[QUOTE=ArmySexy77;4075769]The bullshit on all those dating sites is what eventually led me here.[/QUOTE]Pof 101:
If your married or in a serious relationship don't sign up. If your single or not in a serious relationship sign up.
Pof is actually easier than this hobby. First contact: Try to be funny whether something in her photo or her profile. Some will get offended but you can apologize and tell her you where just trying to make her laugh, because she has a beautiful smile. Pick several woman to contact and contact five a day for three days. Patience, some don't check profiles every minute or every day. You chat with them a few times before you ask them out, important do not ever seem desperate wait a day to reply to any answers you get. Profiles to contact:
1. Looking for friends: can be looking for a pen pal or sex, you have to contact her to find out. Some woman in this category are dangerous.
2. Dating:(this is how your profile should be set) ultimately she is looking for husband but she is also tired of being alone, understands your not looking to get married.
3. Long Term Relationship: ultimately wants to get married but open to dating, but they are lonely too.
4. Looking for Marriage: uhm do not contact these woman for what you seek.
First Date coffee shop, do not focus on yourself at all, have an insightful question about her profile this says you read her profile and are actually interested in her. Let her talk. Keep her talking. She now likes you, when she asks you about you tell her something funny or stupid that you can laugh at that you did. Contact her the next day to set up Friday or Saturday Date. Uhm this is second date and she very likely will throw down, just don't say something stupid to disqualify yourself at this point.
Don'ts: do not inquire about sex, do not send penile selfies without receiving a vag selfie. Do not contact a 10 she has a hundred emails a day. Do not set up a profile without a photo.
Caution: Tapping a third time is not a charm but feelings are strong within her and a relationship you did create.
Also, A woman with one child! The world does not revolve around the sun or "Sagittarius A" uhm the super massive black hole at the center of the Milky Way but the Universe revolves around that one golden child. Fair Warning.