Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[QUOTE=NCTransplant;5274512]All it takes is a couple of guys to totally FUCK UP a good thing. That is what screwed up the good thing we had going with Brandi last summer. She told me the last time I saw her that she didn't like the reviews and if she found out who he was, he would never see her again. PLEASE people, don't tell the girls about this forum. Keep it to yourself and if they ask PLAY DUMB. Brandi was advertising as a rub girl that did BBFS and she didn't appreciate it. I would think a sugar baby would appreciate it even less.[/QUOTE]I have been meeting a girl who is very young, hot, and we're spending hours like a bf / gf hanging out, and then she text me saying her pic and review is on reddit, and she is scared and her phone is blowing up. Whoever shared such info, also blocked her. It's full of shit. She is scared that her pic is perhaps out there online and whatnot. I had to calm her down, and say everything is alright. It's crazy how sharing this info to a girl can impress her and put them in the front of the line. Maybe it does, but not for long, and imagine most of the bad girls are in this forum, they exactly will know how to manipulate and makes it even worse for everyone.

All it takes is a one idiot, to screw it up for the rest of us, and the same story repeats every so often. I bet it's some rookie, who wants to get on the good side with the girl, so they share the info about this site. On several occasions few girls asked me if there is such a site where they are being reviewed, and I played stupid, told them didn't even know anything like that existed. But about couple of years ago, I met this 20 year old AA spinner on SA, extremely cute, and extremely reasonable with allowance. We started seeing each other, and got together several times at her place near the University. So after few test runs, I shared a review about her and the link to her SA profile. Sure enough, next thing I know, a day or two after I posted the review, she texts me asking if I have been posting reviews about her anywhere, because her manager at the restaurant saw her profile and told her she would get fired if she doesn't get off the site. I played stupid, pretending I had no idea what she was talking about, trying to fix the situation, but she didn't care. She said "I thought we had a good thing going, but you had to fuck it up. Goodbye." So, because of that asshole, who probably was trying to screw her, but approached it from the wrong angle, thinking if he scares her, he could take an advantage of the information and screw her for free, myself and I am sure several other guys have lost a good chance with her. She was gone from SA and I never heard back from her.

Bottom line is, if you see a review on here, and you recognize the girl, I don't care who the girl is to you. Your neighbor, your coworker, your niece, your doughtier, your wife, your sister, your mother, whatever! If you need to address the situation with them, you work that problem with them however you want, without ever mentioning this site. But apparently some guys are dumber than dumb, and keep repeating the same mistake, sharing the info about this site, and screwing it up for all of us.

[QUOTE=NCTransplant;5274512]All it takes is a couple of guys to totally FUCK UP a good thing. That is what screwed up the good thing we had going with Brandi last summer. She told me the last time I saw her that she didn't like the reviews and if she found out who he was, he would never see her again. PLEASE people, don't tell the girls about this forum. Keep it to yourself and if they ask PLAY DUMB. Brandi was advertising as a rub girl that did BBFS and she didn't appreciate it. I would think a sugar baby would appreciate it even less.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Djapa1234;5273980]So I have had really bad experiences before where I would agree for her to come straight to my place and on 3 occasions I had to give her $100 just to go away. I was not being cat-fished but the vibe was not there. So I try to meet them in public first. I try to limit my costs to a few beverages as I mention I already had dinners before and it will be a drinks date. About 30% of my in person dates have translated in a same day (post meet and greet) lay, but about 70% I either never see or have seen on a later date to smash. I do not mind meeting them in public and drop 30-50 $ and have a chance to look at them in person and see if we click. Recently I have been doing face time to even cut out meet and greet. I know what I am doing is not the most optimal thing but given many chicks are NOT ok coming straight to my house, I have found that what I am doing works more or less. This being said, I absolutely did not regret meeting the chubbo for few drinks and nachos that cost me $40, instead of inviting he straight to my place and if I did not like her I'd probably have to give her at least 50 $ . Welcome suggestions / constructive criticism.[/QUOTE]As long as it's only drinks or coffee, I think your method is fine. It gives you a chance to check her out and see if you're even attracted to her or if she's bat shit crazy.

So many mongers with 2,3,4, 5 regular SBs that reach out to them about whatever.

My cards are so cold right now that I couldn't get laid in a whoo-ore house with a fist full of 100's.

Play on Playas.

[QUOTE=MikeLittle;5274673]I have been meeting a girl who is very young, hot, and we're spending hours like a bf / gf hanging out, and then she text me saying her pic and review is on reddit, and she is scared and her phone is blowing up. Whoever shared such info, also blocked her. It's full of shit. She is scared that her pic is perhaps out there online and whatnot. I had to calm her down, and say everything is alright. It's crazy how sharing this info to a girl can impress her and put them in the front of the line. Maybe it does, but not for long, and imagine most of the bad girls are in this forum, they exactly will know how to manipulate and makes it even worse for everyone.[/QUOTE]You have a lot of simps out there, thinking they're impressing some chick to gain favor by telling them about this forum. Trust me, most of these girls know about this forum (if they're smart they do). If they ask you specifically about it, play dumb and keep it moving.

Yes, none of us should be showing these ladies the reviews here. Stop it because you're phucking it up for the rest of us.

[QUOTE=HoldenPierson;5274954]So many mongers with 2,3,4, 5 regular SBs that reach out to them about whatever.

My cards are so cold right now that I couldn't get laid in a whoo-ore house with a fist full of 100's.

Play on Playas.[/QUOTE]I'm only laughing with you because I feel your pain. I wish there was a whoo-ore house in the beloved Queen City.

[QUOTE=TheMechanik365;5274957]You have a lot of simps out there, thinking they're impressing some chick to gain favor by telling them about this forum. Trust me, most of these girls know about this forum (if they're smart they do). If they ask you specifically about it, play dumb and keep it moving.

Yes, none of us should be showing these ladies the reviews here. Stop it because you're phucking it up for the rest of us.[/QUOTE]Alright, I am a newbie and had benefited enormously from this forum which helped me not waste my time and money. I only met two SBs in real life and both have been great (both discussed here). One of them told me about a group chat or something like this forum which the girls use to discuss us. She was vague so I couldn't find out more details but it's apparently girls only and verification needed. This makes sense because that's what we are doing. She did tell me they use it for safety and not to discuss about prowess etc. Anyway they are not as ignorant as we think. So it makes sense they definitely know about what we do here and it might tip off other girls too.

[QUOTE=SeaHawks3751;5275358]One of them told me about a group chat or something like this forum which the girls use to discuss us. She was vague so I couldn't find out more details but it's apparently girls only and verification needed. This makes sense because that's what we are doing. She did tell me they use it for safety and not to discuss about prowess etc. [/QUOTE]For example there is a reddit sexworker sub & maybe something similar for Sugar babies is my guess. You can read some of that stuff on thee, but you have to be verified to post.

I took a covid break from SA & may get active again in a few months. On the other hand, sometimes it's just easier & less hassle to call a sure fire reliable provider, though you'll pay more for a shorter time, you know what you're going to get.

Since I'm typing: Quit telling any girls about this site for any reason.

Chatted a bit with her and agreed to a meet greet. She was very polite but very direct and spent a lot of time talking her self up to that she was a different level of sugar baby than most on the site so she demanded higher allowance. Said she was now easily knocking down $1000 per meet with young attractive wealthy men. I congratulate her on a successful business and thanked her for being honest and said that it was way out of this boys league. We went on our way. So either she has raised to a new level of gps or she just really didn't want to be with me. Either way it was at least nice of her not to stick me with a bill for lunch since she said she was just trying to save us both time by being direct. She's kind of cute and had a sweet personality but nothing left me feeling like I missed out!! I wouldn't have went over 250 so I didn't bother negotiating. If somebody has that kind of $ tell us all just how good it is. Maybe if that was a weekend trip I'd consider.

[QUOTE=GitterDun;5276614]Chatted a bit with her and agreed to a meet greet. She was very polite but very direct and spent a lot of time talking her self up to that she was a different level of sugar baby than most on the site so she demanded higher allowance. Said she was now easily knocking down $1000 per meet with young attractive wealthy men. I congratulate her on a successful business and thanked her for being honest and said that it was way out of this boys league. We went on our way. So either she has raised to a new level of gps or she just really didn't want to be with me. Either way it was at least nice of her not to stick me with a bill for lunch since she said she was just trying to save us both time by being direct. She's kind of cute and had a sweet personality but nothing left me feeling like I missed out!! I wouldn't have went over 250 so I didn't bother negotiating. If somebody has that kind of $ tell us all just how good it is. Maybe if that was a weekend trip I'd consider.[/QUOTE]Did she change / lose her profile? Or maybe she just blocked me because I never replied after she asked for 6.

I spent several hours with Charlie (PartlySunny), here is what I learned / my experience. She has been on SA previously under different names. She has not had an ongoing arrangement more than 1 or 2 encounters (ie: no repeats). She is the girl in the pics, though the pics are of a few years ago. She has filled out some (in the ass for example) though she is still very thin built and all legs. She is 5'11". She can host. I worked her on her "6+", was able to get to the 3-4 range pretty easily. Just saying, I'll give you 3 or 4 won't do it, you'll have to work to get her to understand why that is all she is worth to you. She does honestly believe she is worth 6 or more, not because she is great in bed, but because she is a young, thin, cute, girl and we are old men who are probably cheating on someone. I've had much much better in the 2-3. I would also be careful if you have things that might cause you a problem (ie wife / partner, work, public image). If things go south, I can easily see causing you issues. Keep you identity to yourself. Good luck if you decide to pursue. I am no longer engaging with her.

TB.

What gives?

Spidey senses peaking.

[QUOTE=HoldenPierson;5277127]Did she change / lose her profile? Or maybe she just blocked me because I never replied after she asked for 6.[/QUOTE]She gets kicked off the site often cause she gets reported for using ppm. Guys who are pissed at these GPS chicks often report them. Also she is the type of person I can easily see how she reports men too for talking ppm and what SA does it bans both parties after reviewing messages.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/699dc7ca-59c7-4176-8db1-1a110e066153[/URL]

She replied almost immediately with a clear 'cut & paste / form letter' type response.

Just been in a car accident and because of deductible, can't pay her rent type story.

Private pics look like they are from the early 2000's.

She looks a little like this one but can't tell if it's same chick.

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[QUOTE=HoldenPierson;5279493][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/699dc7ca-59c7-4176-8db1-1a110e066153[/URL]

She replied almost immediately with a clear 'cut & paste / form letter' type response.

Just been in a car accident and because of deductible, can't pay her rent type story.

Private pics look like they are from the early 2000's.

She looks a little like this one but can't tell if it's same chick.

[URL]https://charlotte.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_e/no-more-fakes-bombshell-next/061829697342[/URL][/QUOTE]Yeah I chatted her numerous times over past 3-4 years, those are old pics and she has always asked for handouts.

And the one from skip the games USED to be on sa. (these two are not the same.).

Did you hit the escort up? Her tatas look glorious.