I'm new to SA. Can anyone tell me what the usual ppm allowance is these days? What's considered low or high? Thanks!
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I'm new to SA. Can anyone tell me what the usual ppm allowance is these days? What's considered low or high? Thanks!
These two are fakes.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9f75de63-3724-432f-baab-ee0ba28f8817[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3d8c51c6-0d4c-427c-9c3d-1c0e240d4099[/URL]
She's 44 but looks really good! She's been a member since 2019, so she might be real. Has anyone texted her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7479b93f-bb48-496e-b8a2-d3ed02ac44cb[/URL]
She's been a member since 2017, so she must be real too. But it looks like there are a lot of filters on the pictures. Has anyone contacted her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ce162a5f-f974-463b-9e24-e98def9704d8[/URL]
She seems real. Has anyone met her? I scheduled lunch with her this weekend and just want to double-check she's not a time waster.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b8f48fb5-addf-4e42-82d6-dadb6697896a[/URL]
She looks really great! I can't tell if she's fake or not. She might be real. Has anyone already chatted with her or met her? She's online quite often and has her description.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f3a64124-0927-48b5-818b-6d54a6f1f5cb[/URL]
Sadiegirl [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1d24b5a8-c381-4929-b103-ce3866f0e046[/URL].
She is real, with a very interesting description. She seems very experienced, and I would be interested in meeting her. Even though she wrote that she put her profile on pause, has anyone met her?
Renee [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4ef42731-f667-45d9-afb1-d4d957cb5e50[/URL]
Fake. New profile created today, and the pictures definitely came from the internet.
Rae [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c5251f06-9eab-468a-9ec2-3f997365f7cd[/URL]
Real. She looks real, even though she didn't reply quite quickly. She wants four. I'm not sure about the three same pictures, and she didn't send more.
Violet [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/af80e8f2-39e7-44fa-9ce5-9d7a64b1d171[/URL]
Fake.
DynamicBeauty [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4331a33f-0c21-4870-9979-7eb620d586ac[/URL]
I love her smile; it's so cute! I'd definitely want to meet her. Is she real? She also has a premium profile, so either she's really serious about seeking or it's fake.
Anna, 20 [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f5e8431c-dc3b-4fdc-9e39-48e1591b56b0[/URL]
She made her profile a week ago—too good to be real. But she verified her I'd. I texted her, and she replied, but when I asked for a video call, she ghosted me.
StunningGND 50 [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bbb38168-79d9-4c04-97c4-2cb1403152b3[/URL]
I see her online quite often, and she looks real. Even though I'm not into older women, she seems nice. I texted her, but she didn't mention what she wants for ppm.
I texted a bunch of girls, and a few are asking for $900–$1,000. I'm curious, does anyone actually pay that here? Or are they just hoping the person doesn't know the rates and are ready to negotiate? What do you do when you hear $1,000—negotiate or just move on?
She's definitely real and has good communication. I've seen her social media—she seems nice and cute. She's a good option for people who are tired of fake profiles.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ad22e34c-85b7-4b40-8714-43bd7f837d3a[/URL]
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7053942]She's been a member since 2017, so she must be real too. But it looks like there are a lot of filters on the pictures. Has anyone contacted her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ce162a5f-f974-463b-9e24-e98def9704d8[/URL][/QUOTE]Reads like a b1tch to me. Some glaring photoshop work with that tiny waist.
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7054227]She looks really great! I can't tell if she's fake or not. She might be real. Has anyone already chatted with her or met her? She's online quite often and has her description.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f3a64124-0927-48b5-818b-6d54a6f1f5cb[/URL][/QUOTE]This reads like a fake profile to me. Whomever wrote it does not seem to be a native speaker of English.
[QUOTE=Ginzo666;7054386]This reads like a fake profile to me. Whomever wrote it does not seem to be a native speaker of English.[/QUOTE]Yeah, definitely. Seems too good to be true. Looks like stolen pics from someone's Instagram. She's been on the site for two months. Maybe someone has texted her?
[QUOTE=Ginzo666;7054375]Reads like a b1tch to me. Some glaring photoshop work with that tiny waist.[/QUOTE]She's been here for seven years, which is the longest I've seen so far, LOL. It's the first time I've seen someone verify everything on the site. She verified her Id, photo, and social media. She looks real, but she's probably expensive, LOL. Yeah, there's a ton of photoshop.
Sydney [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0c1c62ee-a479-41c5-9aab-3663632bdc24[/URL].
Looks fake. Seems like those pictures are stolen.
Sarah [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/add9546a-117b-49ef-9a81-f8b4883ada06[/URL].
She just made her profile a couple of days ago and verified her Id, but the pictures seem way too good.
Olivia [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7c2018f7-1f66-4975-a4b4-db6fcb69ad70[/URL].
Content seller.
Beatrice [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b2899fac-4ac2-4118-a266-6d3f63a14bc3[/URL].
She made her profile a couple of days ago. She hasn't tried to sell me any pictures yet, but her profile feels really empty.
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7054587]Sydney [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0c1c62ee-a479-41c5-9aab-3663632bdc24[/URL].
Looks fake. Seems like those pictures are stolen.
Sarah [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/add9546a-117b-49ef-9a81-f8b4883ada06[/URL].
She just made her profile a couple of days ago and verified her Id, but the pictures seem way too good.
Olivia [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7c2018f7-1f66-4975-a4b4-db6fcb69ad70[/URL].
Content seller.
Beatrice [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b2899fac-4ac2-4118-a266-6d3f63a14bc3[/URL].
She made her profile a couple of days ago. She hasn't tried to sell me any pictures yet, but her profile feels really empty.[/QUOTE]Beatrice's photos are used on multiple accounts keep getting "favorited" by them:
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0981b778-5c22-4f05-8d7e-93b60708877a[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0981b778-5c22-4f05-8d7e-93b60708877a[/URL]
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7054587]
Sarah [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/add9546a-117b-49ef-9a81-f8b4883ada06[/URL].
She just made her profile a couple of days ago and verified her Id, but the pictures seem way too good.
[/QUOTE]She is real and the pictures are accurate. I have her PII for contributing seniors. However, she told me she is not open to intimacy. I get the sense that she is more of a rinser than a real SB.
BAM.
So I am newer to the sugar dating world and just looking for a little guidance. I know sugar dating will yield higher quality ladies and often actual dates. I have a few potentials that I am meeting up with in the near future and wondering if the PPM they are asking for is normal. So they are all pretty much set at 500. That said they are all attractive little spinners I. Their early to mid 20's. They can host and I get like an actual date out of it. Like my last one we met for drinks at a bar. Ended up bar hopping for a few hours while we flirted and then went back to my car and fucked ij the parking lot. She said I could come over to her place for more fun after that but I had to head home. Now I know I can find an escort for 200 but it's wham bam get out hhr date. So my question is, does 500 seem like an appropriate ppm if I am getting a 2-3 hour date and then sex maybe 2 times that evening? I don't want to he over paying but it seems fair to me.
[QUOTE=BamBam;7055363]She is real and the pictures are accurate. I have her PII for contributing seniors. However, she told me she is not open to intimacy. I get the sense that she is more of a rinser than a real SB..[/QUOTE]She's really beautiful! I'm surprised those pics are actually her. Is she just looking for an allowance for dinners and a platonic thing?
I checked her name, and no one's posted about her yet. She verified her pics and has been on the site for 2 years. She seems legit, but she said, 'Just tell me what you're looking for and let's not waste each other's time,' while also saying 'platonic only. ' Do you think she's a content seller?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/15b52ca9-8fca-4407-aec8-40b1c9e10c9b[/URL]
Every time I look her up, she pops up on the first page. She verified her I'd, but the pics look way too good to be true. Kinda feels like a scam.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0c98da04-3831-4671-a673-4c33b53b7543[/URL]
Quick question: If someone verified her photo or I'd, does that mean she's legit and not a pic seller? Or could she still be a scammer asking for gas money or phone bills?
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7055606]Every time I look her up, she pops up on the first page. She verified her I'd, but the pics look way too good to be true. Kinda feels like a scam.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0c98da04-3831-4671-a673-4c33b53b7543[/URL]
Quick question: If someone verified her photo or I'd, does that mean she's legit and not a pic seller? Or could she still be a scammer asking for gas money or phone bills?[/QUOTE]There are no guarantees in this game. You just have to watch your ass and follow the rules as closely as you can:
1) Do a Meet-and-Greet.
2) Never give money until AFTER the deed is done.
3) Ignore all sob stories. Preferably, block any girls as soon as they start with that crap. They've outed themselves as viewing you as an ATM.
4) Obviously, never ever send money in advance or buy pictures in advance.
For 500 you would be better off seeing a K-Girl in Indy or Louisville than playing in Cincinnati's splenda bowl. YMMV.
[QUOTE=MagicMan1123;7055392]So I am newer to the sugar dating world and just looking for a little guidance. I know sugar dating will yield higher quality ladies and often actual dates. I have a few potentials that I am meeting up with in the near future and wondering if the PPM they are asking for is normal. So they are all pretty much set at 500. That said they are all attractive little spinners I. Their early to mid 20's. They can host and I get like an actual date out of it. Like my last one we met for drinks at a bar. Ended up bar hopping for a few hours while we flirted and then went back to my car and fucked ij the parking lot. She said I could come over to her place for more fun after that but I had to head home. Now I know I can find an escort for 200 but it's wham bam get out hhr date. So my question is, does 500 seem like an appropriate ppm if I am getting a 2-3 hour date and then sex maybe 2 times that evening? I don't want to he over paying but it seems fair to me.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MagicMan1123;7055392]So I am newer to the sugar dating world and just looking for a little guidance. I know sugar dating will yield higher quality ladies and often actual dates. I have a few potentials that I am meeting up with in the near future and wondering if the PPM they are asking for is normal. So they are all pretty much set at 500. That said they are all attractive little spinners I. Their early to mid 20's. They can host and I get like an actual date out of it. Like my last one we met for drinks at a bar. Ended up bar hopping for a few hours while we flirted and then went back to my car and fucked ij the parking lot. She said I could come over to her place for more fun after that but I had to head home. Now I know I can find an escort for 200 but it's wham bam get out hhr date. So my question is, does 500 seem like an appropriate ppm if I am getting a 2-3 hour date and then sex maybe 2 times that evening? I don't want to he over paying but it seems fair to me.[/QUOTE]I've heard the same, usually around 4-5. I've met around 200-250, but I wasn't really into them—just not my type, I guess. No offense, but they didn't seem that clean. Some might be on drugs (just a guess), and I'm not into a lot of tattoos. Plus, if they're taking low ppm, they're probably seeing a bunch of dudes. I prefer fit bodies—overweight just isn't my thing.
That body and ass are so hot! She seems real, but her profile's almost empty. I didn't find any posts about her. She's been on the site for a year. Has anyone met her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/48ac403c-a142-42ca-b8f6-5bdb2bef6dab[/URL]
[QUOTE=Ginzo666;7055868]There are no guarantees in this game. You just have to watch your ass and follow the rules as closely as you can:
1) Do a Meet-and-Greet.
2) Never give money until AFTER the deed is done.
3) Ignore all sob stories. Preferably, block any girls as soon as they start with that crap. They've outed themselves as viewing you as an ATM.
4) Obviously, never ever send money in advance or buy pictures in advance.[/QUOTE]To add to what Ginzo said, do a video chat before the MnG. That will save you a whole lot of time.
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7055523]She's really beautiful! I'm surprised those pics are actually her. Is she just looking for an allowance for dinners and a platonic thing?[/QUOTE]The pics are real. I am not sure what she is offering aside from the fact that it does not include intimacy. That was all I needed to learn before moving on. Are you contemplating a platonic date with her?
I can promise you that +95% of the time, it will lead to nothing more.
BAM.
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7055606]Every time I look her up, she pops up on the first page. She verified her I'd, but the pics look way too good to be true. Kinda feels like a scam.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0c98da04-3831-4671-a673-4c33b53b7543[/URL]
Quick question: If someone verified her photo or I'd, does that mean she's legit and not a pic seller? Or could she still be a scammer asking for gas money or phone bills?[/QUOTE]I have some of her PII. She appears to be real but her SM is pretty scarce and mostly locked down. The pictures on the profile match those on her SM but that does not mean they are completely accurate. She could be using filters on all of them. I am fairly confident she is real but according to the online records she is living in Wilmington not Cinti.
BAM.
[QUOTE=MagicMan1123;7055392]So I am newer to the sugar dating world and just looking for a little guidance.
So they are all pretty much set at 500. That said they are all attractive little spinners I.
Now I know I can find an escort for 200 but it's wham bam get out hhr date. So my question is, does 500 seem like an appropriate ppm? I don't want to he over paying but it seems fair to me.[/QUOTE]For someone who is new, 500 is a reasonable starting point - - provided they are young, hot and can host. There are a bunch of sugar sites and forums in which women are uniformly advising new SB's to get 500 or more per date. They make no allowance for location, appearance or performance. There are even people saying women should get this amount for online only or just platonic dates. It is unrealistic but there you are.
As a newbie, you want results. The higher amount gets you there. As you gain experience, you will develop some regulars that you can treat like FWB's. (Just don't fall in love!) At this point, you start challenging yourself to find better for less. As you get more skilled at this, you should be able to get down to the 300 per date level.
One point of warning, most of these women, or at least the best ones, do NOT see themselves as sex workers. If you use language that sounds like you think of them that way, they are likely to get offended and block you. Your approach of taking them on dinner dates or clubbing helps prevent that. However, be careful. You could also more easily get sucked into a rinsing situation or other emotional entanglement. It has happened to a lot of us early in our experience.
BAM.
[QUOTE=BamBam;7055363]She is real and the pictures are accurate. I have her PII for contributing seniors. However, she told me she is not open to intimacy. I get the sense that she is more of a rinser than a real SB.
BAM.[/QUOTE]She is real and very hot! But no intimacy only topless massage! She used to work with honey in Ky. She charge 300 for topless massage no happy ending LOL.
Thank you for the advice. So it seem like if I am looking for someone sooner rather than later the 500 price point will get me the you hit and can host girls pretty easily. I think I am going to find one steady girl at that price point, which I have a couple of options right now that I have done meet and greets with or have already had successful first dates with. Once I have a regular picked out I'm going to start telling the others 300 PPM and the occasional gifts or move on. With the hope I can replace my 500 regular with a 300 regular thatvis just as sexy and slutty. Thank you all for the advice. If I can find a once a week 300 sexy lady for dates and get one or two rounds in every meet and who can host I'll just replace my regular with them. Then repeat as needed.
[QUOTE=BamBam;7056562]For someone who is new, 500 is a reasonable starting point - - provided they are young, hot and can host. There are a bunch of sugar sites and forums in which women are uniformly advising new SB's to get 500 or more per date. They make no allowance for location, appearance or performance. There are even people saying women should get this amount for online only or just platonic dates. It is unrealistic but there you are.
As a newbie, you want results. The higher amount gets you there. As you gain experience, you will develop some regulars that you can treat like FWB's. (Just don't fall in love!) At this point, you start challenging yourself to find better for less. As you get more skilled at this, you should be able to get down to the 300 per date level.
One point of warning, most of these women, or at least the best ones, do NOT see themselves as sex workers. If you use language that sounds like you think of them that way, they are likely to get offended and block you. Your approach of taking them on dinner dates or clubbing helps prevent that. However, be careful. You could also more easily get sucked into a rinsing situation or other emotional entanglement. It has happened to a lot of us early in our experience.
BAM.[/QUOTE]
She seems real. "If you only want pics / vids and naughty chat then state that upfront. I do require gifts to share" Does that mean she only does online? Has anyone met her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b8ebdf91-896a-4c7d-9aac-c7bf312d85eb[/URL]
Ok. I got to ask.
I see reference to the "k-girls" in Louisville and Indy. What is a "k-girl?
I'm a senior member, been here since early 2000's. You can find my posts in the Charleston Wv forums.
[QUOTE=Almighty;7057124]Ok. I got to ask.
I see reference to the "k-girls" in Louisville and Indy. What is a "k-girl?
I'm a senior member, been here since early 2000's. You can find my posts in the Charleston Wv forums.[/QUOTE]An agency.
By the way, your inbox is full.
Tried to send you a link.
[QUOTE=TapThat;7057133]An agency.
By the way, your inbox is full.
Tried to send you a link.[/QUOTE]Thanks. I cleared some space. Feel free to send the link now.
Has anyone tried SecretBenefits or What's Your Price website? Is Seeking the best one? And are the girls the same on all the mentioned websites, or are they usually different?
She seems real; the pictures look like her, and the description is really detailed. She also verified her photo and I'd. Has anyone met her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/890946e1-8843-4153-bc7c-af7e1baf97b9[/URL]
[QUOTE=Tomyoming7777;7055935]That body and ass are so hot! She seems real, but her profile's almost empty. I didn't find any posts about her. She's been on the site for a year. Has anyone met her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/48ac403c-a142-42ca-b8f6-5bdb2bef6dab[/URL][/QUOTE]Yess I'm interested as well, I remember this picture. I think she favorited me but I wasn't a paying member at the time, or in awhile.
[QUOTE=ChargersFan18;7057741]Yess I'm interested as well, I remember this picture. I think she favorited me but I wasn't a paying member at the time, or in awhile.[/QUOTE]She's real. Talked to her on a dating app a little while ago. Never met up because I met someone else, but now that I know she's on SA, should be like shooting fish in a barrel next time I catch her on there.
Decent body and boobs. Wow. She's been on the website for a year, but I've never seen her before. Not sure if she's a scammer or not.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/07b17eea-27f0-4cf6-8124-3fe592311d44[/URL]
New girl, just joined a week ago. She wrote, 'I do have a partner, we are ENM. ' Has anyone talked to her yet?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5c9ecfda-b4da-4408-bfda-2ccb5b04e8a1[/URL]