just scratch the surface. Take care.

LOL. That's a lot of reasonable reasons.

[QUOTE=MyDarkSide;3971981]Truth be told virtually none want to be with you. They may prefer you to another visitor but it's a delusion to believe they want to be there. The good ones are good little actresses LOL.[/QUOTE]Sometimes they're not happy with the work in general but nevertheless can have a good time with the right guy. I figure "I had a good time" is likely to be a little white lie, but "I don't want money, I want you to drive me crazy like last time" is probably sincere.

And of course they might feel different next time. I knew one girl who went from "not spectacular but sweet" to "hair trigger temper" to "come fuck my brains out right now" depending on the time of the month.

Tl; dr: Women complicated.

[QUOTE=MyDarkSide;3971981]Truth be told virtually none want to be with you. They may prefer you to another visitor but it's a delusion to believe they want to be there. The good ones are good little actresses LOL.

My real wonder is what the better (real SB types -- not BP druggies) think afterwards. Very, very few stick around and make it a business. 98% come and quickly leave the scene. Never really had an honest discussion as to why.[/QUOTE]I could not agree more. I am no Salty Canine or Black Lizard by any stretch of the imagination, but I've had my fair share. Theses girls definitely do not want to sell their body if they do not have to. I consider myself one that they prefer to be with, as I have had several of them contacting me, asking me to come visit (typically with a better than advertised price). This is probably because I am normal, decent looking, treat them with respect, and I don't request any off the wall fetishes. The good ones are good actresses and I have had multiple ones tell me this. I definitely do not want to be with someone who is not into the session or not friendly and accommodating. I have experienced that before and it is a terrible situation to be in. This is why I do not contact random girls passing through the area. They are not interested in return clients and have nothing to lose by providing a shitty time or robbing you. Save your money and get a well reviewed local provider. Stay away from nasty, low-end motels and $60 deals. Beat off when you can't find any thing worthwhile. I prefer providers 30 and older because I feel that they are doing this more by their own choice, rather than by necessity or some pimp controlling them. Plus, I feel really sorry for the young girls out there and don't want to be caught with a juvenile. As a general rule of thumb, Young girls = trouble. Another rule of thumb is that "if it looks too good to be true, it's probably is too good to be true. ".

Please let me continue my thoughts, as I was preoccupied earlier. Now where was I.

So, some of these girls that don't screen clients are really putting themselves in danger. They risk being beaten, mugged, raped or even killed. This is an indication of how desperate they actually are. Some invite strange men into their rooms late at night through a series of simple text messages. That is not smart at all, even though some have friends in the room or in an adjacent room. I would not even think about seeing some of the providers I see you guys report about. Shady hotels, dudes lurking around in the shadows, etc. This is exactly why the news has stories about violence at hotels almost daily. I prefer girls that work out of their clean home in a nice neighborhood. You guys are asking for trouble when you engage these $40 providers. Okay, off my soap box now.

[QUOTE=AshyGuy;3969221]Interesting, I have never had one go to the restroom before the act.[/QUOTE]Stay in this game long enough you will.