Sample Size Always Matters
Utwo:
I respect the way you described your thoughts on this topic. But I want to point out that you always got to factor in quantity before you make sweepin statements about providers. I've seen too many providers from different parts of the country, of different ages, sizes, looks, etc to definitively say that one group 'always' gives good or bad service. So I wonder how many black providers you've seen & if it's really true that ALL of them have been whack, neatfreaks.
And when I said that it matters if the provider likes you, often that can be about things you can't control (your physique, personality, etc). You'd like to think that like any other service provider, these chicks can give good service no matter what the client looks like, but often that's not the case (remember, we're talkin about sex here).
What I try to do is get a good vibe goin first when I talk to them on the phone (if possible) or get them to smile / laugh when I get to the room. If I get any type of weird / negative vibe when meet them, I just leave instead of takin my chances w / the service. In my experience, as long as the chick has a decent attitude, I can get at least satisfactory service out of her.
Just my $0. 02.
Pizz
[QUOTE=Utwogood; 1824930]Yeah I hear you, PP. I am well aware of this, and I know how to convey to them that I'm not a thug or pimp, that I have good hygiene, blah, blah, blah. But I still run into providers that pull the "cleanfreak" thing, as a way of minimizing physical contact. Sorry, but I have experienced this more with black providers than anything else. If you're a black client seeing a black provider, they just have a different mindset. They automatically assume I will try something or that I am up to no good, and then go way overboard with rules. If you're white guy, the dynamic changes. It just does. So because of this I do try hard to make a provider feel comfortable, but is it not their job to do the same? This is still customer service. I don't expect a provider to rock my world in 30 minutes, but I do expect certain things. If you can't then why are you subjecting yourself to this? I never argue about trying to get my money back for shitty service. My only recourse is to go to forums like this. Sorry, man, but I've seen quite a few, but except for Lady Siah (whew-long time ago) my best experiences have been with providers who are not black.
I am not always feeling a provider as well, so I've never faulted any provider for a lack of chemistry (mine or hers). But there is clearly a difference between someone who wants to make you satisfied on some level (and possibly get something out of it herself) and someone who wants to get you in and out ASAP because they really don't want to be doing this but have to.
And I don't feel bad about making generalizations about providers, because they make them about us. How many times have you read a BP ad that said,"No black guys." or "no men under 40"? However, I did say Brittany was YMMV and that her pics were true. So go on and give it a shot and make your own determination. I'm standing by what I wrote.[/QUOTE]
Revenge by a pimp or boyfriend?
Last night I was looking through the ads and come across this one:
[url]http://nova.backpage.com/BodyRubs/bi-sexual-emelina-mercedes-ramirez-20-specials-all-day-25/11533160[/url]
When I saw the pictures I immediately recognized the lady; I have seen her for FBSM. Those pics are really her, and that's her phone number too. She used to work under the name Yasmeen until very recently, her last report on the other board is mine. She advertised herself as Lebanese, but when I met her I suspected she was just Hispanic. I am pretty sure she had a booker or agency, she was way too quick to reply to emails. Anyway, I read the ad above and I noticed it was very suspect, completely different from her usual ads:
1. First of all, this ad seems to contain her full, real name and s a picture of her driver's license! complete with her picture, full name and home address! At first I thought this had to be a mistake, maybe the wrong picture got uploaded, but I read the rest of the ad and noticed this had to be done on purpose to get back at her. Read on.
2. On previous ads and on her website she ALWAYS hid her identity, by cropping or blurring her face. But on this last ad, though those are the same pictures she's used in the past, her face is no longer hidden. Why would she reveal her identity now?
3. That ad shows her personal phone# on the ad, which was never put on the ads before. Communication was strictly email only until she texted you the room# when you were in the parking lot. Also, she never advertised her incall location, you only got the address after exchanging a couple emails, but on that ad both her phone# and incall location are published for anyone to see.
4. Accoding to this ad she is offering "everything" for $80 / hr and $120/2hrs, when her rates until last week for nude massage and HJ were 1. 2/30min (1/30min specials for FBSM sometimes) and 1. 6 / hr, and FS was 2 / hr. The whole ad just seems ridiculous, specially the last line: "BTW, come with your friends, GF or wife!"
To me it seems very fishy, seems like someone wants to get her the wrong kind of attention. I also thought this could be some kind of set up by LEO, but then I realized that was an absurd thought. Anyway, I'll stay away from this one for now.