A different perspective. WARNING NON PC & NOT WOKE!
[QUOTE=Buster247;6427006]I just hit her up, trying to get more info. I told her that she doesn't dress like a typical provider and how long she's been in the game. [b][color=red]She going to have to send me a revealing pic before I bite. Not a totally nude pic. But something more revealing to show me she ain't five o![/color] [/b] That's what really concerns me! Especially the prices she quoted. I ain't biting until I'm comfortable. It seems that nobody else has any info on her. Either they're not sharing any, or there's just nothing to share right now. I know I'm gong to proceed with caution.[/QUOTE]Oh jeez. From time to time I see a post like this and it has me shaking my head and my blood boiling in fear for the monger. So now all niceties are aside and please remember I am trying to educate as to help others avoid mistakes. Apologize, but the style isn't going to be all Kumbaya!
But SERIOUSLY? You believe that a "more revealing" photo is going to prove a girl is NOT law enforcement? I don't know where to start with that. Two things come to mind, either ignorance (uneducated) or something LE would say.
If you have read these threads consistently, like any monger should, one will have seen NUMEROUS comments by J Richard about LE's use of photos. They CAN and often DO use photos in their sting operations. The detail on this is better left to him and his expertise.
I will say this, if I'm headed to court on some charges, I want to be able to show that the opponent used pictures that most would consider to be [U]pornographic.[/U]*** Therefore, a questionable girl gets a request to provide a picture that is porno, usually a VJ shot. IF she refuses, then I move on. Too many fish in the sea. But according to what I have read here, such a picture may be provided by LE and as such that is no proof at all.
So if one wants to operate on the assumption that a "more revealing" photo is a sign the respondent is not LE, then this is a free country and one is free so to do. NOT me.
One of the ways mongers scr3 w themselves is to get obsessed with one girl, to the point that the little head is driving the bus. Developed Spidey Senses are to be trusted and it is often best to just move on.
Just saying.
Stay safe!
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*** [I] In today's times with Porno being so ubiquitous, it is hard to say what 12 jurors or a sitting judge would find to be "offensive" and thus pornographic.[/I].
This discussion is not even up for debate
[QUOTE=Shampoo55;6427546]Oh jeez. From time to time I see a post like this and it has me shaking my head and my blood boiling in fear for the monger. So now all niceties are aside and please remember I am trying to educate as to help others avoid mistakes. Apologize, but the style isn't going to be all Kumbaya!
But SERIOUSLY? You believe that a "more revealing" photo is going to prove a girl is NOT law enforcement? I don't know where to start with that. Two things come to mind, either ignorance (uneducated) or something LE would say.
If you have read these threads consistently, like any monger should, one will have seen NUMEROUS comments by J Richard about LE's use of photos. They CAN and often DO use photos in their sting operations. The detail on this is better left to him and his expertise.
I will say this, if I'm headed to court on some charges, I want to be able to show that the opponent used pictures that most would consider to be [U]pornographic.[/U]*** Therefore, a questionable girl gets a request to provide a picture that is porno, usually a VJ shot. IF she refuses, then I move on. Too many fish in the sea. But according to what I have read here, such a picture may be provided by LE and as such that is no proof at all.
So if one wants to operate on the assumption that a "more revealing" photo is a sign the respondent is not LE, then this is a free country and one is free so to do. NOT me.
One of the ways mongers scr3 w themselves is to get obsessed with one girl, to the point that the little head is driving the bus. Developed Spidey Senses are to be trusted and it is often best to just move on.
Just saying.
Stay safe!
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*** [I] In today's times with Porno being so ubiquitous, it is hard to say what 12 jurors or a sitting judge would find to be "offensive" and thus pornographic.[/I].[/QUOTE]For starters, many of these providers have requested pics from mongers. So it's alright and acceptable for them to request pics from mongers? So why shouldn't we be able to do the same. Especially if we get a strange vibe!? As good as her pics look, combined with the very reasonable prices she's quoting, there are two things going on for sure. One: She doesn't even look close to the pics she's posting. That's a real good possibility. Or two: She's undercover five o, and looking to jam someone up! She doesn't post very often, and doesn't really look like your typical provider. No one else on here has any input or info on this provider. If they do, they're keeping it to themselves. So I have to be careful and do what I feel will be in my best interest. Nobody else is going to look out for me, so I have to.
As of now, I haven't asked her for a pic. It really doesn't look like I'm going to even pursue her anyway. Something just doesn't sit right with me about her. And nobody else knows anything? Hit her up for yourself and let me know what you think!
Remain Calm- Trying to help
[QUOTE=Buster247;6427735][b][color=red]For starters, many of these providers have requested pics from mongers. So it's alright and acceptable for them to request pics from mongers?[/color][/b] So why shouldn't we be able to do the same. Especially if we get a strange vibe!? As good as her pics look, combined with the very reasonable prices she's quoting, there are two things going on for sure. One: She doesn't even look close to the pics she's posting. That's a real good possibility. Or two: She's undercover five o, and looking to jam someone up! She doesn't post very often, and doesn't really look like your typical provider. No one else on here has any input or info on this provider. If they do, they're keeping it to themselves. So I have to be careful and do what I feel will be in my best interest. Nobody else is going to look out for me, so I have to.
As of now, I haven't asked her for a pic. It really doesn't look like I'm going to even pursue her anyway. Something just doesn't sit right with me about her. And nobody else knows anything? Hit her up for yourself and let me know what you think![/QUOTE]Right there in [color=red][b]red[/b][/color] is an assumption that I do not agree with! It is NOT "alright and acceptable" for providers to request pics from mongers. No one I have read around here thinks that is a good idea. But I don't run the providers, nor act for all mongers so I guess there are plenty of dudes willing to send pics of their face, pics with them holding their ID next to their face and pics of their ID to "prove" they are "real" to some anonymous poster on some website or SM.
To me that is the dumbest thing one could do, especially IF one has an SO and more so if they have kids.
Years ago there was a site called "Exposing Johns" (Google it) where they posed as providers and got dudes to email them, stating sex for money, giving real names, pics, etc. Turns out they provided a website where your info, illegal requests and pics could be found through a Google search. Of course, for a small fee (extortion) they would remove your data. But shoot, there are other vigilanti groups out there trying to effect the hobbying game. Plus who knows what tactics some of these ant-trafficking task forces are doing?
So if you want your family, neighbors, employer, future employer and future relationships to know you are a wh*rem*nger, then by all means send pics as "verification" to anonymous people (providers) on the web!
But what you said next, I do agree with:
[QUOTE=Buster247;6427735] So why shouldn't we be able to do the same. Especially if we get a strange vibe!?[/QUOTE]YES! We should be able to and often it is a great idea to ask the provider for an additional picture! I have never said one can't or shouldn't ask for pics. What is the issue is the [u]type of picture[/u], not whether we can / should ask for a picture. I prefer something that is pornographic in nature, I. E a picture of her vagina.
But where we apparently differ in our view points is that I don't think [B]a revealing pic ..... Not a totally nude pic. But something more revealing[/B]*** is sufficient proof that the poster is NOT LE! LE CAN and might use pictures that are "more revealing," so getting a more revealing picture tells the recipient nothing. Not sure LE can send pics that are porno. But who knows. Now it might be a case where they do it although they are not suppose to, and at that point one has to hire an attorney.
So be clear in what I am saying. A "more revealing" picture is a poor way to do DD and those that rely on that as a way to 'stay safe' are taking chances that could get them jammed up.
Build up some "Spidey Senses" and learn to trust them. Don't be afraid to walk away when the Spidey Senses are tingling. As the old saying goes, [color=green] better safe than sorry.[/color]
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[QUOTE=Buster247;6427006]I just hit her up, trying to get more info. I told her that she doesn't dress like a typical provider and how long she's been in the game. [b]She going to have to send me a revealing pic before I bite. Not a totally nude pic. But something more revealing to show me she ain't five o![/b] That's what really concerns me! Especially the prices she quoted. I ain't biting until I'm comfortable. It seems that nobody else has any info on her. Either they're not sharing any, or there's just nothing to share right now. I know I'm gong to proceed with caution.[/QUOTE]
Melody: Seaford / Bridgeville
I just talked to this one. She quoted 140 hh 240 hr but said she would do 100 hh and 200 hr. I told her that would work. I normally don't do that far South to get up with someone. But she is interesting and sexy as all outdoors! Does anyone have any history with Melody? Is she worth the ride?
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