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This weeks POTS.

1 - latina coed. Super friendly and excited. Deleted her profile the moment she connected with me. Was willing to go straight to the FC but she is on her cycle. So we will M&G this week first just to keep it fresh.

2 - eager but cautious. Asked for money up front but has since backed down off that. Wants to M&G first, but willing to go to the FC directly after if we connect.

3 - another cautious latina. Wants to M&G first. Says its her first time.

4 - flaked on our first date at the FC. Claims she did her hair and nails (the color I suggested) just to meet me.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3998927]This weeks POTS.

1 - latina coed. Super friendly and excited. Deleted her profile the moment she connected with me. Was willing to go straight to the FC but she is on her cycle. So we will M&G this week first just to keep it fresh.

2 - eager but cautious. Asked for money up front but has since backed down off that. Wants to M&G first, but willing to go to the FC directly after if we connect.

3 - another cautious latina. Wants to M&G first. Says its her first time.

4 - flaked on our first date at the FC. Claims she did her hair and nails (the color I suggested) just to meet me.[/QUOTE]Let us know and please take pics.

[QUOTE=Yoyo8899;3998547]I'm in a similar boat. Had signed up for SA a couple years back but had never used it. Just filled out my profile and paid for premium and now my inbox is filling up. Can't tell who is serious and who's not.

Also married and have a hall pass. So very curious how your adventures are. Will report back on mine too once I have any to share.[/QUOTE]My experiences have varied wildly over the past year I've been on the site. As someone in a similar situation to myself, the best tip I can give you is to be straightforward about your marital situation & your pass.

You'll find that the women appreciate and respect the honesty. It's also a HUGE turn on for them. It implies that you treat your wife so well, are still so desired by her, and are so invested in her happiness, that she is giving you permission to have some outside fun because she wants you happy too.

These girls like knowing that their SD (or potential SD) doesn't have to sneak around to get what he wants. And on a biological level, women are programmed to seek out "desirable" men, so you can definitely use that in your favor.

In my experience on SA, you can definitely find some EXTREMELY attractive women (easily on par with, and definitely better than most hobbying sites. Even the high-end ones). I urge each of you. DON'T let a woman's looks intimidate you from approaching her. If you play your cards right, you can set something up on YOUR terms. Remember -- YOU have the sugar. YOU are the catch, not her.

But remember, the assumption that most POTs have is that (most) men have a bankroll, so you can't always expect to throw money at these women and get whatever you want. You definitely shouldn't jump into negotiating an allowance early or over a keyboard. Always do it in person whenever possible, and don't be afraid to stand your ground. In my experience, POTs are much bolder & will ask for much more if you allow negotiations to transpire via text.

Literally anybody can win on SA. You just have to determine what your unfair advantage is, and play strongly to it at all times. There is an element of finesse. If you don't have it yet, you can learn thru experience. For example, my personal advantages are my youth, physicality, and my hall pass (a hot wife who gives me freedom to do WTF I want. Because I've earned it).

I've met a variety of women. Mostly black or white, with a few latinas and one asian mixed in. Ages have ranged from 20 all the way up to mid-40's.

While it is true that the vast majority are looking for some financial benefit, that's not 100% of the equation. A large number of these women are also deprived in other areas. Emotional / mental support, good conversation, nice dates, and, of course, mind-blowing sex.

The truth is that the more physically attractive, charming, etc. That you are, the less the money really matters. Especially over time. In my case, many arrangements that started out with an allowance progressed such that the allowance was either significantly reduced, or eliminated altogether.

Developed some GREAT relations with the girls I've had the pleasure of seeing. I have a pretty heavy rotation to be honest. Although my pass is going to be up soon here I can definitely see myself continuing on with a few of them.

Will detail my more interesting experiences in the following post.

Here is my HOF.

I've met others once or twice as well, but these are the one's that I made a concerted effort to see repeatedly & consistently.

The Black Girls:

1. This one is the very first girl I met on the site. We didn't even M&G, she was (supposedly) D-deprived, "sick of being hit on by old gray men," & eager to come over. She's a young mom. Super chill, eager to please. Super cute face, slim waist, and a biiiiiiiiiig behind. We hit it off. She was very easy to click with personality-wise. We would probably maintain a friendship even if we stopped fucking. We've been seeing each other consistently for over a year, and I'll probably continue after my pass expires. She has a real freak streak & makes herself available whenever I call her. Loves public sex. I can now say I've gotten my noodle wet in some VERY risky & random places thanks to her. Real keeper.

2. Another one of my faves. I was lucky enough to stumble across her profile on her first night on the site. She literally deleted her profile immediately after we met for the first time. She's super thick with a gorgeous face & sweet personality. She never asked for a cent, just wanted me to teach her some things in the bedroom LOL. Turns out her sex drive is just as high as mine is. At one point she had me so worn out I had to take a break from her for a couple of weeks. We've actually developed a friendship over time. Definitely a keeper.

3. This last one of note is a real gem. Mid 30's MILF. Gorgeous with a stacked body. She used to be a video model. Had some funny stories about Hollywood-folk. She has a decent career now, but needs help with post-grad tuition. $$ 5/ meet. Shit was real sweet for a while, and I cut off the other girls I was seeing at the time just to see her. All good things must come to an end though. After I got married, she wanted to up the allowance. AND she picked up a boyfriend. Way too much going on there so I had to cut her off out of principle. We still chat here & there. She's trying hard to keep the door open, & has asked for the D (allowance-free) a number of times, but she knows I won't see her as long as the BF is around.

The White Girls:

1. I've been seeing her for about a year. She was super local, and at first I was giving her $$/ meet and seeing her twice a week. Perfect hourglass figure. Great California boobs, flat stomach, wide hips, and some decent meat on the cheeks. Our first session was unreal. Literally left me speechless. 3 back to back to back rounds. And they're still pretty epic today. The word "no" isn't in her vocabulary. She's got a great personality too. Very laid back and easy to talk to. However, she recently got a great job that took her about an hour's drive away. She makes herself available whenever I want to see her, so I still see her once a week. The great thing is she enjoys the time we spend together so much that she told me to stop giving her an allowance -- she's happy with the sex and time spent.

2. The other white girl I've been seeing for about 3 months. Super cute, nerdy and built kinda like a volleyball player. Tall, thick athletic legs, and epic milk-makers. Saw her weekly at the outset, #meet, but she's gotten busy with school and work, so it's now just about every other week. Sex is also great. She's admittedly addic (k) ted LOL. She's setting up a Halloween threesome for us with another hottie (who has no idea about our arrangement LOL) as well.

3. My little Swede. Been seeing her about 9 months, initially 3-4 times a month at $$meet. Now reduced to $. 5/ meet (you'll understand why at the end of the blurb). At first she gave some push-back on some of my kinks but since then she's opened up a bit since then & we've explored a lot more. There was a period of about 2 months where I hadn't seen her due to conflicting schedules and a vacation back home. During that time she got knocked up (not by me) and had it taken care of maybe 2 weeks after we reconnected. Which annoyed me a bit. She always insisted on a rubber with me, but clearly had someone else dumping loads in her LOL. I've seen her a couple of times since then but have backed off for the most part. She's too much fun to completely walk away from though, and asks for such a comparatively small amount now that the deal is too sweet.

4. This one could go down as either white or latina. She's originally from Sweden, but she's half Spanish / Chilean. She will be the very last addition to the team haha. She's in her mid-20's but has had a lot of work done on her body. She legitimately could have introduced herself as a long-lost Kardashian and I would've believed her. Her ass looked SUPER ripe in photos, and in some sick twist of fate it looks EVEN BETTER in person. She's asking for $2 k / mo, and I can see her whenever I want as much as I want. Normally I'd tell her to fuck off, but I'll never have a chance to add a girl this bad to the roster ever again. So fuck it! YOLO. Time is on her side. We were supposed to get to it on Tuesday, but she hadn't been tested yet. She went for that & to get on BC today, so we will be starting this weekend. I'll see how the month goes with her & decide then whether I want to continue.

Latinas.

1. The first latina I met on the site is a lesbian! And lives in with her girlfriend. She's never asked for an allowance. The thrill of having something on the side is enough for her. She's thick and gorgeous. Juicy ass & great gazongas to boot, and has one of the tightest puss I've ever been in. She's a ton of fun but rarely available because of her living situation. I've been to her place a few times while her gf is at work. The other times I Lyfted her to my place. She wants a 3 some with my wife & I, but my wife would never agree hahahaha. Unfortunately she has zero bi-curiosity. Anyway, fingers crossed I get to see her again before my time's up LOL.

2. My other latina is a sweetheart. She's fairly young, with 2 kids. Usually there are signs of that on the body, but looking at her you'd have no idea. She's super cute, and petite, but has hands down the best ass I've ever seen on a girl her size. Slim waist, flat stomach, but a juicy bubble. Perfect size & shape and still soft to the touch. She's wild in the sack too. She's the first girl to ask me to slap her & spit on her. Shit tripped me out! She's a good conversationalist as well. The drawback with her is her living / transpo situation. She doesn't have her own place, or a car, so I have to Uber her. She usually has a sob story, or has to leave town abruptly for a couple of weeks every so often too. I enjoy seeing her though, and wouldn't mind keeping her around after my pass is done. Usually $. 5/ meet, but the last couple of times have been $.

3. Latina #3 is legitimately an Instagram model. One of those with 200 k+ followers. Gorgeous, picture perfect body, etc. She was originally asking for $1 k / meet. After telling her to go fist herself, she went down to $$ 5 LOL. Much better. She's fun, but she's a long drive away so I'm lucky if I can see her once a week. She always makes herself available for me when I call though. The sessions are awesome, and she (along with Black Girl #1) was the easiest by far to click with personality-wise. Apparently she hated the site. Her last SD was old & overweight, and she was just about ready to give it up until she stumbled across me--who happens to be her type. After me she deleted her profile. Nowadays I don't really give her an allowance, just help her with a bill here or there, give her guidance with her biz, and take her on dates when I have time.

The Asian.

The one asian girl I've met is a real keeper. She immigrated her to finish her education. But now that she's done she doesn't want to go back (go figure LOL). We agreed on $$meet initially, but she recently agreed to see me for less. Awesome personality & killer sense of humor too. She's pretty stacked. She works out regularly so her thighs and ass are really developed. And a big time freak! She introduced me to bondage & choking. She loves butt stuff too.

Everything above may make it sound like SA is all sunshine & rainbows. DEFINITELY NOT! I've had to sift thru the hordes of fakes & scammers, sat thru countless failed M&Gs, and even dealt with my share of crazy POTs and SBs.

I'll share the scammers, crazies & horror stories in a separate post some time soon!

I don't want to quote them to save room, but those last two posts you made were solid and packed with some excellent tips and good stories.

[QUOTE=Mile22;3999565]the best tip I can give you is to be straightforward about your marital situation & your pass.

You'll find that the women appreciate and respect the honesty. It's also a HUGE turn on for them. It implies that you treat your wife so well, are still so desired by her, and are so invested in her happiness, that she is giving you permission to have some outside fun because she wants you happy too.

These girls like knowing that their SD (or potential SD) doesn't have to sneak around to get what he wants. And on a biological level, women are programmed to seek out "desirable" men, so you can definitely use that in your favor.[/QUOTE]I am not married but I do have a GF. I tell every girl I meet my situation. And many times show them her picture. (she is a hot model). The chance that any of them is better looking is slim to none. I think they feel pretty much what you related. If they are UTR's it means nothing, but if they are SB's. They want some of what she's getting. Also it doesn't come up too much anymore, but there was a time I leveraged my own daughter as well. She was a stereotypical spoiled Hollywood princess. When girls would see all the shit I gave her and how close we were they knew I was a good Daddy. They used to say "please adopt me" lol.

[QUOTE=BigBadNut;3999472]Let us know and please take pics.[/QUOTE]So I M&G'ed girl #1 in post 3361. This girl is what a lot of guys hope to get on SA. I messaged her the day after she first posted her profile. She started acting as if we were in an arrangement before I even met her. She deleted her profile as soon as we set the M&G. I went to see her tonite. Turns out she is a half mexican half pinay coed with a job and lives in a good area. Something just clicked in her brain that its finally time to break out of her shell and I am the appointed / annointed shell breaker.

Met her at a starbucks and listened to her story. Virgin till 19, then one small dicked angry BF that treated her like crap for a year and then dumped her. Takes her two years to get her confidence back. Then suddenly decides she wants kinky, crazy out of the box sex with an older guy leading the way. She gets off her cycle Saturday, so we are meeting Sunday night for lesson one, in what every little girl needs to know to make daddy happy. So technically I will be her second guy ever. A real NP, soon to be an SB.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3999964]So I M&G'ed girl #1 in post 3361. This girl is what a lot of guys hope to get on SA. I messaged her the day after she first posted her profile. She started acting as if we were in an arrangement before I even met her. She deleted her profile as soon as we set the M&G. I went to see her tonite. Turns out she is a half mexican half pinay coed with a job and lives in a good area. Something just clicked in her brain that its finally time to break out of her shell and I am the appointed / annointed shell breaker.

Met her at a starbucks and listened to her story. Virgin till 19, then one small dicked angry BF that treated her like crap for a year and then dumped her. Takes her two years to get her confidence back. Then suddenly decides she wants kinky, crazy out of the box sex with an older guy leading the way. She gets off her cycle Saturday, so we are meeting Sunday night for lesson one, in what every little girl needs to know to make daddy happy. So technically I will be her second guy ever. A real NP, soon to be an SB.[/QUOTE]Dude!

This is almost exactly what happened with Black Girl #2!

Just tack on a few years. And she lost her virginity during a limp-dicked one-night stand haha.

Crazy.

This weekend has not turned out like I expected. I blanked on Friday and sat night. But whenever that happens I prospect and use the down time to txt with my POTS. I got a half dozen I am stayin in the loop with, only one appears to be a UTR. They're all pretty cute and tiny the way I like them. Tomorrow night is my first date with the mixed coed I met a couple of days ago. Hope you all had a better weekend than me so far.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4002304]This weekend has not turned out like I expected. I blanked on Friday and sat night. But whenever that happens I prospect and use the down time to txt with my POTS. I got a half dozen I am stayin in the loop with, only one appears to be a UTR. They're all pretty cute and tiny the way I like them. Tomorrow night is my first date with the mixed coed I met a couple of days ago. Hope you all had a better weekend than me so far.[/QUOTE]Total sucky weekend. No new pussy at all. It's a test from god. But I will prevail. Next year I am going to crawl out of my mess. Make enough to support my habit and go back to being single. Scheduling around the GF is a real pain. I totally get the whole SO thing. Now I know why I haven't had one in forever. Even with the so-called hall pass, its not enough. Without the freedom to take advantage of spontaneous random events, half the fun (or more) goes out of it. At least for me.

And I passed up two sure things (UTR's, but fresh ones) to wait on these flakey SB's. It's totally this scheduling thing. I'm sick of it and my GF knows it.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;4003442]Total sucky weekend. No new pussy at all. It's a test from god. But I will prevail. Next year I am going to crawl out of my mess. Make enough to support my habit and go back to being single. Scheduling around the GF is a real pain. I totally get the whole SO thing. Now I know why I haven't had one in forever. Even with the so-called hall pass, its not enough. Without the freedom to take advantage of spontaneous random events, half the fun (or more) goes out of it. At least for me.

And I passed up two sure things (UTR's, but fresh ones) to wait on these flakey SB's. It's totally this scheduling thing. I'm sick of it and my GF knows it.[/QUOTE]Why have a GF? I never really get that part, since the logical outcome of having a SO is the next phase -- [B]contractually obligated[/B]. LOL.

[QUOTE=RogerOver;4003665]Why have a GF? I never really get that part, since the logical outcome of having a SO is the next phase -- [B]contractually obligated[/B]. LOL.[/QUOTE]I wasnt planning on it. I been on and off with this girl for 5 years. I should clarify. I have had GF's. But not ones that live with me. She is the first in 10 years. I was just going to help her get back on her feet for a few months. Now been a year. And marriage. No chance of that. Unless they can front for my entire lifestyle. Most 20 year olds don't have that kind of dough.

This girl won't even write back to me and she has no clue what my offer is. I guess I am too old for her. But I get that a lot.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1319e310-8bff-451d-9bb5-a189f3838f42[/URL]

I been letting some awesome $$ girls slip through my hands. At that price they are scrumptious. Next year, next year. Its my new mantra.

Supposed to do a nooner today with this 18 - 5.2 hottie.