I will chalk this up to you being new
[QUOTE=HoneyButter;3235976]Bad night on w / w. Foggy as hell. Tons of LE pulling over folks leaving the streets bare.
Finally spotted a skinny 20 ish blonde with neck tattoos on S. Carey. She gives the look, I pull over, she jumps in and introduces herself (of course I can't remember the name). She offered a car date or to go back to her place, "because her roommate is out for the night" - went for the latter because I'm stupid. Typical rowhouse. Although no furniture downstairs. We go upstairs to a bedroom. We negotiate, she takes the gift and says she needs to go wash up. As I'm untying my boots, I start to notice clothing that would fit a very large dude in the closet and thinking, where the hell is this guy? At that moment I hear heavy footsteps coming up the stairs. Maybe it's her? No. The door slams open and 6'5", agitated, high-as-a-kite dude walks in.
Him: "where is she?
Me: "bathroom".
Him: "ain't nobody in the f at ckin bathroom".
Me: "I don't what to tell you man".
Him: "You got to pay for this room".
Me: "I already payed her".
Him: "I ain't about that you got to pay for this room".
At this point he starts walking towards me. I'm 6'3" 240 lbs, feeling cornered and ready to tackle this dude. I quickly pull out a $10 and he backs off and leaves the room. Most guys would pack up and leave, but I decided to wait to see what was up with the girl. I can't possibly be getting ripped off, right? 5 minutes later. She's still a no show. And he starts coming up the stairs again. Fight or flight kicks in. I grab my shit and head out of the room down the stairs towards him. He says "where are you going? "I'm out". He stalls for a minute (still high as shit) and finally moves to the side. I bolt, leaving my dignity and $. 5 behind. As I'm leaving he yells "watch out for them boys outside. They ain't so nice".
Clearly I'm an idiot for going to this townhouse. But I'm curious if I stumbled into a scam or was I just being a noob? Does the girl ever come out of the f at ck! Ng bathroom?? Does lurch ever go away? Abuse welcomed.
Good news is I caught brunette Nicole on the way out on Wilkens and enjoyed some fun at Tim's. She is a sweet girl but doesn't talk very much. Great BBBJ skills.[/QUOTE]I never ever go their place, even if I have dated them several times. I have seen this one female many many times. We talk and she tells all the stories about what's going on in her life while we are driving. Stories like she went into an abandon with a date and her bf saw this and got jealous and followed and stabbed the poor bastard. Or like the time her house gout raided because her bf was selling from the house, or the time her bf choked out the Landlord because he asked them to pay their rent and they didn't have it. Or the time some neighborhood boys took over her house and kicked her and her bf out and started using her place as their trap house because it was such a good spot, or the time her bf lost some product because the popo stopped him and destroyed the product but, didn't arrest him and the guys he was selling for was looking for him so they could get their money or product back.
Now keep in mind all those stories she has told me over the years and one day she has the audacity to ask me "why can't we go to my place, its alright there, aint nothing going to happen" . All I could do was say "Really" with a screw face look and remind her of all the stories she has ever told me.
Bottom line, is its usually not a good idea to let them suggest the location. Period.