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She was very kind and Cordial over text. Provided verification and everything doing the thumbs down pose I asked for. She does want a deposit. Is that simply the norm with most of them nowadays or a red flag?
[QUOTE=LizardMan14;6040366][URL]https://winston-salem.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/post/302398188367[/URL]
She was very kind and Cordial over text. Provided verification and everything doing the thumbs down pose I asked for. She does want a deposit. Is that simply the norm with most of them nowadays or a red flag?[/QUOTE]Fellow monger I would highly disagree with paying a deposit. Idk if she's a spam risk or not, but I wouldn't give any provider a deposit or anything up front without having some prior experience with them. Just my opinion but stay safe regardless.
[QUOTE=LizardMan14;6040366][URL]https://winston-salem.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/post/302398188367[/URL]
She was very kind and Cordial over text. Provided verification and everything doing the thumbs down pose I asked for. She does want a deposit. Is that simply the norm with most of them nowadays or a red flag?[/QUOTE]No deposit. Ever.
[QUOTE=ToySoldier;6040659]No deposit. Ever.[/QUOTE]Not sure how many times this needs to be stated.
I'm extremely disappointed to report back that I've had many negative experiences with Selena. Very unfortunate, because I had SUCH high hopes for her.
Long story short, I kept trying to work something out with her. At first, I paid for some videos. Liked it so much that I paid for more videos, but this time nothing. I was ghosted for a month.
She randomly came back and she had a convoluted story that I thought made sense. So I purchased more content successfully. Next, I tried to setup a date. Drove an hour and a half because I very much trusted her. Ghosted when I arrive. Hours later she texted me back sounding like she was sorry. I'm usually good at detecting BS (I know it doesn't sound like it now) but I believed it was an honest mistake.
But by this point, I decided I'd only stick to buying content from her because I was very much attracted to her.
I pay her in advance for more content, then she ghosts me again. By this point, I'm more mad at myself for falling over and over again for the same tricks. Weeks later she responds with another convoluted story about her breaking up with her ex and he was hacking into her cashapp and redirecting the funds I kept sending her. So once again, I thought it was too much of a crazy story to make up, and she was going through a lot of effort explaining it to me. I honestly believed her again.
So. I wasn't thinking properly when this happened. But I sent her even more money for more content.
I'm embarrassed telling this, because its 100% my fault for being roped into this over and over again. I sent her even MORE money for content. She immediately ghosts me again and haven't heard back from her in weeks.
It's just that the feedback from others was positive, and the general vibe I received from her was good and I felt like believing her. I had never experienced this before, falling for the same BS over and over again.
Its 100% my fault for letting her do that to me. I just thought I'd be honest and post this so that someone else doesn't make the same mistake I did. I was absolutely NOT thinking properly.
[QUOTE=ZDoorsDown3;6042183]I'm extremely disappointed to report back that I've had many negative experiences with Selena. Very unfortunate, because I had SUCH high hopes for
Long story short, I kept trying to work something out with her. At first, I paid for some videos. Liked it so much that I paid for more videos, but this time nothing. I was ghosted for a month.
She randomly came back and she had a convoluted story that I thought made sense. So I purchased more content successfully. Next, I tried to setup a date. Drove an hour and a half because I very much trusted her. Ghosted when I arrive. Hours later she texted me back sounding like she was sorry. I'm usually good at detecting BS (I know it doesn't sound like it now) but I believed it was an honest mistake.
But by this point, I decided I'd only stick to buying content from her because I was very much attracted to her.
I pay her in advance for more content, then she ghosts me again. By this point, I'm more mad at myself for falling over and over again for the same tricks. Weeks later she responds with another convoluted story about her breaking up with her ex and he was hacking into her cashapp and redirecting the funds I kept sending her. So once again, I thought it was too much of a crazy story to make up, and she was going through a lot of effort explaining it to me. I honestly believed her again.
So. I wasn't thinking properly when this happened. But I sent her even more money for more content.
I'm embarrassed telling this, because its 100% my fault for being roped into this over and over again. I sent her even MORE money for content. She immediately ghosts me again and haven't heard back from her in weeks.
It's just that the feedback from others was positive, and the general vibe I received from her was good and I felt like believing her. I had never experienced this before, falling for the same BS over and over again.
Its 100% my fault for letting her do that to me. I just thought I'd be honest and post this so that someone else doesn't make the same mistake I did. I was absolutely NOT thinking properly.[/QUOTE]I think if you give her just one more chance it would work.
You're so close.
[QUOTE=Ultra97;6042219]I think if you give her just one more chance it would work.
You're so close.[/QUOTE]You're her money-redirecting ex bf, aren't you.
[QUOTE=ZDoorsDown3;6042183]I'm extremely disappointed to report back that I've had many negative experiences with Selena. Very unfortunate, because I had SUCH high hopes for her.
Long story short, I kept trying to work something out with her. At first, I paid for some videos. Liked it so much that I paid for more videos, but this time nothing. I was ghosted for a month.
She randomly came back and she had a convoluted story that I thought made sense. So I purchased more content successfully. Next, I tried to setup a date. Drove an hour and a half because I very much trusted her. Ghosted when I arrive. Hours later she texted me back sounding like she was sorry. I'm usually good at detecting BS (I know it doesn't sound like it now) but I believed it was an honest mistake.
But by this point, I decided I'd only stick to buying content from her because I was very much attracted to her.
I pay her in advance for more content, then she ghosts me again. By this point, I'm more mad at myself for falling over and over again for the same tricks. Weeks later she responds with another convoluted story about her breaking up with her ex and he was hacking into her cashapp and redirecting the funds I kept sending her. So once again, I thought it was too much of a crazy story to make up, and she was going through a lot of effort explaining it to me. I honestly believed her again.
So. I wasn't thinking properly when this happened. But I sent her even more money for more content.
I'm embarrassed telling this, because its 100% my fault for being roped into this over and over again. I sent her even MORE money for content. She immediately ghosts me again and haven't heard back from her in weeks.
It's just that the feedback from others was positive, and the general vibe I received from her was good and I felt like believing her. I had never experienced this before, falling for the same BS over and over again.
Its 100% my fault for letting her do that to me. I just thought I'd be honest and post this so that someone else doesn't make the same mistake I did. I was absolutely NOT thinking properly.[/QUOTE]Please include a link so we know who you speak of.
[QUOTE=LizardMan14;6040366][URL]https://winston-salem.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/post/302398188367[/URL]
She was very kind and Cordial over text. Provided verification and everything doing the thumbs down pose I asked for. She does want a deposit. Is that simply the norm with most of them nowadays or a red flag?[/QUOTE]I will go a step further. Any provider who uses unconventional means to drum up business, such as dating sites, should be avoided IMHO. I recognized her photo from Ashley Madison. I probably even reached out to her. Although she never responded. I believe honest providers will stick to the conventional websites and means of obtaining clients and not under false pretenses. I don't know how many times on AM that I thought I was going to find a discreet FWB and it turned out to be an escort. Pissed me off. If I want an escort, I know which sites to go and find the one I want. But if I'm looking for a FWB, I'm obviously looking for someone who also wants to have a FWB, not a paying client.
That being said, never pay any money up front.
[QUOTE=ZDoorsDown3;6042221]You're her money-redirecting ex bf, aren't you.[/QUOTE]I think he was being facetious.
[QUOTE=JimzCatz;6042228]Please include a link so we know who you speak of.[/QUOTE]No link that I know of. She goes by Selena, Lola, UTR redhead spinner LOL. Search Selena in Greensboro / Winston Salem and you'll find who I'm talking about.
From chatting with other members, it seems either you get great service or terrible. She used to have a habit that's been talked about on the forums. Not sure if this is what led to my negative experiences with her. Gorgeous girl and great personality when she wants to, though.
[QUOTE=ZDoorsDown3;6042489]No link that I know of. She goes by Selena, Lola, UTR redhead spinner LOL. Search Selena in Greensboro / Winston Salem and you'll find who I'm talking about.
From chatting with other members, it seems either you get great service or terrible. She used to have a habit that's been talked about on the forums. Not sure if this is what led to my negative experiences with her. Gorgeous girl and great personality when she wants to, though.[/QUOTE]Great personality when she wants to rope you back in. Yeah yeah. I learned my lesson. Hopefully.
[QUOTE=Indaclurr;6042450]I think he was being facetious.[/QUOTE]So was I.
He was trying to get me to fall for it one more time so he could get one more payday. I'm kidding, of course.
Has anyone seen either of these girls? Thanks in advance for any info.
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[QUOTE=ZDoorsDown3;6042495]Great personality when she wants to rope you back in. Yeah yeah. I learned my lesson. Hopefully.[/QUOTE]As we know in this industry, YMMV with any provider. I met Selena thru Senior UTR referral. She has been to my place several times and its always been a Great experience. There have been times when we had a scheduling conflict or sometimes she has had a little drama like they all do. However, she has always done what she said, and honored any commitment to me she has made. I do know she desires respect and she absolutely hates for her phone to be blowed up. I know she will ghost if she senses a time waister! She can sometimes be slow to respond, but I think she tries to have a life also.
I have not seen her recently, and of course we know things can change with providers quickly. However, I did reach out to her after reading some negative post. She responded quickly and proved to me that as we know there is always two sides to the story.
I plan to see her again soon to see for myself if she is still offering the same Great experience.
D.