This hits a chord that struck home
[QUOTE=Baltimoronic;3396018]Man, I got read like a sucker so quick. It started with bringing her $20 when she was too tired to date and putting it on my tab. Then it progressed to taking her on business trips. Told her no needles around me. So she brings 24 hrs worth of pills for a 5 day trip. First 24 hrs were amazing. Last 96 were a nightmare. She stole silverware everywhere we ate. She left floaters in the toilet. She screamed in the night in horror and a minute later moaned like she was orgasming. She laid in the tub for 8 hours a day and I was sure she'd drown so I'd supervise her like a lifeguard. Then she says let me make it up to you and we'll go away for two nights and I will bring enough pills. Except when we got there she tells me the pills don't really work anymore and had I not been such a Pussy and let her bring her needles, everything would've been just peachy. I didn't even get a HJ from her on that trip. By.
Then I was like shame on me. So I brought another provider in and fucked her right in front of her. When we got back, she ended up running off with a sugar daddy. She's back on skid row again, but she taught me the lesson of a lifetime. I am no one's *boy ever again. I will fuck her once in a while but I will pay after the deed is done and not on a pre-installment plan. I will not drive her anywhere except a local motel. Back to business, where it all began and where it should've stayed at all times.[/QUOTE]We as benefactors, are actually enablers, giving them money in exchange for services rendered, which typically translates to meds use of some sort. It can all get completely out of hand, as with WPB's lindsay. I think it's the just a shame to see a perfectly sentient woman conduct herself like that, stealing, mooching, taking good guys like us for granted and then they want wire transfers and get the golden pus syndrome, thinking they are somehow exclusive. They are not, and good heavens forbid they incinerate a dialog, a report, an understanding. The phone just stops ringing, and they just move on to B, C,D candidates. But then so do we, right? There is an expression in the baking industry that states " you are only as good as your last clair", ain't that the truth, things can turn and go south quickly, and you got to understand we are not always dealing with the sharpest tool in the tool shed. Doing what they do, is an easy fast way of making a Buck, but the burn out rate is high and fast, do a carbon date check on how many SW's from maybe even 2014/2015 till today are still in the game, a few, but they get burned up quickly. That's street life, opting to be homeless, doing whatever, with whomever to feed an addiction, with trading terms playing the market there is another quote "if a position moves against you, get out of it.
Legal Help from Indigo456?
[QUOTE=BoloBellgrande;3397352]I think if it wasn't for the legal issues she has facing her in Main, I think she would go home. If they're any lawyers out there, that would care to council her on whatever her legal troubles are back home, that might sway her into going home if it's possible to reduce the penalties she's facing.
All that depends on her wanting the help if it's offered. Just a thought.[/QUOTE]We should see if Indigo456 can help her. He just used the word 'deleterious' over on the BP thread. Got to be a lawyer or at least a law school professor! .
Nothing so grandiose my friend
[QUOTE=Baltimoronic;3397443]We should see if Indigo456 can help her. He just used the word 'deleterious' over on the BP thread. Got to be a lawyer or at least a law school professor! .[/QUOTE]I had a humble upbringing, dad always was disappointed with what I had done, It's entirely right hemisphereic, creative, doing it for thirty six years has taken a toll on the shell, fighting saber tooth tigers, Mongols from the north and egomaniacs. But I should have listened to dear old dad and been an engineer or a doc, I have too many convictions being a straight shooter to have become an attorney. But my best advice, confront those issues and try to manage somewhat more on her terms. In life, its a good thing to have options, but not such a good thing to come to an impasse, and you turn right, you turn left, same outcome, you effectively run out of options. Wish her well, hope she can get it together, poor unfortunate.