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Sex is needed but how if sex becoming sex addiction it will gives you danger for your health and to cure sex addiction you may visit here [url]http://newlifehabits.com/[/url]
[QUOTE=KianFleming21; 1357919]Sex is needed but how if sex becoming sex addiction it will gives you danger for your health and to cure sex addiction you may visit here.
[url]http://newlifehabits.com/[/url][/QUOTE]Okay here's one with a slightly different perspective on masturbation. [url]http://www.menshealth.com/health/health-and-sexual-benefits-masturbation[/url] Very interesting read. I'm beginning to wonder what's addition and what's not.
[QUOTE=Icarus02; 1132766]This will seem almost comical, but I have been addicted for years and I think I have finally found a cure. It is simple and it has worked for me.
Everytime you think about calling a provider or cruising, DO THIS: Open your porn collection and jerk off. As obvious and stupid it may sound it really works. As soon as you are finished you will get this weird sense of happiness accompanied by 3 thoughts:
1) You saved yourself quite a bit of money just by jerking off.
2) Realization that calling a provider is stupid, time wasting and unnecessary.
3) Feeling carefree that you did not risk having STDs and entire cycle of worries that would normally start as soon you are finished with provider (I hated that feeling)
Yes, desires will come again, but just stop yourself with porn. When you are on BP or whereever else, close that browser and open up the porn. Jerk it off and be done with it! That plan works for me. TRY IT![/QUOTE]
This is one of the better ideas here, and it might work well for some guys.
But in my experience, most of my relapses have been triggered by porn. It reminds you of the possibilities, you start thinking that you are missing out on something, and before you know it, you're on the hunt for an escort.
It's during the weeks and months that I forgo looking at porn that I am relatively calm and the "big head controls the small head", as they say. I've gotten better at self-control as the years goes by, but I'm not so sure it's due to wisdom as it is with simply aging. In some respects, growing old is helpful.
Another thing that can be helpful is the "rational" memory of lousy experiences, i.e. were a waste of time and money. But then again there were also the relatively-rare great experiences, and especially when watching porn the "irrational" mind tends to highlight the good memories and suppress the bad.
[QUOTE=Crazy Jim Wood; 1321489]I think that part of the classic definition of an addiction is it is something you continue despite it negatively affecting your life, and you seem to be doing ok.
If you have plenty of money, stick with the high-end girls, massage parlors, etc, you shouldn't have too many problems. Shit date them if you like get freebies on the side, if you see the girl few times and bareback her, welcome to the real world, I think everyone here does sooner or later, and 99% of us live to tell.
If your civilian girlfriend / ex / wife etc is ok with it, it sounds like you are going to get to have your cake and eat it, too.
You aren't going to get out of this world alive, and you can't take the money with you, so drive on my man.[/QUOTE]Any bareback stories anyone wants to share concerning taking the bareback plunge with a stripper? I had my chances, declined, and regret doing so a bit.
As of right now, I have 1 GF finishing up her last year at UC. 1 GF in the 1st year of a master's program at OSU, a FWB (who knows the UC GF) , and a FB at IU who's graduating now and about to go to work up north. If I don't have sex at least four times a week, I get moody. If I don't have all four of them in a month, I feel like I failed.
I sometimes leave early from work to enjoy the company of my UC GF. I also have come into work late multiple times in the same week due to UC GF.
I allow myself one escort a month, but only if they offer interesting services. I want to add more women.
Me and a monger on here were in a great s club close by, went to he VIP room with a beauty new tot he business, well we didn't have any protection, dumb me tried to buy some from the mens room guy, any back upstairs, murder she wrote, good though
[QUOTE=Chris Wake;1324154]Chloe used to be great at orgasm responses. But nowadays it's just overacting to the max[/QUOTE]She is still in softcore
Hey All.
I got addicted 33 years ago at 22 from massage parlors, then asian ones, now escorts. I really need to stop visiting so frequently. I make decent money, but can't get my car repaired. I'm going to try the jerk off method. One observation I've made is that when I have a convenient time to hit some place (wife out with sister) I'll say to myself "Are you horny enough right now to go jerk off?" 8/10 times I'm not.
Anyone else have a similar experience?
Be safe
[QUOTE=Chelovec; 1625827]Hey All.
I got addicted 33 years ago at 22 from massage parlors, then asian ones, now escorts. I really need to stop visiting so frequently. I make decent money, but can't get my car repaired. I'm going to try the jerk off method. One observation I've made is that when I have a convenient time to hit some place (wife out with sister) I'll say to myself "Are you horny enough right now to go jerk off?" 8/10 times I'm not.
Anyone else have a similar experience?
Be safe[/QUOTE]Starting your addiction at a massage parlor or book store and then progressing to Streetwalkers or Ecsorts is a common course for those of us who are truly sex addicts and not just mongers. For me the pleasure has not really been in the actual act, but more in the preperation and the hunt. There is not a whole lot of hunting to do when you just beat off though. So the thrill is not really there. Describing yourself as making decent money but not able to get your car repaired is a fairly good sysptom of being a sex addict. If you are truly interested, look up SA or SAA for meetings that are located conviently for you. Attend a few meetings and see if they are of any benefit to you.
[QUOTE=HootenPecker;1626171]Starting your addiction at a massage parlor or book store and then progressing to Streetwalkers or Ecsorts is a common course for those of us who are truly sex addicts and not just mongers. For me the pleasure has not really been in the actual act, but more in the preperation and the hunt. There is not a whole lot of hunting to do when you just beat off though. So the thrill is not really there. Describing yourself as making decent money but not able to get your car repaired is a fairly good sysptom of being a sex addict. If you are truly interested, look up SA or SAA for meetings that are located conviently for you. Attend a few meetings and see if they are of any benefit to you.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the reply! I'm going to look into it. I'm trying to stop my conditioning!
I have been "clean" for 3 months now. I won't brag about it, though, until it's been a year, which I expect is how long it takes to forget the feeling. There could still be a relapse.
But one possibly useful advice: I found the book "Breaking The Cycle: Free Yourself From Sexual Addiction." by George N. Collins to be very helpful. It reveals some of the possible reasons for the addiction (which happened to be applicable to me) leading to a better understanding of myself. The book provided several practical ideas for how to break free. I think it may work for those who are thoughtful and on the threshold of quitting anyway. For others, a deeper intervention might be necessary. Or maybe you're happy to not quit. But then, as the book asks, why are you reading this?
Buying the book via Kindle or similar online venue is fairly discreet, for those of you who prefer not to have an incriminating hardcopy of such a book.
Alright, let's see if I make it to 1 year.
Hello. I am a provider, and I've also studied sexuality and deviant behavior as an undergrad and graduate student.
I just wanted to say that wanting to have sex with multiple people, wanting to pay for sex within your own financially acceptable limits, wanting to have "weird" or kinky sex, or wanting to have sex more than X number of times per day / week / month isn't a sign of pathology! It's completely okay to have different desires, as long as they don't infringe on the rights of others or interfere with a normal and productive life.
This article was published in July 2012, and it is EXCELLENT. .
[url]http://thehumanist.org/july-august-2012/you[/url]'re-addicted-to-what/
There was also a comment made about "the thrill of the hunt," essentially. That is one thing that I like about sex, in general, and why I particularly like my job these days. It's the excitement of finding someone who's interested, talking yourself up and flirting, closing the deal, and meeting them. It's the thrill of getting inside of his (or her, occasionally) head and finding out who his perfect woman would be, and becoming her for a half hour or hour. It's getting on USASG and seeing the reviews, and having people contact you to say,"Baby, my buddy says that you were AWESOME."
I do see how THAT could be addictive! LOL.
I've tried the hand release method as well, but each time I cheat myself out of the deed at an AMP or what not I put a 100. 00 in my stock account, its been growing good,
[QUOTE=Lily Whyte; 1643759]Hello. I am a provider, and I've also studied sexuality and deviant behavior as an undergrad and graduate student.
I just wanted to say that wanting to have sex with multiple people, wanting to pay for sex within your own financially acceptable limits, wanting to have "weird" or kinky sex, or wanting to have sex more than X number of times per day / week / month isn't a sign of pathology! It's completely okay to have different desires, as long as they don't infringe on the rights of others or interfere with a normal and productive life.
This article was published in July 2012, and it is EXCELLENT. .
[url]http://thehumanist.org/july-august-2012/you[/url]
're-addicted-to-what/
There was also a comment made about "the thrill of the hunt," essentially. That is one thing that I like about sex, in general, and why I particularly like my job these days. It's the excitement of finding someone who's interested, talking yourself up and flirting, closing the deal, and meeting them. It's the thrill of getting inside of his (or her, occasionally) head and finding out who his perfect woman would be, and becoming her for a half hour or hour. It's getting on USASG and seeing the reviews, and having people contact you to say,"Baby, my buddy says that you were AWESOME."
I do see how THAT could be addictive! LOL.[/QUOTE]Tremendous article, Lily White. Thanks for posting.
My girlfriend has wanted to get into brown and wet sports.
She is really open minded and a nymphomaniac.
She has asked me to practically crap on her mouth.
I am very opening minded but I think this is over the top.
Do you all think she needs help?
Joe Black.