Darsey the redheaded blackmailer
Sorry to hear about the viral infection, and sorry to hear that somebody is threatening you!
Has she contacted you through any method [I]other than[/I] your burner phone? (I. E. Personal or work email, personal or work phone, snail mail, etc.) If not, my hunch is that she has no clue who you are or where you are. I'd be inclined to get rid of that phone. You might have some sleepless nights and residual anxiety, and let's hope that's the extent of her effect on your life. Notwithstanding how scary it might feel to be outed--her power over you, preying on your fear, guilt, or shame, represents her fucked-up desperation--if she alerts your family or your workplace to your sugaring agreement, her leverage is GONE.
As others pointed out: a baller move would be to invoke [B]mutually assured destruction[/B]: alert the police. Although you can effect a police report anonymously, it's unlikely much will come from it unless you provide your personal deets as well as hers. You (and she) can connect the dots after that. Buuut that also eliminates her leverage. I'm not sure I'd have the stones for that unless the threats were physically violent.
Good luck.
[QUOTE=MilfHunter66;7278135]We were going to see each other a couple times a month for a certain amount.
I ended up getting really sick with a viral infection that messed up my liver. I can not have physical contact with anyone until the virus is completely gone and cleared medically.
She didn't seem to care one bit and demanded that I still pay here even if I don't see her.
Threatened to come to my work and get me fired and my house and tell the wife.
Bad thing is I'm honestly sick and going to have complications from this for months.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BuckNaked123;7278105]Was it this Darsey? [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a1137099-b079-49fe-a771-6b3bcd431fb2[/URL].
That sucks that she would do that. I have talked to this one but never pursued her. Did you ever see her? What are her demands? I would probably talk to the cops unless you are married and can't have the wife find out.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MilfHunter66;7278086]So some of you are familiar with a girl from seeking that gos by Darsy is trying to blackmail me.
I know her first and last name but that's it. I'm not sure how much she actually knows about me. She only has my burner phone number and I don't think she has my last name.
This woman is crazy nuts.
Should I go talk with a lawyer or go to the cops?
She has sent me extremely threatening messages. Never has anyone gone to this extreme.[/QUOTE]