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"A common mistake that people make when trying to design something completely foolproof is to underestimate the ingenuity of complete fools. ".

I learned now. No real names. Burner phone or google voice or both. No one who meets / lives or is from within the city limits of my little town or even remotely knows anyone I do outside of the hobby.

I look back now and there were so so many red flags and my inner voice kept saying step away but the little man kept saying one more. Just one more time.

I have learned.

If she tells my wife then she tells. Not a good time for that but when is it ever.

Talked this over with my best friend last night over a few games of pool. Also talk to a fellow Monger who I consider a good friend on the phone for a while and I think the conclusion is that if the emails I sent out to a bunch of you yesterday isn't enough for her then I will tell my wife my self and defuse the bomb before she can use it.

Then I will have to decide what to do from there.

It's to bad. She is a good provide me that I have enjoyed the company of many times. And if it were not for the events of the past two weeks I would probably still ignore that inner voice telling me to step away. Go see someone else.

But as it stands now this is one fellow Mongar who will be out of commission for a while.

Thank you to all who gave advise.

I have been visiting this site since 2001 (the European one first since I travelled a lot then) and have had a couple of different screen names. I have met some really cool people on here.

I will still visit from time to time but will be in semi retirement for now.

This situation has forced me to stop and re evaluate where I am in life and where I want to go.

Like a beach in the keys with a hot young think by my side keeping this old man company.

If anyone would like to get together and shoot the shit or pool or just have a drink send me a message and we can make it happen.

[QUOTE=Sara8032;2378243]Alright guys, need some advice from you hobbyists, I have a real creepy situation. I read about your bad experiences, esp the one recently with a provider who was threatening to tell a wife and now I have a problem. I have a guy who has texted me back and forth a few weeks back in response to a BP post of mine. He started out ok with some pushiness and timewasting, but calmed down. After setting an appointment and after he was supposedly otw and I had given him the address, he no showed. I hadn't heard from him since then and then out of the blue he texted me again and asked if I remembered him. I replied yes but that I wasn't interested. He then replied with "well you will want to know you are under investigation". I had already searched his number back then when he was timewasting and fishing for info to check for LE. I didn't find anything on him. So I did a check again on his number and this time his name and found a rather lengthy criminal history including domestic battery and criminal confinement and notations regarding his lengthy criminal history in Nebraska. Safety is always my concern and yes, I do have a way to permanently defend my self against him should he ever show (he sent me a picture a while back) but what advice do you have to a provider to stay safe?[/QUOTE]I would say block his calls, but you may want to know if he stops trying. So ignore his calls he should give up after some time has passed. If he knows where you are, you may want to change your location. Keep doing your background checks and stay safe. If your spidey senses are tingling get out.

I'm planning a vacation soon to the Dominican Republic. Does anyone have experience with a sex vacation there? Generally speaking I'm more of a AMP guy than an escort guy. I need more time to get comfortable with a woman, but want to pay for 90 minutes to play for 15, and too many providers, once cash is in hand, push for an early departure.

With the service vacation, I can spend a day getting comfortable and if everything is great, spend the week getting dehydrated. If the first one doesn't work out you can keep making changes until I find the right one.

Any input would be appreciated.

This is the sister site to USA site global info on that site enjoy.

[URL]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/[/URL]

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;2384704]I'm planning a vacation soon to the Dominican Republic. Does anyone have experience with a sex vacation there? Generally speaking I'm more of a AMP guy than an escort guy. I need more time to get comfortable with a woman, but want to pay for 90 minutes to play for 15, and too many providers, once cash is in hand, push for an early departure.

With the service vacation, I can spend a day getting comfortable and if everything is great, spend the week getting dehydrated. If the first one doesn't work out you can keep making changes until I find the right one.

Any input would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MongerForever;2385554]This is the sister site to USA site global info on that site enjoy.

[URL]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/[/URL][/QUOTE]Yeah, I'm on there. I was looking more for a perspective from someone local, who has been once or twice rather than the people who seem to take 20 trips a year there, which is what seems to be on the ISG site.

The best providers or the most experience companions use their skillfull art of setting a scene and controlling a situation, but doing so in a manner where the client thinks he is in control and always feels satistied with respect in tact.

Next time this happen try this.

"I am currently booked for the next three weeks, Hun. " If he contacts again in three weeks, then tell him, "I am only seeing regulars for the next three weeks and then going on vacation. ".

In seven weeks time he should have moved on, but the best part you kept things nice and sweet.

As for the current situation I would share his info with other providers. Always remember your closet alies are never us the hobbyist, but your fellow providers. Do not block his number, you need to how much of a threat this person is and you can only do this by tracking his activity, just do not respond.

Circling back to other providers. A good verification system will catch the guys that change their names. That is if you are strict and follow your rules 100% of the time. You might want to add GBN in your tool belt.

Good Luck,

The Claw.

[QUOTE=Sara8032;2378243]Alright guys, need some advice from you hobbyists, I have a real creepy situation. I read about your bad experiences, esp the one recently with a provider who was threatening to tell a wife and now I have a problem. I have a guy who has texted me back and forth a few weeks back in response to a BP post of mine. He started out ok with some pushiness and timewasting, but calmed down. After setting an appointment and after he was supposedly otw and I had given him the address, he no showed. I hadn't heard from him since then and then out of the blue he texted me again and asked if I remembered him. I replied yes but that I wasn't interested. He then replied with "well you will want to know you are under investigation". I had already searched his number back then when he was timewasting and fishing for info to check for LE. I didn't find anything on him. So I did a check again on his number and this time his name and found a rather lengthy criminal history including domestic battery and criminal confinement and notations regarding his lengthy criminal history in Nebraska. Safety is always my concern and yes, I do have a way to permanently defend my self against him should he ever show (he sent me a picture a while back) but what advice do you have to a provider to stay safe?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sara8032;2378243]Alright guys, need some advice from you hobbyists, I have a real creepy situation. I read about your bad experiences, esp the one recently with a provider who was threatening to tell a wife and now I have a problem. I have a guy who has texted me back and forth a few weeks back in response to a BP post of mine. He started out ok with some pushiness and timewasting, but calmed down. After setting an appointment and after he was supposedly otw and I had given him the address, he no showed. I hadn't heard from him since then and then out of the blue he texted me again and asked if I remembered him. I replied yes but that I wasn't interested. He then replied with "well you will want to know you are under investigation". I had already searched his number back then when he was timewasting and fishing for info to check for LE. I didn't find anything on him. So I did a check again on his number and this time his name and found a rather lengthy criminal history including domestic battery and criminal confinement and notations regarding his lengthy criminal history in Nebraska. Safety is always my concern and yes, I do have a way to permanently defend my self against him should he ever show (he sent me a picture a while back) but what advice do you have to a provider to stay safe?[/QUOTE]The guy texting you now may not be the same guy from Nebraska. If you have a cell phone and it gets disconnected, then after a while the phone company will give that number to someone else. So just googleing a number only means that so-and-so had that number at one time, it doesn't necessarily mean that they have that number currently. He probably gave you a fake name so the number is all you have to go on.

Was downtown last night with friends at the Tap Room and ran into a lady in her 40's with two friends. She was staying at the Alexander We struck up a conversation and got into a discussion concerning the the value of a talented tongue over a big ck. Priding myself on my oral abilities and having been told I was well schooled in the art of oral invasion I told her ck was a wonderful thing but somewhat overrated compared to daty. She begged to differ and challenged me to prove it. Most women in the hobby who have had my mouth on them have asked me back for seconds so I accepted. We went to a nice hotel on South Delaware where she was staying and we proceeded to engage in some serious dfk with rushing hands and roman fingers To my surprise Jr Sprang to attention and being somewhat gifted in it's girth she went down on it and then went to put it in. I poo pooed that and said lay back darling and let the Mack take over. I put a pillow under her fine back side and began to tongue and kiss my way down to her pink spot and then the consumption began. I love a slow tonguing action with sucking motion to begin then begin to tongue her little man and lips watching her stomach and listening to her breathing She shifted ever so slightly then her hips began to grind. She began to emit low moans and her hands grabbed my head and buried it in her slit. I then began a full frontal attack on her alternating between tonguing her Psy lips and the man in the boat sucking on the skin just off to the side and then back in for more. She began to writhe and moan twist and turn pile drive my face until grabbing a hold of my head buried me tongue deep in her and began to cum like a love starved teenager. Her stomach rippled over and over legs shook and quivered and her breathing was hard an quick. I asked her after if I had proved my point She asked if I was married and if so was this common with her I said no but my SO did not like to be dined on. She asked for my number and I gave it to her She stayed in bed when I left because walking was not an option for her. Went back to the restaurant and picked up my friends and we left Another nice object lesson on the values of a great tongue and a wanton woman. I want to thank the woman who taught me some years ago in the hobby how to correctly eat psy and it has paid of some nice dividends. So much good loving in Indy IF you can find it but also some very talented oral specialists around, women and men. Have a good week all and enjoy this warm weather in our fair city. Bmack.

And not completely off-topic either!

[URL]http://amzn.com/B00IU3AJ0K[/URL]

Read the first paragraph of the description!

[URL]http://indygov.org/eGov/City/DPS/IMPD/Enforcement/Investigations/vice/Pages/Arrests.aspx[/URL]

It's been quite a while since the last post (Dec. I think).

Be Safe! G.

Is BC on 1/19 who I think it is? SM?

[QUOTE=Alternativ;2398134]Is BC on 1/19 who I think it is? SM?[/QUOTE]I haven't seen SM for a while, but BC does look like I remember.

There are a couple that look a lot worse for the wear in comparison to their advertised pictures.

[blue][Arrest/Conviction/Incarceration/Release Report deleted by Admin][/blue]

[b][u]EDITOR'S NOTE[/u]:[/b] [blue]This report was deleted because it was a report regarding an individual who was [u]arrested[/u] / [u]charged[/u] / [u]awaiting trial[/u] / [u]convicted[/u] / [u]awaiting sentencing[/u] / [u]incarcerated[/u] / [u]released[/u] / [u]on probation[/u] for engaging in commercial sex activities or any other non-violent crime.

I want to say this carefully so no one gets the wrong idea: Posting the names, mugshots, case status, incarceration status and/or the release dates of people who have been arrested for engaging in commercial sex activities is really just helping the police in their efforts to embarrass these people.

Since this website is all about assisting people in obtaining commercial sex services, we don't want to add to the problems of the unfortunate people who have been arrested by publishing their names, mugshots, case status, incarceration status, or release dates.

[i]Thanks![/i][/blue]

Shouldn't you have already deleted the previous posts also? And to members of the forum; I understand somewhat why it is info in the big picture to have, but the morbid curiosity that accompanies just wanting to know and making the connections to real names in a fashion that only a fucking idiot couldn't connect the dots is just wrong guys. You have now invaded her personal life and that is wrong it is immoral and it is a just real asshole thing to do.

Especially when considering her reputation for being as cool and low maintenance as you will find.

Pretty sure she would not flip or intrude in our real lives. It's a shame we don't give her the same in kind.

[QUOTE=Ilapp;2399130]Shouldn't you have already deleted the previous posts also? And to members of the forum; I understand somewhat why it is info in the big picture to have, but the morbid curiosity that accompanies just wanting to know and making the connections to real names in a fashion that only a fucking idiot couldn't connect the dots is just wrong guys. You have now invaded her personal life and that is wrong it is immoral and it is a just real asshole thing to do.[/QUOTE]