[QUOTE=Gtrecho812;6081781]Has anyone ever used this site before?
[URL]Candygrilla.com[/URL][/QUOTE]Lots of people.
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[QUOTE=Gtrecho812;6081781]Has anyone ever used this site before?
[URL]Candygrilla.com[/URL][/QUOTE]Lots of people.
[QUOTE=BobLove;6081976]Take the hint. If a girl really likes you, she will ask you for your number and she will be asking you out.[/QUOTE]Thank you for this answer Bob. No disrespect to OP but many bros come and ask this question. It is either how do I get in with kgirls or how do I get OTC. The korg entry advice has been told countless times, we should ask admin to pin it in big bold letter but someone would still ask. The OTC questions, well this is the best response, short and sweet. If they want to give you OTC you will know. They will bluntly tell you come pick me up. They might call you to take them for random errands or ask for favors. Or sometimes just hangout BUT they will tell you. Don't get offended if they don't and just enjoy your time. Don't get offended if you get it once only or they cut you off. Their change feelings too. You could go the easy route and spoil them with expensive designer garb and they'll happily go on an otc date for their 6 K purse as payment. Cartier love bracelet is the number one monger to kgirl gift out there, especially in NorCal. Want to get on a kgirls good side? Just compliment her beautiful new Cartier jewelry. She'll be impressed at your fine taste.
[QUOTE=Gtrecho812;6081781]Has anyone ever used this site before?
[URL]Candygrilla.com[/URL][/QUOTE]I use the K-girl site, not the KBBQ grill site.
[QUOTE=GoldDust58;6082398]Thank you for this answer Bob. No disrespect to OP but many bros come and ask this question. It is either how do I get in with kgirls or how do I get OTC. The korg entry advice has been told countless times, we should ask admin to pin it in big bold letter but someone would still ask. The OTC questions, well this is the best response, short and sweet. If they want to give you OTC you will know. They will bluntly tell you come pick me up. They might call you to take them for random errands or ask for favors. Or sometimes just hangout BUT they will tell you. Don't get offended if they don't and just enjoy your time. Don't get offended if you get it once only or they cut you off. Their change feelings too. You could go the easy route and spoil them with expensive designer garb and they'll happily go on an otc date for their 6 K purse as payment. Cartier love bracelet is the number one monger to kgirl gift out there, especially in NorCal. Want to get on a kgirls good side? Just compliment her beautiful new Cartier jewelry. She'll be impressed at your fine taste.[/QUOTE]"Be very cautious about getting socially or emotionally involved with a provider. I have had a couple of long term relationships with former providers that worked out. If they are still in the profession you are treading on a minefield. Their lives and emotions are wildly different from yours The relationship often ends badly. ".
[QUOTE=GoldDust58;6082398]Thank you for this answer Bob. No disrespect to OP but many bros come and ask this question. It is either how do I get in with kgirls or how do I get OTC. The korg entry advice has been told countless times, we should ask admin to pin it in big bold letter but someone would still ask. The OTC questions, well this is the best response, short and sweet. If they want to give you OTC you will know. They will bluntly tell you come pick me up. They might call you to take them for random errands or ask for favors. Or sometimes just hangout BUT they will tell you. Don't get offended if they don't and just enjoy your time. Don't get offended if you get it once only or they cut you off. Their change feelings too. You could go the easy route and spoil them with expensive designer garb and they'll happily go on an otc date for their 6 K purse as payment. Cartier love bracelet is the number one monger to kgirl gift out there, especially in NorCal. Want to get on a kgirls good side? Just compliment her beautiful new Cartier jewelry. She'll be impressed at your fine taste.[/QUOTE]And you'll be her BFF only as long as it suits her. If she moves on to another mark you won't even get to see her tailights.
[QUOTE=TempletonRat;6082450]I use the K-girl site, not the KBBQ grill site.[/QUOTE]I appreciate there is still humor in this world.
[QUOTE] Any tips on getting off the clock time? I see a bunch of posts with so many dudes being able to get it. I don't want to spend time with them very long. Just a few meetups would be a nice experience. I seem to be able to get a few numbers, but when I text them they are not very receptive. [/QUOTE]If you're going to bother with that just go take a normal girl out. OTC usually ends being either errand running or you end up being stuck with emotions when they move on.
[QUOTE=BobLove;6081976]Take the hint. If a girl really likes you, she will ask you for your number and she will be asking you out.[/QUOTE]After a few visits a kgirl offered her number to me recently but after a few unsuccessful attempts to hang out otc I stopped texting her. Why else would she give me her number? I haven't seen her since but will probably just ask if do.
[QUOTE=FiatVoluptas;6081595]I don't know about other guys, but in my experience, I've gotten OTC with girls that I see regularly and with whom there is a strong mutual chemistry. I don't know if you can expect to get it from a girl you've only seen once or twice. I've always had to build a "friendship" with the girl first and get to know each other a little. It also helps to seek out indy girls and to avoid language barriers. Indy girls have much more flexibly with scheduling and if they like you, and you book in advance, they may put aside a lot of extra time for you. I have one atf I've been seeing for years and she's often gives me 4-5 hours when I book only 1, a few times it's been 7-8 hours, and one time, an overnight. Sometimes we just chill at her place, sometimes we go out and do "date like" stuff, and sometimes she asks me to drive her to run a few errands, but we always return to her place for more fun. With agency, girls, they are usually starving after work. See one until she's comfortable with you and knows you well, then book the last appointment and offer to buy her dinner after. Again, only do that if you have seen her several times and you know she's comfortable with you.[/QUOTE]I feel like you guys are thinking too much and treating these kgirls as if they have the upper hand. All my otc with kgirls I just fucked them 1 or 2 time max and they just ask if we can go grab in-and-out and then we go lmao! No conversation about our lives. No "trying to find chemistry" and all that. I feel like this happened to me because I was probably same age as them so it was more of a friendly thing. I had 7+ otc with Kgirls hung out in a group too. Out of the 7 times only fucked 3 of them otc. Rest was just hanging out and it was boring. We just walked around places they buy me small gift like a hat or a cell phone keychain, cell phone charger LOL. They say "would you ever marry someone like me" I just always reply with "yea why not" LOL knowing damn well they need a green card. Most of the time they ask "do you know anyone that would marry me my visa is expiring" and I just say no. One time I hung out with 4 kgirls in a group and I was the only male and I seriously felt powerful I felt like I was there manager lmao! True story! By the way, they tell me so many things about other clients its hilarious! They show me there work phone they have hundreds if not thousands of horny bastards texting them non stop and non of the Kgirls reply back lmao!! I've seen dudes send selfies of themselves and ask the Kgirls how there outfit looks.
[QUOTE=Gtrecho812;6081781]Has anyone ever used this site before?
[URL]Candygrilla.com[/URL][/QUOTE]Yes, I used sometime.
[QUOTE=Ksujira;6082619]I appreciate there is still humor in this world.
If you're going to bother with that just go take a normal girl out. OTC usually ends being either errand running or you end up being stuck with emotions when they move on.[/QUOTE]Your 100% correct on that! They use to ask me to bring them coffee..cases of water bottle. Help them set up Netflix account. Ask for rides. And I always say no lmao!! Because like you said, I would rather do all that with a civvie. Why waste time on a Kgirl when they just going to make money and run off the Korea lmao! Man you are right on point with this one. I know a Chinese dude in Vegas I swear he never had a gf or something. I introduced him to Kgirl scene and he got addicted 0-100 real quick and fell in love with a Kgirl and did everything for her like a simp. Went far as giving her money to buy crypto and some stocks. He told me that she loves him and wants to spend entire life together and I'm here laughing my ass off. Haven't talk to him.
Since 2020 but I'm sure he got his heart broken. That's a small case I have heard crazier stories.
I think perhaps that you are overthinking what I said. I don't go out of my way to get OTC. I just prefer to have a small rotation of ATFs that I build a long term rapport with because that's how I like it. Over time, the girl becomes comfortable with me and perks come along with it. Also, I definitely do not think I "have the upper hand. " I have been in this game way more than long enough to know how things work. These girls do not love me, , nor do I expect them to, nor do I love them. To think otherwise would just be silly. I am also well aware that the minute they decide to kick me out of their apartment or tell me to leave, that's it for the visit. Sometimes, there is no OTC because the next horndog is on his way up two minutes after my hour ends. I also know they chill with other guys who get OTC and whatever else. The provider in the story from my original post is already an American citizen. She is definitely not trying to get a green card out of me, but she does show me texts from other mongers offering her outrageous amounts of money to marry her (like $100 k) because they think she needs a card haha. She also makes fun of the simps that buy her Cartier and Dior bags. She even has dudes that Zelle her massive amounts of money from across the country so she can shop. I don't do any of that. I hardly even tip her. There is just chemistry and mutual attraction that has organically developed due to many years of a business relationship, and everything ultimately happens within the implied confines of business.
I have never had OTC with a girl I have only seen one or two times, at lest in terms of going out and doing stuff, or getting personal numbers. Maybe you have, but I don't think that is the norm, and other mongers shouldn't expect it unless on the second meeting they're offering to take her shopping or something. I have gotten extra time in the actual appointment with new girls though, and that is probably because I am young and in good shape, and treat the girls well. However, I wouldn't even really be interested in spending extra time outside of the bedroom with a girl I have seen once unless free sex was involved afterward. On the other hand, I actually like my ATFS as people and I don't find their company boring, so I am fine with spending extra time, or even giving them a ride ride to run errands, especially when it means free food and more sex afterward, which is usually case with the provider mentioned in my original post. Sometimes I take her to the grocery story and then she cooks for me after, and then drains my nuts again.
So, yeah, I am not overthinking anything. The OP asked about how to get OTC, and I was just relating my experiences of how I have gotten OTC.
[QUOTE=WhyOhWhy;6082633]I feel like you guys are thinking too much and treating these kgirls as if they have the upper hand. All my otc with kgirls I just fucked them 1 or 2 time max and they just ask if we can go grab in-and-out and then we go lmao! No conversation about our lives. No "trying to find chemistry" and all that. I feel like this happened to me because I was probably same age as them so it was more of a friendly thing. I had 7+ otc with Kgirls hung out in a group too. Out of the 7 times only fucked 3 of them otc. Rest was just hanging out and it was boring. We just walked around places they buy me small gift like a hat or a cell phone keychain, cell phone charger LOL. They say "would you ever marry someone like me" I just always reply with "yea why not" LOL knowing damn well they need a green card. Most of the time they ask "do you know anyone that would marry me my visa is expiring" and I just say no. One time I hung out with 4 kgirls in a group and I was the only male and I seriously felt powerful I felt like I was there manager lmao! True story! By the way, they tell me so many things about other clients its hilarious! They show me there work phone they have hundreds if not thousands of horny bastards texting them non stop and non of the Kgirls reply back lmao!! I've seen dudes send selfies of themselves and ask the Kgirls how there outfit looks.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Gtrecho812;6081781]Has anyone ever used this site before?
[URL]Candygrilla.com[/URL][/QUOTE]The website is case sensitive. Don't use a capital "C".
[QUOTE=Condor123;6081118]Any tips on getting off the clock time? I see a bunch of posts with so many dudes being able to get it. I don't want to spend time with them very long. Just a few meetups would be a nice experience. I seem to be able to get a few numbers, but when I text them they are not very receptive. For reference I'm 25 and Chinese American.[/QUOTE]You got their numbers because they want to text you to come see them when business is slow, not because they want a relationship with you.
I'll often see a girl from 6-7 pm and then meet up with friends after for dinner. I've had several instances where the girl will ask me what I'm doing after I leave during the shower post-rinse off. If I tell them I'm going out to XYZ dinner, they'll often say that sounds delicious or say that they always wanted to go there. It's a clear sign for me then to swoop in. I also had an instance where I said I was going to go grocery shopping and the girl asked if she could go with me. She said she needed to buy food, and I was willing to run this errand with her but she wasn't getting off until 10 pm. So I just declined.
[QUOTE=Condor123;6081118]Any tips on getting off the clock time? I see a bunch of posts with so many dudes being able to get it. I don't want to spend time with them very long. Just a few meetups would be a nice experience. I seem to be able to get a few numbers, but when I text them they are not very receptive. For reference I'm 25 and Chinese American.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=KalvinHobbs;6082626]After a few visits a kgirl offered her number to me recently but after a few unsuccessful attempts to hang out otc I stopped texting her. Why else would she give me her number? I haven't seen her since but will probably just ask if do.[/QUOTE]When business is slow she will text you "miss you oppa.