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Here's what I've learned:
* If they've just joined in the past month.
* If they don't have pics in Cincinnati.
* If their English is odd. Things a hot Cincinnati girl wouldn't say.
* Seems too good to be true.
* Has a sob story nearly immediately and asks for money.
* If they favorite you without viewing your profile.
* (more obvious) if they're from cities that are actually states (California, Ohio or Ohio, Indiana).
Just block and move on.
Had some communication with her, she has a child, was asking $$$ but I never got the chance to pull the trigger because of my work travel.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/37ef07d7-67e5-40d3-8166-50219ddf1f76[/URL]
Check out the Kgirl threads in the Louisville and Indy forums. Lots of helpful info. And not the same as Cincy. Far better elsewhere.
[QUOTE=BedtimeStory;7068629]Are there any k girls in the cincy area, or we have to drive to Indiana or Kentucky? Sorry, just never was aware of any service (other than Steve and EE) locally. It would be at least a 2 hour round trip.[/QUOTE]
Anyone seen her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0dd3d5b8-71e1-4045-9ab9-e68b603d1be0[/URL]
Maybe I was just lucky before, but there seems to be a new trend of girls setting up a time, place, details, amount and everything and then on your way to the meet pulling out the cashapp scam. I've gotten 5 different ones in the past few weeks whereas before they would usually not put that much time into it and ask for a deposit right away.
I just block and move on but its still frustrating.
Stay safe!
She sent me a message saying she was looking for something not sexual and I told her to keep looking.
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7073015]Anyone seen her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0dd3d5b8-71e1-4045-9ab9-e68b603d1be0[/URL][/QUOTE]
I've partook in K Girls Columbus. PM me for the number. I haven't been in a while but it was worth the drive when I went.
[QUOTE=BedtimeStory;7068629]Are there any k girls in the cincy area, or we have to drive to Indiana or Kentucky? Sorry, just never was aware of any service (other than Steve and EE) locally. It would be at least a 2 hour round trip.[/QUOTE]
On seeking, is there a way for the girls / women to assess how many I am contacting? I received a comment this morning about how busy I am.
Or is there an online blog or forum where they talk about us by our handles?
If so, time to change handles. Maybe my text number too.
Not that I know of but if you find a place where they talk about it let me know. I did have one girl say "You already talked to my friend and she told me not to waste my time. " Which probably means whoever her friend is wasa wanting a crazy amount.
[QUOTE=TroublePlay;7075849]On seeking, is there a way for the girls / women to assess how many I am contacting? I received a comment this morning about how busy I am.
Or is there an online blog or forum where they talk about us by our handles?
If so, time to change handles. Maybe my text number too.[/QUOTE].
[QUOTE=MagicMan1123;7075890]Not that I know of but if you find a place where they talk about it let me know. I did have one girl say "You already talked to my friend and she told me not to waste my time. " Which probably means whoever her friend is wasa wanting a crazy amount.
.[/QUOTE]I had a SB tell me that there's a site where girls talk. Something like "Back Page"? I guess it isn't like the old website. I searched for it when she mentioned it but never found it.
[QUOTE=CooperTown;7076100]I had a SB tell me that there's a site where girls talk. Something like "Back Page"? I guess it isn't like the old website. I searched for it when she mentioned it but never found it.[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.kittyads.com/search_adv.php[/URL]
[QUOTE=TroublePlay;7075849]On seeking, is there a way for the girls / women to assess how many I am contacting? I received a comment this morning about how busy I am. Or is there an online blog or forum where they talk about us by our handles? If so, time to change handles. Maybe my text number too.[/QUOTE]There is not. Just as you can see when a female is online (unless hidden in settings as a member) the girls can see when you are online. If don't log out or are on the app the indicator will stay lit. If a girl is tracking you, and always see you showing to be online, she may deduct your are busy. Or, it's just a probing line to see what your reaction would be. Or, something else.
Anyone talked to her yet? Seems real and just joined. She's cute.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b92f613d-b92e-4f18-886d-cc936a975d38[/URL]
Several messages with no response even though she shows online. Either I'm not her type or she's getting blown up.
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7080453]Anyone talked to her yet? Seems real and just joined. She's cute.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b92f613d-b92e-4f18-886d-cc936a975d38[/URL][/QUOTE]
This one keeps coming up and I can't look away, does anyone have any information on her? I tried both threads on here and Dayton.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4dc22636-3c3a-4ed0-9cf1-94cd9119df52[/URL]
I searched my inbox as well so I don't see any prior PMs regarding her but I could SWEAR I've asked before.
[QUOTE=AlphaTek1;7080901]This one keeps coming up and I can't look away, does anyone have any information on her? I tried both threads on here and Dayton.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4dc22636-3c3a-4ed0-9cf1-94cd9119df52[/URL]
I searched my inbox as well so I don't see any prior PMs regarding her but I could SWEAR I've asked before.[/QUOTE]I've seen one of her photos on SA for years. I've never taken the next step, but she's been around.
[QUOTE=AlphaTek1;7080901]This one keeps coming up and I can't look away, does anyone have any information on her? I tried both threads on here and Dayton.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4dc22636-3c3a-4ed0-9cf1-94cd9119df52[/URL]
I searched my inbox as well so I don't see any prior PMs regarding her but I could SWEAR I've asked before.[/QUOTE]She is real. I have some PII for contributing seniors. Not sure if it helps is she is unwilling to engage.
BAM.
[QUOTE=AlphaTek1;7080901]This one keeps coming up and I can't look away, does anyone have any information on her? I tried both threads on here and Dayton.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4dc22636-3c3a-4ed0-9cf1-94cd9119df52[/URL]
I searched my inbox as well so I don't see any prior PMs regarding her but I could SWEAR I've asked before.[/QUOTE]She hit me with the sob story once about buying formula for her baby. Avoid IMO.
Question: The girl I'm seeing now asked for a monthly allowance. Before, we were doing ppm (I've known her for about 1. 5 months). Do you usually switch to a monthly allowance once you know her well?
[QUOTE=MagicMan1123;7075890]Not that I know of but if you find a place where they talk about it let me know. I did have one girl say "You already talked to my friend and she told me not to waste my time. " Which probably means whoever her friend is wasa wanting a crazy amount.
.[/QUOTE]Reddit. There are forums where they scheme and ask each other questions on how to leverage and milk their SD's and talk about us. I am sure they message specific names. Also, most of the women I've met in the SB realm heard about it from a friend who's already in the game. I don't think that it should come as any surprise that women do the same thing online as they so when they meet in person. Keep your guard up, and good luck.
Anyone info on Sweetprincess? She messaged me on seeking. Thinking about paying so I can message back. Not finding anything on her in the thread.
Sorry, I've been out of the game for awhile.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0bf643e2-f9e6-4b8e-b3a7-c31e1695f5ac[/URL]
Yes! You should absolutely switch to a monthly allowance if you're willing to risk the total bundle of cash, and have her bolt at any time, for any reason. Or, suddenly have scheduling conflicts, strings you along, but it's still willing to see you when the next month's allowance is due. So yes, switch to monthly allowance if you're willing to get rinsed. Sarcasm intentional to make a point, not directed at the OP.
[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;7081881]Yes! You should absolutely switch to a monthly allowance if you're willing to risk the total bundle of cash, and have her bolt at any time, for any reason. Or, suddenly have scheduling conflicts, strings you along, but it's still willing to see you when the next month's allowance is due. So yes, switch to monthly allowance if you're willing to get rinsed. Sarcasm intentional to make a point, not directed at the OP.[/QUOTE]While you are at it, sign a lease for a rental property and put her there, so that you know where she is located at all times. Sarcasm further extended, and not directed at OP.
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7081610]Question: The girl I'm seeing now asked for a monthly allowance. Before, we were doing ppm (I've known her for about 1. 5 months). Do you usually switch to a monthly allowance once you know her well?[/QUOTE]Make her work for it.
All other post on the subject are correct. Once she has the money, who knows what would or will happen.
Had one come at me with a sob story. Etc, little one needs stuff. Declined and never heard from again.
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7081610]Question: The girl I'm seeing now asked for a monthly allowance. Before, we were doing ppm (I've known her for about 1. 5 months). Do you usually switch to a monthly allowance once you know her well?[/QUOTE]The more accommodating you are the more theyll take advantage of you. Remember they like your money not you and if they can separate you from your money without giving anything in return, theyll do it in a heartbeat.
I think these guys are being too hard on you. A monthly allowance is easy to make work: just make sure it is in arrears. That is, you see her for a month and then settle up at the end of the month. In my working career, I was always paid at the end of the month. If she objects, just look a little offended and disappointed: "What? Don't you trust me?
BAM.
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7081610]Question: The girl I'm seeing now asked for a monthly allowance. Before, we were doing ppm (I've known her for about 1. 5 months). Do you usually switch to a monthly allowance once you know her well?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7081610]Question: The girl I'm seeing now asked for a monthly allowance. Before, we were doing ppm (I've known her for about 1. 5 months). Do you usually switch to a monthly allowance once you know her well?[/QUOTE]Do whatever makes you comfortable. But take steps to protect yourself, such as have a "No cash app rule". If she already has your money, you'll be surprised at how many scheduling problems come up. By only handing over the cash in person, you're going to see just how eager they are to meet you in person.
"Hey! I need $600 for rent. But my schedule is slammed. Can you Venmo it?
"No. You know I don't like to use those apps. But when you do have a few hours, let me know so we can meet up for the money and some alone time."
"is 6:30 tonight okay?
[QUOTE=BamBam;7082270]I think these guys are being too hard on you. A monthly allowance is easy to make work: just make sure it is in arrears. That is, you see her for a month and then settle up at the end of the month. In my working career, I was always paid at the end of the month. If she objects, just look a little offended and disappointed: "What? Don't you trust me?
BAM.[/QUOTE]I mean, we're all on the up-and-up right?
Yeah, there's obviously a risk she'll bail with the cash, but not everyone's like that. If you've known her a few months and can actually trust her, that's different. But if you've only met her once or twice, there's a 99% chance she's gone with the money. Stick to pay-per-meet for the first few months, and only switch to monthly once she's proven she's legit. If she knows she's guaranteed a set amount every month, why wouldn't she stay? Plus, with a monthly setup, you can score a better deal: pay for four meets, get six. Just be smart and make sure you know who you're dealing with. There are different types of girls, too—some you can trust after a couple of months, and some I wouldn't trust even after a year. It's all individual.
[QUOTE=Cincy71;7081833]Anyone info on Sweetprincess? She messaged me on seeking. Thinking about paying so I can message back. Not finding anything on her in the thread.
Sorry, I've been out of the game for awhile.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0bf643e2-f9e6-4b8e-b3a7-c31e1695f5ac[/URL][/QUOTE]Her teeth are black and rotten. Doubt me? Meet up and find out.
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7083280]Yeah, there's obviously a risk she'll bail with the cash, but not everyone's like that. If you've known her a few months and can actually trust her, that's different. But if you've only met her once or twice, there's a 99% chance she's gone with the money. Stick to pay-per-meet for the first few months, and only switch to monthly once she's proven she's legit. If she knows she's guaranteed a set amount every month, why wouldn't she stay? Plus, with a monthly setup, you can score a better deal: pay for four meets, get six. Just be smart and make sure you know who you're dealing with. There are different types of girls, toosome you can trust after a couple of months, and some I wouldn't trust even after a year. It's all individual.[/QUOTE]The individual in this case is you. You are thinking like a man; you are not thinking like a woman who is having sex for money. The group has already told you the correct answer. You don't like the answer. Maybe you think you know better and we are all too cynical. I would suggest we might be cynical for reasons. In any case, I suspect you are going to do it anyway. It's your money. Just don't come back later saying the chick ripped you off. If you pay in advance, the money is a gift. You should not complain when that is how she treats it.
BAM
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7083280]Plus, with a monthly setup, you can score a better deal: pay for four meets, get six.[/QUOTE]You clearly understand human nature way better than all of us. Sarcasm even further extended, and now directed at you.
[QUOTE=BamBam;6920546]This is good advice. There are multiple women in the bowl who are called "rinsers. " They specialize in getting paid just to out to dinner, etc. They even have videos and forums where they advise and encourage each other. Any time you hear "All my other...." That's a sign she has gone on multiple dates and never closed the deal with any of them. The profile in questions even includes "Don't worry about desert." That is a come-on. The reason you shouldn't worry about it is because there isn't going to be any.[/QUOTE]I realize this is controversial and I am in the minority, but I do pay at meet and greets if they ask for it, in addition to covering the cost for coffee (I prefer coffee over lunch). However I will only pay 40-60 bucks and I consider this payment "token" (only paid in-person with cash, of course). For some SB's, it shows you are a serious SD. I will only do this for 1 platonic date, and very rarely will I do this for 2 dates. In my experience if things don't get intimate after 1-2 platonic dates they very rarely will be. If they balk about 40-60 bucks, I just say that in the past I've been lied to / ripped off.
When I first started as a SD I got rinsed more than a few times. The young ladies watch TikTok influencers who are selling them BS about platonic SD's.
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7083280] If you've known her a few months and can actually trust her, that's different. [/QUOTE]I've tried this on half a dozen arrangements. One of them kept going for over a year. Every other one ended the next month.
They spend the money and then feel like you're meeting for free and it shows in various ways that ruin the arrangement. Or like others have said, they bail.
I always dangle the carrot out there, but I haven't moved an arrangement to monthly in 5 years. It was something that only happened early in this life when "trust" and having a guy provide was part of this at all. Now every lady has multiple guys and monthly WILL REDUCE YOU AS A PRIORITY.
[QUOTE=WiscoMN;7084242]I realize this is controversial and I am in the minority, but I do pay at meet and greets if they ask for it, in addition to covering the cost for coffee (I prefer coffee over lunch). However I will only pay 40-60 bucks and I consider this payment "token" (only paid in-person with cash, of course). For some SB's, it shows you are a serious SD. I will only do this for 1 platonic date, and very rarely will I do this for 2 dates. In my experience if things don't get intimate after 1-2 platonic dates they very rarely will be. If they balk about 40-60 bucks, I just say that in the past I've been lied to / ripped off.
When I first started as a SD I got rinsed more than a few times. The young ladies watch TikTok influencers who are selling them BS about platonic SD's.[/QUOTE]This is near identical to what I do. I'm not looking for "pros," I want someone to build something with. I don't mind a small token to show I'm serious.
I dipped back in for another month with a couple hits and many many scammers. Hopefully This will save you some time.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/87f2ddd5-d2f3-43c1-b9b4-b9ca40f86258[/URL]
Throws out a low number to meet up and then while you're on the way there starts with the CashApp BS.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/18111820-9285-430f-ad71-cf2f64d701e9[/URL]
Says she is local but location keeps changing. Another CashApp only person.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/db7f26e0-76b9-4c4b-b5f2-329bc7ae71a0[/URL]
Was cool to meet for activities, but then brought up CashApp so I blocked.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f4bfa112-def4-4b91-a0ae-aa37ac055c43[/URL]
This one is real and local, gave me her number and reads messages right away but never responds. Not really sure what her deal is.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/acd7f50e-c43b-4bc9-ab1d-6c2672401c6b[/URL]
Seems to be a pro and will harass you constantly.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cc802bc1-6551-4f1a-85c6-1c8aaaff915a[/URL]
Agreed to meet and a donation and gave me her location. When I arrived she upped the price by $$ and told me I had to CashApp her 25% down.
Did she want allowance prior to MnG?
Or, say you can Cashapp her after meetups?
[QUOTE=AlanDodson;7088583]
Was cool to meet for activities, but then brought up CashApp so I blocked.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f4bfa112-def4-4b91-a0ae-aa37ac055c43[/URL][/QUOTE]
Sorry for any confusion, it goes.
Link THEN.
Summary.
[QUOTE=AlanDodson;7088583]I dipped back in for another month with a couple hits and many many scammers. Hopefully This will save you some time.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/87f2ddd5-d2f3-43c1-b9b4-b9ca40f86258[/URL]
Throws out a low number to meet up and then while you're on the way there starts with the CashApp BS.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/18111820-9285-430f-ad71-cf2f64d701e9[/URL]
Says she is local but location keeps changing. Another CashApp only person.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/db7f26e0-76b9-4c4b-b5f2-329bc7ae71a0[/URL]
Was cool to meet for activities, but then brought up CashApp so I blocked.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f4bfa112-def4-4b91-a0ae-aa37ac055c43[/URL]
This one is real and local, gave me her number and reads messages right away but never responds. Not really sure what her deal is.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/acd7f50e-c43b-4bc9-ab1d-6c2672401c6b[/URL]
Seems to be a pro and will harass you constantly.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cc802bc1-6551-4f1a-85c6-1c8aaaff915a[/URL]
Agreed to meet and a donation and gave me her location. When I arrived she upped the price by $$ and told me I had to CashApp her 25% down.[/QUOTE]
Sorry the description for Clare was under the link not above it. I should have spaced it out a little better. She gave me her Snapchat, and posts locally identifying pics, but everytime I message her she immediately reads but doesn't respond. No idea why she is on the site if she won't engage in conversation at all.
[QUOTE=WanderingAbout;7088801]Did she want allowance prior to MnG?
Or, say you can Cashapp her after meetups?[/QUOTE]
Has anyone actually met her? She's online every day, but I'm not sure if she's real. Her profile makes it seem like she's not originally from around here. I tried messaging her, but she didn't respond.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f3a64124-0927-48b5-818b-6d54a6f1f5cb[/URL]