General Reports

[QUOTE=AtlantaMonger; 1875551]Anybody used the site?

What is the experience?[/QUOTE]Absolute waste of time and money. The thing's a scam: you pay to cancel your membership! Much better results from BP actually.

[QUOTE=TravelinSD; 1875968]I've bought credits twice on there. I'm 57, in good shape, not super handsome, but not ugly either, well-educated and can write fairly well. I've sent out 132 messages to women who were in their 20s to 40s. In all of that I have received two responses. One from a fairly hot 30 year old who I've had an on-going email relationship. I don't think she ever wants to really meet, she just wants to feel naughty by communicating with me. The other was a 30 year old, recently divorced, fugly. She seemed hot to trot, but I just couldn't bring myself to go through with it I found her so unattractive.

My opinion is that unless you are under 45, good looking, in great shape, and have lots of game, you're wasting your money. The ladies are pretty much in control there. The attractive ones get literally hundreds of responses and pretty much have their pick. And they are VERY picky. The majority of them are married which means to take the risk of having an affair they want it to be with their "perfect" man. The single ones are mostly looking for a sugar daddy or are UTR escorts. Even the 40s ones are cougars mostly looking for younger boy-toys. And I'll bet they're finding them.

That's my humble opinion. Maybe others have had a different experience, but I'm on an SD board on here and have heard a similar story.

Travelin.[/QUOTE]You have to be real in this situation. Why should they want to be with you? If you just want to have sex, it is easy. Find a hooker, escort or a dancer and pay. If you want to find a relationship, try going to church. You may have the best luck there. It is hard to beat back time. Sorry to tell you this.

It's been some time, so she may be out the game. But do anyone remember Kim Kash that used to work out in Decatur? If she is still around under a different name? Or still dancing somewhere?

No apology necessary, I'm aware of the realities. They just don't realize the great sex they're missing! LOL, just kidding. Yeah, its a younger guy's game, but I figured I'd give it a try. I know all about the other routes. Nice that there's still 20 & 30 something sugar babies that don't mind an older, more experienced guy, hehe.

As far as a scam, well, they're upfront about their policies, but I definitely don't care for the "credits" model they and their sister sites use (What's Your Price and some arrangement for travel site). One thing I think they do is get women to try and lure you into chat where you really burn credits. I did get a couple of hotties that asked me to join them in the site's chat room. I would never go to their chat section with anybody. I always gave my email and yahoo messenger info if anyone wanted to chat. I never heard back from them at that point which is why I think it was more of set up.

Travelin.

[QUOTE=Acaryu;1875986]You have to be real in this situation. Why should they want to be with you? If you just want to have sex, it is easy. Find a hooker, escort or a dancer and pay. If you want to find a relationship, try going to church. You may have the best luck there. It is hard to beat back time. Sorry to tell you this.[/QUOTE]

I called a provider and she request I send her a copy of my Driver's License. I have been down here for a little bit of time. I have never done this I don't want to show up on Uncle LEO'S radar. I have been mongering for a few, allbeit not here. Is this common for here please help, looking for a solid.

I was wondering in the hobby, how to be successful in it? Do you have pointers?

[QUOTE=FerDeLance;1875971]Absolute waste of time and money. The thing's a scam: you pay to cancel your membership! Much better results from BP actually.[/QUOTE]Ditto! Same experience here. I bought credits twice. In about two years I had maybe two emails from fugly women desperate to hook up. EVERY single e-mail I sent was unanswered. Waste of time. They have an auto renew feature if you don't disable it, you'll wind up purchasing more credits. That's what happened to me.

[QUOTE=BoWater;1876111]I called a provider and she request I send her a copy of my Driver's License. I have been down here for a little bit of time. I have never done this I don't want to show up on Uncle LEO'S radar. I have been mongering for a few, allbeit not here. Is this common for here please help, looking for a solid.[/QUOTE]I would not do it. Identity theft is rampant.

[QUOTE=BoWater;1876111]I called a provider and she request I send her a copy of my Driver's License. I have been down here for a little bit of time. I have never done this I don't want to show up on Uncle LEO'S radar. I have been mongering for a few, allbeit not here. Is this common for here please help, looking for a solid.[/QUOTE]Suspect it was Erica and if it was don't worry about it, unless maybe if you are Elliot Spitzer. She's sleezey as all get out, as are many of her girls, but completely legit. Been around forever. Her usual low $ options haven't been on offer lately though. If not Erica, don't do it under any circumstances.

I agree with everyone else. We all know who she is, and her low end girls would never be worth any trouble that may come of it. Granted, there is not much anyone could do, but who would want that call or visit wanting to know why a known prostitution ring has a copy of your drivers license hidden somewhere on her computer. Yeah I believe she deletes all of them. I saw her many years ago as a provider, not sure she does that anymore, but I had to see for myself if that ass was really as big as it was looked. Yes it was, and yes I was scarred for life. I filled out an online information form for the old Sugarloaf Madam not long before she became headline news. It had me sweating and swore I would never do that again.

[QUOTE=BoWater;1876111]I called a provider and she request I send her a copy of my Driver's License. I have been down here for a little bit of time. I have never done this I don't want to show up on Uncle LEO'S radar. I have been mongering for a few, allbeit not here. Is this common for here please help, looking for a solid.[/QUOTE]

My regular ATF and I split up after a year. With I think misplaced hope I started messing around with Tagged. I got to chatting with a country girl type for maybe a week and took her to lunch today. Definitely not hot, but friendly so what the hell. I didn't have any plan to follow through -- just keep chatting.

I was pretty honest about what I do (p2p) and when she asked what I was going to do next I said I was probably going to see if an old BJ provider I had a year ago was still around, just to get me through for a while

Had an hour or so to kill before she had to pick up up kid from school so we ended up going to my place just to hang out a bit. On the way she offered a BJ if I'd cover her cell phone bill that was due. Hey, sure OK.

Well, I just barely got started cumming when she completely quit. I was already complaining when she ran into the bathroom to spit, or so I thought. Instead she puked her guts out. There went the expensive lunch.

Said later I shot to hard and it was too "hot", LOL.

I told her that, no, I wasn't pissed; "Such things happen, Baby."

But it freaked me out too much (not to mention barely getting off) to do it again. I'd be thinking too much about her barfing again to enjoy it.

[QUOTE=Vette78Man;1876334]I agree with everyone else. We all know who she is, and her low end girls would never be worth any trouble that may come of it. Granted, there is not much anyone could do, but who would want that call or visit wanting to know why a known prostitution ring has a copy of your drivers license hidden somewhere on her computer. Yeah I believe she deletes all of them. I saw her many years ago as a provider, not sure she does that anymore, but I had to see for myself if that ass was really as big as it was looked. Yes it was, and yes I was scarred for life. I filled out an online information form for the old Sugarloaf Madam not long before she became headline news. It had me sweating and swore I would never do that again.[/QUOTE]I'm not convinced that Erica would delete all of her customers' info, although that would seem to make sense should LE show up; however, given the laziness of some providers, at least her phone records would reveal something. Most importantly, if she were ever forced to choose between her freedom or give up her clients, guess who would lose?

[QUOTE=BoWater;1876111]I called a provider and she request I send her a copy of my Driver's License. I have been down here for a little bit of time. I have never done this I don't want to show up on Uncle LEO'S radar. I have been mongering for a few, allbeit not here. Is this common for here please help, looking for a solid.[/QUOTE]Always a Bad Idea. The police have Forensic teams that recover deleted hard drives all the time. I doubt se uses any professional method of deleting or destroying her old hard drives and files. Plus Emails are stored by Yahoo, Gmail, Hotmail ect. So unless you have your own server and provide your own email proxy etc. They can track you that way too. Better to stay away from organized groups, Madams, credit card verifying, etc. Groups. All of them put a bullseye on you. The bigger the group the more notice news groups and the law will take.

Never leave anything to identify you, in this world of instant info, sex crimes could easily change your life, your family or spouses lives, and even your freedom.

[QUOTE=BuckNaked53; 1877674]Always a Bad Idea. The police have Forensic teams that recover deleted hard drives all the time. I doubt se uses any professional method of deleting or destroying her old hard drives and files. Plus Emails are stored by Yahoo, Gmail, Hotmail ect. So unless you have your own server and provide your own email proxy etc. They can track you that way too. Better to stay away from organized groups, Madams, credit card verifying, etc. Groups. All of them put a bullseye on you. The bigger the group the more notice news groups and the law will take.

Never leave anything to identify you, in this world of instant info, sex crimes could easily change your life, your family or spouses lives, and even your freedom.[/QUOTE]Does this mean that tossing old hard drives into my fireplace is inadequate? We used to beat old top secret hard drives with a heavy hammer in the military to ward off forensic evil-doers. What do you suggest the average homeowner do?

[QUOTE=Niteluvr;1877683]Does this mean that tossing old hard drives into my fireplace is inadequate? We used to beat old top secret hard drives with a heavy hammer in the military to ward off forensic evil-doers. What do you suggest the average homeowner do?[/QUOTE]A magnet from an old speaker is more than adequate.