Secret Benefits Check-In From Experienced Newbie
[QUOTE=PghGuy2005;6049976]Since the owner keeps raising the price and the number of POTS keeps going down. When I started in 2015 used to communicate with many women but it has been downhill ever since.
Their price is inversely related to the the number of real POTS![/QUOTE]As the title states, I have years of hobby experience but a newbie to this board. Surprised to see that there's not much success on SB site. It's been my goto site for the last few years and I typically have success meeting young 20 something coeds on a ppm basis. Now define success. It's like baseball imo, so I would say I'm a league leader batting. 350 or so LOL. One of the things I really like most is the verification video. I am pickier when it comes to a SB compared to a SW so this eliminates some for me. Typically, the ladies don't get dolled up to post the 5 sec video saying "let me be your secret" and you get a realistic glimpse of how they will look after the 2nd visit (they all get comfortable and start visiting in sweats and no makeup). My goto range is typically 300-400 ppm although I paid 500 once to a young Latina waitress that I recognized on the site (S. American and redheads are my weakness).
Couple Things I Have Learned:
1. Is 500 the new 300? Often hear a starting point of 5 but more are holding firm there.
2. I actually prefer ladies / bots that reach out 1st. Respond back quick and you have better odds. It's a numbers game and I want the early at bats.
3. With that said, always expect a con or BS and do not give money before meeting. I don't mind buying lunch as I personally want to see who I'm dealing with.
4. I typically ignore the one's whose profile mentions travel, passports, arm candy or lifestyles. Definitely not what I'm looking for.
5. I do look for words like NSA, FWB, assistance, mutual and sexy. I love a lady that calls herself sexy.
6. I try not to bring up $ until meeting for lunch / coffee. If they bring it up quickly, they are either high dollar or anxious to meet. I can work with knowing that.
7. Set expectations of frequency of visits, texting, and calling before leaving the 1st visit. They often don't even follow but there's also time you will want to know, too. Believe me, there's one out there that will have you consider breaking your own rules LOL.
Here's a couple of recent ones I'm in contact with.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/662c86a2be983260[/URL]
Chatted for a few days then met 400 ppm. Wouldn't budge on her ppm but was dtf from the start. Lives in Gboro but drive to my place in Raleigh.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/18e5eb94be627dc0[/URL]
Met several times over the last year at 400 ppm. Very fun sexually but her life drama will have her stand you up.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/fa5cd035a1f161cd[/URL]
Just started chatting for a few days on-site. Will update.
[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a60cbf7543666909[/URL]
Been texting off site for over week. Plans to meet for lunch in couple days, we will see.