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[QUOTE=Mythbuster;7251664]So true, any woman who is super eager and contacts you 1st or after just a look at her profile is probably not going to be a long time keeper! They're not all fake but they are mostly trouble![/QUOTE]I've had good arrangements with ones who messaged me after I view their profile. I think it's a higher chance of them being real if they actually view your profile after you've viewed them.
[QUOTE=HenryT458;7255458]She's a snowbird. I'm not looking for a part time partner.
Her response:
Hello Henry, I am definitely interested. I would love to get to know you more. I am in NJ for 4 months out of the year and in FL for the other 8.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b369dda2-9978-48df-b60f-37f8b4d1d635[/URL][/QUOTE]How much did she want?
[QUOTE=HenryT458;7254560]Wants 1 k ppm. Is on the site every day. Likely can't keep a man happy which is why she's looking all the time.[/QUOTE]LOL funny because when I messaged her she wanted 1. 5. I countered with 1 k and she proceeded to throw insults at me saying if $500 will put me in a bad spot financially, I'm not the quality of man she's looking for.
[QUOTE=HenryT458;7255458]She's a snowbird. I'm not looking for a part time partner.
Her response:
Hello Henry, I am definitely interested. I would love to get to know you more. I am in NJ for 4 months out of the year and in FL for the other 8.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b369dda2-9978-48df-b60f-37f8b4d1d635[/URL][/QUOTE]She's been on the site for a few years. We messaged, had a good conversation going, agreed to everything, and then she stood me up and ghosted me. I got the feeling she wanted me to offer money in advance, but I didn't. She also didn't ask. Vibe was great until it wasn't. Flakey.
[QUOTE=KCesar68;7256455]How much did she want?[/QUOTE]No idea. No reason to talk price when I'm not moving forward.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7f5b10e4-1c28-4966-9883-9de84c19cdd6[/URL]
Jennifer- really ghetto when she talks- def DTF & can hit raw.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2bd7a3dd-8eea-4e53-9405-54321720a6a8[/URL]
Pierced up- Seems naughty but has an outrageous ask- like 1. 5.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2bd7a3dd-8eea-4e53-9405-54321720a6a8[/URL]
Sassy tatz more hooker than SB.
Savalina - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fdb699d3-091b-45f5-8a0e-571f18ed04b7[/URL].
She's been on SA for a while under various names and I know she's real and usually eager to meet, but has anyone met her?
[QUOTE=EpicSD;7262287][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7f5b10e4-1c28-4966-9883-9de84c19cdd6[/URL]
Jennifer- really ghetto when she talks- def DTF & can hit raw.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2bd7a3dd-8eea-4e53-9405-54321720a6a8[/URL]
Pierced up- Seems naughty but has an outrageous ask- like 1. 5.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2bd7a3dd-8eea-4e53-9405-54321720a6a8[/URL]
Sassy tatz more hooker than SB.[/QUOTE]Hey Epic. The last two links are the same (Sassy tats is the one missing).
LD.
[QUOTE=LurkingDog;7262836]Hey Epic. The last two links are the same (Sassy tats is the one missing)..[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4dc15748-5beb-40e9-94c0-3e501083c1f8[/URL]
Yes, she is for real, semi pro, but down to earth. She's been around for a couple years, and I saw her when she used to live in the Laurel Springs area a few years ago.
Runner88.
[QUOTE=Krott26;7262518]Savalina - [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fdb699d3-091b-45f5-8a0e-571f18ed04b7[/URL].
She's been on SA for a while under various names and I know she's real and usually eager to meet, but has anyone met her?[/QUOTE]
She isn't looking for ppm or allowances. She's looking for a vanilla relationship. She must have sugared in the past as she's familiar with the slang of the sugar bowl.
Oh well. Her response:
Thanks for your message, I'm not interested in PPMs for allowances, arrangements, pocket money and such. I have my own successful business and I'm perfectly capable of fulfilling my material life on my own.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/33271206-3a5f-43c3-a8a6-2e03ab1b5e24[/URL]
[QUOTE=HenryT458;7263054]She isn't looking for ppm or allowances. She's looking for a vanilla relationship. She must have sugared in the past as she's familiar with the slang of the sugar bowl.
Oh well. Her response:
Thanks for your message, I'm not interested in PPMs for allowances, arrangements, pocket money and such. I have my own successful business and I'm perfectly capable of fulfilling my material life on my own.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/33271206-3a5f-43c3-a8a6-2e03ab1b5e24[/URL][/QUOTE]I guess my question to her then is why is she on a SB-SD site wasting your time if she doesn't need the money? There are a ton of dating sites for women seeking vanilla relationships, right?
This one is a NO GO. Our interaction actually took place a few months back, but I figured I would post about it in case anyone else might run into the same problem.
I liked her profile on SA, next time I opened the app she had messaged me. She seemed a little weird, but I messaged back and got her number. We started texting, and immediately hit it off. We talked about everything possible, for hours. We covered all the necessary stuff, money, visits, logistics, etc. We couldn't stop talking to each other. So we set up a phone call. Once again, hit it off right away, really liked each other, agreed on everything. Talked for 2 hours. I mean, she even told me her full name, about her family, everything. We agreed on a first visit, and if that went well a weekly PPM for a month, and then discussion of an arrangement. We planned for me to visit her at her place that weekend.
Right around the time of the visit, it seemed like she was nervous and wanted to back out. I told her if there was some miscommunication and she wasnt sure, then so be it. She decided she was good. I get to her place, come inside, everything is good. She's just as attractive as her photos, even more so, she's nice. We hang out and talk a bit. I put the envelope I brought on the coffee table. She didn't seem to notice it. We keep talking, a few hours goes by. At some point she moves closer to me and lets me touch her, initiates a little make out session. I'm thinking ok great, finally we're getting comfortable with each other. That stops, and she returns to talking, going to feed her dogs, etc, etc. A couple more hours go by. I make a move on her, we make out a little more. She stops and retreats. At this point, almost 8 hours has gone by. Never would I have considered putting in this many hours if we didn't completely hit if off the way we did at first. Every indication that this thing was a go. At this point, I'm frustrated, so while she's like sitting on my lap, I finally ask as nicely as I can like "Ok so what are we doing here? We going upstairs, or? ".
Here is where it goes off the rails. She kind of acts like she doesn't know what I'm talking about. I'm like "Well I thought we were making out here and this was going somewhere". She gets nervous and kind of stutters and starts talking about some bullshit as she gets up. I know something is off, so I just grab the envelope I sat on the table earlier and put it back in my pocket. Right after I do that, she kind of snaps on me a little bit and says something about how its late and she told me about her schedule and feeding her dogs, blah blah blah. That was when I knew I had wasted my entire day here. As calmly as I could, I just got up and said "Sorry, there must have been some miscommunication. Maybe it was my fault, but its ok. If you want to talk it out later and possibly meet again, that's fine, but it's late and I have to get going". Without missing a beat, in the most disappointed voice, she says "And you're going to take the envelope? The one she didn't notice the entire time. I said "Yeah. I mean, we didn't even do anything. Sorry I have to get going". She immediately opens the door and says "YEAH. YOU SHOULD GO". Honestly I'd rather have given up the 350 and kept my 8 hours, but whatever.
I STILL gave her the benefit of the doubt and thought maybe there was some miscommunication we could work out, so I texted her a while later. No response, which tells me that there was no miscommunication. I will say its possible she was inexperienced and not really ready for this type of thing, because based on our conversations it didn't sound like she had ever actually accepted a date from anyone. I maybe when it was really time, she just wasn't built for it. It's also possible that maybe she wasnt as attracted to me in person? And then the most likely possibility is that she just thought she could play me and I would leave without my money. I'm not really sure which it is here. So if you see this one, just be aware.
[QUOTE=PhillyChris86;7264152]This one is a NO GO. [/QUOTE]Sounds like she got cold feet knowing that she was about to do something that goes against her core values or something. I would imagine for some girls doing it for money (directly at least) messes with their self-esteem. Kind of doubt a straight up scammer would have spent that much time with you. Hate it for you because she is cute & sounds like why'all had a connection on some level. Who knows, maybe she'll pop up out the woodwork somewhere down the line. Chicks are good for that kind of stuff.
I had some interaction with her 2-3 years ago. She threw up some red flags before I went as far as you. For me it was the text interaction and the oversharing of personal information via text. I think I posted about my experience. Another monger PM'd me about it later and confirmed that she is BSC and unbalanced if off her meds.