That sounds normal and wise to me!
[QUOTE=Waxxon;3614005]My approach is to respond to each POT in an individualized way that is tailored to my read on their profile and their "type" Suggestive, sexpot revealing pics, down to earth, educated, party girl. Etc. I used to have a generic response that covered a lot of bases, fun, convo, travel, allowance, mentor and on. Now I make sure to personalize the message- introduce myself, give my name, acknowledge her name or handle in some way, a compliment about her is helpful and direct the message based on info in her profile. Without revealing a secret family recipe, develop some game, make her curious enough to want to learn more. Obviously they want sugar, but I never ask about arrangements or money, I let them do that first. For this particular POT in question, I let her know each situation is unique and will develop based on how two people's chemistry interacts, that's what nice about this site etc. We're here to help each other in the ways we're best able to assist each other in a meaningful way and blah blah. Basically, you want sugar, I want the honey. If they come out with how much allowance or "gifts" as their primary focus, then I lose interest real quick because it seems like a bidding war. My #1 sb is looking to have all her senses stimulated, cerebral, emotional, economic, and their sexuality. Nothing is perfect, but a good balance of this at a comfortable $ is all I ask.[/QUOTE]I agree 100% that talking about money up-front is a red flag and a turn-off. My best relationships--short or long--were ones in which nothing was said, they trusted me, and they got $200 in an envelope and were happy with it. That's the way I want to do it, not up-front negotiating. Imagine what the sex would be like then--mechanical. No thanks.
You certainly get credit for taking the time to personalize your initial sales pitch to their individual qualities. I do that a little, but not as much as you. I also don't try to sell myself too much. That's just me. I DO, however, when the weather is conducive, try to use my sailboat as a big lure. I figure, if they'll go sailing, they'll fuck me at the end of the day. It's worked 100% with and = 2.
I sometimes ask for pictures after I've PM'd or texted for a while. Some will cooperate and some won't. Some will even get down to sexting with you on the first contact via cell phone and then you know you're going to get a hot one when you get together! That's all new to me. I like it! But it's a dumb idea for politicians! (Ya hear that Anthony?
Well someone's not going home for thanksgiving any more
So I just got a message just now that this girl will be willing to meet next week.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c13ad8dd-685d-459a-bb9f-cc2d7ef213a3[/URL]
Let's see if it's going to happen.
What are all the acronyms
What is PPV and PPM?
It's hard to tell from your post below what you paid for, what you got, etc. Etc. , but it sounds like you had fun.
[QUOTE=JakeDSnake;3620191]So I was 75% this weekend with 1 of 4 cancelled at the last minute with only 1 of 3 taking my $$ in an envelope as we went all the way at her place. Made out with one and we pleased one another in her tinted Jetta, nice youthful 18 year old breasts and puss shaved clean. The other was just coffee, french kisses and a hugs at seaport village but I'd always take that for $2 latte.
I will be in north Seattle for two weeks and I already did my search 3 weeks ago. So I contacted 30 or so females from Seattle all the way to Vancouver BC, ages 18- 24 and 19 females agreed to meet up for coffee or lunch while 11 quite possibly blocked me because because I said no to ppm or ppv and I will only discuss details of my expectations (let's talk about sex, baby) during the meet. This weekend 8 of 19 cancelled because they're going home for thanksgiving. So I still have 11 possible meet ups with these 5 expressing intimacy after the meet up for coffee for a $$.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7382e85e-9857-4ed6-8b97-c4e29a98b8db[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/3855a604-2575-4e64-8a19-10b39d569a93[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/2a242bf9-9c20-4431-b47a-177d9176bb8f[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/517f1ad1-9e33-4f49-af74-a50b6b264e54[/URL]
(Looks like a pro).
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c289f4cc-4c89-4ef5-a874-0559c56f1932[/URL]
I am meeting these two again this Saturday for another round of drinks at the hotel bar then on to my room:
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7e40134d-f421-45e2-b076-7d68a2b06f8d[/URL]
The others I am not expecting much when we meet for coffee but I'd take a hug and a kiss if they do say no to intimate arrangement.[/QUOTE]