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[QUOTE=Dodgeboy27; 1120979]That's kinda exactly what is meant by "racism". I firmly believe we're all racists to one degree or another. I'm not attracted to black ladies, big ladies, big black ladies, or (and I don't really understand this one) girls who aren't black but try talking "black" (whether they are big or not).

I'd buy an apple from them and let them have my seat on the bus and give them a ride if it was raining, but my dick isn't going to get hard for them so it's really not worth my time or money to see them in this hobby.

Jimmyjams has a point and a principle here in not seeing women who openly state they wouldn't see a man of any race. I wasn't offended and he doesn't owe anyone an apology.

Stay safe. [/QUOTE]I wasn't asking for an Apology, and personal preference in my opinion does not make on racist. The belief that it does is why we have so many race issues now. In the military we are all American it doesn't matter race religion sex or what we look like, you learn to count on those people as your Brothers and Sisters, they are family. To think of them any other way is what gets you or them killed. I have hate in many forms from different people racism is a form of hate, an attraction to one person or another is not. And for record I said everyone has the right to their preference, maybe when you walk the field side by side you learn another way of looking at the people you meet. Or maybe I am just getting old and my mind thinks in it's own way.

I took a long shot and sent Destiny an email wasn't sure here or Dee still checked it. I hadn't had contact with Destiny in almost a year she got out of the business the last she told me. Well for anyone that had seen her in the past and still have email then hit her up. (not sure she has the same number). I will be happy to pass info on when I find out it ok with her. PS. Our shedules haven't clicked this week so I havn't seen her since her return but the pic's still look good and the service was always pretty damn good.

Guys, there are SO MANY points of light here that no one can see the forrest for the trees. Let me start off by saying (if I may even as a "new / regular" member) this. EVERYONE here has a point on some level. As a man that is mentioned (without being mentioned) on many levels in most everyone's post let me say this. I'm a former service member (E-6, DS). There IS RACISM in the US military, believe that. I have encountered women both in the hobby and out that were not "into" black guys. I myself am an African American. Often it is just a fear of the unknown. As in they have never experienced a man of color on ANY level. They often only know what they have heard. Then it depends on where they heard it. The same holds true of people of other races. Sometimes it is based on a bad experience with someone of a particular race. Its only natural to forgive your brother before you forgive your neighbor (it'll make sense when you re-read it). Sometimes there just simply isn't an attraction to a certain race. Remember a large part of this hobby is fantasy based, and it's not always OUR fantasy.

Lets just have fun and stay safe.

BCB

[QUOTE=Dennis Morgan;1120880]Don't want to even get in on this, but couold someone give me a link to this lady's webite so I can see what all the fuss is about? Damned if I can find it.[/QUOTE]Cathy's site is [url]http://sexycathy-carly.com[/url]

I've seen her many times & think she's one of the best. Her photos don't look very 'touched up' to me. She's also one of the friendliest, no BS ladies I've ever met.

[QUOTE=Bananaman1969; 1121393]Cathy's site is.

[url]http://sexycathy-carly.com[/url]

I've seen her many times & think she's one of the best. Her photos don't look very 'touched up' to me. She's also one of the friendliest, no BS ladies I've ever met.[/QUOTE]Well she jumped on here cursing at people and calling names. Didn't seem that friendly to me. No one even said anything that bad about her. If someone was mistaken about a photo touch up, that is no justification to call him a dumb-ss. Calling me an a-hole and I never said anything about her other than she seemed to be popular and I was wrong to doubt review of a newbie. Could it be that is the real her and the "friendliest" is just if you are kicking $$$.

I mean nothing wrong with that it is a game but after she showed her.ss on here I wouldn't dabble or recommend anyone to either. Two cents.

Since I was the one who originally posted about Alyse and that started this hole race issue battle on here, I though I should give my two cents.

I think it is safe to say that opinions are like asshole's. Every body's got one!

I know for a fact that she is not a racist. It is just a preference. If you google hard enough you will find a video of her doing DP with two black men. She also seems to be enjoying herself very much. Making that video was a choice, just like the preference about her clients. Some of you don't like to fuck fat chicks. But I'll bet you have fat friends. You just wouldn't pay to fuck them! Either way it's your choice and it doesn't mean your a fatty hatter!

Throwing the race card around is easy, but at the end of the day it's still just your opinion. You shouldn't call a top notch provider a racist without doing your homework to back it up.

As far as her rates. They use to just say $$.5 on her site and the 1/2 for $.5 is what she quoted me in our first email. Maybe she raised them. That's her choice also and trust me, unless you have something against hot white girls, she is worth it!

On a separate note:

Cathy, if your on here and you read this. I would love to meet you. PM me if you like.

Cheers everyone!

[QUOTE=Bigcity Boy; 1121216]Guys, there are SO MANY points of light here that no one can see the forrest for the trees. Let me start off by saying (if I may even as a "new / regular" member) this. EVERYONE here has a point on some level. As a man that is mentioned (without being mentioned) on many levels in most everyone's post let me say this. I'm a former service member (E-6, DS). There IS RACISM in the US military, believe that. I have encountered women both in the hobby and out that were not "into" black guys. I myself am an African American. Often it is just a fear of the unknown. As in they have never experienced a man of color on ANY level. They often only know what they have heard. Then it depends on where they heard it. The same holds true of people of other races. Sometimes it is based on a bad experience with someone of a particular race. Its only natural to forgive your brother before you forgive your neighbor (it'll make sense when you re-read it). Sometimes there just simply isn't an attraction to a certain race. Remember a large part of this hobby is fantasy based, and it's not always OUR fantasy.

Lets just have fun and stay safe.

BCB[/QUOTE]

I would not normally say anything but, I feel this issue has been talked about enough and will not be solved here. We all have choices and if you do not like a provider for any reason do not see her, I have seen this same debate on this board and others and it is never settled.

The fact is there are ladies that will not see blacks some that will not see whites, some that will not see big guys, etc. It's a fact and you're not going to change the way they feel by bitching and moaning about it, you may change it by being respectful and polite.

The one strange thing that I will point out is: I have never heard or seen a white guy complaining about a black woman that will not see whites, and yes they are out there at every level of the game, on the street, on BP, etc. So let's let this go and get back to pussy.

[QUOTE=VAJimbo; 1121610]I would not normally say anything but, I feel this issue has been talked about enough and will not be solved here. We all have choices and if you do not like a provider for any reason do not see her, I have seen this same debate on this board and others and it is never settled.

The fact is there are ladies that will not see blacks some that will not see whites, some that will not see big guys, etc. It's a fact and you're not going to change the way they feel by bitching and moaning about it, you may change it by being respectful and polite.

The one strange thing that I will point out is: I have never heard or seen a white guy complaining about a black woman that will not see whites, and yes they are out there at every level of the game, on the street, on BP, etc. So let's let this go and get back to pussy.[/QUOTE]You are the second if not third person that has said there are providers out there that expressly advertise they will not see Whites. Again I have never seen that. Show me. Also again I would feel the same way about her and it would be a turn off. I would likely post the same informative post and likely refer to her as racist. You see preference and bias is fine we all have them. But when you refuse money and deny service solely based on someones race, by definition that is racism. It is what it is. She doesn't have to be a racist but that behavior is. I don't dislike her or knock her hustle, I just would not be interested in supporting her. That's my choice. Just rubs me wrong, all money is green and if someone is a good person and wants some good service what difference should their race make? I'm a business man and I don't deny service to anyone that has the money. Now if someone is a PITA then I might say I don't want your business or money but has nothing to do with race.

And why is it when someone wants to defend doing or saying something racist they alway defend by saying or imply they have friends in the group they are offending."She's in DP video with blacks and enjoying it" So what? I'm sure she was paid well? I'm still not interested. And again I am 99. 9% sure I would have no problem seeing her if I showed her the $$$. Something about seeing WHITES ONLY in print from someone trying to get money for f-cking just seemed wrong to me. Just me, my opinion, not knocking her, wish her the best, whatever. As far as letting it go. I had let it go long time ago. I was not and am not trying to win an argument. It just seems the apologist have come out of the woodwork trying to defend race discrimination. Wonder why? Would it be okay if a spa in a high end hotel that had hot women giving massages had a sign that said WHITES ONLY? Not only would not be okay but would be illegal in this country.

[QUOTE=Cathy27;1120513]I've never "touched up" my face dumbass. What do you look like? Can I see a pic of you? LOL this should be good.[/QUOTE]So what rat went and told cathy about comments here? Onec again rats think they will get free pussy by snitching.

[QUOTE=Dodgeboy27; 1120979]That's kinda exactly what is meant by "racism". I firmly believe we're all racists to one degree or another. I'm not attracted to black ladies, big ladies, big black ladies, or (and I don't really understand this one) girls who aren't black but try talking "black" (whether they are big or not).

I'd buy an apple from them and let them have my seat on the bus and give them a ride if it was raining, but my dick isn't going to get hard for them so it's really not worth my time or money to see them in this hobby.

Jimmyjams has a point and a principle here in not seeing women who openly state they wouldn't see a man of any race. I wasn't offended and he doesn't owe anyone an apology.

Stay safe. [/QUOTE]Actually. Sexual preference is NOT racism. Racism is ascribing specific traits or behaviors to a a person based soley on their race. Assuming a black man has a big dick. Thats racism. Assuming a white guy has money, thats racism. Etc etc. A simple statement that a provider does not see white guys or will not see black guys is not on its face, racism. It may be bigotry. But thats a different animal from racism. The term gets thrown around way too much these days.

Thanks to every one for the fun topic of conversation, but I'm sure there is another forum for this conversation, if you wish to continue it.

We already have to scroll back many pages to find info on escorts instead of racism.

Here. I'll start.

Anyone have reports on Taylor (Taylorsweets)?

Cheers

Nice little body from the pic's, and sounds nice on the phone, but when she stated she had to see an I'd and something work related I had to say no. If anyone decide to TOFTT I would love to hear about it. She is on BP with a couple different post.

[url]http://richmond.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/early-bird-specials-till-11am-22/4460453[/url]

I am not one for showing I'd to these girls no matter how good the may seem, sounds like a possible LE to me, easier to get the info when you hand it to them.

Have Fun guy's.

[QUOTE=Illegal Smile;1121956]Actually. Sexual preference is NOT racism. Racism is ascribing specific traits or behaviors to a a person based soley on their race. Assuming a black man has a big dick. Thats racism. Assuming a white guy has money, thats racism. Etc etc. A simple statement that a provider does not see white guys or will not see black guys is not on its face, racism. It may be bigotry. But thats a different animal from racism. The term gets thrown around way too much these days.[/QUOTE]Your examples are NOT racism. Your examples are stereotypes. Stereotypes are not in of themselves racist I agree.

Not preferring to to see a someone because of race is not really racist either, just a choice. Even though I have said it multiple times many still are missing the big difference here. This is business related. In this country when you deny someone access to a business solely because of their race, it is illegal. Why? Because it is racist! Again because of the nature of her business she has that right and can do that. But if her business were 100% legit she would have a much harder time putting up a sign that read WHITES ONLY. Actually I'll make it even more simple. Since it seems that many just have a problem with the word "racist / racism" lets put it in a term that is undeniable and can not be argued. Discrimination, in this instance the discrimination is solely based on race. Who can argue that a "WHITES ONLY" sign is not racial discrimination? So I retract the term racist. I replace it with her business practices are that of racial discrimination. My opinion of her is the same, rubs me wrong / turn off, would not support her, would not recommend her because of my feeling. Don't care how hot she is, I know how to get a great time for $$$ noting that special about her to me. So please don't go back to the preference thing either, preference is fine but when you are offering a service to the public for $$$ denying a group based upon race is not preference its discrimination by definition. There are many that would argue that racial discrimination is racist. Doesn't really matter to me that much and last I'm going to say about it unless someone says something truly ignorant that I am compelled to correct.

[QUOTE=Lone Wolf; 1122047]Nice little body from the pic's, and sounds nice on the phone, but when she stated she had to see an I'd and something work related I had to say no. If anyone decide to TOFTT I would love to hear about it. She is on BP with a couple different post.

[url]http://richmond.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/early-bird-specials-till-11am-22/4460453[/url]

I am not one for showing I'd to these girls no matter how good the may seem, sounds like a possible LE to me, easier to get the info when you hand it to them.

Have Fun guy's.[/QUOTE]I understand that these women need to protect themselves and that they need to be careful about uncle like we do but I agree, I'm not handing one my drivers license or business card. LOL Shit you could make up some fake ass business card that looked real legit and hand them that, most would probably go for it.

What happened to walk in the room neither party say a f-cking word, gift laid on table, consenting adults just go at it, leave room? Sometimes guys make it real hard too because they want to talk too much and have all sorts of details worked out to said specifics before they get started etc.

On a separate note:

Cathy, if your on here and you read this. I would love to meet you. PM me if you like.

Cheers everyone! [/QUOTE]Here ya go:

[url]http://sexycathy-carly.com[/url]

Have fun. She is freakin' awesome!

& I agree with you about Alyse