Sugar bowl sites and sugar babies

Welcome to the world of Hook up sites. Number 1 rule make all new members feel they've found a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. The SA vultures love the newbies. I say this with much respect but 75% of the girls on SA use stripper logic. Get as much $$ as you can without giving up the goods. They will string you along trying to squeeze every cent they can get. Once they've exhausted all their efforts and know they have to perform to get you to keep contributing $$ they go dark or throw out an outrageous amount. SA was much more reliable 2-3 years ago. The problem is all these girls hear they can make good money stringing guys along with out performing the deed which brings every dude to this site. In fact IMO it's hurt the sites reputation and SA should ban these types. Now, there are some legitimate girls on SA but weeding through the bunch is to time consuming and expensive. I'm not the most active member but I've managed a 100 percent success ratio. I have yet to meet a girl on SA for any Meet and greet. Honestly, its been years since I've met anyone on SA. Due to the fact it takes too much time weeding through the BS. The point is if things seem too good to be true they probably are. Please inform us how successful your dates are with these new girls you met or been talking to. That's what this board is for. Just my 2 cents. Thanks and good luck!

[QUOTE=MasonVrh;5329240]Been thinking about getting into SA for a while, have read lots of suggestions and advice here, so I finally pulled the trigger. Did a very basic profile with only a couple of pictures and became a Premium member.

Within a day was getting messages from very hot and young coeds. Pretty exciting for a fifty year old average looking guy. Set up meets with three of them for later in the same week.

First (Sexysadie613) was a basic M&G that has some potential, maybe. Seems to have a lot of drama.

The second (KerryBabe99) meet was done and over in a minute ending with setting up the next date. As she leaves, gave me a peck on the check and whispers in my ear, that she is into greek. She just wants a shopping trip to Costco and 200 per meet. Been texting almost every day since then, meeting early next week.

The third (Greeneyes2021) still working on scheduling the initial meet.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MasonVrh;5329240]Been thinking about getting into SA for a while, have read lots of suggestions and advice here, so I finally pulled the trigger. Did a very basic profile with only a couple of pictures and became a Premium member.

Within a day was getting messages from very hot and young coeds. Pretty exciting for a fifty year old average looking guy. Set up meets with three of them for later in the same week.

First (Sexysadie613) was a basic M&G that has some potential, maybe. Seems to have a lot of drama.

The second (KerryBabe99) meet was done and over in a minute ending with setting up the next date. As she leaves, gave me a peck on the check and whispers in my ear, that she is into greek. She just wants a shopping trip to Costco and 200 per meet. Been texting almost every day since then, meeting early next week.

The third (Greeneyes2021) still working on scheduling the initial meet.

Then on day two from being on SA, got a message in the morning from a hot 20 something with long reddish hair and "carpet matching the drapes". Got a thing for redheads. Anyway after some banter over text, we agree to lunch and before mid afternoon was between the sheets!

Never thought it would be like this. So done with EB and am just kicking myself for not getting into SA sooner![/QUOTE]I agree with you on the SA. It's been amazing, I have never gotten laid so much! But just some advice. Screw the meeting out and wining and dining and all that ppm bull. Most are down to just come over and get straight to business. That's my experience at least. More than a handful have been free!

[QUOTE=QueNine;5329844]Can you share which reddish head? There's a few.[/QUOTE]Also curious!

[QUOTE=ChrisHansen92;5305197]Would love to hear a success story on these 2. Hope I am wrong but I think these 2 just joined because they read to many Reddit blogs and saw TikTok vids on how to milk an old lonely guy without having to actually meet and put out. Or possibly doing just pay-per-view selling pic's and vid's.

Think they are putting more effort into their Gift Wishlist's on Seeking than setting up P4 P fun. Side note it is my understanding if you are stupid enough to buy a gift off the list as a "good faith" that your are serious before meeting, they can just take the cash equivalency instead. I told maybmad she should probably just join [URL]Adoptabrat.com[/URL] LOL.[/QUOTE]Just as a follow up, DO NOT MEET. I convinced them to meet me for coffee and they tried to sell all sorts of things I passed on. Friend of mine in the life got blackmailed by them after asking for services (yes he's stupid but still). They quoted 500 each and will only meet together for "fun" but it quickly went up and up and tbh they may be attractive but not worth it at all.

Anytime these girls will only work as a package deal walk away (Seeking girls). You are sure to over pay, be disappointed, robbed, short changed or worse. 99% of the time they are not really into each other sexually and just putting on an act. You are usually just serviced by 1 of them (if you are lucky) while the other is just not into it, texting on her phone or going thru your house and wallet. If you absolutely must have this fantasy fulfilled see them one at a time them bring them together later. Or better yet find a hot girl you have been seeing off there, likes you and is into it, then suggest if she has a GF that would like to join you both and make some money.

[QUOTE=TossAway7;5330237]Just as a follow up, DO NOT MEET. I convinced them to meet me for coffee and they tried to sell all sorts of things I passed on. Friend of mine in the life got blackmailed by them after asking for services (yes he's stupid but still). They quoted 500 each and will only meet together for "fun" but it quickly went up and up and tbh they may be attractive but not worth it at all.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ChrisHansen92;5330274]Anytime these girls will only work as a package deal walk away (Seeking girls). You are sure to over pay, be disappointed, robbed, short changed or worse. 99% of the time they are not really into each other sexually and just putting on an act. You are usually just serviced by 1 of them (if you are lucky) while the other is just not into it, texting on her phone or going thru your house and wallet. If you absolutely must have this fantasy fulfilled see them one at a time them bring them together later. Or better yet find a hot girl you have been seeing off there, likes you and is into it, then suggest if she has a GF that would like to join you both and make some money.[/QUOTE]Can see the red flags quick after a little experience.

[QUOTE=Jsleez;5330406]Can see the red flags quick after a little experience.[/QUOTE]Oh for sure, but sometimes the big head isn't loud enough haha. I have added a girls friend to the mix before once which was great but a little strange 2-fer sounded interesting. Also just a reminder not to get too too gung ho in texting unless they start the offering. Also use a burner. Friend spent most of today changing his number.

Burners always.

[QUOTE=QueNine;5329844]Can you share which reddish head? There's a few.[/QUOTE]The ginger dream.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bb7a5fff-ddad-4584-8b12-ef31ede1cabc[/URL]

What's the consensus of entertaining these SA women at your residence?

One of our friends on here shared our post's to her. She deleted and created a new profile. Still GTG, tall and tight.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fee7c85d-ab6d-4533-9397-5ec88a077617[/URL]

You don't contact me. You contact her on the site so she can decide if she want 's to fuck you.

[QUOTE=ChrisHansen92;5300792]She loves her vodka. Make sure she gets home safe. She is in love with cock, money and booze. Not you and not in that order. See her sister also if you get the chance.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Yorgi1;5333298]What's the consensus of entertaining these SA women at your residence?[/QUOTE]That's the only place I do it. Just easier at home base and a lot of these chicks have roommates. Plus I don't ever drink and drive and most the "dates" at least a few drinks are involved (for me at least). Never a problem. Well once a little scary.

I guess I'm a glutton for punishment. I swore after I was banned the last time that I was done with SA. I should stop reading the forum. If you hang out at a barbershop long enough, you're bound to get a haircut LOL.

Been catching up on all the latest 411 on these girls and will be rolling the dice. Any member's that want to PM me with any leads are most welcome with the favor being returned.

Happy hunting!

Had.

Many guy's on here it is not even an option. Married, SO, trying to use a friends place etc. Many can't risk the exposure of letting one of the girls know where they actually live. That said I insist that I host at my private residence. It saves money (you hear guy's say they only spent 250-300 but in reality they spent 400-500 with drinks maybe diner and a hotel). My only cost is the price I paid them (they drive to me) and buying the drink of their choice (maybe weed since I keep it around for them but I no longer partake). I prefer to play on my own turf and feel more comfortable here than a hotel. No need to worry about a surprise visitor under the bed or bathroom or drama from an uninvited guest to our party. For unknown first timers I have already done my recon and usually know what to expect. I find out if they are driving themselves, Uber or a friend is dropping them off. If it's a friend I ask male or female (my radar goes up on that one). I ask them to drop you off and drive away and wait somewhere till you text them you are ready to leave. I have security cameras outside so any person, vehicle or plate # is recorded. Mind you I don't have pawn-able items, cash, guns, jewelry etc. Laying around. The only place they can go without me being with them is the bathroom or walk in closet (if you want my clothes or shampoo that's all your getting). I have never had a problem over the years (knock wood). Quite the opposite actually. I have a lost and found WG drawer in my closet. It contains panties, bra's, watches, earrings, necklaces etc. That girl's left behind. I usually hang on to them for a while in case one of them mentions it and wants to file a lost claim LOL.

[QUOTE=Yorgi1;5333298]What's the consensus of entertaining these SA women at your residence?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ChrisHansen92;5334892]Many guy's on here it is not even an option. Married, SO, trying to use a friends place etc. Many can't risk the exposure of letting one of the girls know where they actually live. That said I insist that I host at my private residence. It saves money (you hear guy's say they only spent 250-300 but in reality they spent 400-500 with drinks maybe diner and a hotel). My only cost is the price I paid them (they drive to me) and buying the drink of their choice (maybe weed since I keep it around for them but I no longer partake). I prefer to play on my own turf and feel more comfortable here than a hotel. No need to worry about a surprise visitor under the bed or bathroom or drama from an uninvited guest to our party. For unknown first timers I have already done my recon and usually know what to expect. I find out if they are driving themselves, Uber or a friend is dropping them off. If it's a friend I ask male or female (my radar goes up on that one). I ask them to drop you off and drive away and wait somewhere till you text them you are ready to leave. I have security cameras outside so any person, vehicle or plate # is recorded. Mind you I don't have pawn-able items, cash, guns, jewelry etc. Laying around. The only place they can go without me being with them is the bathroom or walk in closet (if you want my clothes or shampoo that's all your getting). I have never had a problem over the years (knock wood). Quite the opposite actually. I have a lost and found WG drawer in my closet. It contains panties, bra's, watches, earrings, necklaces etc. That girl's left behind. I usually hang on to them for a while in case one of them mentions it and wants to file a lost claim LOL.[/QUOTE]I used to have everyone over til they started asking how much literally everything cost in my place and one time the girl was there and her. Driver came to the door as well. My apartment is great for 2 people but also sort of a pain to get people into remotely. Now I pretty much insist on hotels I book, VERY rarely car play, their place if they seem legit, or mine only if I've seen them once safely.

[QUOTE=KCQuestor;5275620]I use Vanilla Gift cards with Seeking all the time. The thing is you have to register the card and assign a ZIP code to it. You can pick any, just remember it for when you use the card to pay. You don't have to use your name or set up an account to register the card.[/QUOTE]The Vanilla gift card I got had no way to register any address or zip code, it just said to use your own address with online merchants. When I tried to use it with SA they immediately suspended my account and sent me to the login page.

A couple years ago I was able to use SA with a "OneVanilla" gift card that had that an online address setup page, but this "VanillaGift" apparently doesn't support that.

Did Vanilla remove this option altogether, or did I get the wrong kind of Vanilla? I had some trouble finding the original OneVanilla cards so I got the VanillaGift hoping it would work as well. Guess that was a mistake.

Any advice?