Non Pro's

I am travelling to Seattle and trying out on SA and SB sites. I did sugar dating long ago in Atlanta. After a long gap, I am trying out again now in Seattle. I am getting lot of one liners. When I reply back, no responses later on (especially, this is the most common pattern I observed on SB. On SA, its as been slightly different, not successful there too, conversation did not go to allowances / offer.

In general, is making an offer upfront works on SA or SB sites? Please share your experiences in that context. Should I first offer or wait for them to share their expectations on allowances for meet ups?

Every interaction maybe unique and different. Would be helpful to hear from this forum on what worked in general, that would be much appreciated, thank you.

[QUOTE=Shekar76;7141326]...
In general, is making an offer upfront works on SA or SB sites? Please share your experiences in that context. Should I first offer or wait for them to share their expectations on allowances for meet ups?
...[/QUOTE]I prefer to only talk money when we have met face to face.

If they bring it up, I'll talk about money when we are messaging (usually SMS or Snapchat these days) off the site.

I won't ever talk money on messages from the site. They aren't at all private. You can get banned from SA for naming dollar amounts on their messaging system. Strangely, girls can set their prices there but daddies can still get banned.

That approach probably costs me some pussy but also saves me a lot of trouble. Trouble that isn't worth the pussy.

I travel a bit for work.

In Seattle and the other town I travel often I have been quite successful, at the towns I do not travel often it has been harder, SBs are not as enthusiastic if they do not see possible consistency.

I never make offers, I do not bring money until after we have fucked. In my experience there is a correlation betweek how early they bring the topic of money and the quality of the experience.

True SB are usually too embarrassed to bring the topic of money quantities.

I never.

[QUOTE=Shekar76;7141326]I am travelling to Seattle and trying out on SA and SB sites. I did sugar dating long ago in Atlanta. After a long gap, I am trying out again now in Seattle. I am getting lot of one liners. When I reply back, no responses later on (especially, this is the most common pattern I observed on SB. On SA, its as been slightly different, not successful there too, conversation did not go to allowances / offer.

In general, is making an offer upfront works on SA or SB sites? Please share your experiences in that context. Should I first offer or wait for them to share their expectations on allowances for meet ups?

Every interaction maybe unique and different. Would be helpful to hear from this forum on what worked in general, that would be much appreciated, thank you.[/QUOTE]

Chatted with this lady, got down to business pretty quick. Wants $750-900 ppm.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2c230bc7-4652-46d9-8780-65b543dc8dcc[/URL]

[QUOTE=Bronco62;7144349]Chatted with this lady, got down to business pretty quick. Wants $750-900 ppm.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2c230bc7-4652-46d9-8780-65b543dc8dcc[/URL][/QUOTE]I'll also note that there was some sketchy shit with this profile. It originally said they like to dance "latin and swing," but as soon as I asked more detail (since I also dance), their answers didn't make any sense. E. g. They said they can't tell Lindy and WCS apart, which is bizarre since they're radically different dances. More likely they just don't know what those are. They also bailed from the convo right after (and changed their profile), suggesting they knew they were caught.

This one wants 200 for first meet. Lmao she reached out to me! And I personally don't generally go for Asians so if it weren't for her reaching out, I would have never reached out to her. She's not particularly attractive and figured I could probably work a good deal because of it.

Anyone seen this one? She cuts to the chase very quickly. Wondering if she's a scam or just very direct.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a5e9fa46-61cb-4d18-990e-d6c2157913e1[/URL]

[QUOTE=ThemC5;7147371]Anyone seen this one? She cuts to the chase very quickly. Wondering if she's a scam or just very direct.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a5e9fa46-61cb-4d18-990e-d6c2157913e1[/URL][/QUOTE]Don't know. Currently talking to this one and moving offline as we speak.

[QUOTE=ThemC5;7147371]Anyone seen this one? She cuts to the chase very quickly. Wondering if she's a scam or just very direct.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a5e9fa46-61cb-4d18-990e-d6c2157913e1[/URL][/QUOTE]No personal intel. But looking at her profile I would go for it. . Her title says "Message me with intent!" and her post is right to the point. She wants money quick and is willing to drop her panties in a hurry. Make sure you get the price you want. With her it isn't about "will she give it up" - its about "what is this going to take".

[QUOTE=SocratesRvng;7147632]Don't know. Currently talking to this one and moving offline as we speak.[/QUOTE]Wish seeking didn't ban my face, shi is annoying.

[QUOTE=ThemC5;7147371]Anyone seen this one? She cuts to the chase very quickly. Wondering if she's a scam or just very direct.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a5e9fa46-61cb-4d18-990e-d6c2157913e1[/URL][/QUOTE][URL]https://x.com/_kaiolivares[/URL]

[QUOTE=Twister100;7147828][URL]https://x.com/_kaiolivares[/URL][/QUOTE]Guess I forgot an image in my tineye search. Thanks for catching that. Another pro. That explains the directness.

[QUOTE=Twister100;7147828][URL]https://x.com/_kaiolivares[/URL][/QUOTE]I conversed with her a little in the meantime. Wants a deposit of half before meeting, then the rest in cash. Told her I could just do it all in cash at the time, but she said she doesn't do cash meets. Um, which one is it LOL. Feels scammy.

I've been texting with a late 30 yo for a couple of months. Her profile on seeking is long gone now. The pictures she sent was someone I would definitely get with. Well we finally met yesterday and my heart just sank.

She is homeless and is shadow of her former self. I know better and there's no way I'm going to be intimate with her or get myself involved.

It is sad what when addiction gets the best of you. To end up on the street without place to live and little hope for a better life.

I did go buy her some food and a few other things to help servive out there.

I'm met some women on hard times but this takes the cake.

[QUOTE=RobertoRoboto1;7129400]See the cuddlers thread. There was some discussion about them.[/QUOTE]The link doesn't work for me.

[QUOTE=ThemC5;7148183]Guess I forgot an image in my tineye search. Thanks for catching that. Another pro. That explains the directness.[/QUOTE]And the deposit scam. What makes me feel better is that someday she'll turn 35 . Nah some dude will still pay for e pussy. Seeking is terrible at filtering scams, but quick to take guys money.

I like Asians, and I have been texting her. She seems interesting. Has anyone fucked her yet? How much $?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/840b756f-3cc9-4d24-82f5-c842dcf592de[/URL]

[QUOTE=SocratesRvng;7146797]This one wants 200 for first meet. Lmao she reached out to me! And I personally don't generally go for Asians so if it weren't for her reaching out, I would have never reached out to her. She's not particularly attractive and figured I could probably work a good deal because of it.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ThemC5;7148200]I conversed with her a little in the meantime. Wants a deposit of half before meeting, then the rest in cash. Told her I could just do it all in cash at the time, but she said she doesn't do cash meets. Um, which one is it LOL. Feels scammy.[/QUOTE]If you read her X posts it takes about 10 seconds to realize she thinks she deserves your money simply for existing. I wouldn't give her the time of day. Unless you have some type of financial abuse fetish. 🙄.

[QUOTE=MilfHunter66;7148649]I've been texting with a late 30 yo for a couple of months. Her profile on seeking is long gone now. The pictures she sent was someone I would definitely get with. Well we finally met yesterday and my heart just sank.

She is homeless and is shadow of her former self. I know better and there's no way I'm going to be intimate with her or get myself involved.

It is sad what when addiction gets the best of you. To end up on the street without place to live and little hope for a better life.

I did go buy her some food and a few other things to help servive out there.

I'm met some women on hard times but this takes the cake.[/QUOTE]Damn dude. That sucks, but good on you for doing the right thing. Hope your next one is a random college sophomore who just needs her $120 cell bill covered this month. ;P

[QUOTE=Moose21;7149675]If you read her X posts it takes about 10 seconds to realize she thinks she deserves your money simply for existing. I wouldn't give her the time of day. Unless you have some type of financial abuse fetish.[/QUOTE]Just wrapped up my negotiations with her. She wants a deposit (required). She only hosts, she said which is weird (Probably to rob you for the rest of the money you didn't send in a deposit). Then again, she could be absolutely real. I'll never know. She's willing to satisfy all your kinks if you just lay them out to her but it comes with an upcharge and the deposit. Told her, all is great except for the deposit and I was pushing on. She wished me luck and that was that.

Be careful, gents.

So-Crates.

[QUOTE=ThemC5;7148200]I conversed with her a little in the meantime. Wants a deposit of half before meeting, then the rest in cash. Told her I could just do it all in cash at the time, but she said she doesn't do cash meets. Um, which one is it LOL. Feels scammy.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=Moose21;7149675]If you read her X posts it takes about 10 seconds to realize she thinks she deserves your money simply for existing. I wouldn't give her the time of day. Unless you have some type of financial abuse fetish..[/QUOTE]+1 moose. When I see a profile like hers, I usually move on without researching her. It is 90% a scam or someone just looking for easy money.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/aac509bd-4a82-46ee-acf2-0fe99eb8c823[/URL]

I'm talking to this one now. Wondering if anyone has seen her and wishes to share about it she's worth the hunt.

Thanks in advance.

[QUOTE=Alfador;7149763]Damn dude. That sucks, but good on you for doing the right thing. Hope your next one is a random college sophomore who just needs her $120 cell bill covered this month. ;P[/QUOTE]Hahaha. Yea one of those on every corner. More like 1200 and I leave in a hour "love". Total joke seeking in Seattle.

Anyone have any insight here? [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/877b0109-d820-494f-9cde-3172d1c7d7c3[/URL].

Redheads tick some of my boxes!

[QUOTE=DagWood66;7153718]Anyone have any insight here? [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/877b0109-d820-494f-9cde-3172d1c7d7c3[/URL].

Redheads tick some of my boxes![/QUOTE]I never saw her but she has been reviewed here.

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?10145-Non-Pro-s&p=7080380&viewfull=1#post7080380[/URL]

If I understood correctly, for non-pro's, [URL]seeking.com[/URL] is the only / primary site this thread discusses, right? And to contact any member on that site, you need a paid subscription?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/48b57f22-a265-4074-ae5b-780cbd9dd133[/URL]

Has anyone seen this one? Would appreciate any info before I pull the trigger.

Also still down for some trades. I like them petite and younger.

Thanks!

[QUOTE=KickBoxing;7154709][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/48b57f22-a265-4074-ae5b-780cbd9dd133[/URL]

Has anyone seen this one? Would appreciate any info before I pull the trigger.

Also still down for some trades. I like them petite and younger.

Thanks![/QUOTE]I must've blocked her or she blocked me what is her user name?

[QUOTE=BigBelly77;7155068]I must've blocked her or she blocked me what is her user name?[/QUOTE]Her name is Jo on seeking. Decent looking Asian girl.

[QUOTE=Legendaddy;7154092]If I understood correctly, for non-pro's, [URL]seeking.com[/URL] is the only / primary site this thread discusses, right? And to contact any member on that site, you need a paid subscription?[/QUOTE]You're correct and there use to be decent discount codes, but they removed them.

So it kinda spendy just to hunt pussy.

I still do it!

For me is super worth it.

But it depends, if one likes short and / or unfrequent meetings, and a lot of variety then its not for one.

[QUOTE=PoonHound1969;7155440]You're correct and there use to be decent discount codes, but they removed them.

So it kinda spendy just to hunt pussy.

I still do it![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PoonHound1969;7155440]You're correct and there use to be decent discount codes, but they removed them.

So it kinda spendy just to hunt pussy.

I still do it![/QUOTE]I had the platinum membership or whatever the highest tier was. I paid like 350 for it? Something ridiculous. It didn't help me get any more messages what so ever. The only two chics I met off that site were even more crazy then the average hooker I met off the street.

[QUOTE=Corsair1;7155593]I had the platinum membership or whatever the highest tier was. I paid like 350 for it? Something ridiculous. It didn't help me get any more messages what so ever. The only two chics I met off that site were even more crazy then the average hooker I met off the street.[/QUOTE]I think is called Diamond Membership. It has never been clear to me how they can ensure more matches if you upgrade, other than I guess come on top of searches and to display your profile on the home page.

In my experience very rarely something develops passively, they do not reach to you, one needs to be proactive and reach.

[QUOTE=KickBoxing;7154709][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/48b57f22-a265-4074-ae5b-780cbd9dd133[/URL]

Has anyone seen this one? Would appreciate any info before I pull the trigger.

Also still down for some trades. I like them petite and younger.

Thanks![/QUOTE]Financially independent single mom. Ok.

[QUOTE=DelToro;7155546]For me is super worth it.

But it depends, if one likes short and / or unfrequent meetings, and a lot of variety then its not for one.[/QUOTE]Same, I travel a lot and like having pussy waiting for me on my trips.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5ee9683c-f8bf-45fc-a044-a07bdb5a7e3e[/URL]

Scam. Sends pictures from an Instagram model in Mississippi.

SA Valentina.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/702a9442-b855-4a8d-9761-9090182af976[/URL]

I am quite happy with my current roster but as things eventually change I always keep an eye for new talent (to me).

Valentina communicated well and looked quite hot so I gave her a try.

Very lack luster dead fish experience, she also feels very pro. And physically she is just ok.

[QUOTE=DelToro;7156483]SA Valentina.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/702a9442-b855-4a8d-9761-9090182af976[/URL]

I am quite happy with my current roster but as things eventually change I always keep an eye for new talent (to me).

Valentina communicated well and looked quite hot so I gave her a try.

Very lack luster dead fish experience, she also feels very pro. And physically she is just ok.[/QUOTE]She has the body of someone who used to be heavy.

Eh, can't win them all. Throw the yolk off and on to the next.

So-Crates.

[QUOTE=XyzzyS2;7156300][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5ee9683c-f8bf-45fc-a044-a07bdb5a7e3e[/URL]

Scam. Sends pictures from an Instagram model in Mississippi.[/QUOTE]Thank you. Reached out to her but will be blocking and moving on.

So-Crates.

No Non Pro.
Kerri.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bd7d491e-10dc-4198-a70e-c5f27999a3f3[/URL]
[URL]https://secrethostess.com/6207600/[/URL]

GPS.
Kate.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d2bab3aa-6ddf-4396-a8f0-28b635dc8e8e[/URL]
Demands "gift" for meet and greet.