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I agree there are plenty who do want to have fun. I was just noticing an uptick on profiles who say they want companionship only. I guess if I was a little older that would be desired but at 49 I still want fun.
If anyone knows any legit Caucasian average/slim build on there PM me.
I find it amazing that girl are seeking compensation for just talking with them. And I'm talking like real money. $300-$500 and NO fun. There are guys that have that kinda of money to give a young lady to just have on his arm. And this is per date. I had a young lady from that site that wanted $200 a week just to have lunch or dinner with her. I told her good luck finding that. Trust me, my profile on that site lets everyone know I want some p&why as a first date and then discuss when I will get some more on dates going forward. Not every date needs to have sex, but some of those will either end or begin with sex. If you don't like those arrangements please skip my profile.
[QUOTE=Onecurious;3235918]Noticed a lot of girls lately on SA saying companionship only and no fun. Are there that many guys out there who go for this? I would hope they don't get any response and start understanding what a mutual benefits relationship is.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DollarBill50;3236552]I find it amazing that girl are seeking compensation for just talking with them. And I'm talking like real money. $300-$500 and NO fun. There are guys that have that kinda of money to give a young lady to just have on his arm. And this is per date. I had a young lady from that site that wanted $200 a week just to have lunch or dinner with her. I told her good luck finding that. Trust me, my profile on that site lets everyone know I want some p&why as a first date and then discuss when I will get some more on dates going forward. Not every date needs to have sex, but some of those will either end or begin with sex. If you don't like those arrangements please skip my profile.[/QUOTE]Most women are delusional we older guys know that. Just read any of the ads at legit dating sites, they are whales, and want some Greek Adonis, or movie star. They have some stupid idea that they are way hotter than they are. It is like the Back Page ads as well where some trashy, tattooed drugged out woman is saying she is high class, it just is not so. And they make my hand look like a better option. Glad for now I am not looking.
I am still with the little honey I met at the WYP site a few months ago. I actually got really lucky with this one, she is a small town girl, who is happy when I take her out to some cheap place to eat, and if we go to Wal-Mart to pick up something she wants, she is pleased as punch. Also she does not drive, and does not know how to. I think I will keep it that way. Also she was raised by a single mom with daddy never being in the picture, so she was really looking for a daddy type. I think I have spent like a total of $700 total over the past few months, and she is happy, and I am happy.
And do you get some every once in a while? If so, you are either lucky or you have the secret.
I'm not made at you though. Just jealous. 😫128555;128555;.
[QUOTE=IH8HJsAz;3236835]Most women are delusional we older guys know that. Just read any of the ads at legit dating sites, they are whales, and want some Greek Adonis, or movie star. They have some stupid idea that they are way hotter than they are. It is like the Back Page ads as well where some trashy, tattooed drugged out woman is saying she is high class, it just is not so. And they make my hand look like a better option. Glad for now I am not looking.
I am still with the little honey I met at the WYP site a few months ago. I actually got really lucky with this one, she is a small town girl, who is happy when I take her out to some cheap place to eat, and if we go to Wal-Mart to pick up something she wants, she is pleased as punch. Also she does not drive, and does not know how to. I think I will keep it that way. Also she was raised by a single mom with daddy never being in the picture, so she was really looking for a daddy type. I think I have spent like a total of $700 total over the past few months, and she is happy, and I am happy.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DollarBill50;3236859]And do you get some every once in a while? If so, you are either lucky or you have the secret.
I'm not made at you though. Just jealous. 😫128555;128555;.[/QUOTE]Pretty much since the second date. Like I said she is a small town local gal that is easily impressed with very little. I took her to Olive Garden a couple of weeks ago, you you would have thought we had eaten at a $200 a plate bistro. She is really a sweet girl, and I know that she is really only looking to get out of her impoverished life. Which I am slowly leading her out of. The whole SB / SD thing does not really apply anymore for the most part. Also she actually is a great cook, and likes doing it when she spends a week-end here.
If I was still looking I would stay with the small town ads, and girls. My girls ad said take me to Wally World shopping, you can't make this stuff up, and you cannot pass it by either when you see it.
I got lucky. I had a great deal for about a year. I was a regular at a Texas Roadhouse. Asked for the same waitress every week. We became friends. One Tuesday, she was extremely upset and told me her mom needed $$ to pay the doctor or he would not see her again. I left her a note and told her I could help. That started a weekly relationship that was mutually beneficial. For $ every week, she would come over for a couple of hours. Sometimes we had dinner, watched a movie, or went directly back to the bedroom. But, like all good things, it came to an end. She was a college student and transferred in Sept to UNC-CH. I saw her at Christmas. Helped her with Christmas money. Sigh.
Back at Texas Roadhouse on Tuesdays. You never know.
[QUOTE=IH8HJsAz;3236835]Most women are delusional we older guys know that. Just read any of the ads at legit dating sites, they are whales, and want some Greek Adonis, or movie star. They have some stupid idea that they are way hotter than they are. It is like the Back Page ads as well where some trashy, tattooed drugged out woman is saying she is high class, it just is not so. And they make my hand look like a better option. Glad for now I am not looking.
I am still with the little honey I met at the WYP site a few months ago. I actually got really lucky with this one, she is a small town girl, who is happy when I take her out to some cheap place to eat, and if we go to Wal-Mart to pick up something she wants, she is pleased as punch. Also she does not drive, and does not know how to. I think I will keep it that way. Also she was raised by a single mom with daddy never being in the picture, so she was really looking for a daddy type. I think I have spent like a total of $700 total over the past few months, and she is happy, and I am happy.[/QUOTE]
Just a FYI, SA BossLani seems to be advertising massages also on BP. You can see report #8855 in massage section.
[URL]http://charlotte.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/platinum-pearl-retreat/33454545[/URL]
Pics matched up on SA BossLani. Doesn't seem to be LEO but not a SB at all.
[QUOTE=IH8HJsAz;3239724]Pretty much since the second date. Like I said she is a small town local gal that is easily impressed with very little. I took her to Olive Garden a couple of weeks ago, you you would have thought we had eaten at a $200 a plate bistro. She is really a sweet girl, and I know that she is really only looking to get out of her impoverished life. Which I am slowly leading her out of. The whole SB / SD thing does not really apply anymore for the most part. Also she actually is a great cook, and likes doing it when she spends a week-end here.
If I was still looking I would stay with the small town ads, and girls. My girls ad said take me to Wally World shopping, you can't make this stuff up, and you cannot pass it by either when you see it.[/QUOTE]You are my hero. That's a great situation. Exactly what a SB / SD should be. I know how feelings develop, but if you really think it's real then try cutting off the money. No money. No honey. That's what it's really about. And it sure is fun too.
GB40.
I tried to sign up for Secret Benefits but couldn't pay. An anonymous debit card was rejected and my own credit card company halted payment and called my home with a fraud alert, because ccbill is in Cyprus.
Anyone have better luck with other payment methods?
TER also uses CCBill and I had the same issue. I just did without. I am surprised a plain vanilla Visa doesn't work. Seems like they would figure out a way to get paypal or something.
[QUOTE=BBHunt;3250800]I tried to sign up for Secret Benefits but couldn't pay. An anonymous debit card was rejected and my own credit card company halted payment and called my home with a fraud alert, because ccbill is in Cyprus.
Anyone have better luck with other payment methods?[/QUOTE]
She's also on WYP as Kokoiman. She offered $$ for a date, I countered with $, she countered back with $$ so she's off the list. Her WYP profile also says she's a spa owner. The ass pic in the pool is in her profile and the spa ad.
[QUOTE=Onecurious;3249977]Just a FYI, SA BossLani seems to be advertising massages also on BP. You can see report #8855 in massage section.
[URL]http://charlotte.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/platinum-pearl-retreat/33454545[/URL]
Pics matched up on SA BossLani. Doesn't seem to be LEO but not a SB at all.[/QUOTE]
NCTransplant, I had the same issue on the oThER site too. CCBill was rejected by my regular card / institution & I've never been able to get a pre-paid visa to go through either. Recently, I tried using some gift card exchange thing the oThER site has (it's an option on the payment page, but not well advertised or promoted,) & I used a $50 gift card to get almost 90 days of membership. You can read through ThEiR forums to see how it works, but wanted to report I had success with this anonymous method. Unsure if SB SA etc. Have a similar option, but may be worth looking around for on the sites.
[QUOTE=NCTransplant;3251003]TER also uses CCBill and I had the same issue. I just did without. I am surprised a plain vanilla Visa doesn't work. Seems like they would figure out a way to get paypal or something.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BBHunt;3250800]I tried to sign up for Secret Benefits but couldn't pay. An anonymous debit card was rejected and my own credit card company halted payment and called my home with a fraud alert, because ccbill is in Cyprus.
Anyone have better luck with other payment methods?[/QUOTE]
Anyone seen "Dreamichy"? We've been texting for a while, going to see her this week, everything seems fine, but I thought I'd check in here.
Anyone know anything about her. I have been having discussions with her today but the whole thing tingles my spidery senses. She immediately settled for half of what she wanted. Then agreed to drive one hour to meet me. An told me she deleted her account so she could focus totally on me. All within a span of three hours. Just seems strange. Any info or thoughts?
[QUOTE=TriadTraveler;3256274]Anyone know anything about her. I have been having discussions with her today but the whole thing tingles my spidery senses. She immediately settled for half of what she wanted. Then agreed to drive one hour to meet me. An told me she deleted her account so she could focus totally on me. All within a span of three hours. Just seems strange. Any info or thoughts?[/QUOTE]Haven't seen that profile but if it were me, I would follow those instincts and move on. I would see three red flags already. Sounds like a trap / scam. Just my. 02.