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[QUOTE=PauFord;4259905]Talked to her a month or so ago. Wants $100 each just to meet for coffee. Wouldn't talk about anything further, she would do that at your coffee M&G that you were paying them to be at. Told her that wasn't going to happen and she went crickets. Seemed pretty clear to me it was a quick buck M&G scam with little / no potential of it going beyond that.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the intel, she messaged me out of the blue and I responded to her. Will see how it transpires.
[QUOTE=CMentado1;4260942]Looks like I got banned from seeking. Oh well I had a great run. Has anyone use or is using establish men?[/QUOTE]I've never even heard of that site. You an get back on SA, just wait a month or so, then make a new account using a different e-mail address and then use a green dot prepaid card or similar to buy your membership.
Any reports on these girls?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9c316e3f-9d04-4880-a22f-7796ea2e2d05[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2f8d8549-7555-4156-ada1-09d5ca3ed5bc[/URL]
10 g's in a few months time for mostly platonic? Yikes. Completely understand where you are coming from given your situation. But hate to see a good man get taken advantage of and these chicks will bleed a guy dry if you let them. Sounds like you have learned your lesson. I guess if I was in your shoes I'd be much more patient in the spoiling. Make sure the girl is truly worth it and will respect what you are doing for her before you back up the proverbial Brink's truck!
[QUOTE=GoodVibesAll;4261077]I've been a hardcore monger for 30 years, and I hate to admit it, but I was one of those idiots. About three months or so ago, I met someone (I reviewed her on here), and after our initial meeting when we hooked up we became pretty close friends. She sent a text one day in March asking for me to float her money for the security deposit on her new apartment. I had enough to cover that and then some, then helped cover her first months rent, a moving van, etc etc. I spent A LOT of dough on her, most of it platonic. I never expected to see one cent back. I stopped counting at 7 k but it's under 10. Our relationship finally ended a few days ago after I again covered her rent and then she canceled two of our "dates" in one week, both at the last minute.
With me though, it was actually worth it. Three years ago I lost the love of my life after a very long illness. I'm also in year 8 of my sobriety, and I work nights and some weekends. It's hard for me to find companionship, someone to talk to, to spoil. My former friend and sugar baby really helped me get over the roughest and toughest time I have ever gone through, she gave me something to positively focus my energy on. I'm fifteen pounds lighter and soon to be thirty or more lighter because of her coaching. I'm not quite in the best shape of my adult life, but I will be. Because of her I got in touch with many of my oldest and best friends, guys I hadn't spoken to in 25 years. Also, I'm not rich, but besides the mortgage I don't have very many bills.
The drama just became too much for me to handle. After getting blown off for the upteenth time, I pulled the plug. Funny though, there were always valid reasons, every time. I couldn't argue about that. Once, her roommate got arrested abroad. Then her ex tried to kill himself. Problems with the landlord. Etc Etc Etc. I finally realized that although they were all very valid reasons, and all true, I was there, it kept happening to her, and me. It's not that she has bad luck, it's that she uses bad judgment. To continue any further is just stupid without her making wholesale changes in her life. I finally washed my hands of her Thursday afternoon.
I could be bitter but I'm not. In fact, I'm a bit sad. She and I were able to confide in each other on a level that I have yet to reach with anyone else, ever. The worst part about it is that I lost touch with some awesome girls I met on SA because of our relationship. Oh well.
So, sorry to f up SA for all of you, but I guarantee I won't be doing anything remotely like that in the future.
Happy mongering, guys.
GVA.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=GoodVibesAll;4261077]I've been a hardcore monger for 30 years, and I hate to admit it, but I was one of those idiots. About three months or so ago, I met someone (I reviewed her on here), and after our initial meeting when we hooked up we became pretty close friends. She sent a text one day in March asking for me to float her money for the security deposit on her new apartment. I had enough to cover that and then some, then helped cover her first months rent, a moving van, etc etc. I spent A LOT of dough on her, most of it platonic. I never expected to see one cent back. I stopped counting at 7 k but it's under 10. Our relationship finally ended a few days ago after I again covered her rent and then she canceled two of our "dates" in one week, both at the last minute.
With me though, it was actually worth it. Three years ago I lost the love of my life after a very long illness. I'm also in year 8 of my sobriety, and I work nights and some weekends. It's hard for me to find companionship, someone to talk to, to spoil. My former friend and sugar baby really helped me get over the roughest and toughest time I have ever gone through, she gave me something to positively focus my energy on. I'm fifteen pounds lighter and soon to be thirty or more lighter because of her coaching. I'm not quite in the best shape of my adult life, but I will be. Because of her I got in touch with many of my oldest and best friends, guys I hadn't spoken to in 25 years. Also, I'm not rich, but besides the mortgage I don't have very many bills.
The drama just became too much for me to handle. After getting blown off for the upteenth time, I pulled the plug. Funny though, there were always valid reasons, every time. I couldn't argue about that. Once, her roommate got arrested abroad. Then her ex tried to kill himself. Problems with the landlord. Etc Etc Etc. I finally realized that although they were all very valid reasons, and all true, I was there, it kept happening to her, and me. It's not that she has bad luck, it's that she uses bad judgment. To continue any further is just stupid without her making wholesale changes in her life. I finally washed my hands of her Thursday afternoon.
I could be bitter but I'm not. In fact, I'm a bit sad. She and I were able to confide in each other on a level that I have yet to reach with anyone else, ever. The worst part about it is that I lost touch with some awesome girls I met on SA because of our relationship. Oh well.
So, sorry to f up SA for all of you, but I guarantee I won't be doing anything remotely like that in the future.
Happy mongering, guys.
GVA.[/QUOTE]Dude she manipulated you and played you like a fiddle for 10 k and you're sad about it?
Ffs.
[QUOTE=TeddyO;4260423][URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/95ce5c96-c692-43ff-82dc-24e9afefd530[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/83acb5c9-a4c4-49c9-821a-ef5ba690f4e0[/URL]
Someone had posted the second one but no real description.[/QUOTE]Post the actual profile link.
[QUOTE=GoodVibesAll;4261077]I've been a hardcore monger for 30 years, and I hate to admit it, but I was one of those idiots. About three months or so ago, I met someone (I reviewed her on here), and after our initial meeting when we hooked up we became pretty close friends. She sent a text one day in March asking for me to float her money for the security deposit on her new apartment. I had enough to cover that and then some, then helped cover her first months rent, a moving van, etc etc. I spent A LOT of dough on her, most of it platonic. I never expected to see one cent back. I stopped counting at 7 k but it's under 10. Our relationship finally ended a few days ago after I again covered her rent and then she canceled two of our "dates" in one week, both at the last minute.
With me though, it was actually worth it. Three years ago I lost the love of my life after a very long illness. I'm also in year 8 of my sobriety, and I work nights and some weekends. It's hard for me to find companionship, someone to talk to, to spoil. My former friend and sugar baby really helped me get over the roughest and toughest time I have ever gone through, she gave me something to positively focus my energy on. I'm fifteen pounds lighter and soon to be thirty or more lighter because of her coaching. I'm not quite in the best shape of my adult life, but I will be. Because of her I got in touch with many of my oldest and best friends, guys I hadn't spoken to in 25 years. Also, I'm not rich, but besides the mortgage I don't have very many bills.
The drama just became too much for me to handle. After getting blown off for the upteenth time, I pulled the plug. Funny though, there were always valid reasons, every time. I couldn't argue about that. Once, her roommate got arrested abroad. Then her ex tried to kill himself. Problems with the landlord. Etc Etc Etc. I finally realized that although they were all very valid reasons, and all true, I was there, it kept happening to her, and me. It's not that she has bad luck, it's that she uses bad judgment. To continue any further is just stupid without her making wholesale changes in her life. I finally washed my hands of her Thursday afternoon.
I could be bitter but I'm not. In fact, I'm a bit sad. She and I were able to confide in each other on a level that I have yet to reach with anyone else, ever. The worst part about it is that I lost touch with some awesome girls I met on SA because of our relationship. Oh well.
So, sorry to f up SA for all of you, but I guarantee I won't be doing anything remotely like that in the future.
Happy mongering, guys.
GVA.[/QUOTE]I have a friend who spend around $7 k on a girl that he didn't even meet. It was on one of these websites. They just spoke on the phone and endless emails. At the end she extorted as much as she could and she vanished.
[QUOTE=TeddyO;4261450]Any reports on these girls?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9c316e3f-9d04-4880-a22f-7796ea2e2d05[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2f8d8549-7555-4156-ada1-09d5ca3ed5bc[/URL][/QUOTE]Secret 64 is a pro.
Wants 350 for cfs.
[QUOTE=GoldenGreek;4261817]Secret 64 is a pro.
Wants 350 for cfs.[/QUOTE]Ill probably pass if she is a pro. But I would still like to know if she looks like photos? Not sure if I can handle that fat ass.
[QUOTE=TeddyO;4261840]Ill probably pass if she is a pro. But I would still like to know if she looks like photos? Not sure if I can handle that fat ass.[/QUOTE]She is thin. Not a fat ass at all.
Has anyone seen her: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3656732e-3336-4db3-9f0b-fa7af779bcfd[/URL].
I have been chatting, but she won't see me yet. Her look is perfect to me though, so I keep trying. Hopefully someone has some insight.
[QUOTE=Buckeyebrent;4263091]Has anyone seen her: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3656732e-3336-4db3-9f0b-fa7af779bcfd[/URL].
I have been chatting, but she won't see me yet. Her look is perfect to me though, so I keep trying. Hopefully someone has some insight.[/QUOTE]Never met her but she's been on SA forever. Her join date on her profile is hidden but I've been on SA for 2+ years and she's been on at least that long as I remember seeing her back when I first joined.
So not that it really matters how long she's been on SA but don't let her play dumb or say that she's new. She's not and I'm guessing she knows the SA routine very well.
I know most of you guys aren't into the mature ones but holy shit those tits. Has anyone seen her?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/44790f2d-c1fa-4817-a29e-7fda5707294a[/URL]
[QUOTE=Chicago41;4263475]I know most of you guys aren't into the mature ones but holy shit those tits. Has anyone seen her?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/44790f2d-c1fa-4817-a29e-7fda5707294a[/URL][/QUOTE]Contacted her, she requested my photos, wasn't interested after seeing them 😥.
[QUOTE=GoodVibesAll;4261077]I've been a hardcore monger for 30 years....
GVA.[/QUOTE]Shout out to GVA for his honesty. If she turned out to be a very well paid therapist and life coach then good for her and good for him. He says he can afford it so it's not like an addict pissing away his last dime on drugs with nothing to gain except bad memories. It probably wouldn't have worked out they same way if the relationship was based on sex for $. GVA, wish you the best finding a legit girl who can provide the same level of encouragement. And sex!