[QUOTE=ChubLover;3991456]Just had a not so pleasant experience at Healthy Body in Newark / Heath area. Secluded way back in the corner of a strip mall area on Hebron. Nothing visible in the windows. Had all the makings of a great AMP. I'm working late on a cal in the area and had some time to kill. YMMV, but it was a complete bust for me. Provider was cute enough, probably mid 30's. She asked a lot of questions. Had I ever been to a Chinese / Asian parlor before. When I answered yes, she wanted to know where. Very mediocre massage, on the flip, she teased at the boys, grazing them, rubbing all around them, but never more. Very disappointed and now I'm going to work frustrated and unsatisfied. Not sure if I did or said something wrong to scare her, but I'm open to advice.[/QUOTE]I believe all of us that love the AMP's have experienced what just happened to you. IMHO like playing all games at first you stumble, fumble, swing and miss for awhile. Your competitor (the girl) is better at the game than you are. Since the girls do this all day long (some for years) they can feel it when guys are new and trying to BS their way. As you continue to play the game if you love it you develop your own style, you'll be at ease going to a new place and owning it by the time you leave, sometimes getting everything you want sometimes settling for less but always more than the average guy. The more you go the more you learn what works for you. You have to develop your own game, what works for me may never work for you because of our personalities. I love the girls when I walk in, young or old, slim or hefty and I know they feel the love by the way they treat me. IMHO there are no shortcuts, get in the game, play as often as you can, learn and examine your play after each game. Start each game with the idea you are going to enjoy it no matter what happens. You may have to get a second job for awhile as you pay for your education but its all fun. Keep us posted.
