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10-23-23, 11:31
DarkClouds

Hanlon

I know a Hanlon that is pretty hot. But her first name isn't with a J and I doubt she would do this. You should take a screenshot of any profile you decide to interact with.

[QUOTE=RicolaSmooth;6648770]From all these flakes or deposit scams I got scammed again on a deposit recently and ad is gone right away. Title of ad said Young'um and it was a cute brunette on the pic of the ad. Did a quick and brief call on Zoom so that I could see what she looked like and shanske obliged to do that. That was the only way I'd send a deposit and she told me she was 10 minutes away from me. And named off the town buzz she blocked her face head for safety reasons she said so I understood that. Didn't get to see her face told me she goes by nickname Jolly Hanlon? Or I think it was Jilly H. or Jill H. that's it. Said she just died her hair back to black from Red. She turn around showed me her nice assets and was a sucker instantly. I believe her and sent the 100 deposit. Showed me bottom part of her face had a very cute smile to her. Anyone know this girl? SA ad is gone now the ad had title Young'um weird how she never showed her new dyed hair she talked about. Anyone? Knows of her please let know.[/QUOTE]
10-23-23, 12:50
Mark Powers

Never ever

[QUOTE=RicolaSmooth;6648770]From all these flakes or deposit scams I got scammed again on a deposit recently and ad is gone right away. Title of ad said Young'um and it was a cute brunette on the pic of the ad. Did a quick and brief call on Zoom so that I could see what she looked like and shanske obliged to do that. That was the only way I'd send a deposit and she told me she was 10 minutes away from me. And named off the town buzz she blocked her face head for safety reasons she said so I understood that. Didn't get to see her face told me she goes by nickname Jolly Hanlon? Or I think it was Jilly H. or Jill H. that's it. Said she just died her hair back to black from Red. She turn around showed me her nice assets and was a sucker instantly. I believe her and sent the 100 deposit. Showed me bottom part of her face had a very cute smile to her. Anyone know this girl? SA ad is gone now the ad had title Young'um weird how she never showed her new dyed hair she talked about. Anyone? Knows of her please let know.[/QUOTE]Never ever send deposits. It's so tempting but they know how to make you want to do it.
10-23-23, 17:22
Crickets

When You Think You're Having a Bad Day

[URL]https://www.yahoo.com/news/las-vegas-woman-left-u2-184709983.html[/URL]
10-23-23, 17:36
Ricola Smooth

I admit make mistakes on this seeking site

But I hit a home run last month with a skips my games girl and I just postered about it. Who you speak of Dark? Who this Hanlon girl you know of and yes the name is Jill from what she told me when last texted. I'm still waiting for her to come she has a little sexy body from when saw her on the zoom call. And a nice hoof ass where the cheeks are spread I bet her cool bearded goatee guy bf have a very big dick to spread out that ass.
10-23-23, 17:42
Corrado58

[QUOTE=Gkastanza99;6648973]Never ever send deposits. It's so tempting but they know how to make you want to do it.[/QUOTE]They surely do. Think of why thieves succeed; they live from their chicanery, while this is a hobby for us. They stay one step ahead. Despite the new technology, trust building schemes, they succeed. "Deposits" just give too much power away in an ethically challenged world. Different than paying in person upfront. RS, soldier forth, your streak won't continue. Guys, let's stick with our reliable ladies, then, add variety. Get to know them and get more out of them. Always keep contacts.
10-23-23, 17:59
DarkClouds

Hanlon

After I posted that I realized, if she's going to hoodwink you then it's not like she's going to give you her real name. Best to learn your lesson and move on.

[QUOTE=RicolaSmooth;6649371]But I hit a home run last month with a skips my games girl and I just postered about it. Who you speak of Dark? Who this Hanlon girl you know of and yes the name is Jill from what she told me when last texted. I'm still waiting for her to come she has a little sexy body from when saw her on the zoom call. And a nice hoof ass where the cheeks are spread I bet her cool bearded goatee guy bf have a very big dick to spread out that ass.[/QUOTE]
10-23-23, 18:38
Style20

[QUOTE=Crickets;6649350][URL]https://www.yahoo.com/news/las-vegas-woman-left-u2-184709983.html[/URL][/QUOTE]That guy is so dumb. He gave her the code to the safe where he had money and he never thought anything was going to happen. Guys like that don't think and are the reason why seeking girls always looking for older men like him to be their sugar daddy.
10-24-23, 13:11
Spill

Unbelievable

[QUOTE=Style20;6649471]That guy is so dumb. He gave her the code to the safe where he had money and he never thought anything was going to happen. Guys like that don't think and are the reason why seeking girls always looking for older men like him to be their sugar daddy.[/QUOTE]I read that yesterday and thought, he should run for congress.
10-25-23, 12:38
BigCoolie

Kylie Monroe

For those of you looking for a small person.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cfe443ab-304f-4fe6-8793-1469c3227b69[/URL]
10-25-23, 13:01
Mark Powers

Kylie Monroe

[QUOTE=BigCoolie;6651757]For those of you looking for a small person.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cfe443ab-304f-4fe6-8793-1469c3227b69[/URL][/QUOTE]Have you seen her or just sharing the find?
10-25-23, 14:52
DougF

Just got my account locked and can't get it unlocked without verifying identity. This site seems to be going downhill fast. No chance I'm sending them a photo of my I'd.
10-25-23, 15:38
DarkClouds

Ugh

Zat sucks buffalo balls.

[QUOTE=DougF;6651956]Just got my account locked and can't get it unlocked without verifying identity. This site seems to be going downhill fast. No chance I'm sending them a photo of my I'd.[/QUOTE]
10-25-23, 17:22
Mark Powers

1 photos

Kylie Monroe

[QUOTE=Gkastanza99;6651797]Have you seen her or just sharing the find?[/QUOTE]I found her twitter.
10-25-23, 20:43
Wiseass

Account Deleted

[QUOTE=DougF;6651956]Just got my account locked and can't get it unlocked without verifying identity. This site seems to be going downhill fast. No chance I'm sending them a photo of my I'd.[/QUOTE]Your not the only One with Trouble. I tried to Sign in Today and I couldn't, I get the Message that my Account has been deleted. No warning, No email, No Nothing as to Why! Funny thing is I just got the email 2 Days ago to check out the New Members.
10-25-23, 21:49
Joe1223

[QUOTE=BigCoolie;6651757]For those of you looking for a small person.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cfe443ab-304f-4fe6-8793-1469c3227b69[/URL][/QUOTE]She is short but not small LOL.
10-26-23, 13:27
Mark Powers

Kylie

[QUOTE=Joe1223;6652530]She is short but not small LOL.[/QUOTE]I was curious so I texted her. $1000/ hr. Too much for me.
10-26-23, 14:04
JClearMan1

[QUOTE=Gkastanza99;6652185]I found her twitter.[/QUOTE]Yeah, kind of strange that her seeking profile says she's in Boston. I'll messaged her and she said she was not in Boston.
10-26-23, 14:05
JClearMan1

[QUOTE=Wiseass;6652461]Your not the only One with Trouble. I tried to Sign in Today and I couldn't, I get the Message that my Account has been deleted. No warning, No email, No Nothing as to Why! Funny thing is I just got the email 2 Days ago to check out the New Members.[/QUOTE]Just curious: did either of you have paid accounts?
10-26-23, 14:38
DarkClouds

Boston

Most girls who set their location as Boston aren't in Boston proper. They're doing that either to stay anonymous or to attract a larger audience.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6653339]Yeah, kind of strange that her seeking profile says she's in Boston. I'll messaged her and she said she was not in Boston.[/QUOTE]
10-26-23, 14:45
Wiseass

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6653340]Just curious: did either of you have paid accounts?[/QUOTE]Good Question! I was thinking along the same lines. I'm assuming my Account may have been deleted, because I haven't re-upped my Paid Membership in over a year. If that's the case, an email to that effect, warning of the my Account deletion, would have been nice.
10-26-23, 14:47
Patriarchist

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6653339]Yeah, kind of strange that her seeking profile says she's in Boston. I'll messaged her and she said she was not in Boston.[/QUOTE]I remember reading an escort review of her stating she has an attitude and is not GFE.
10-26-23, 18:21
Hyperion11

Seeking report

A summary report of my two months on seeking. Initially I was planning to spend one month on it, but this site can be addictive! My search area was Boston and around, up to Providence and Nashua. 20 to 30 year-olds, slim to athletic. To be at least 8 out of 10 in my book in terms of looks. My intent was to find someone that I can meet 1-3 times per month, ongoing.

In total, I met around 15 women and had intimate dates with 9 out of those. Lowest PPM was 400, highest 600. Looks like the sweet spot is 500, at least for the demographics I targeted. But damn, it's a lot of work. Many scammers, many profiles that just go silent after a while. And many GPS! It's even worse for me as work and family keep me really busy, so scheduling even a coffee meet was a nightmare. Pretty sure I lost couple of potential good dates because of that.

Talking about logistics, I usually try to meet during the day and book a day room (cheaper! I check these sites for good deals:

[URL]https://www.dayuse.com/[/URL]

[URL]https://www.hotelsbyday.com/[/URL]

[URL]https://www.daybreakhotels.com/[/URL]

And for nighttime hotels:

[URL]https://www.hotwire.com/[/URL]

[URL]https://www.priceline.com/[/URL]

Sex ranged from bellow average to mind blowing. I ended up with two regulars, and I can't freaking decide which one to drop. Don't have the time or money to keep meeting both LOL.

On the BBFS topic, 75% of the girls ended up offering it. Most not on the first date though. However, the appalling aspect for me is that most of them are not on BC. One of them literally told me to go ahead and CIP, as she's not in the fertile time of the month. Smh! This is a crazy slippery slope, someone needs to talk some sense into me.

Some interesting profiles:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bc6ab93c-04d7-4f4e-81df-ac832dd88786[/URL]

Really good looking, $500, but super PRO.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/16d69aa7-426a-4c45-b65d-5bb1a64ac356[/URL]

Looks hot, didn't meet her, as she wanted $800.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7139ce83-bfa2-4fe3-b052-eb4cf70d4bd9[/URL]

Seems PRO, wanted $300, ok with BBFS from first meet. Something felt off about it and although seemed a good thing, I didn't go for it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6719cdc2-41cd-4d57-8e8f-bb6b5b0f9d51[/URL]

Pro or semi-pro. Can only meet in a limited time window during the day. Asked for $500. I passed.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9fb33f19-4f4b-453d-88e9-f9d31db9f8d9[/URL]

Asked for $500, but said no kissing and that's a big turn off for me. Passed.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40a44d42-58d0-4247-93d7-316ed9fff71b[/URL]

Didn't get the chance to meet this one. Curious if anyone did meet her. She was asking for $500, but probably can be negotiated down.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ef1ae54-f61c-4a74-b666-5a15952e8511[/URL]

Really strange interaction with this one. She seemed a scammer at first, asking for gas money and help with bills before we even met. I kind of ignored her for a while, but then she pinged me wanting to meet. I was 90% sure she won't show up, so I had a backup date scheduled, but she did! Sex was bellow average though, she's really amateur in that department.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d4469a1f-2f29-41ba-83e4-d98e21268930[/URL]

Wanted drinks and then hookup in the car. Asking $500. I countered with $300, she went silent.
10-26-23, 18:41
DarkClouds

Maria

I didn't like Maria (second from the bottom) based on our interaction, so moved on.

[QUOTE=Hyperion11;6653725]A summary report of my two months on seeking. Initially I was planning to spend one month on it, but this site can be addictive! My search area was Boston and around, up to Providence and Nashua. 20 to 30 year-olds, slim to athletic. To be at least 8 out of 10 in my book in terms of looks. My intent was to find someone that I can meet 1-3 times per month, ongoing.

In total, I met around 15 women and had intimate dates with 9 out of those. Lowest PPM was 400, highest 600. Looks like the sweet spot is 500, at least for the demographics I targeted. But damn, it's a lot of work. Many scammers, many profiles that just go silent after a while. And many GPS! It's even worse for me as work and family keep me really busy, so scheduling even a coffee meet was a nightmare. Pretty sure I lost couple of potential good dates because of that.

Talking about logistics, I usually try to meet during the day and book a day room (cheaper! I check these sites for good deals:

[URL]https://www.dayuse.com/[/URL]

[URL]https://www.hotelsbyday.com/[/URL]

[URL]https://www.daybreakhotels.com/[/URL]

And for nighttime hotels:

[URL]https://www.hotwire.com/[/URL]

[URL]https://www.priceline.com/[/URL]

Sex ranged from bellow average to mind blowing. I ended up with two regulars, and I can't freaking decide which one to drop. Don't have the time or money to keep meeting both LOL.[/QUOTE]
10-26-23, 18:52
FrogPilot

Great review

[QUOTE=Hyperion11;6653725]A summary report of my two months on seeking. Initially I was planning to spend one month on it, but this site can be addictive! My search area was Boston and around, up to Providence and Nashua. 20 to 30 year-olds, slim to athletic. To be at least 8 out of 10 in my book in terms of looks. My intent was to find someone that I can meet 1-3 times per month, ongoing...
[/QUOTE]Great review, you didn't miss much with this one:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6719cdc2-41cd-4d57-8e8f-bb6b5b0f9d51?_cf_ref=aHR0cDovL3d3dy51c2FzZXhndWlkZS5ubC8%3D[/URL]

I got her for 400, CFS, BBBJ but no CIM, which was disappointing because the BBBJ was actually really good but it was an absolute no on CIM. Her behavior was a bit off, spent a lot of time in the bathroom multiple times, I don't know if it was a result of drug use or what but I wasn't interested in seeing her again.
10-26-23, 19:17
Corrado58

[QUOTE=Hyperion11;6653725]A summary report of my two months on seeking. Initially I was planning to spend one month on it, but this site can be addictive! My search area was Boston and around, up to Providence and Nashua. 20 to 30 year-olds, slim to athletic. To be at least 8 out of 10 in my book in terms of looks. My intent was to find someone that I can meet 1-3 times per month, ongoing.

In total, I met around 15 women and had intimate dates with 9 out of those. Lowest PPM was 400, highest 600. Looks like the sweet spot is 500, at least for the demographics I targeted. But damn, it's a lot of work. Many scammers, many profiles that just go silent after a while. And many GPS! It's even worse for me as work and family keep me really busy, so scheduling even a coffee meet was a nightmare. Pretty sure I lost couple of potential good dates because of that.

Talking about logistics, I usually try to meet during the day and book a day room (cheaper! I check these sites for good deals:

[URL]https://www.dayuse.com/[/URL]

[URL]https://www.hotelsbyday.com/[/URL]

[URL]https://www.daybreakhotels.com/[/URL]

And for nighttime hotels:

[URL]https://www.hotwire.com/[/URL]

[URL]https://www.priceline.com/[/URL]

Sex ranged from bellow average to mind blowing. I ended up with two regulars, and I can't freaking decide which one to drop. Don't have the time or money to keep meeting both LOL.

On the BBFS topic, 75% of the girls ended up offering it. Most not on the first date though. However, the appalling aspect for me is that most of them are not on BC. One of them literally told me to go ahead and CIP, as she's not in the fertile time of the month. Smh! This is a crazy slippery slope, someone needs to talk some sense into me.

Some interesting profiles:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bc6ab93c-04d7-4f4e-81df-ac832dd88786[/URL]

Really good looking, $500, but super PRO.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/16d69aa7-426a-4c45-b65d-5bb1a64ac356[/URL]

Looks hot, didn't meet her, as she wanted $800.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7139ce83-bfa2-4fe3-b052-eb4cf70d4bd9[/URL]

Seems PRO, wanted $300, ok with BBFS from first meet. Something felt off about it and although seemed a good thing, I didn't go for it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/6719cdc2-41cd-4d57-8e8f-bb6b5b0f9d51[/URL]

Pro or semi-pro. Can only meet in a limited time window during the day. Asked for $500. I passed.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9fb33f19-4f4b-453d-88e9-f9d31db9f8d9[/URL]

Asked for $500, but said no kissing and that's a big turn off for me. Passed.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/40a44d42-58d0-4247-93d7-316ed9fff71b[/URL]

Didn't get the chance to meet this one. Curious if anyone did meet her. She was asking for $500, but probably can be negotiated down.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ef1ae54-f61c-4a74-b666-5a15952e8511[/URL]

Really strange interaction with this one. She seemed a scammer at first, asking for gas money and help with bills before we even met. I kind of ignored her for a while, but then she pinged me wanting to meet. I was 90% sure she won't show up, so I had a backup date scheduled, but she did! Sex was bellow average though, she's really amateur in that department.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d4469a1f-2f29-41ba-83e4-d98e21268930[/URL]

Wanted drinks and then hookup in the car. Asking $500. I countered with $300, she went silent.[/QUOTE]Hype, thanks for that report. I haven't been on SA for 6 yrs. Or so. I am older than you, so I would seek older women. Your report is disheartening, but I am glad you could find two that you liked, keepers. That yield is very good. IDK how you do it; it is a mountain of work. I think the least surprising was that that girl knew her fertile period, LOL. But the prices, not allowing BBFS on first meet, no kissing, etc. Is disappointing. I had found it very good when I used it.
10-26-23, 21:50
MosesBlackk

Boston money

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6653339]Yeah, kind of strange that her seeking profile says she's in Boston. I'll messaged her and she said she was not in Boston.[/QUOTE]There are a lot of wealthy guys in Boston who don't care about spending thousands and the girls know this. Think Harvard / MIT nerds / socially awkward but intelligent guys without experience / and the finance bros. Many Providence strippers advertise in Boston for this reason.
10-27-23, 07:58
Mark Powers

1 photos

What happens when

What happens when someone logs into their scam accounts one after the other.
10-27-23, 14:57
Corrado58

Mass Money

[QUOTE=MosesBlackk;6653968]There are a lot of wealthy guys in Boston who don't care about spending thousands and the girls know this. Think Harvard / MIT nerds / socially awkward but intelligent guys without experience / and the finance bros. Many Providence strippers advertise in Boston for this reason.[/QUOTE]I think this trend extends to the population here in general of guys earning well. Also, new guys to the scene, younger than 45, pulling down very good salaries spending 500 plus on meets for stripper bodies, covered, mechanical, non GFE service. This initiation sticks with them and becomes the norm. We all have different standards and predilections that are informed by how much coin we can dispose of.
10-27-23, 19:41
MosesBlackk

Yep

[QUOTE=Corrado58;6654800]I think this trend extends to the population here in general of guys earning well. Also, new guys to the scene, younger than 45, pulling down very good salaries spending 500 plus on meets for stripper bodies, covered, mechanical, non GFE service. This initiation sticks with them and becomes the norm. We all have different standards and predilections that are informed by how much coin we can dispose of.[/QUOTE]And we move to seeking. With effort I'm able to pull the full GFE (except BB which I wouldn't do with a dancer) from above average strippers, but a lot of time and effort is wasted. Really hate the mechanical bullshit that qualifies for service these days.
10-27-23, 20:44
DougF

[QUOTE=DougF;6651956]Just got my account locked and can't get it unlocked without verifying identity. This site seems to be going downhill fast. No chance I'm sending them a photo of my I'd.[/QUOTE]I emailed seeking threatening a refund if I had to verify and they actually said they would refund me. Not sure if I'll ever see it because I used a virtual card, but that's not the point. The much more interesting thing is that they refereed to me having to verify as a "suspension" I'm guessing I got reported for something and this verification thing is a new suspension process.
10-28-23, 08:55
Bran001

[QUOTE=Corrado58;6653800]Hype, thanks for that report. I haven't been on SA for 6 yrs. Or so. I am older than you, so I would seek older women. Your report is disheartening, but I am glad you could find two that you liked, keepers. That yield is very good. IDK how you do it; it is a mountain of work. I think the least surprising was that that girl knew her fertile period, LOL. But the prices, not allowing BBFS on first meet, no kissing, etc. Is disappointing. I had found it very good when I used it.[/QUOTE]His report is very accurate in my experience. You're right. It's a ton of work and even when you get all the way to the bedroom / hotel room, a big percentage of the time it's "well that was a release but I'd not see her again" result.

I had quit SA, then went back over the past 4 months, and honestly made 0 new long-term interests. Had coffee with several young women who'd have seen me again but I was just meh about them the next day. And a few sessions that were ok but just not worth repeating to me Maybe I'm just getting old and / or tired of it! LOL.

For many it's a lot about the chase, not the catch. That's called a compulsion and it applies. Over these past 4 months the chase was way more interesting than the catches. So time to quit it again.
10-28-23, 09:56
MosesBlackk

Supply and demand

[QUOTE=Bran001;6655629]His report is very accurate in my experience. You're right. It's a ton of work and even when you get all the way to the bedroom / hotel room, a big percentage of the time it's "well that was a release but I'd not see her again" result.

I had quit SA, then went back over the past 4 months, and honestly made 0 new long-term interests. Had coffee with several young women who'd have seen me again but I was just meh about them the next day. And a few sessions that were ok but just not worth repeating to me Maybe I'm just getting old and / or tired of it! LOL.

For many it's a lot about the chase, not the catch. That's called a compulsion and it applies. Over these past 4 months the chase was way more interesting than the catches. So time to quit it again.[/QUOTE]If only going for 8's or higher it will be an absolute shit ton of work since everybody and their father is going after the same ones. They get 100's of messages per day and more on other socials. Then add in compatibility and it's rare to find a long term thing. Also many of these girls have severe mental problems, so they'll ghost, fade, or zombie you when their current sugar daddy dumps them. I.

It's work either way with civilians, strippers, or sugaring. The days of just flashing money and getting what you want are over except with straight escorts and girls very desperate for money or low on the attraction scale. Of course that doesn't qualify if you're a celebrity or a pro athlete (who are also hitting up these hoes on their igs) but 99% of us aren't.
10-28-23, 15:47
Corrado58

[QUOTE=MosesBlackk;6655697]If only going for 8's or higher it will be an absolute shit ton of work since everybody and their father is going after the same ones. They get 100's of messages per day and more on other socials. Then add in compatibility and it's rare to find a long term thing. Also many of these girls have severe mental problems, so they'll ghost, fade, or zombie you when their current sugar daddy dumps them. I.

It's work either way with civilians, strippers, or sugaring. The days of just flashing money and getting what you want are over except with straight escorts and girls very desperate for money or low on the attraction scale. Of course that doesn't qualify if you're a celebrity or a pro athlete (who are also hitting up these hoes on their igs) but 99% of us aren't.[/QUOTE]Moses and Bran, thanks for your posts. For many it is about the chase, which is how we are wired. We've been wired and groomed by marketing to aspire to the cheerleader, stripper, not the healthy looking, normal girl next door, who could be more sexual / sexy than any of the aforementioned. The reasons for not sustaining a long term situation are myriad, but real and on the part of the girls, sadly. These findings of terrible attitudes, entitlement and lack of effort are disheartening. A bad sign is when a girl charges for a meet and greet. When I first read that, I said to myself, "We're in trouble". That first meet and greet should be meeting us half way, to vie to be considered, to be hired, in a sense. Or is it just me?
10-28-23, 16:21
Mattis1775

[QUOTE=Gkastanza99;6654317]What happens when someone logs into their scam accounts one after the other.[/QUOTE]Glad I'm not paying money for this BS subscription. Tried it once, had pretty good luck and it went downhill from there. They kept sending me subscription discounts. But I didn't take the bait.
10-28-23, 16:35
DarkClouds

Meet and greet

In my many years of mongering, I've never ever paid for a meet and greet beyond a cup of coffee or a sandwich. I still have vivid memories of this absolute knockout Latina from Panama I picked up one fine morning in the Lawrence area. I bought her a Starbucks sausage, egg, and cheese breakfast sandwich or some such. She was famished and had this romantic twinkle in her eyes as she gobbled up her breakfast during the drive to my spot. Needless to say, the amateurs appreciate even small gestures and the payback is immeasurable. Whereas the pros are ungrateful no matter what you do for them.

[QUOTE=Corrado58;6656100]Moses and Bran, thanks for your posts. For many it is about the chase, which is how we are wired. We've been wired and groomed by marketing to aspire to the cheerleader, stripper, not the healthy looking, normal girl next door, who could be more sexual / sexy than any of the aforementioned. The reasons for not sustaining a long term situation are myriad, but real and on the part of the girls, sadly. These findings of terrible attitudes, entitlement and lack of effort are disheartening. A bad sign is when a girl charges for a meet and greet. When I first read that, I said to myself, "We're in trouble". That first meet and greet should be meeting us half way, to vie to be considered, to be hired, in a sense. Or is it just me?[/QUOTE]
10-28-23, 17:20
Bran001

[QUOTE=MosesBlackk;6655697]If only going for 8's or higher it will be an absolute shit ton of work since everybody and their father is going after the same ones. They get 100's of messages per day and more on other socials. Then add in compatibility and it's rare to find a long term thing. Also many of these girls have severe mental problems, so they'll ghost, fade, or zombie you when their current sugar daddy dumps them. I.

It's work either way with civilians, strippers, or sugaring. The days of just flashing money and getting what you want are over except with straight escorts and girls very desperate for money or low on the attraction scale. Of course that doesn't qualify if you're a celebrity or a pro athlete (who are also hitting up these hoes on their igs) but 99% of us aren't.[/QUOTE]I don't focus at all on the conventional 8-10's. I go for the girl next door type. Nerdy girls. But with rare exception they have to be reasonably fit. It's STILL a ton of work with all the same issues.
10-28-23, 17:22
Bran001

[QUOTE=Corrado58;6656100]Moses and Bran, thanks for your posts. For many it is about the chase, which is how we are wired. We've been wired and groomed by marketing to aspire to the cheerleader, stripper, not the healthy looking, normal girl next door, who could be more sexual / sexy than any of the aforementioned. The reasons for not sustaining a long term situation are myriad, but real and on the part of the girls, sadly. These findings of terrible attitudes, entitlement and lack of effort are disheartening. A bad sign is when a girl charges for a meet and greet. When I first read that, I said to myself, "We're in trouble". That first meet and greet should be meeting us half way, to vie to be considered, to be hired, in a sense. Or is it just me?[/QUOTE]I've always looked for the first meet and greet to be a 'meet me half way' with respect to when / where, and of course it's never compensated unless it's for an Uber to get there or parking in Boston.

If a girl won't be reasonable to arrange a meet and greet I assume she'll be way worse in any "arrangement" and so I quit while I'm ahead.

And again I personally don't aspire to the cheerleader / stripper types. I'm all about the normal girl next door.
10-28-23, 17:58
Corrado58

Good to hear

[QUOTE=Bran001;6656195]I've always looked for the first meet and greet to be a 'meet me half way' with respect to when / where, and of course it's never compensated unless it's for an Uber to get there or parking in Boston.

If a girl won't be reasonable to arrange a meet and greet I assume she'll be way worse in any "arrangement" and so I quit while I'm ahead.

And again I personally don't aspire to the cheerleader / stripper types. I'm all about the normal girl next door.[/QUOTE]Glad to hear, Bran. Still always a lot of luck and work. Liked this, "If a girl won't be reasonable to arrange a meet and greet I assume she'll be way worse in any "arrangement" and so I quit while I'm ahead. " Nice common sense from you and a good practice.
10-28-23, 18:41
MosesBlackk

Oh yeah

[QUOTE=Bran001;6656194]I don't focus at all on the conventional 8-10's. I go for the girl next door type. Nerdy girls. But with rare exception they have to be reasonably fit. It's STILL a ton of work with all the same issues.[/QUOTE]Oh yeah bro, this Gen Z and millennial generation of women are full of complete entitlement. Even if you're paying them they can be a pain in the ass. Might be time to become passport bros. Not the same in other countries. Yet.
10-28-23, 22:08
Hyperion11

[QUOTE=Corrado58;6656100]Moses and Bran, thanks for your posts. For many it is about the chase, which is how we are wired. We've been wired and groomed by marketing to aspire to the cheerleader, stripper, not the healthy looking, normal girl next door, who could be more sexual / sexy than any of the aforementioned. The reasons for not sustaining a long term situation are myriad, but real and on the part of the girls, sadly. These findings of terrible attitudes, entitlement and lack of effort are disheartening. A bad sign is when a girl charges for a meet and greet. When I first read that, I said to myself, "We're in trouble". That first meet and greet should be meeting us half way, to vie to be considered, to be hired, in a sense. Or is it just me?[/QUOTE]Couldn't agree more. The chase is exciting and addictive. Good chemistry is rare, hence with most I don't move past the first intimate encounter. Overall I am relieved my membership expired, as all the texting, M&Gs and meetings were really putting a strain on me.

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