Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=HounDog3;4915596]Anyone else seeing a trend of women message you (first / initial time) and if you don't reply within a couple hours they block you? Happened 3 times in the past week. I don't get it. But then nobody can understand the mind of a sugar baby, especially the younger more flaky ones.[/QUOTE]The SA girls I prefer are a challenge and why I keep saying you need patience. It's a second job to land a couple of these good ones. I have been communicating regularly with 2 young ladies and just about to schedule a meeting finally then they go dark. It was all good and slowly working out the details of the arrangement then when I finally get them to commit they go silent. I think they may be still on fence about actually putting out for coin and freaked out when it come time to play.

I haven't been blocked by any of these ladies but I also don't treat them shitty. I accept that they are nervous and tell them to contact me if they decide they want to meetup. The upside is that when I do get one to meet they are very new to this And are usually very open minded in the bedroom. It just takes time to get this type of girl vs someone who is more seasoned. Trying to decipher the mind of a potential young SB is the fun and frustrating part of it I guess.

[QUOTE=HounDog3;4915596]Anyone else seeing a trend of women message you (first / initial time) and if you don't reply within a couple hours they block you? Happened 3 times in the past week. I don't get it. But then nobody can understand the mind of a sugar baby, especially the younger more flaky ones.[/QUOTE]The trend I'm seeing is women NOT in the Boston area, with profiles saying they are, messaging me for "online fun. " They don't open up with that, but it comes out 4 messages later. "I'm at home now but we can have online fun. ".

Or women hundreds of miles away thinking I'll fly them to Boston.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;4915639]The SA girls I prefer are a challenge and why I keep saying you need patience. It's a second job to land a couple of these good ones. I have been communicating regularly with 2 young ladies and just about to schedule a meeting finally then they go dark. It was all good and slowly working out the details of the arrangement then when I finally get them to commit they go silent. I think they may be still on fence about actually putting out for coin and freaked out when it come time to play.

I haven't been blocked by any of these ladies but I also don't treat them shitty. I accept that they are nervous and tell them to contact me if they decide they want to meetup. The upside is that when I do get one to meet they are very new to this And are usually very open minded in the bedroom. It just takes time to get this type of girl vs someone who is more seasoned. Trying to decipher the mind of a potential young SB is the fun and frustrating part of it I guess.[/QUOTE]Yes in addition to all the scammers etc there are many young women who are on the fence about putting out for $. I tend to avoid them, especially the brand new profiles, as I know there are a dozen or two other guys all working them, most with crappy technique. I do what you do; treat them well, and let them know that if they are interested they know how to find me. Sometimes they reach out again after a week or two. More often they give up and delete their profile. But indeed if you land one, it CAN be quite a fun ride.

So over the years I have had a handful of girls tell me they arent online when they clearly are. Most claim that the app logs them in even when they don't open it. I say this is complete BS! Case in point, if you have girls in your favorites list they are in a certain order when you view. Wait 5 minutes and the order most likely changes. This is due to the fact the when a girl initiates an action like opening or responding to a message her profile refreshes and she pops back to the top of the Favorites list.

I am curious about what you guys think about this.

[QUOTE=Jack617;4917583]So over the years I have had a handful of girls tell me they arent online when they clearly are. Most claim that the app logs them in even when they don't open it. I say this is complete BS! Case in point, if you have girls in your favorites list they are in a certain order when you view. Wait 5 minutes and the order most likely changes. This is due to the fact the when a girl initiates an action like opening or responding to a message her profile refreshes and she pops back to the top of the Favorites list.

I am curious about what you guys think about this.[/QUOTE]So in effect your thesis is that girls on SA lie, a LOT! At this point in the game the real shocker would be to find a girl that actually tells the truth, some of the time.

Duh, of course they lie, like about everything and non-stop. This is beyond basic knowledge.

This one favorited me and since her location was ideal for me I chatted her up. Turns out she can host but wants $350. Seriously, what is she maybe a 5 in the looks department? I played along and offered $300 and got the often used [B][i]" I know my worth" [/i][/B].

Funny thing is she is literally on the site 24/7 probably disappointed that guys look at her and think $150 max LOL.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/862224d8-85ab-4501-904b-a493494276c9[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8c95e679-1c14-45fb-a3f5-093a917e39a2[/URL]

She's one of the few over-40's I'd try. At last check she's been on SA for 2+ years and tells me she still hasn't met anyone. Too scared maybe??

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/32f976ac-914c-1076-caa0-36ac810eb9e3[/URL]

This woman has 2 profiles. I did meet her for coffee over a year ago, but not more. Wanted 500 ppm or more (forget exactly), and something seemed off with her face / eyes that kinda made me think that I'd be too distracted! On her second profile she wants 800 ppm.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;4918364]This one favorited me and since her location was ideal for me I chatted her up. Turns out she can host but wants $350. Seriously, what is she maybe a 5 in the looks department? I played along and offered $300 and got the often used [B][i]" I know my worth" [/i][/B].

Funny thing is she is literally on the site 24/7 probably disappointed that guys look at her and think $150 max LOL.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/862224d8-85ab-4501-904b-a493494276c9[/URL][/QUOTE]I met up with this girl. Really fun girl to fuck, follows directions really well, and she can take a pounding. She only asked for 250, not 350. A bit more than what I usually do, but a) We hung out for like 3 ish hours and went multiple rounds and b.) She could host. Purely from that last point alone, I was fine with paying 250 because with any other chick I'd have to rent a hotel room and that's expensive. Also, she's got a GREAT ass, like I spent a good 30 minutes just playing with those cheeks, spanking them until they were bright red. That's the other thing, she's into some of that light BDSM stuff like spanking, hair pulling, choking, restraints, dom / sub, etc.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;4918364]This one favorited me and since her location was ideal for me I chatted her up. Turns out she can host but wants $350. Seriously, what is she maybe a 5 in the looks department? I played along and offered $300 and got the often used [B][i]" I know my worth" [/i][/B].

Funny thing is she is literally on the site 24/7 probably disappointed that guys look at her and think $150 max LOL.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/862224d8-85ab-4501-904b-a493494276c9[/URL][/QUOTE]Single best tip I've gotten on this site, that phrase, instant block.

[QUOTE=Bran001;4918369][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8c95e679-1c14-45fb-a3f5-093a917e39a2[/URL]

She's one of the few over-40's I'd try. At last check she's been on SA for 2+ years and tells me she still hasn't met anyone. Too scared maybe??

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/32f976ac-914c-1076-caa0-36ac810eb9e3[/URL]

This woman has 2 profiles. I did meet her for coffee over a year ago, but not more. Wanted 500 ppm or more (forget exactly), and something seemed off with her face / eyes that kinda made me think that I'd be too distracted! On her second profile she wants 800 ppm.[/QUOTE]You know what I have found interesting from all of these years punting? That nurses seem to be the ones that are more open to extra curricular arrangements. Just saying.

[QUOTE=RedStar819;4918394]I met up with this girl. Really fun girl to fuck, follows directions really well, and she can take a pounding. She only asked for 250, not 350. A bit more than what I usually do, but a) We hung out for like 3 ish hours and went multiple rounds and b.) She could host. Purely from that last point alone, I was fine with paying 250 because with any other chick I'd have to rent a hotel room and that's expensive. Also, she's got a GREAT ass, like I spent a good 30 minutes just playing with those cheeks, spanking them until they were bright red. That's the other thing, she's into some of that light BDSM stuff like spanking, hair pulling, choking, restraints, dom / sub, etc.[/QUOTE]Does she offer BBFS?

Looking to get back into the game, only action this year has been with an UTR but that has been very inconsistent. I had some leftover credits on Secret Benefits and have been trying to strike up some leads but I have been fruitless so far. Has anyone had any luck there or should I switch over to Seeking?

[QUOTE=XBostonBoyX;4919213]Looking to get back into the game, only action this year has been with an UTR but that has been very inconsistent. I had some leftover credits on Secret Benefits and have been trying to strike up some leads but I have been fruitless so far. Has anyone had any luck there or should I switch over to Seeking?[/QUOTE]SA is better, in my experience.

[QUOTE=Bran001;4919215]SA is better, in my experience.[/QUOTE]The two attract a slightly different population (although some women are definitely on both). SA is more upscale and many more college kids. Lots of GPS on Seeking, but also plenty of fun to be had. I would say that there are upwards of 3 x the sheer numbers on Seeking. So your odds are higher. That being said, I have found some gems on SB. Single moms abound, trying to eke out a few extra dollars and there go I. If I only had enough money for one and not both, however, the choice would be SA because of the plentiful choices.

[QUOTE=Banjomania;4919642]The two attract a slightly different population (although some women are definitely on both). SA is more upscale and many more college kids. Lots of GPS on Seeking, but also plenty of fun to be had. I would say that there are upwards of 3 x the sheer numbers on Seeking. So your odds are higher. That being said, I have found some gems on SB. Single moms abound, trying to eke out a few extra dollars and there go I. If I only had enough money for one and not both, however, the choice would be SA because of the plentiful choices.[/QUOTE]Hmm I do like the single moms! I just don't go for the 'pro's' -- might have to check out SB again.