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Just curious if anyone has ever partaken and how they would rate the experience. Seems kinda dodgy and legit, with it being legal in Germany, at the same time. Can see that it would only work for the divorced or single among us. Or if you can convincingly lie about a "business conference" you have to attend overseas.
Would be my luck that I would get into a vehicle at the airport and a hood immediately goes over my head with a Russian man saying "we make you our ***** now" LOL.
[QUOTE=DNut;3332719]I give 2 hours between the my text to girl #1, to girl #2. Often enough, I finally get a reply back from #1 offering availability, to which I just simply say, "Sorry. It's been X hours and thought you might not be available so I contacted someone else. Perhaps next time. ".
This does 2 things. First, it let's them know that unlike boyfriends or suitors, customers will not wait forever because there are other options. Second, if they don't delete the messages (good or bad, is a debate for another time), the next time I send them a message, they will see from the previous message that unlike some other mongers, I am not the type that will wait around forever. I get a faster response to set up an appointment.
Cost to me, $0 for moving on. Cost to them $$ and the chance of paying their rent.[/QUOTE]But I seriously doubt most of these girls think far or deep enough to catch on to any of that. The higher end or stable, reviewed ones already get it.
[QUOTE=RogerOver;3332980]But I seriously doubt most of these girls think far or deep enough to catch on to any of that. The higher end or stable, reviewed ones already get it.[/QUOTE]Sorry that movie has so many funny quotes. You are right most girls follow the water analogy, meaning the path of least resistance or least effort. I have been told by many that if there are 3 of us texting them they pick the greatest reward for the least effort. The reason they are not honest, dare I say is that if the first plan does not pan out for them then they go to option 2. And even sometimes they get the first and then act like they had problems to get option 2 as a bonus. After all it is just like fishing for both sides of the game. When you weigh in at the end of the day you want to be the one with the most. Be safe.
[QUOTE=DickMorehead;3332886]I have found TER to be a pretty reliable tool, especially for trying to find info on traveling providers or providers that are not listing with USA. It in some respects easier to navigate than some sites as all of a girls' reviews are typically located in one place. Even if you are not a paying member of TER you can easily get contact info, posting site (s), physical description, and if they are real or scam. The 'general details' part of the review usually tells you if a reviewing monger would repeat or not and if the set up was easy or difficult. If a provider has several reviews listed you can easily ascertain if that they are legit. If you decide to pay the monthly fee (or post a couple reviews a month) you get to see the juicy details of the review which should tell ya whether they provide what you are interested in purchasing. USA is more up to date with current talent and certainly provides great info and valuable input about the local scene. When I see a post on USA that I find interesting I use TER as one of the tools to do further research. Be careful out there.[/QUOTE]I agree with you on this, I always search USASG first as you get more info. TER is another useful tool. As a matter of fact I will be posting a review on Jemma Jade today on TER.
[QUOTE=Twisted69;3333498]Sorry that movie has so many funny quotes. You are right most girls follow the water analogy, meaning the path of least resistance or least effort. I have been told by many that if there are 3 of us texting them they pick the greatest reward for the least effort. The reason they are not honest, dare I say is that if the first plan does not pan out for them then they go to option 2. And even sometimes they get the first and then act like they had problems to get option 2 as a bonus. After all it is just like fishing for both sides of the game. When you weigh in at the end of the day you want to be the one with the most. Be safe.[/QUOTE]I know I'm not in the greater majority here, but when I find one (or a few) I like, I tend to stick with them. I've never fucked most of the flavor of the week around here. As soon as I see "air mattress" or "basement" or anything like it I cross it out.
I know it sounds like a humble brag, but I'm a middle aged, fairly wealthy guy. I'm not fucking on a goddamn air mattress. Just saying, and I don't judge.
[QUOTE=RogerOver;3334484]I know I'm not in the greater majority here, but when I find one (or a few) I like, I tend to stick with them. I've never fucked most of the flavor of the week around here. As soon as I see "air mattress" or "basement" or anything like it I cross it out.
I know it sounds like a humble brag, but I'm a middle aged, fairly wealthy guy. I'm not fucking on a goddamn air mattress. Just saying, and I don't judge.[/QUOTE]Just kidding, but I think you are locking down one that I really like. Nisha?
Why is it when you see someone for the first time or whatever the case may be that you try hard to accommodate them, whether it be seeing them on short notice, or wearing your makeup and hair how they ask for it, or anything else you can think of to appease the client and make the visit as lovely as possible and as you're getting ready to walk them out they say how much fun they had and that they'll give you a nice review and they leave and you think all is well. Until you get on here the next day and they have wrote a review but they completely trash you. I mean tear you apart and pick at every detail you can imagine and criticize you in the meanest way they can. And if we were to say anything after the client trashed us we look even worse because the rest of the guys on here think were just trying to start shit over the nasty review written about us. Why tell us you had a lovely time and then turn around and post you had a bad time and that we were awful. I'm more humble these days because I've lost everything and I'm trying to come back from it. If I don't work, I don't eat. And I always try to remember that not all people click and I might not be everyone's cup of tea, but still there's no reason to try and crucify me with a nasty review. It just seems that sometimes you guys go overboard with the hurtful comments and then nitpicking about everything about us. Were still human ya know.
[blue]It's because you are focusing on the few that do that, your reviews are ok overall. The answer to your question sugar is because some people are assholes. Shit like that is going to happen on this forum, either get used to it or stop reading.
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[QUOTE=FirstHalf;3334492]Just kidding, but I think you are locking down one that I really like. Nisha?[/QUOTE]Nisha? KeyLow's UTR girl from a while back? I tried to hook up with her again and she made it sound like she was out of the hobby. I'd love to see her again!
[QUOTE=JosiJames;3334536]Why is it when you see someone for the first time or whatever the case may be that you try hard to accommodate them, whether it be seeing them on short notice, or wearing your makeup and hair how they ask for it, or anything else you can think of to appease the client and make the visit as lovely as possible and as you're getting ready to walk them out they say how much fun they had and that they'll give you a nice review and they leave and you think all is well. Until you get on here the next day and they have wrote a review but they completely trash you. I mean tear you apart and pick at every detail you can imagine and criticize you in the meanest way they can. And if we were to say anything after the client trashed us we look even worse because the rest of the guys on here think were just trying to start shit over the nasty review written about us. Why tell us you had a lovely time and then turn around and post you had a bad time and that we were awful. I'm more humble these days because I've lost everything and I'm trying to come back from it. If I don't work, I don't eat. And I always try to remember that not all people click and I might not be everyone's cup of tea, but still there's no reason to try and crucify me with a nasty review. It just seems that sometimes you guys go overboard with the hurtful comments and then nitpicking about everything about us. Were still human ya know.
[/QUOTE]At the risk of sounding patronizing... Even the blind person who listens intently can see :)
In other words, no review is a bad review relative to a lesson that may be gleaned from it.
Good luck, stay safe doll.
TGM
She is off the market. Someone is giving her the 2 k a month she was seeking and is now their SB.
She was fun and has the finest ass I have ever had my hands on.
[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;3335301]Nisha? KeyLow's UTR girl from a while back? I tried to hook up with her again and she made it sound like she was out of the hobby. I'd love to see her again![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=RogerOver;3334484]I know I'm not in the greater majority here, but when I find one (or a few) I like, I tend to stick with them. I've never fucked most of the flavor of the week around here. As soon as I see "air mattress" or "basement" or anything like it I cross it out.
I know it sounds like a humble brag, but I'm a middle aged, fairly wealthy guy. I'm not fucking on a goddamn air mattress. Just saying, and I don't judge.[/QUOTE]Yeah. I agree. There were a few flavor of the months that I passed on because of stuff like that. I have worked too hard for too long to pay $$ for a roll on air mattress in the basement. If their location isn't up to snuff for a $200/ hr session, just offer outcalls. This insistence that someone paying them 2 benjamins will be happy with street walker accommodations is beyond me; even more so that some guys are willing to put up with it.
[QUOTE=RogerOver;3334484]I know I'm not in the greater majority here, but when I find one (or a few) I like, I tend to stick with them. I've never fucked most of the flavor of the week around here. As soon as I see "air mattress" or "basement" or anything like it I cross it out.
I know it sounds like a humble brag, but I'm a middle aged, fairly wealthy guy. I'm not fucking on a goddamn air mattress. Just saying, and I don't judge.[/QUOTE]But I will put up with quite a bit for a cute young thing. A few years ago when I had my hands on Vanessa's tight 19 year old ass, I pretty much forgot about the trashed kitchen I saw on my way to her bed.
There's one provider I saw 5 times and a few I saw 4 times. Otherwise, mostly 1-3 dreams per provider here. Sometimes that's because they've dropped out of the hobby or they had a rapid decline, sometimes it's because I want get with as many women as I can before I'm too old.
[QUOTE=TheGenteelMan;3335315]At the risk of sounding patronizing... Even the blind person who listens intently can see :)
In other words, no review is a bad review relative to a lesson that may be gleaned from it.
Good luck, stay safe doll.
TGM[/QUOTE]Well thank you love I think your opinion is biased because you've seen me before and I actually think you meant what you said when you left saying and had a good time. It's been a long time since I've been on the east side I don't miss being over there far away from everything. But I would like to see you again I really do hope maybe we can work that out soon and thank you for the kind words I'm sure everyone else tear into me over this.
That this is for today, Tuesday. Please don't contact me after 10 or Wednesday. They have no idea what day today or tomorrow is you must tell them.
[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;3331269]You text a girl Tuesday morning 10 am with something simple " are you available " they text back Wednesday afternoon at 3 pm with " yes I'm available ". Like you've been waiting for 32 hours by your phone chewing on your fingernails waiting for her return text. When you tell them you called yesterday they text back with the perfect excuse, " my phone died ". And when they text back it's usually at the wrong time, you're at work, talking to the wife, or at the kids or grandkids game. I just wish they would use common sense and see that if someone wanted to see you 36 hours ago and didn't get in touch with you the chances of them wanting to see you a day and a half later are pretty remote and you just might be doing something other than sitting at home hoping they will returned your text. Thanks rant over. HL29.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DGoesDown;3335335]She is off the market. Someone is giving her the 2 k a month she was seeking and is now their SB.
She was fun and has the finest ass I have ever had my hands on.[/QUOTE]+1. There for a minute, the SD was 'allowing' her to date, but I guess no more.
[QUOTE=DNut;3335449]Yeah. I agree. There were a few flavor of the months that I passed on because of stuff like that. I have worked too hard for too long to pay $$ for a roll on air mattress in the basement. If their location isn't up to snuff for a $200/ hr session, just offer outcalls. This insistence that someone paying them 2 benjamins will be happy with street walker accommodations is beyond me; even more so that some guys are willing to put up with it.[/QUOTE]Just wanted to let you know that there is another side of the coin. Some of us can't understand why you care where you are fucking her, she is letting you fuck her. I would certainly show up to the local frozen pond to watch Wayne Gretzky play hockey again and I would eat a Tony's steak in my car. Some of us are there to bang the girls because that is what we are there to do, not judge them.
[QUOTE=DNut;3335449]Yeah. I agree. There were a few flavor of the months that I passed on because of stuff like that. I have worked too hard for too long to pay $$ for a roll on air mattress in the basement. If their location isn't up to snuff for a $200/ hr session, just offer outcalls. This insistence that someone paying them 2 benjamins will be happy with street walker accommodations is beyond me; even more so that some guys are willing to put up with it.[/QUOTE]I'm with you mr nut. My deal breakers 1 drug use in reviews 2 boy friend or handler around, 3 air mattress, 4 friend waiting in the bathroom, 5 waste my time setting up, 6 I only try twice to set something up and if or when she goes crickets. I'm not looking to try the most. I just look for the best at what they do. I've been playing with a couple utr, it's getting hard to get time with the ladies lately, I bet I tried 5 of our best over the weekend, no response. Be safe OBR.
A new bill introduced by Rep. Ann * (not sure if I can use her last name) has the potential to erode the protections of Section 230 afforded to sites like this. It has the title "Allow States and Victims to Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act of 2017". Hard to disagree with that. The thing is that it will open up the possibility of websites being charged criminally for the content posted by users. Think of any websites that may have a problem with that? If you are interested in following this a good starting point is [URL]http://www.vocativ.com/417954/sex-trafficking-law-free-speech-online/[/URL] Be safe.
In my younger years, I could get just about any cutie I set my mind to. That was 3 decades ago. Now, if I want to bang young hotties, I pay for the pleasure.
I'll pay for a BJ in a car but I'm not a contortionist, so sex in a car is behind me.
I'll put up with more than most to get close to the hotness that I have my sights set on. If they prove worth it, I'll see them repeatedly. If not, I banged a hot piece of ass and I move onto the next focal point.
[QUOTE=Raider1687;3336884]Just wanted to let you know that there is another side of the coin. Some of us can't understand why you care where you are fucking her, she is letting you fuck her. I would certainly show up to the local frozen pond to watch Wayne Gretzky play hockey again and I would eat a Tony's steak in my car. Some of us are there to bang the girls because that is what we are there to do, not judge them.[/QUOTE]
Nice anaology. Let me counter you with another. I believe the idea is this.
If I am paying for almost the same price of Tony's steak for a McDonald burger, then at least I would like to be seated and served; with some nice utensils as well.
What I am getting and for how much I am getting it for, will determine if I am going to be happy with an air-mattress or not.
[QUOTE=Raider1687;3336884]Just wanted to let you know that there is another side of the coin. Some of us can't understand why you care where you are fucking her, she is letting you fuck her. I would certainly show up to the local frozen pond to watch Wayne Gretzky play hockey again and I would eat a Tony's steak in my car. Some of us are there to bang the girls because that is what we are there to do, not judge them.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=ILikeWatch;3338101]A new bill introduced by Rep. Ann * (not sure if I can use her last name) has the potential to erode the protections of Section 230 afforded to sites like this. It has the title "Allow States and Victims to Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act of 2017". Hard to disagree with that. The thing is that it will open up the possibility of websites being charged criminally for the content posted by users. Think of any websites that may have a problem with that? If you are interested in following this a good starting point is [URL]http://www.vocativ.com/417954/sex-trafficking-law-free-speech-online/[/URL] Be safe.[/QUOTE]I am under the impression that this site operates outside the jurisdiction of the USA.
This is Manda, all tied up. She is becoming one of my ATFs. She has it all. Beauty, skills, personality and she swallows.
[QUOTE=Glockman;3339793]This is Manda, all tied up. She is becoming one of my ATFs. She has it all. Beauty, skills, personality and she swallows.[/QUOTE]I'm quitting my job and moving to Memphis! Love all the pics you send Gman!
[QUOTE=Glockman;3339793]This is Manda, all tied up. She is becoming one of my ATFs. She has it all. Beauty, skills, personality and she swallows.[/QUOTE]You tie those knots yourself?
Great pic, BTW.
[QUOTE=RogerOver;3340417]You tie those knots yourself?
Great pic, BTW.[/QUOTE]No, her husband did. I can't tie knots for shit. I was kicked out of the cub scouts.
[QUOTE=Glockman;3340481]I was kicked out of the cub scouts.[/QUOTE]For eating brownies.
[QUOTE=CactusIago;3302654]With the recent dustup on here between BR and Brookee I just wanted to highlight a couple of things that seem to have been lost.
The ladies on here are first and foremost, businesswomen; independent contractors, or even employed by someone. The hobbyists on here need to recognize that fact. Their reputations, ARE the currency of the realm around here for every provider. There are ladies that are unreliable, lay there like a dead fish, don; t kiss, do kiss, give the best service ever, or the worst--The reviews we give should and will highlight these FACTS about your particular experience. The problem that I want to address is when we deviate from these things in a cupla ways--1) As consumers or providers on this site, no one should EVER traffic in rumor--If you saw a needle or a track mark, you should report EXACTLY that, If her service isn't up to par, you should report EXACTLY that, If she is out of it, report it. BUT, don't take whatever research you have done, and combine it with a misperceived slight, to jump to conclusions. BR and Brookee have been wonderful, mostly reliable providers on here--report they are hard to get a hold of, don; t bring in rumor and innuendo about dope boy boyfriends and multiple mongers screening--Give them the credit their reputations have earned--And call them out when they slip up. 2) Negotiating--and this is more for the providers than the mongers--When there is an advertised price associated with a time, Don; t negotiate--You are business women, Take care of business-I work from xxx time to yyyy time, I'll return texts no later than 15 minutes if I am in an appointment, and my rates are zzzz" That's it--the second someone tells you he will give you less than you advertised, tell him to pound sand--If you are a good provider, and you are professional, the clients will come to you. And guys--a little consideration for the ladies as well--They are working hard for us--Unless there is a question about what is on the menu or the price, don; t try and haggle too hard. This is their living, If you have the discretionary income to partake, do it without nickle and dimeing them to the penny--let them pay for an extra pair of shoes for their child or dog--they will appreciate it! 3) Communication--From both sides. If you get a text, return it when you can, and state clearly in your ad, that your window to return is 15 minutes, to prevent unwanted texts 3 hrs later when the SO is now within hearing distance of the phone. DO NOT return texts or calls many hours later, or unsolicited, UNLESS you have enough of a relationship with the guy that you know there is no SO and you won; t be screwing them by texting late. When you set an appointment--Stick with it!! If something comes up, communicate that you can; t do it now--you should NEVER, EVER ghost someone. For Mongers--Same rules apply--Send a text every 15 minutes for about an hour, or let her know in your initial text she can respond at anytime with no problem. If you set an appointment, keep it--If something comes up, communicate-If you send out 4 text to find a providers, When you get a bite and make an appointment, have the common courtesy to resend the text to the ones you didn't choose, saying you are no longer interested--NEVER EVER ghost someone.
This is my opinion about this--It may seem like I am Knighting--really not trying to, just want everyone involved to remember that this is a business, no different, functionally, than walking into a restaurant, giving (and taking) an order and providing the services requested for a defined fee. Don; t give shitty Yelp Reviews because your ex-girlfriend works there or the Manager cut you off on the highway, or try to get the waiter to give you the Filet for the price of the Ribeye.[/QUOTE]Very well said. As we all have improving to do. I completly agree!!
[QUOTE=CactusIago;3302654]With the recent dustup on here between BR and Brookee I just wanted to highlight a couple of things that seem to have been lost.
The ladies on here are first and foremost, businesswomen; independent contractors, or even employed by someone. The hobbyists on here need to recognize that fact. Their reputations, ARE the currency of the realm around here for every provider. There are ladies that are unreliable, lay there like a dead fish, don; t kiss, do kiss, give the best service ever, or the worst--The reviews we give should and will highlight these FACTS about your particular experience. The problem that I want to address is when we deviate from these things in a cupla ways--1) As consumers or providers on this site, no one should EVER traffic in rumor--If you saw a needle or a track mark, you should report EXACTLY that, If her service isn't up to par, you should report EXACTLY that, If she is out of it, report it. BUT, don't take whatever research you have done, and combine it with a misperceived slight, to jump to conclusions. BR and Brookee have been wonderful, mostly reliable providers on here--report they are hard to get a hold of, don; t bring in rumor and innuendo about dope boy boyfriends and multiple mongers screening--Give them the credit their reputations have earned--And call them out when they slip up. 2) Negotiating--and this is more for the providers than the mongers--When there is an advertised price associated with a time, Don; t negotiate--You are business women, Take care of business-I work from xxx time to yyyy time, I'll return texts no later than 15 minutes if I am in an appointment, and my rates are zzzz" That's it--the second someone tells you he will give you less than you advertised, tell him to pound sand--If you are a good provider, and you are professional, the clients will come to you. And guys--a little consideration for the ladies as well--They are working hard for us--Unless there is a question about what is on the menu or the price, don; t try and haggle too hard. This is their living, If you have the discretionary income to partake, do it without nickle and dimeing them to the penny--let them pay for an extra pair of shoes for their child or dog--they will appreciate it! 3) Communication--From both sides. If you get a text, return it when you can, and state clearly in your ad, that your window to return is 15 minutes, to prevent unwanted texts 3 hrs later when the SO is now within hearing distance of the phone. DO NOT return texts or calls many hours later, or unsolicited, UNLESS you have enough of a relationship with the guy that you know there is no SO and you won; t be screwing them by texting late. When you set an appointment--Stick with it!! If something comes up, communicate that you can; t do it now--you should NEVER, EVER ghost someone. For Mongers--Same rules apply--Send a text every 15 minutes for about an hour, or let her know in your initial text she can respond at anytime with no problem. If you set an appointment, keep it--If something comes up, communicate-If you send out 4 text to find a providers, When you get a bite and make an appointment, have the common courtesy to resend the text to the ones you didn't choose, saying you are no longer interested--NEVER EVER ghost someone.
This is my opinion about this--It may seem like I am Knighting--really not trying to, just want everyone involved to remember that this is a business, no different, functionally, than walking into a restaurant, giving (and taking) an order and providing the services requested for a defined fee. Don; t give shitty Yelp Reviews because your ex-girlfriend works there or the Manager cut you off on the highway, or try to get the waiter to give you the Filet for the price of the Ribeye.[/QUOTE]For me being new to the community this is a great tool to have.
Stay Safe,
LS69.
[QUOTE=DrKennethW;3338299]I am under the impression that this site operates outside the jurisdiction of the USA.[/QUOTE]This site does operate offshore.
The fear is that US ISPs may ultimately somehow be required to "block" offshore sites in the name of Freedumb. "respecting women" . Honoring one or more of the Ten Commandments. Or something. Ugh.
I have reached out to 7 provider's today. 2 text back then crickets. WTF.
[QUOTE=Gunman2013;3346137]I have reached out to 7 provider's today. 2 text back then crickets. WTF.[/QUOTE]As you are having GM. I have reached out to 5 and have heard nothing. One of which I see quarterly or so. Had the nice room ready for our planned few hours (planned and set up last week) and have gotten nothing from her for a few days. The other 4 are advertising on this site. Not sure I get it. Guess I'll try again for my 3 hour open window tomorrow. Maybe if I'm lucky, I'll get a PM from someone who has some time on their hands. Geez.
[QUOTE=CactusIago;3302654]With the recent dustup on here between BR and Brookee I just wanted to highlight a couple of things that seem to have been lost.
The ladies on here are first and foremost, businesswomen; independent contractors, or even employed by someone. The hobbyists on here need to recognize that fact. Their reputations, ARE the currency of the realm around here for every provider. There are ladies that are unreliable, lay there like a dead fish, don; t kiss, do kiss, give the best service ever, or the worst--The reviews we give should and will highlight these FACTS about your particular experience. The problem that I want to address is when we deviate from these things in a cupla ways--1) As consumers or providers on this site, no one should EVER traffic in rumor--If you saw a needle or a track mark, you should report EXACTLY that, If her service isn't up to par, you should report EXACTLY that, If she is out of it, report it. BUT, don't take whatever research you have done, and combine it with a misperceived slight, to jump to conclusions. BR and Brookee have been wonderful, mostly reliable providers on here--report they are hard to get a hold of, don; t bring in rumor and innuendo about dope boy boyfriends and multiple mongers screening--Give them the credit their reputations have earned--And call them out when they slip up. 2) Negotiating--and this is more for the providers than the mongers--When there is an advertised price associated with a time, Don; t negotiate--You are business women, Take care of business-I work from xxx time to yyyy time, I'll return texts no later than 15 minutes if I am in an appointment, and my rates are zzzz" That's it--the second someone tells you he will give you less than you advertised, tell him to pound sand--If you are a good provider, and you are professional, the clients will come to you. And guys--a little consideration for the ladies as well--They are working hard for us--Unless there is a question about what is on the menu or the price, don; t try and haggle too hard. This is their living, If you have the discretionary income to partake, do it without nickle and dimeing them to the penny--let them pay for an extra pair of shoes for their child or dog--they will appreciate it! 3) Communication--From both sides. If you get a text, return it when you can, and state clearly in your ad, that your window to return is 15 minutes, to prevent unwanted texts 3 hrs later when the SO is now within hearing distance of the phone. DO NOT return texts or calls many hours later, or unsolicited, UNLESS you have enough of a relationship with the guy that you know there is no SO and you won; t be screwing them by texting late. When you set an appointment--Stick with it!! If something comes up, communicate that you can; t do it now--you should NEVER, EVER ghost someone. For Mongers--Same rules apply--Send a text every 15 minutes for about an hour, or let her know in your initial text she can respond at anytime with no problem. If you set an appointment, keep it--If something comes up, communicate-If you send out 4 text to find a providers, When you get a bite and make an appointment, have the common courtesy to resend the text to the ones you didn't choose, saying you are no longer interested--NEVER EVER ghost someone.
This is my opinion about this--It may seem like I am Knighting--really not trying to, just want everyone involved to remember that this is a business, no different, functionally, than walking into a restaurant, giving (and taking) an order and providing the services requested for a defined fee. Don; t give shitty Yelp Reviews because your ex-girlfriend works there or the Manager cut you off on the highway, or try to get the waiter to give you the Filet for the price of the Ribeye.[/QUOTE]Very well said, and applicable on both sides of the hobby. Respect goes a long, long way!
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[QUOTE=CactusIago;3302654]With the recent dustup on here between BR and Brookee I just wanted to highlight a couple of things that seem to have been lost.
The ladies on here are first and foremost, businesswomen; independent contractors, or even employed by someone. The hobbyists on here need to recognize that fact. Their reputations, ARE the currency of the realm around here for every provider. There are ladies that are unreliable, lay there like a dead fish, don; t kiss, do kiss, give the best service ever, or the worst--The reviews we give should and will highlight these FACTS about your particular experience. The problem that I want to address is when we deviate from these things in a cupla ways--1) As consumers or providers on this site, no one should EVER traffic in rumor--If you saw a needle or a track mark, you should report EXACTLY that, If her service isn't up to par, you should report EXACTLY that, If she is out of it, report it. BUT, don't take whatever research you have done, and combine it with a misperceived slight, to jump to conclusions. BR and Brookee have been wonderful, mostly reliable providers on here--report they are hard to get a hold of, don; t bring in rumor and innuendo about dope boy boyfriends and multiple mongers screening--Give them the credit their reputations have earned--And call them out when they slip up. 2) Negotiating--and this is more for the providers than the mongers--When there is an advertised price associated with a time, Don; t negotiate--You are business women, Take care of business-I work from xxx time to yyyy time, I'll return texts no later than 15 minutes if I am in an appointment, and my rates are zzzz" That's it--the second someone tells you he will give you less than you advertised, tell him to pound sand--If you are a good provider, and you are professional, the clients will come to you. And guys--a little consideration for the ladies as well--They are working hard for us--Unless there is a question about what is on the menu or the price, don; t try and haggle too hard. This is their living, If you have the discretionary income to partake, do it without nickle and dimeing them to the penny--let them pay for an extra pair of shoes for their child or dog--they will appreciate it! 3) Communication--From both sides. If you get a text, return it when you can, and state clearly in your ad, that your window to return is 15 minutes, to prevent unwanted texts 3 hrs later when the SO is now within hearing distance of the phone. DO NOT return texts or calls many hours later, or unsolicited, UNLESS you have enough of a relationship with the guy that you know there is no SO and you won; t be screwing them by texting late. When you set an appointment--Stick with it!! If something comes up, communicate that you can; t do it now--you should NEVER, EVER ghost someone. For Mongers--Same rules apply--Send a text every 15 minutes for about an hour, or let her know in your initial text she can respond at anytime with no problem. If you set an appointment, keep it--If something comes up, communicate-If you send out 4 text to find a providers, When you get a bite and make an appointment, have the common courtesy to resend the text to the ones you didn't choose, saying you are no longer interested--NEVER EVER ghost someone.
This is my opinion about this--It may seem like I am Knighting--really not trying to, just want everyone involved to remember that this is a business, no different, functionally, than walking into a restaurant, giving (and taking) an order and providing the services requested for a defined fee. Don; t give shitty Yelp Reviews because your ex-girlfriend works there or the Manager cut you off on the highway, or try to get the waiter to give you the Filet for the price of the Ribeye.[/QUOTE]Lengthy, but relevant and vey true. Thanks for taking the time to share.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3347951]Any SB that has been in the bowl long enough could be classified as a pro. Most SD's never use that type of lingo to a SB. They pick it up from the mongers who treat them like an escort. This is learned behavior from being promised an arrangement from someone who goes silent or missing after the first FC. After a couple of these incidents the girls either get out of the bowl disillusion ed and or learn to adapt and start doing rotations the way the guys do. This is something that the mongers created because most SB wo. Uld much rather have one SD that could be counted on.[/QUOTE]ALL SB's ARE HOOKERS! ALL SD's ARE JOHNS!
You are paying them for sex, you can add all of the stuff that sucks about having a girlfriend to that relationship if you wish to punish yourself but it's still commercial sex.
If you don't pay them they don't fuck you that makes you a john and them a hooker.
[QUOTE=Admin2;3348307]ALL SB's ARE HOOKERS! ALL SD's ARE JOHNS!
You are paying them for sex, you can add all of the stuff that sucks about having a girlfriend to that relationship if you wish to punish yourself but it's still commercial sex.
If you don't pay them they don't fuck you that makes you a john and them a hooker.[/QUOTE]Technically and by most laws your right. Any mutual beneficial agreement would be considered prostitution.
[QUOTE=Whathesaid;3345496]This site does operate offshore.
The fear is that US ISPs may ultimately somehow be required to "block" offshore sites in the name of Freedumb. "respecting women" . Honoring one or more of the Ten Commandments. Or something. Ugh.[/QUOTE]This will never happen because of the negative effect it would have on the global economy.
Off shore legitimate companies would not be allowed to ply their trade.
Just my $0. 02 on the matter.
[QUOTE=Whathesaid;3345496]This site does operate offshore.
The fear is that US ISPs may ultimately somehow be required to "block" offshore sites in the name of Freedumb. "respecting women" . Honoring one or more of the Ten Commandments. Or something. Ugh.[/QUOTE]Get a VPN. Chinese guys have figured out a way around that. And Korea is tougher but that whole country doesn't have internet.
[QUOTE=Admin2;3348307]ALL SB's ARE HOOKERS! ALL SD's ARE JOHNS!
You are paying them for sex, you can add all of the stuff that sucks about having a girlfriend to that relationship if you wish to punish yourself but it's still commercial sex.
If you don't pay them they don't fuck you that makes you a john and them a hooker.[/QUOTE]It's a financial transaction, and if you want to test the "special nature" of that, just ask her if she'll see you for free. LOL I mean, you can engineer it to feel like it's not pay for play, but don't delude yourself.
[QUOTE=Gunman2013;3346137]I have reached out to 7 provider's today. 2 text back then crickets. WTF.[/QUOTE]I keep seeing you guys post that none of these providers answer to your texts or calls amd it blows my mind. I get up at 7-8 am everyday and I get canceled on all the time I don't get it. I always answer and reply to messages promptly because my time is valuable, as I assume you fellas time is as well.
[QUOTE=JosiJames;3349027]I keep seeing you guys post that none of these providers answer to your texts or calls amd it blows my mind. I get up at 7-8 am everyday and I get canceled on all the time I don't get it. I always answer and reply to messages promptly because my time is valuable, as I assume you fellas time is as well.[/QUOTE]I didn't contact you dear. I contacted those close to where I work. But get this at 1:38 AM. This morning I get a text from Zalie24 one of which I reached out to. Saying. " What's up? " I mean WTF?