I'm no stud and I'm older but I have 3 regulars who treat me well when I call and am satisfied when I leave. So I'm not looking why should I. If you find someone who will accommodate you on a regular basis, why are you shopping? The ones you complain about will get no business and will rethink what they are doing. Have you ever taken flowers to your regular dates? Treat them well, let them know that you don't stray unless they decide to give it up. Some don't know how to be treated like a lady. I have one I have seen for years and the last time all she wanted to do was satisfy me oral I had no problem with that, because I knew the next time it was going to be everything. Some have a down day and I respect that, and so should you.