Philly Sugar

Look everyone is different. But I never send anyone anything. Thats just crazy. I never do monthly allowances. Most dudes will be taken advantage of you. My average is 3 Benjamin a meet. I have a few FWB types that are totally cool with that. 23 to 32. No allowances. No spoiled brats. Girls who work or go to school. It takes some time. If you have a good current pic and present yourself well. Spell out what you want in a charismatic way and not sound creepy. You can find a good SB. If you are weak they will not only take advantage of you. They will careless about even seeing you. Like I said everyone is different. If you are actually fun to be around and look decent. Some of these girls will want to be more than just compensated friends or some you will have to say. Its time to go home girl. These younger girls from what I hear. Hate these young guys who are weak and have no ambition, they don't take charge. Don't be afraid to say what you want and give them a reasonable offer. If they don't take it. Move on. The best arrangements are when the girl wants to actually see you and is sending I miss you naked pics and some have actually made cakes and other treats. Its hard in the beginning. Look at the girls profile. If you are going for easy. Fun here. More pro than not. Or Spoiled brat. With spoil me or looking for generous guys. Thats what you are going to get. I personally look for longer term. But I will spell out everything. The girls seem to respect that and they will either take it or leave it. Never act desperate or weak! Be respectful but strong. Takes me about a month sometimes 2. I have been doing this for probably too long now. Been getting somewhat bored of it.

[QUOTE=DotComm;7339285]Joined SA a year ago but never paid up until recently. No pic uploaded; can't get away with that anymore.

Anyway no meet ups yet, still the back and forth text phase on the site and off with 3 or 4. Spoke with one of them on the phone as well.

It's only a matter of time that some sort of cash app comes up in the convo. And they can be pushy AF, even before any plans to meet up! Is that typical? And it don't sound like they're looking for just a good faith effort amount. Nooooo, either an amazon cart for an upcoming move or the need for groceries for her and mama. Did I mention how fckn pushy they can be??

I'm wondering if I signed up on the wrong site. I'm even spooked to meet up one of them today, as planned. I'm afraid there'd be a scene if I didn't accommodate in full.

Is this a pretty typical thing? I've been a trestle rat for yrs, so I thought I knew the deal. They think they deserve a couple K per month.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JDRedBull;7340259]Look everyone is different. But I never send anyone anything. Thats just crazy. I never do monthly allowances. Most dudes will be taken advantage of you. My average is 3 Benjamin a meet. I have a few FWB types that are totally cool with that. 23 to 32. No allowances. No spoiled brats. Girls who work or go to school. It takes some time. If you have a good current pic and present yourself well. Spell out what you want in a charismatic way and not sound creepy. You can find a good SB. If you are weak they will not only take advantage of you. They will careless about even seeing you. Like I said everyone is different. If you are actually fun to be around and look decent. Some of these girls will want to be more than just compensated friends or some you will have to say. Its time to go home girl. These younger girls from what I hear. Hate these young guys who are weak and have no ambition, they don't take charge. Don't be afraid to say what you want and give them a reasonable offer. If they don't take it. Move on. The best arrangements are when the girl wants to actually see you and is sending I miss you naked pics and some have actually made cakes and other treats. Its hard in the beginning. Look at the girls profile. If you are going for easy. Fun here. More pro than not. Or Spoiled brat. With spoil me or looking for generous guys. Thats what you are going to get. I personally look for longer term. But I will spell out everything. The girls seem to respect that and they will either take it or leave it. Never act desperate or weak! Be respectful but strong. Takes me about a month sometimes 2. I have been doing this for probably too long now. Been getting somewhat bored of it.[/QUOTE]JD, my good man, we are definitely speaking the same language however I'm reaching out simply to tell you, "who's got it better than us". Yeah, the juggle can get monotonous at times, but that's a you problem or a me problem I get it. But you know some of these relationships and that's what they are have good energy. They're not easy to find and not everybody can do it. What percentage of the fellas can do this? I'm guessing not very many so don't get bored. Appreciate what you got and appreciate what you can make happen. That's my two cents. What's the alternative wake up next to somebody to tell you what to do all the time and how to do it. No thanks LOL.

I know the whole GPS problem has been mentioned ad nauseam, but it's apparently climbing to entirely new ridiculous levels.

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When this one quoted 1800, I was sure she meant per month. When she said "No honey, per meet" I nearly choked on my coffee and used every ounce of self control I had to avoid pointing out the obvious to her. Fat ass, fat thighs. And I can bang HOT mainstream porn stats for less. Gmafb.

-rant over.

A couple in SJ that I didn't pull the trigger on.

Redd.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/de4aaa15-9ad7-4898-ab2c-8fb7b527d603[/URL]

Wants 450 ppm. No other info.

AdorableHeiress.

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Started at 500 ppm. When I said I never go above 4, she immediately jumped on it. She can't host and everything "covered". Wasn't interested enough to go any further with this one.

[QUOTE=Skyguy2;7342192]I know the whole GPS problem has been mentioned ad nauseam, but it's apparently climbing to entirely new ridiculous levels.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cbe6b9bb-bdd3-4c4f-b45c-866683f88893[/URL]

When this one quoted 1800, I was sure she meant per month. When she said "No honey, per meet" I nearly choked on my coffee and used every ounce of self control I had to avoid pointing out the obvious to her. Fat ass, fat thighs. And I can bang HOT mainstream porn stats for less. Gmafb..[/QUOTE]She's not attractive at all. I bang girls that remind me of cute pornstars all the time through seeking for like 4 $. Nut in them multiple times.

[QUOTE=Skyguy2;7342192]I know the whole GPS problem has been mentioned ad nauseam, but it's apparently climbing to entirely new ridiculous levels.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cbe6b9bb-bdd3-4c4f-b45c-866683f88893[/URL]

When this one quoted 1800, I was sure she meant per month. When she said "No honey, per meet" I nearly choked on my coffee and used every ounce of self control I had to avoid pointing out the obvious to her. Fat ass, fat thighs. And I can bang HOT mainstream porn stats for less. Gmafb.

-rant over.[/QUOTE]Its been like this for the past 2 years and its making the whole sites value proposition not what it used to be.

[QUOTE=EpicSD;7342515]She's not attractive at all. I bang girls that remind me of cute pornstars all the time through seeking for like 4 $. Nut in them multiple times.[/QUOTE]Theyre out there it just takes alot longer to find them.

I doubt she's real. Wanted to move to whatsapp right away. On a google image search the profile pic leads to a defunct Twitter account of Ivy Wood. I'll pass.

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Her first response to me was, "I have a Porsche".

My reply. "So do I. Want to Race?

She wants to meet at her place tonight. Yeah. Sure. No real chick moves that fast without vetting the dude first. I'll pass. Feels like a scammer.

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(I'm kinda having a Summer Blonde hunt going on.).

Her response to me:

Hey hun! That sounds good to me. My last daddy gave me 800 p date. Are you able to do that for me?

My Response:

You should have never let that dude get away!

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I spoke with her. I offered her 4. Which is on high end for me. She actually said she was still interested. But she never reached out again. If she is real she probably gets those guys that throw 6 or more at her. Which is just too much for me. Seriously when it starts to become more than a days pay. No body is worth it. At least for me. There's not one girl I regretted not seeing. But theres a few I would have liked to have kept my cash in my pocket. It would be interesting to hear from someone who did meet her. If she's even real.

[QUOTE=HenryT458;7344806]Her first response to me was, "I have a Porsche".

My reply. "So do I. Want to Race?

She wants to meet at her place tonight. Yeah. Sure. No real chick moves that fast without vetting the dude first. I'll pass. Feels like a scammer.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f766bb9e-4ec3-489c-8f6b-836cd59d8cc0[/URL][/QUOTE]

I've met her. She's a heavy drug user and has gone way downhill. Hosts at a hotel room that is trashed. Take out wrappers and cigarette butts everywhere. Definitely some mental issues going on. It's was all very transactional. The room, hygiene, high volume made me stop seeing her. Maybe she's in a better head space now.

[QUOTE=JDRedBull;7345429]I spoke with her. I offered her 4. Which is on high end for me. She actually said she was still interested. But she never reached out again. If she is real she probably gets those guys that throw 6 or more at her. Which is just too much for me. Seriously when it starts to become more than a days pay. No body is worth it. At least for me. There's not one girl I regretted not seeing. But theres a few I would have liked to have kept my cash in my pocket. It would be interesting to hear from someone who did meet her. If she's even real.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=YellowLuvin;7345472]I've met her. She's a heavy drug user and has gone way downhill. Hosts at a hotel room that is trashed. Take out wrappers and cigarette butts everywhere. Definitely some mental issues going on. It's was all very transactional. The room, hygiene, high volume made me stop seeing her. Maybe she's in a better head space now.[/QUOTE]I co sign every word of this. She is on another planet mentally. Depression and drugs. I met her once, after that she's been texting randomly asking me to meet asap or asking for money for a hotel.

Its a shame, some of these girls go down that route. Just goes to show you if someone seems to be very eager to meet or something else seems off. Believe in your gut or just common sense there is something wrong. Some girls try to hid, other don't care. Either way it would be a pass for me. Thanks for the info.

[QUOTE=DasHottCalla;7345908]I co sign every word of this. She is on another planet mentally. Depression and drugs. I met her once, after that she's been texting randomly asking me to meet asap or asking for money for a hotel.[/QUOTE]

LOL I was messaging her yesterday the message was the same but the number went down to 700.

[QUOTE=HenryT458;7345421](I'm kinda having a Summer Blonde hunt going on.).

Her response to me:

Hey hun! That sounds good to me. My last daddy gave me 800 p date. Are you able to do that for me?

My Response:

You should have never let that dude get away!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/84ba9e06-7921-43af-986f-4a3d03684c26[/URL][/QUOTE]

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Stripper. Don't know exact deets but they're almost always not satisfying. A stripper's job is to get every cent they can from us.

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99% a pro.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/4e1cc68a-dce5-4378-aa9c-dac37223a030[/URL]

WhatsApp scammer.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/4e1cc68a-dce5-4378-aa9c-dac37223a030[/URL]

Suggested dinner before even looking at my profile. Probably not real or a rinser at best.