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[QUOTE=DreamCatching;4528319]Greetings I wanted to seek some wisdom on the dilemma of the hosting situation.

I have a potential but the problem is that we both can't host due to roommate and private situations. Normally I would book a cheap motel but I hate the idea of booking and going through all that work only to have a flake. I tend to be busy so I would like to try to cut down the whole process between the messaging to the intimacy. I was considering car dates but I have to ask the experienced ones how does one accomplish that. Is it best to go on a few non intimate dates and bring it up or should it be best to just be straightforward and run the risk of being ghosted.

If you have any wisdom you are also free to PM me.

Thanks and stay safe everyone Mahalo.[/QUOTE]Never been a fan of car dates. Just seems like junky escort shit.

I would meet her in person at a public place first. If things go well then book the hotel from your phone at the date. You can find a room close to anywhere last minute from 60 to 100 a night. If you can't afford that your probably shouldnent be trying to sugar date.

[QUOTE=FunGuy570;4529172]Never been a fan of car dates. Just seems like junky escort shit.

I would meet her in person at a public place first. If things go well then book the hotel from your phone at the date. You can find a room close to anywhere last minute from 60 to 100 a night. If you can't afford that your probably shouldnent be trying to sugar date.[/QUOTE]Show up and get a feel for her.

I always say, "so I want to keep hanging out, but I want private time with you, are you ok with that?" Between the vibe and the answer you'll know whether you should get a place.

I've never done a car date. I think about a police officer catching me and how I can't explain that. Just not worth it. Maybe someone here can tell me how I should do the car thing LOL.

Good luck!

[QUOTE=Girlmoneys;4528194]What gift card do you use?[/QUOTE]I go with Vanilla Visa, but like Dimples indicated pretty much any visa or mc gift card works. The main is to be sure and register it with the fake address and name. If you use your own then it defeats the whole purpose of avoiding the SA ban.

See can anyone get her she as some Ass buy hey.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/24c5c5f9-6e56-4d30-802c-9097b0b9f8ba[/URL]

[QUOTE=DreamCatching;4528319]Greetings I wanted to seek some wisdom on the dilemma of the hosting situation.

I have a potential but the problem is that we both can't host due to roommate and private situations. Normally I would book a cheap motel but I hate the idea of booking and going through all that work only to have a flake. I tend to be busy so I would like to try to cut down the whole process between the messaging to the intimacy. I was considering car dates but I have to ask the experienced ones how does one accomplish that. Is it best to go on a few non intimate dates and bring it up or should it be best to just be straightforward and run the risk of being ghosted.

If you have any wisdom you are also free to PM me.

Thanks and stay safe everyone Mahalo.[/QUOTE]Car dates are fun. Probably for younger guys with younger girls. Of the 4-5 girls that I had car dates with their age ranged from 18-22. It's more the thrill than anything. Also for 30 mins-1 hr vs getting a hotel. I normally have girls that stay few hrs to overnights when I use hotel. I usually request late meetings and they have to drive. Most of the time, the girls are too lazy to drive home. You can get 2-3 rounds in a night easily. Easily if they aren't high volume. For car dates, usually after dark in unlit neighborhoods or commercial areas. Turn the lights off the heat will fog up the windows. Oh please only car date if you got tinted windows LOL.

[QUOTE=Rick07;4529457]See can anyone get her she as some Ass buy hey.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/24c5c5f9-6e56-4d30-802c-9097b0b9f8ba[/URL][/QUOTE]You posted a link to your inbox clown.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e8639673-1ae7-47de-940b-84affacb3191[/URL]

[QUOTE=Dimples572;4529659]You posted a link to your inbox clown.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Rick07;4530867][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e8639673-1ae7-47de-940b-84affacb3191[/URL][/QUOTE]She wants 500 each time, lmfao. Cim but no cip.

[QUOTE=Matt410;4531239]She wants 500 each time, lmfao. Cim but no cip.[/QUOTE]Please don't give these women five bills.

[QUOTE=BuffBill75;4531355]Please don't give these women five bills.[/QUOTE]I laughed at her when she said that amount LOL.

These girls are crazy! Or they are actually getting what they are asking. LOL.

This girl also quoted 5, then texted me a full-body pic. She looks like Tattoo (from Fantasy Island) with boobs!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0f7aeecc-ba88-4b44-854d-d5ff4d991308[/URL]

[QUOTE=BuffBill75;4531355]Please don't give these women five bills.[/QUOTE]

I tell girls clearly that I'm on SA for sex but never able to list all the acts explicilty. At-least not until we are in FC. Do you guys ask straight for CIM, CIP, BBFS before you even meet? And girls have no problem answering it?

[QUOTE=Matt410;4531239]She wants 500 each time, lmfao. Cim but no cip.[/QUOTE]

I usually mention "Intimate Meet-ups" in the first few messages, and after a few conversations ask, if they're on birth control. That usually kicks off an interesting discussion. You can always wait til you are in the FC and pull the old "I don't have protection". I would say that is the most successful approach. I know a lot of guys on here do different things, but I've noticed every girl on here is sooo different and you just have to go with your gut.

Sometimes (if the vibe is right) I am just straight forward and ask "can I cum inside of you" ? Hahahaha That also kicks off an interesting discussion. Most girls get really offended, but a few will bite.

[QUOTE=LostSoul;4531576]I tell girls clearly that I'm on SA for sex but never able to list all the acts explicilty. At-least not until we are in FC. Do you guys ask straight for CIM, CIP, BBFS before you even meet? And girls have no problem answering it?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LostSoul;4531576]I tell girls clearly that I'm on SA for sex but never able to list all the acts explicilty. At-least not until we are in FC. Do you guys ask straight for CIM, CIP, BBFS before you even meet? And girls have no problem answering it?[/QUOTE]Sometimes I ask where they prefer me to finish. Normally try to wait till text or kik tho.

[QUOTE=Matt410;4531718]Sometimes I ask where they prefer me to finish. Normally try to wait till text or kik tho.[/QUOTE]I usually discuss these questions only when I meet her in person. That is the safest way instead of asking in chat or text.