OC Sugarbabies

[QUOTE=BuddhaHead;5226568]If time is an issue, then getting into this hobby is not for you. Not only do you need to do your research, especially with sugar babies, but, like dating, there's some trial-and-error to find the right person. If you're not familiar with how SA "works" or how to navigate through the korean agencies, this will take some time to figure out. If money is no object and time is limited, finding a well-reviewed high end escort might be a better option.[/QUOTE]Time is the biggest issue for me right now, I just want some to hit up for my need, not really trying to spent to much time with them, I'm there for a relationship, but thank for the advice.

[QUOTE=PussyDestroyr;5234698]I agree. SA has treated me well. Just last week, I met a 23 year old at a park and BBFS after 15 minutes of chatting. BBBJ too. I also have another one that I see 1-2 times a week and BB the shit out of her. Good times.[/QUOTE]That's dope, that's what I'm looking for LOL.

[QUOTE=WoodYee;5226478]I've off and on been on Seeking and have had some great success on there. But definitely at some point you need to discuss, not on the site, money. Also be very careful of discussion of PPM (pay per meet) as this violates their TOS and they can ban you. Good luck!

-Woodyee.[/QUOTE]Everyone has different approaches to this. I am actually looking for an ongoing SB, at a price point I can tolerate while hiding the $ from a SO. In that situation, I'd recommend not discussing $ until a M&G. Everyone gets brave on their keyboard. It is much harder to face rejection in person. If you negotiate with a girl online, you're going to get a price as if you are an ugly ogre. The escort price. I personally define an escort as someone who will agree to have sex with you for $ without having met you in person. If you have any game, if you can build excitement and anticipation in a POT, you are very much more likely to get a reasonable sugar amount. I am sure there are guys giving 300-400, but there are some getting away with less. It all depends on the specifics.

[QUOTE=Grandea;5235181]That's dope, that's what I'm looking for LOL.[/QUOTE]Meeting the 23 at the park tonight, might creampie her this time. Just be polite and a gentlemen. They all want cock. No doubt.

[QUOTE=PussyDestroyr;5236208]Meeting the 23 at the park tonight, might creampie her this time. Just be polite and a gentlemen. They all want cock. No doubt.[/QUOTE]Bro mentor me LOL, Pm me.

[QUOTE=Grandea;5236385]Bro mentor me LOL, Pm me.[/QUOTE]Just be clear that you are looking for something organic and natural. You don't consider yourself a sugar daddy, but you are willing to hell out. They just don't want it to be transactional.

[QUOTE=WoodYee;5226478]I've off and on been on Seeking and have had some great success on there. You just need to sift through all the garbage that comes with the site too now which is a ton of flakes and women that just want to have online relationships but there's also a flood of people that are just needing arrangements and cash because of the economic climate right now. I've set up a few recently that are obviously "professional dancers" but are giving this a try to make ends meet for now. Just stick with it and you might have to cut and paste an opening E-mail to a bunch of them and start the conversation. Some women don't want to feel like they're trading money for sex or anything that would insinuate they're prostitutes so you just have to maybe play that up a little bit and then things fall into place. But definitely at some point you need to discuss, not on the site, money. Also be very careful of discussion of PPM (pay per meet) as this violates their TOS and they can ban you. Good luck!

-Woodyee.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the info on Seeking. I just joined and am trying to figure out the best strategy and how much I need to budget in "credits" to meet a decent sugarbaby. Also, I really don't want to constantly take these girls out or take them on trips! Is it possible to just hookup? Or maybe dinner and then hookup? Hate to sound lazy, but I'm not looking for a pretend girlfriend. Any advice would be appreciated!

[QUOTE=HeadHunter1969;5238242]Thanks for the info on Seeking. I just joined and am trying to figure out the best strategy and how much I need to budget in "credits" to meet a decent sugarbaby. Also, I really don't want to constantly take these girls out or take them on trips! Is it possible to just hookup? Or maybe dinner and then hookup? Hate to sound lazy, but I'm not looking for a pretend girlfriend. Any advice would be appreciated![/QUOTE]Not sure what you mean by credits, since seeking is a time based membership. 30/90/ yearly sub.

If you're just looking to fuck young (or old or whatever you prefer), then you can be up front about it.

When using their messaging system:

- Do not use terms that can get your profile locked out, like offering for PPM or agreeing for it.

- Obviously don't make an explicit offer for sex.

Most of the ladies will bring it up, since if they get booted, they just create a new profile.

Just be careful with your own response.

I just re-subbed recently and there's also a big influx (at least in my area) of girls looking for cash just for the M&G.

Don't do it.

I always tell them that there is no allowance without physical interaction.

Before COVID, the plan that I followed (and I also saw others here follow) was to set a M&G at a hotel restaurant or near a hotel.

If you like the girl and they agree, you can easily grab a room to consummate the arrangement.

Afterwards, your decision would be whether to repeat or to move on to the next one.

I remember one member who always offered 100, no matter what, and claimed he got hits.

In my area, it seems the standard request from the lady is 500.

Young or old, fat or model, it was usually 500.

A few asked for more, but I've learned to spot some of the GPS key phrases in the profile.

I avoid anyone looking for a luxury lifestyle or wants to be taken shopping.

Any of you stalwarts who can do 2. 5-3 K / mo for an exclusive, I have the girl for you. M&G yesterday. Absolutely gorgeous, tall, fashionably dressed, early 30's, hourglass figure, super nice, fairly smart, divorced, a kid or two. I made my play at 2 K, all I can afford, but she needed something more reliable. PM me for details.

Anyone seen her? [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e04a01d7-471c-4215-9eb1-f3542857afbb[/URL] older lady which is what I like.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;5240527]Any of you stalwarts who can do 2. 5-3 K / mo for an exclusive, I have the girl for you. M&G yesterday. Absolutely gorgeous, tall, fashionably dressed, early 30's, hourglass figure, super nice, fairly smart, divorced, a kid or two. I made my play at 2 K, all I can afford, but she needed something more reliable. PM me for details.[/QUOTE]My limit has been $2400 a month. Guess I'm out of the bidding. LOL.

Can I add digits to my profile pics. Say I upload three pics, and each one has some digits on it say on hat, or shirt etc. The digits would be P.S.'d on the pic. Would that work?

[QUOTE=JohnRichard;5258115]Can I add digits to my profile pics. Say I upload three pics, and each one has some digits on it say on hat, or shirt etc. The digits would be P.S.'d on the pic. Would that work?[/QUOTE]Tried it, when I didn't have a paid membership but there was just 1 special girl I really wanted to message. Keep in mind, the girl has to be smart enough to figure out what you're doing. Too many of them aren't. Anyway, the photos lasted on SA for less than 24 h before they were rejected, and I have never gotten any messages from this.

Do you guys tell the truth in profile and also in person? How do you guy usually handle this when asked by SB?

[QUOTE=LukeOC;5267146]Do you guys tell the truth in profile and also in person? How do you guy usually handle this when asked by SB?[/QUOTE]I understand like about 40% of guys on the site are married, have no idea how many put that on the profile. I do say Married but Looking. I have a great sugar story that goes with it though. That doesn't matter to some girls, they just don't want someone married, and I don't press it, just block those profiles. This also enables me to get them into the mode of needing to meet during the day. If they work a 9-5, they are a rule out for me. I have two bowl buddies who are married, they don't list it, but tell the girl at the M&G.