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[QUOTE=Jibble1;4977870]Do all of yall have membership to SA? How's the process like once you meet up with them? Is it like a tinder date where you talk to them and pay for a dinner except they act like they like you the whole time and then you go back to your place to fuck them?[/QUOTE]Or you just invite them back to your place so you don't have to pay for dinner. Depends on the girl, depends on what you want.
[QUOTE=TheNovelist;4977355]Seekingbabbbyy. Definitely looks like photos were probably taken from somewhere else on the Internet. I'm skeptical she's real at all.[/QUOTE]Wanted me to text her. Phone number was located in Denver. Also, notice her location is Washington, Washington. Another clue she's a scammer when a specific city isn't used.
[QUOTE=SaladHermit;4971531]We had made plans to meet up, multiple times she said she could host. When it was time for me to head out I messaged her, and she said she was in my neighborhood and that she needed me to get a room. I told her that at this point if she wanted to meet up, we'd have to meet in public at a bar or something first, she said she was only 19 and couldn't go to a bar (her profile says 21). At this point, I asked her to send me a selfie making a peace sign and she avoided it and hasn't responded.
Not going to see her. I think she is trying to really meet up, but I don't think she's the chick in the photos.[/QUOTE]Messaged me yesterday and asked if I wanted to meet up right away for $350. I figured, "what the hell" and asked how much. $350 but no place to host. I decided no, I'm not wasting money on a room for someone that probably won't show up anyway.
[QUOTE=MaCross19;4978233]Or you just invite them back to your place so you don't have to pay for dinner. Depends on the girl, depends on what you want.[/QUOTE]Do you have to sign up for membership?
[QUOTE=KuatoKuato;4977734]I hadn't thought about what you describe, the extended (2 weeks in your case) cohabitation without boundaries (with reasonable conditions). I like it. But agree that it's all based on not bringing in someone really unstable. Now my imagination is going. I'm going to have to think about specific terms and conditions but now I think I'm going to try something like this.
Did you have a written contract? Or just verbal agreement?[/QUOTE]There wasn't any written contract. We had seen each other about a dozen times over the preceding months before this all came about. In practice this all came together kind fortuitously, as she had a job change and I was traveling a lot for business so it just worked out to do this, at least for the time it worked out.
The biggest problem was that she did have some issues dealing with people, which led to some really awkward and weird situations. The best way I could describe it was imagine someone who learned how to adult by watching reality TV shows.
So I have a date setup for this weekend. We're meeting for coffee in Southcenter and if it feels right discussed checking into a motel nearby to take the next step. Does anyone have any motel recommendations in Southcenter? I don't want to pay a lot for just 3 or 4 hour stay, but also don't want a smelly dump.
Anyone know of any place? Or do you have any suggestions for what to do in these situations?
I'm still new to this forum and wish I would have known about this 3 years ago. Sorry if some of these are long but I just wanted to share my stories. I will definitely share more info when I can.
Secretssxox69.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/41ac5622-570c-40db-b9bc-00acd03437ba[/URL]
Made plans for dinner and didn't hear from her the day of. Texted me a week later and said she was just nervous about meeting and hasn't met anyone from the site. Made dinner plans again and texted her the morning of and said that we were still on. Never heard from her again. Definitely knew that was going to happen. Her profile is still up and hasn't blocked me. I guess just a time waster.
LauraBooX.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/610ab221-10c7-4a88-9f15-d558d2c0e722[/URL]
Says she's out of state right now but will be in Seattle the 24th. Wants to do online for now and can prove that she's real. I told her that it's just a week away and can meet her when she arrives. No response. Yeah, I'm sure she's real but won't be here in Seattle.
Seekingbabbbyyy's Info.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/faa7034b-4653-4d1c-b9db-3a38907086c3[/URL]
That's really her and got some very nice nude pics. Yeah I gave her some money before our scheduled date for the pics and of course never met. Definitely does not live in this state.
Julebaby98.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a2ea6cd0-bdb9-4cbe-8605-5db675c87ad7[/URL]
Either she blocked me or her profile is gone. Someone described her here a while ago and can't find it. She goes by Jules or Britt, lives in Federal Way, 24 yo, waitress, no touching on first date. She's just ruthless. Met her on WYP a few years ago just for some dinner dates. She started becoming really demanding and wanted more money just to hangout. I politely told her I was looking for something else and it's best she move on. She told me I was fat, ugly, short and my eyes were fucked up. My eyes?? I don't have a lazy eye. Then she said they were sideways. Then I got it because I'm Asian. WTF? I told her yes I'm short, ugly (maybe to her) but I'm not fat haha! She got pissed because I wasn't ripping on her back. But why would you say that to someone that knows her real number, real name and address? Never messed with her though. She's got some issues and just wonder what made her like that. I think she told that to someone else on here and they hadn't even met – she crazy.
_angelbaby999.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/493fd642-a515-450b-9401-dc8885991534[/URL]
Looks like she moved back to Ohio and she was probably just here visiting. Didn't want to have sex on the first date so messed around and got a really nice BJ. Second date she went to the bathroom and said her period just started (didn't believe her). We went to the store got her some tampons and finished with a BJ. Third date she said she was almost at my place and had to go home because her mom and brother were locked out of the house. She texted later that night and asked for her allowance because she was short on her bills but she would stay over the next night. I knew I wouldn't ever see her again and I even told her that. Texted me the next day and said she was still coming over and of course never heard from her again. Again, why would you do that if I know your real name, real phone number, mom's address and social media stuff? I asked for half back just to see what she would say and of course no response.
Intel?
Stormgirl72.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/458a52ec-9a59-4c79-82fd-a201e51f400a[/URL]
Texted me today and wants to meet right away like others were saying. No one has seen her yet? I'm so curious.
BluntWaBaby / Spoiltgrl (2 profiles).
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6c239139-3e42-4057-acf8-1552724f7b34[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/231d92ab-b192-428c-9003-6c8e14830cf2[/URL]
Looking for someone on the petite side but the ultimate fantasy would be ATM. PM me if you have any recommendations. Never thought that would be a reality until I came across this forum.
[QUOTE=AmTrain;4979630]I'm still new to this forum and wish I would have known about this 3 years ago. Sorry if some of these are long but I just wanted to share my stories. I will definitely share more info when I can.
Secretssxox69.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/41ac5622-570c-40db-b9bc-00acd03437ba[/URL]
Made plans for dinner and didn't hear from her the day of. Texted me a week later and said she was just nervous about meeting and hasn't met anyone from the site. Made dinner plans again and texted her the morning of and said that we were still on. Never heard from her again. Definitely knew that was going to happen. Her profile is still up and hasn't blocked me. I guess just a time waster.
LauraBooX.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/610ab221-10c7-4a88-9f15-d558d2c0e722[/URL]
Says she's out of state right now but will be in Seattle the 24th. Wants to do online for now and can prove that she's real. I told her that it's just a week away and can meet her when she arrives. No response. Yeah, I'm sure she's real but won't be here in Seattle.
Seekingbabbbyyy's Info.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/faa7034b-4653-4d1c-b9db-3a38907086c3[/URL]
That's really her and got some very nice nude pics. Yeah I gave her some money before our scheduled date for the pics and of course never met. Definitely does not live in this state.
[/QUOTE]LauraBooX contacted me with the same message that you received.
With the newbies on the site, you have to be to be careful / aware. They have a fantasy that some attractive, billionaire with no penis is going to pay all of their bills and fly them around the world just so they can be seen with them. The reality is they get us. At some point, they realize that they are having sex for money and either deal with it or run. Many of them run.
[QUOTE=KuatoKuato;4979527]So I have a date setup for this weekend. We're meeting for coffee in Southcenter and if it feels right discussed checking into a motel nearby to take the next step. Does anyone have any motel recommendations in Southcenter? I don't want to pay a lot for just 3 or 4 hour stay, but also don't want a smelly dump.
Anyone know of any place? Or do you have any suggestions for what to do in these situations?[/QUOTE]If I have a sure thing, I would book at the Marriott branded hotels. A quick check shows quite a few around Southcenter for less than $100, as low as $74. And that is for a Courtyard or Aloft. Heck even the Marriott by the airport is only asking for $90. I know those places are not dumps.
Downside is that you are paying for a night for those rates.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;4980193]LauraBooX contacted me with the same message that you received.
With the newbies on the site, you have to be to be careful / aware. They have a fantasy that some attractive, billionaire with no penis is going to pay all of their bills and fly them around the world just so they can be seen with them. The reality is they get us. At some point, they realize that they are having sex for money and either deal with it or run. Many of them run.[/QUOTE]They all have this fantasy and some even talk about supposedly having friends who get $5,000/ mo just to be "arm candy". It's great marking on SA's part, but I can see how reality is disappointing to many of them. Of course, this isn't to say that there isn't fun to be had on SA. SA is a goldmine. You really do have to be willing to dig. Like there's this one girl that I've been talking with for months and all previous times, she bailed. Then just a couple days ago, she let me take her and your young son out to lunch and the aquarium. She's been messaging me nonstop ever since. She's clearly going to let me fuck her soon, but you can see from that story alone that it's not nearly as straightforward calling up girl from the other board.
[QUOTE=Jibble1;4978779]Do you have to sign up for membership?[/QUOTE]Yes, but $90 for access to bare backing non pros is definitely worth it in my opinion.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;4980193]LauraBooX contacted me with the same message that you received.
.[/QUOTE]LOL she contacted me with the same message, but I can tell she contacted me earlier as in her message to me she said she was back on the 21th as opposed to the 24th.
This one Ixchel22.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/15b52277-63aa-4f5c-9bda-55b273eefec2[/URL]
I think she is legit just naive.
My profile is super explicit, in between the lines I does say that it is expected that I would fuck the shit out of the SB.
Talked with her for a couple of days, I explicitly asked, are you ok with my profile, she said yes, we discussed PPM, frequency of possible visits and her hosting then she came out with this pearl:
Her: " I'm fine with kissing you playing with my breast but for full on sex that's going to be already till the 3/4 week is that okay".
My response: "LOL, sorry but no. It's not okay, not looking to go back to high school".
[QUOTE=DelToro;4980829]LOL she contacted me with the same message, but I can tell she contacted me earlier as in her message to me she said she was back on the 21th as opposed to the 24th.
This one Ixchel22.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/15b52277-63aa-4f5c-9bda-55b273eefec2[/URL]
I think she is legit just naive.
My profile is super explicit, in between the lines I does say that it is expected that I would fuck the shit out of the SB.
Talked with her for a couple of days, I explicitly asked, are you ok with my profile, she said yes, we discussed PPM, frequency of possible visits and her hosting then she came out with this pearl:
Her: " I'm fine with kissing you playing with my breast but for full on sex that's going to be already till the 3/4 week is that okay".
My response: "LOL, sorry but no. It's not okay, not looking to go back to high school".[/QUOTE]I too was contacted and told "I'm out of town until 9/24 but let's chat then!" by a different one. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7e05d220-f69c-400f-8746-69a67dfed19d[/URL].
Anyone have any info on this one? Comes across a little bitchy and I think she's major GPS.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8c31a446-e1d0-4554-a61b-39a6caf08d3c[/URL]
[QUOTE=TnaPorter;4980728] She's clearly going to let me fuck her soon, but you can see from that story alone that it's not nearly as straightforward calling up girl from the other board.[/QUOTE]If you're taking her out and giving her money without sex, you're probably getting played. It's still pretty darn stright-forward. Talk, meet, agree on wants and expectations, off to the races.