Rants Opinions and Totally Pointless Bullshit

[QUOTE=Mwdude;2838562]Gentlemen,

I have all the perspective I need, thankyouverymuch. I'm no noob. A white knight for good providers, perhaps. By the way. That doesn't get me freebies, but it often gets me to the front of the queue ahead of the mouth breathers and has gotten me a few discounts. I don't ask for them, but a provider is a woman and wants to be treated with respect.

Providers. Especially those that are new and or just got a great review. Get bombarded with messages in a short time. Does it really make sense that they'll answer every single one? And oh by the way, how you speak to people matters in every walk of life. So a fact of life is that they won't answer every message. And people respond to respect, so if you message like a jerk you might get ignored. I'm not preaching here, just telling you about human nature. Oh, and since they get so many messages they're not desperate for yours most of the time, hence your communication style is important to get through all the noise. It's sales gentlemen, only you have to sell yourself to the good ladies to stand out.

She took my money after almost 7 hours together. She texted me when she got back to her hotel. She texted me when she woke up. She texted me when got home to Indiana. And she texted me this morning. Not one mention of money, by the way.

But you guys go ahead and do it your way. I'm sure it's working for you just the way you like it.

P.S. I've already received one PM this morning from a very well regarded Nashville provider saying she wants to see me. I didn't contact her, she contacted me. How about them apples? Ha ha.[/QUOTE]Is the best recipe for getting the most out of a good provider. Maybe all providers. Respect. It goes a long way. Hell, it's the best way to be a human being. I've got no illusions about what the hobby is about, but it doesn't have to be all business. Anybody that's had a world rocking session with a provider then settle down to a home-cooked breakfast your ATF made for the three of you during, raise your hand. *raises hand.

[QUOTE=MrCrazy;2838768]Is the best recipe for getting the most out of a good provider. Maybe all providers. Respect. It goes a long way. Hell, it's the best way to be a human being. I've got no illusions about what the hobby is about, but it doesn't have to be all business. Anybody that's had a world rocking session with a provider then settle down to a home-cooked breakfast your ATF made for the three of you during, raise your hand. *raises hand.[/QUOTE]I have been watching Nashville boards since Ms Nat has been coming just as an interesting read. I was going to be done even watching since she has ended her trip but when I saw MC's report, I figured I would chime in again. MC is so correct. Providers are in this for a reason but at the root of it all, they are people and will gravitate towards those that they truly enjoy spending time with. If they only have one option, they generally will take it but given the choice, they will go with their preference. In the case of a visiting lady, many times she is forced to solely make that choice of the wording off of an initial text. I am not saying it is any active member of this board, but I did see a few texts that she received and they were appalling. This of course is not an issue limited to Nashville. I am sure she also gets it in South Bend.

Indy Guy.

P.S. - Never had a home cooked breakfast but have had a steak dinner. This being the start of a night that the provider asked me over for on a no donation basis. Sometimes it pays to treat a lady well even in this hobby world.

[QUOTE=XNatalieX;2838606]One thing about me that many don't know is when I have an outstanding client like yourself that treats me well do get freebies from me. I have a client here in my hometown that I will call whenever I want his amazing DATY skills and I never ask him for a donation. This hobby isn't about the donations for me. It's entirely about the pure enjoyment I have for it. Although I'm unable to make every gentlemen happy because of scheduling issues I will continue providing my excellent services to clients I'm able to connect with. This amazing man spent 7 hours with me for $$$ and I was perfectly fine with it because I enjoyed our time. How many providers do you guys know that'll be fine spending that long with you for a donation that amounts to 1. 5 hours. Being a gentlemen takes you far with me and I'm a provider unlike any other.[/QUOTE]Well whadda ya know, Gents. Sounds like being respectful and not being an ass actually pays off!

P.S. I've received another message from a different area provider. But please continue the misogynist track, because it makes me look FANTASTIC! Which I am, but I mean even more so. Ha ha.

[QUOTE=IndyGuy123;2838897]I have been watching Nashville boards since Ms Nat has been coming just as an interesting read. I was going to be done even watching since she has ended her trip but when I saw MC's report, I figured I would chime in again. MC is so correct. Providers are in this for a reason but at the root of it all, they are people and will gravitate towards those that they truly enjoy spending time with. If they only have one option, they generally will take it but given the choice, they will go with their preference. In the case of a visiting lady, many times she is forced to solely make that choice of the wording off of an initial text. I am not saying it is any active member of this board, but I did see a few texts that she received and they were appalling. This of course is not an issue limited to Nashville. I am sure she also gets it in South Bend.

Indy Guy.

P.S. - Never had a home cooked breakfast but have had a steak dinner. This being the start of a night that the provider asked me over for on a no donation basis. Sometimes it pays to treat a lady well even in this hobby world.[/QUOTE]I'm chiming in with you. If you treat the ladies like a lady you'll go far in the hobby. A well know lady in Cincinnati stayed with me in Nashville while she visited. She wanted a vacation so I invited her. Had a wonderful week and still visit her when I'm in cincy.

[QUOTE=Hl123;2838473]It always amazes me when some guy thinks he is so special to a provider, that he is somehow her favorite, and he feels a need to defend her. MWDUDE, you're just a Dick with a Dollar to Her. MrMrGigz was stating his opinion, which is why USASG is here. Calling him a Douche is way out of line.[/QUOTE]Umm really?

Ok. I have to chime in here especially since you wanted to use the phrase " another dick with a dollar " and referencing that's all a provider thinks about their clients? I don't know what type of providers you have seen I can only imagine. SOME providers do NOT have that way of thinking. Some of US are well educated, have a career and do this simply part time and Wait for it. We enjoy it. Something different. Something fun. AND some of us develop a friendship with our clients. We look forward to our times together and sometimes it's not even about money. We defend one another especially if someone is being disrespectful like yourself. The "reputable " providers think like this. You say calling someone a douche was out of line? Seriously? Umm I think what you said was really out of line. Your way of thinking you would never even get your foot in the door with me and I'm anything BUT low quality sweetie.

Go ahead read my reviews.

I will also say again. Just because a member does not get a response from the provider he PM'ed doesn't mean she's "low quality " . Doesn't mean " she's not reputable " . Simply means you didn't get a reply. Perhaps that provider didn't see your your message or text or simply perhaps it's the way you wrote in your message OR she could not accommodate at that time. Obviously the " top providers " are going to get swamped with messages left and right. You would not be the only one contacting her so instead of saying someone is " low quality " and not really knowing the facts is out of line.

Gentlemen,

I've been asked to dial it back so I will. Here are the points:

Treat people with respect. They deserve it until they give you a good reason not to.

A good reason is defined individually, but in my opinion in the hobby it is not because communication wasn't perfect. Mongers really should have some perspective. You're messaging one, two maybe 5 ladies because you're hard up, while they're getting at least 10 times that and often see major spikes in times of the day when it goes from zero to sixty in terms of messages coming in. Imagine you have five lines at work and all five light up. If you have caller I'd on each, you sure as hell answer your bosses call first.

Respectful communications sets the table with a provider. It does stand out because a LOT of what they get is from disrespectful guys. So you're going to stand out right away. Then keep it up and she's going to WANT to see you. And if she likes the way you communicate, you are more likely to get a more engaged session, and I don't know about you but that's a lot better than her answering texts while you're pounding away because she's just hoping you get done and leave soon.

There's a difference between good providers and bad ones. It's not determined by communications, although good ones generally are good communicators with those that have earned their respect. The bad ones. If you're trolling this area, you're going to have as many or more bad experiences than good. And the good won't be as good as the top providers. So choose whether you want good to begin with or if you're just looking for a bargain on paper. Oh, and then support the hell out of the good ones.

To clarify below. Most providers are not as giving as Natalie says. That is unique. So don't assume that treating people well will get you freebies and stuff. The benefit is in the connection, the session, and if you are a good time they'll put your name and number in their phone so that when they see your next call they answer it immediately.

Believe it or not, providers like good sex. They tolerate mediocre or bad sex because it is how they make some money, that part is true. But they'd much rather have you be friggin awesome because no one hates an orgasm or three. It starts with how you talk to them.

This whole thing is directed at the guys that haven't figured this stuff out. This discussion is happening on the Nashville board, but it could and should occur everywhere. There are plenty of jerks in Indianapolis. It's easy to see some of the guys that do get it, so guys like Jeepster, MrC, CanDo. They can confirm for you the things I'm saying. So I apologize if you believe I'm branding all of Nashville with a broad brush. I'm not, this merely came to a head here.

Lastly, this is just my personal opinion, reviews should be about performance. I don't expect everyone to have even-keeled perspective, but it's what is most fair to a working lady. A lot of ladies are actually very good providers but get branded because of these communication things. I had a couple communication snafu's with a couple of the top rated ladies in BNA, but I didn't let that stop me because I'd read all the good reviews telling me that it would be rewarding in the end. Sure, it'd be great if everything were perfect, but I've been hung up on by providers and multinational company support departments. How they handle their actual work is the most important part.

Again, thank you Nashville for an unforgettable visit. Beautiful city, tons of fun and tons of cranes so it's only going to get bigger and better.

[QUOTE=Hl123;2838473]It always amazes me when some guy thinks he is so special to a provider, that he is somehow her favorite, and he feels a need to defend her. MWDUDE, you're just a Dick with a Dollar to Her. MrMrGigz was stating his opinion, which is why USASG is here. Calling him a Douche is way out of line.[/QUOTE]I agree with that. I would be more impress if he did not spend a dime for anything at all. In the end you pay for pussy one way or another. I had my share of providers who call me wanting to just hang out but yu kno what? I still pay for something, food, take her shopping whatever cause I don't feel right not giving back in return. I once spent thousands on a provider I was friends with and a lot of times she didn't have to do anything. Yea she cooked for me and spent night with me many times. So all this stuff about respect and what it gets yu is nothing new to me. Maybe others can take a hint from that but nothing new to me. But if one were so special not cause of money then aprovider would only see them and no one else. It is special when one canconnect with a provider like that but just kno to keep some distance cause eventually she moves on and you only a memory.

By the way I never sent Natalie any disrespectful texts I been doing this to long to kno what works. And all I did was post facts nothing else. In the end she didn't respond to many cause poor planning not cause they sent disrespectful messages but I'm sure some did. Would of been better to had posted sayin she only going to see a few people cause that's what it sound like happened. I'm out!

[QUOTE=MrMrBigz;2840828]I agree with that. I would be more impress if he did not spend a dime for anything at all. In the end you pay for pussy one way or another. I had my share of providers who call me wanting to just hang out but yu kno what? I still pay for something, food, take her shopping whatever cause I don't feel right not giving back in return. I once spent thousands on a provider I was friends with and a lot of times she didn't have to do anything. Yea she cooked for me and spent night with me many times. So all this stuff about respect and what it gets yu is nothing new to me. Maybe others can take a hint from that but nothing new to me. But if one were so special not cause of money then aprovider would only see them and no one else. It is special when one canconnect with a provider like that but just kno to keep some distance cause eventually she moves on and you only a memory.

By the way I never sent Natalie any disrespectful texts I been doing this to long to kno what works. And all I did was post facts nothing else. In the end she didn't respond to many cause poor planning not cause they sent disrespectful messages but I'm sure some did. Would of been better to had posted sayin she only going to see a few people cause that's what it sound like happened. I'm out![/QUOTE]Dude, you posted a "review" that consisted of calling her a low quality provider that would no show you anyways, all because you didn't get a reply text. That's shitty, in my opinion. If you had actually been no showed after signification conversation and setting all the details, I could see it. But you publicly harmed her reputation based on not having your two texts replied to on your schedule. That's the height of narcissism. Look it up.

I'm all for posting reviews about performance, since that what your money is going towards. But you're not making friends or helping anyone by ripping busy providers for not being at your beck and call.

[QUOTE=Mwdude;2841105]Dude, you posted a "review" that consisted of calling her a low quality provider that would no show you anyways, all because you didn't get a reply text. That's shitty, in my opinion. If you had actually been no showed after signification conversation and setting all the details, I could see it. But you publicly harmed her reputation based on not having your two texts replied to on your schedule. That's the height of narcissism. Look it up.

I'm all for posting reviews about performance, since that what your money is going towards. But you're not making friends or helping anyone by ripping busy providers for not being at your beck and call.[/QUOTE]I have spoken with more than one provider who will no longer respond to potential clients that are members of this board. Mostly because it has become common practice to bash providers for any perceived slight. Add to that the fact that about 75% of the new posts really provide no useful information (they either agree / disagree with some one else's post, or are of the generic "Does anyone have any info about so and so?" variety, and no doubt about it, we are going downhill fast.

[QUOTE=Jeepster1;2828118]BP is the wrong place to look if you're a beginner. Plenty of review sites out there, including this one of course.

The SAFE way to begin is find a review you like, then determine if the menu and visuals match your preferences.

Nashville BP is NOT a place to try out your training wheels.

We've all fallen in lust with a pretty picture, but the fake / scam / robber content on BP has steadily increased. Throw in LEO and you have a risk / benefit ratio that's out of kilter.

This is not meant as a slam to legit, reviewed ladies who use BP as one of several ad venues. Many of those reference their review histories and don't play hide-and-seek with their phone numbers and other specifics.

-Jeepster1.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DawgPoundhound;2828211]Yep BP is no place to play.[/QUOTE]I would like to state unequivocally that I concur with DP's concurrance relating to Jeep's recent comments.

[QUOTE=Mwdude;2841105]Dude, you posted a "review" that consisted of calling her a low quality provider that would no show you anyways, all because you didn't get a reply text. That's shitty, in my opinion. If you had actually been no showed after signification conversation and setting all the details, I could see it. But you publicly harmed her reputation based on not having your two texts replied to on your schedule. That's the height of narcissism. Look it up.

I'm all for posting reviews about performance, since that what your money is going towards. But you're not making friends or helping anyone by ripping busy providers for not being at your beck and call.[/QUOTE]"So as mentioned here by Mr Crazy she can't keep schedule and want to argue about it? I contact her two diferent times tryin to setup date but no reply. That don't sound to me like a top notch provider. What? I have to wait and maybe get a reply and if I'm lucky enough to get a date most likely she may not show or have to reschedule. Sounds to me just like a lot of lower quality providers. A simple hello or not available would be nice. ".

I never call her "low quality" nor did say she would do no show. I posted in exact words part of the post above. If I known my words would be taken wrong by a white knight I would of spelled it out. Basically I said her actions or lack of was more like a low quality provider never said she was. My expectations were too high maybe and there was reason for that. Hope don't have to explain what I meant by no show part. Some sarcasm used there. Others including yu Dude said she still learning 'nuances of communication' and scheduling. Like I said before all I did was tell facts nothing more nothing less. And no it was not a review do I need to explain what a review is? Funny how dudes get bent out of shape but had it been a different provider or less known one no one would give a rats ass. If anything they would probably thank me for info. Im sure we can agree that things could had gone better and if we could have do over we would. Same for me. That's my final say on that.

Juat noticed this was your very first post.

[QUOTE=EddyJones985;2844021]I just had a wonderful visit with Skylar, guy's if you get a chance to see her you'd be crazy to pass her up she's absolutely gorgeous with a body that defies the imagination, this is the fourth time I've seen Skylar and it's always a great time she has this sweet but naughty look she gets when your having fun that sends chills through me she's 100% safe and has mad skills I can never get enough of watching her as she is on top the way she moves is nothing short of amazing and she has the hottest ass which she likes to have smacked I swear I'd go broke if she was here on a constant basis she is every bit the girl in the photos on her ad & this time she has a very cute friend with her if I had the money I would have seen them both I don't write reviews normally but Skylar's is worth taking the time to review if you get the chance to see her you'd be crazy to pass it up and if you get a chance to see her & her friend together I will envy you.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Apcchd;2844398]Just noticed this was your very first post.[/QUOTE]And it sounds like it was written by the female persuasion.

[QUOTE=Apcchd;2844398]Juat noticed this was your very first post.[/QUOTE]Either a self report by Skylar or maybe her handler? Who knows, but a glowing report like that from a first time poster may be true but deserves to be met with skepticism. OTOH, her ad does have screen shots of reviews on TER and a USASG forum from somewhere (maybe Savannah it looks like). Pics are cute but too tall for my taste, so I did not try to do a full search. Be careful out there.

[QUOTE=Apcchd;2844398]Juat noticed this was your very first post.[/QUOTE]He's been a busy guy. One review at eccie for Skylar and one review at ter. Also for Skylar. My research indicates she's real and your mileage may vary widely.