Ashley,
Happy Birthday girl I hope you had a great day.
Marc
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Ashley,
Happy Birthday girl I hope you had a great day.
Marc
Happy Birthday
[QUOTE=Citywalk;1317710]Happy Birthday[/QUOTE]Of you to wish me a Happy Bday. Thank you very much.
[QUOTE=Marc70; 1317707]Ashley,
Happy Birthday girl I hope you had a great day.
Marc[/QUOTE]Thanks you very much.
[QUOTE=Jada69; 1317651]Happy Birthday sexy lady. Enjoy your day!
JADA69[/QUOTE]Dang sexy lady where in the heck have you been? I miss seeing your sexy behind on here! Thanks for bday wish. XOXOXOXOXO Ashley.
Hey beautiful lady, I wish you many more years.
Kisses. BeHard.
Great points made by VS and ET. A sensual experience is not something that can be quantified with a slide rule. The computer geeks and the bean counters have screwed up virtually aspect of life in today's society. Now I guess they want to devise a mathematical formula or strict legalistic definitions to apply to sensuality and eroticism.
Montana
[QUOTE=VerySlowly; 1317005]We sure have had our differences in the past. However your GFE post was completely on the money, a GFE experience is an emotional experience it is well outside a repeatable act such as the formula for 440 stainless steel or the formula for bread that quantifies the ingredients so as to insure the same result every time. A few years back many girls would perform BBBJ but would not KISS, this for most girls was a "Personal" act reserved for their personal sex life with their BF or GF. Then maybe 5 years or so ago some girls started kissing and "making out" which included " Deep French kissing" and some allowed dining at the Y which was another game changer. I'll leave the judgement on that to the individual to decide if that was a move in the right direction.
Personally I have enjoyed the pleasures of sex in many cultures in many areas of the globe and have had incredible, intense, experiences that did not include BBBJ or intercourse and were far more intense than most personal girlfriends I have had in America. So frankly the term really indicates as you have said the "Total experience" including the atmosphere (Is it candles and low light or bad breath+ hygiene or dirty laundry in a dirty apt or motel room?). Big difference no matter if their GFE or not.
So gents if you believe BBBJ is an absolute for a GFE experience I feel sorry for you as your missing out on some incredible experiences, as many girls do it better with a condom on than than basically uninterested, average, rushing provider who does it raw, in Europe many girls put the condom in their mouth and install it and their technique is so good you don't even know it's there. Some don't even put their mouth on it they do it with their tongue in their cheek on the outside of the condom.
So if your an Engineer I suppose a strict rule is important to you as everything must be quantified as an absolute, if your not lay back and enjoy and get the most out of the encounter that you can and then do it again.
There are so many so many great ladies that advertise and have been reviewed on here surely you can find a few that really ring your bell and you can define your own GFE, nobody has to tell me what it is when I feel it and so will you, it's that weak in the knees feeling and that urge to get back as soon as possible, that feeling so many of you have posted about, THAT iS GFE-VS[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Behard; 1317912]Hey beautiful lady, I wish you many more years.
Kisses. BeHard.[/QUOTE]Thanks so much for that. Looking forward to seeing you soon.
XOXOOX
[QUOTE=Mystical0945;1317850]Dang sexy lady where in the heck have you been? I miss seeing your sexy behind on here! Thanks for bday wish. XOXOXOXOXO Ashley.[/QUOTE]HEY I've been in Memphis and Alabama. I really miss you guys so much and can't wait until I get back. Stafe safe and SEXY!
JADA69
The best blow job I ever got was from Hanna, covered and put on with her mouth, she sure had a talented tongue.
[QUOTE=Montana77; 1317944]Great points made by VS and ET. A sensual experience is not something that can be quantified with a slide rule. The computer geeks and the bean counters have screwed up virtually aspect of life in today's society. Now I guess they want to devise a mathematical formula or strict legalistic definitions to apply to sensuality and eroticism.
Montana[/QUOTE]It is not about bean counting, it is just about having a way to write a review that could be understood by everyone without having to list the graphic details. The definition of GFE I put out there of good attitude, kissing, BBBJ, DATY and CFS is just a basic minimum list of what a good girlfriend would do for you. I compiled the list from reading many other GFE definitions I had read elsewhere, so I don't consider it my definition, but rather a majority view of what GFE is.
It does not mean I have to have all of these things every time I go out. I never do DATY with a provider, but others do and like it, so it is included in the list. It does not mean I have closed my mind off to other experiences and am missing something by posting a basic list of GFE criteria. I recently wrote a positive review of Merlot Parker. Other than a good attitude, Merlot does not do anything GFE, but what she does do was certainly a good time.
When it comes to sex, we all have things we like and that is what we gravitate to. It is foolish to say that we are just butterflies being carried on the breeze and we just should take what ever comes our without any direction on our part. Some guys like to walk in the door and jump on and get off and walk out the door with a word, some guys like to have oranges thrown at them while they are tied up, others like to be kicked repeatedly in the balls, some like to do DATY for 90 percent of the time they paid for to show the provider they are good lovers. There are many ways to get off and all of them are perfectly fine between two consenting adults.
I generally like to visit mature ladies that I find attractive that are easy to talk to. I enjoy ladies that can give a good BBBJ. Sometimes the BJ is so good that the lady finishes things up that way, and other times the BJ makes me want to move on to CFS. I consider myself to have a flexible attitude and can deviate from that plan from time to time, but this works for me. I do understand that not everybody does things this way. As I said it is all good when it comes to sex, so do what you want that makes you happy. I will say that a brief BBBJ is better than any CBJ to me. The C in CBJ stands for covered, but to me, it means crappy. There is almost nothing that turns me off more than a CBJ. It completely ruins the experience. In years past, I have ladies tell me that you won't be able to tell the difference when I do the CBJ and I can tell you all that I knew the difference. So, I make an effort to avoid the CBJ ladies because I know before hand that I will not enjoy their services.
Now that we apparently don't have a defintion of GFE anymore, the reviews will mean nothing when someone says they had GFE from a provider because everyone will have their own view of what GFE is. We, as a community have somewhat agreed not to post as many graphic details, so where do we go from here? I am listening.
[QUOTE=Jethrow1;1318163]The best blow job I ever got was from Hanna, covered and put on with her mouth, she sure had a talented tongue.[/QUOTE]I saw the post about European girls and then this one. My first thought was, why bother? Seems like both parties are still going to get a small exchange of bodily fluids (BF) and possible skin-to-skin (SS) contact. I guess a little BF / SS is better than a lot of BF / SS. Having said that I'd be curious to experience this technique.
[QUOTE=Otwist; 1318242]It is not about bean counting, it is just about having a way to write a review that could be understood by everyone without having to list the graphic details. The definition of GFE I put out there of good attitude, kissing, BBBJ, DATY and CFS is just a basic minimum list of what a good girlfriend would do for you. I compiled the list from reading many other GFE definitions I had read elsewhere, so I don't consider it my definition, but rather a majority view of what GFE is.
It does not mean I have to have all of these things every time I go out. I never do DATY with a provider, but others do and like it, so it is included in the list. It does not mean I have closed my mind off to other experiences and am missing something by posting a basic list of GFE criteria. I recently wrote a positive review of Merlot Parker. Other than a good attitude, Merlot does not do anything GFE, but what she does do was certainly a good time.
When it comes to sex, we all have things we like and that is what we gravitate to. It is foolish to say that we are just butterflies being carried on the breeze and we just should take what ever comes our without any direction on our part. Some guys like to walk in the door and jump on and get off and walk out the door with a word, some guys like to have oranges thrown at them while they are tied up, others like to be kicked repeatedly in the balls, some like to do DATY for 90 percent of the time they paid for to show the provider they are good lovers. There are many ways to get off and all of them are perfectly fine between two consenting adults.
I generally like to visit mature ladies that I find attractive that are easy to talk to. I enjoy ladies that can give a good BBBJ. Sometimes the BJ is so good that the lady finishes things up that way, and other times the BJ makes me want to move on to CFS. I consider myself to have a flexible attitude and can deviate from that plan from time to time, but this works for me. I do understand that not everybody does things this way. As I said it is all good when it comes to sex, so do what you want that makes you happy. I will say that a brief BBBJ is better than any CBJ to me. The C in CBJ stands for covered, but to me, it means crappy. There is almost nothing that turns me off more than a CBJ. It completely ruins the experience. In years past, I have ladies tell me that you won't be able to tell the difference when I do the CBJ and I can tell you all that I knew the difference. So, I make an effort to avoid the CBJ ladies because I know before hand that I will not enjoy their services.
Now that we apparently don't have a defintion of GFE anymore, the reviews will mean nothing when someone says they had GFE from a provider because everyone will have their own view of what GFE is. We, as a community have somewhat agreed not to post as many graphic details, so where do we go from here? I am listening.[/QUOTE]This argument is getting old as if you really look at the gist of this hobby you will realize that YMMV from provider to provider / it's a gamble I for one have never agreed to post as a community nor will I. We are all individuals with our own style of writing and describing our experiences that in and of it's self is what makes this forum what it is. The monger should have enough common sense to weed out the good and the bad while realizing this hobby is a game and your mileage may vary. Everyone should feel free to post as they see fit.
There has been a discussion regarding some adds that some white women will not provide services to black man!
See below!
[quote]White Women Black Men.
Originally Posted by Mister Pickles [View Original Post]
I agree with Miahdog (somewhat). I know there are some girls whose handlers forbid them and some who are attracted to black men in their civilian lives and others who think black men are less likely to walk away quietly if the provider tries to rob, cash and dash or otherwise pull off a scam but I think (and this is just my opinion) the majority who put "no black men" in their posts do so to give themselves an air of premium-ness (is that a word?). Let us not forget that while this is a hobby for us it's a business for them which means the things they place in their ads and on their websites are their very own marketing strategies designed to appeal to their target clientele. And let's face it, there is a certain segment of society in general that believes a white lady who has had sex with a black man is "tarnished". As Miahdog mentioned, it's also true to an extent in the porn industry so there's no reason to believe that it's not true in the hobby world as well. The segment of hobbyists who think this way are the target audience toward whom the majority of the "no black men" ads are directed.
What I disagree with is the comment about the ones who charge more for their services generally having this disclaimer in their ads. What I noticed is the ladies who charges the astronomical rates rarely have anything like that in their ads. They simply carry themselves in such a manner and have a track record of great reviews that allows them to charge 400 and up for an hour. That price tag filters out the bottom feeders, derelicts (and unfortunately a lot of real gentlemen) of all races so there's no reason to put the tacky "no black men" disclaimer in their ads. The "no black men" ads that I've seen are primarily from white backpage girls in the 150 to 200 per hour range.
Either way, I don't see what the big deal is. Every business reserves the right to refuse service to anyone so I see no reason why escorting should be any different. If a provider wants to have restrictions based on race, age or any other factor that's her prerogative. If a provider has restrictions in her ad and those restrictions exclude me as a possible client, I just move to the next one.
And that's my 2 cents.
Mr P.
P. S. Shouldn't this thread be on the "Member Discussions" forum? [/quote]Seriously guys? No Black Men means she is still tight. The Black Myth does apply and if an insecure yet generous hobbyist sees "No Black Men" he can feel somewhat confident that he will feel something in there! JMHO.
Now! Mr Papichulo! Who only has 1 post and its the above! (with that handle it has to be black) and according to his comment! The lady still tight! Jajaja! And he refers to the myth! Jajaja blacks are still thinking that! Keep dreaming.
Women have the right to see and place on their adds what ever they want and if they make exceptions to see some race or otherwise.
Just move on as the other member stated.
After the black-man's size joke, it's time for a laugh.
The Love Dress
A woman stopped by, unannounced, at her son's house.
She knocked on the door then immediately walked in.
She was shocked to see her daughter-in- law lying on the couch, totally Naked. Soft music was playing, and the aroma of perfume filled the room.
"What are you doing?" she asked,"I'm waiting for Mike to come home from work," the daughter-in- law answered.
"But you're naked!" the mother-in-law exclaimed.
"This is my love dress," the daughter-in- law explained
"Love dress? But you're naked!"
"Mike loves me and wants me to wear this dress," she explained." It Excites him to no end. Every time he sees me in this dress, he instantly Becomes romantic and ravages me for hours on end. He can't get enough of me"
The mother-in-law left.
When she got home, she undressed, showered, put on her best perfume, dimmed the lights, put on a romantic CD, and lay on the couch, waiting for her husband to arrive. Finally, her husband came home. He walked in and saw her lying there so provocatively.
"What are you doing?" he asked.
"This is my love dress," she whispered sensually.
"Needs ironing," he said."What's for dinner?
He never heard the gunshot.