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[QUOTE=MorganCreamin;4969307]I can't log in at all from my main system. Chrome, FF, or Safari. I log in and it hangs both without VPN and with. Cache / cookies cleared, extensions disabled. All that.
I can log in from mobile and on Chrome in a virtual machine, however. Trying to track down the issue[/QUOTE]Same issue here. I would contact support team right away. I didn't pay for a premium account to solve the issues myself.
[QUOTE=DickIncider12;4406369]Damn anybody seen this babe yet.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b5e4dcdb-3f67-495a-a109-a39b2c045393[/URL][/QUOTE]Lives in L. A. Now. Looks TGTBT.
Any info on this cute minx?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b911c616-8929-4eb5-963e-f082fc6884b4[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a75b238f-568c-44e2-ae4a-10a92aa1bd52[/URL]
Was on the site before, different profile. She will constantly ask for money, try and dox you, and constantly lie to you. Don't believe a word she says. She will meet and fuck you for cheap, all bare, just be sure if you do meet her that you are very careful what you say and what info you share.
[QUOTE=Anonymous420;4806378]Making sure the person your speaking with knows that they're not getting one cent out of you until after you meet and the relationship negotiated is the fastest way to get rid of a lot of scammers, pro SBs, and GPS'ers.[/QUOTE]This can't be stated enough. I've seen so many scams on almost all platforms from "girls" demanding money to meet. These aren't the girl you think they are. They are typically guys, probably living thousands of miles from you with accents, in a shared workspace. They may actually be girls, but aren't likely to be the girl in the picture over which you're drooling because your little head has gotten the idea that it's going to feel something moist.
[QUOTE=Bronco62;4973185][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a75b238f-568c-44e2-ae4a-10a92aa1bd52[/URL]
Was on the site before, different profile. She will constantly ask for money, try and dox you, and constantly lie to you. Don't believe a word she says. She will meet and fuck you for cheap, all bare, just be sure if you do meet her that you are very careful what you say and what info you share.[/QUOTE]I sent you a PM.
[QUOTE=Bronco62;4973185][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a75b238f-568c-44e2-ae4a-10a92aa1bd52[/URL]
Was on the site before, different profile. She will constantly ask for money, try and dox you, and constantly lie to you. Don't believe a word she says. She will meet and fuck you for cheap, all bare, just be sure if you do meet her that you are very careful what you say and what info you share.[/QUOTE]I've a similar experience with her, she is constantly making excuses for being late or having to leave early. She also comes up with stories about why she'll need extra money.
So after reading this forum I decided to spring for a premium membership on SA. It's been interesting. Lot of South American girls reaching out. I ask to see private photos but otherwise don't waste my time as I only want local.
What do those of you with SA experience think about this situation? She says she's a student at a local university and working part time. We moved off of SA and onto text message for "getting to know you" discussion, and after making it clear the specific activities I'm expecting to do during meetings when we physically get together we agreed to set up a meeting to test the waters. So, while I'm pleased with where we're at in terms of expectations, the things we'd do physically, there are a number of things that I'm chewing on.
1. She is pretty, her photos are. 7/10. She favorited me, not the other way around. My account is new. I'm not a catch. Other than my salary and net worth. Like the old Groucho Marx joke, "I don't want to be a member of any club that would have me".
2. During our chatting she would often refer to me as "babe. " What college aged woman calls people "babe"? Odd.
3. Her messages were always cheerful. Not too weird I suppose, but there's also lots of "I"m down with that" or "Yes no problems with that" or "Whatever / however you like it" when talking about activities and never any push back or clarifications (pretty much "regular" things, no anal, no BDSM, no fetish, etc but I did specify lots of oral). I explained that given my schedule there will be a lot of same day short notice situations where she will need to be ready to meet. Also when discussing allowances she never said how much. It was "whatever you feel comfortable with" or "I'll rely on your experience for how much" etc. So when I would say a $ amount there was never any push back. How does someone who is agreeing to meeting on the regular to pleasure me not have an expectation for a specific $ ballpark in terms of allowances? She pretty much rubber-stamp agreed to everything.
4. After we agreed to meet to test the waters, she came back with "are you available to meet (tomorrow) or (another day)?" which is weird because we just spent the previous 30 minutes talking about how I don't have schedule flexibility and won't be available until this weekend. Her question was like she wasn't even in the previous conversation. Very strange.
5. Very soon after changed the subject with a proposal to sell me pics / vids, etc for a donation. While I'm ok with offers to sell pics / vids I'd never pay given how much free is available out there. Anyway what was so odd was she went there after we agreed that we're going to meet soon. I told here that if she sent I'd add it to the reward for our first date. She asked me to pay for a bill that was due. I declined, explained that she was free to send may whatever she wanted but no allowances of any kind would happen until after we had our first date to test the waters, which she understood and was ok with. I wouldn't call this a red flag but rather simply awkward.
Anyway, when I add it all up I'm 60/40 on this in terms of believing that it is really her instead of some fat greasy dude in an RV park. At this point I'm wonder whether it's LEO running a honey pot sting, but why would they bother on SA? What do you think?
Hi. I am wondering if anyone has experience with [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/29ba7b12-5f38-473e-8975-7f97b2577c58[/URL].
Thanks.
Another question: can anyone who has experience share which website is better, [URL]Seeking.com[/URL] which gets a lot of discussion in this forum, or Secret Benefits which is the pop-up ad that comes up on usasexguide. Nl?
It seems while [URL]seeking.com[/URL] gets a lot of airtime here the legitimacy of the listings is in question. It seems [URL]SecretBenefits.com[/URL] displays a decent volume of search results when you choose the "verified" filter. If I'm correct, then why are you using [URL]seeking.com[/URL] and not SecretBenefits? Is there something that people should know?
[QUOTE=KuatoKuato;4975398]So after reading this forum I decided to spring for a premium membership on SA. It's been interesting. Lot of South American girls reaching out. I ask to see private photos but otherwise don't waste my time as I only want local.
What do those of you with SA experience think about this situation? She says she's a student at a local university and working part time. We moved off of SA and onto text message for "getting to know you" discussion, and after making it clear the specific activities I'm expecting to do during meetings when we physically get together we agreed to set up a meeting to test the waters. So, while I'm pleased with where we're at in terms of expectations, the things we'd do physically, there are a number of things that I'm chewing on.
1. She is pretty, her photos are. 7/10. She favorited me, not the other way around. My account is new. I'm not a catch. Other than my salary and net worth. Like the old Groucho Marx joke, "I don't want to be a member of any club that would have me".
2. During our chatting she would often refer to me as "babe. " What college aged woman calls people "babe"? Odd.
3. Her messages were always cheerful. Not too weird I suppose, but there's also lots of "I"m down with that" or "Yes no problems with that" or "Whatever / however you like it" when talking about activities and never any push back or clarifications (pretty much "regular" things, no anal, no BDSM, no fetish, etc but I did specify lots of oral). I explained that given my schedule there will be a lot of same day short notice situations where she will need to be ready to meet. Also when discussing allowances she never said how much. It was "whatever you feel comfortable with" or "I'll rely on your experience for how much" etc. So when I would say a $ amount there was never any push back. How does someone who is agreeing to meeting on the regular to pleasure me not have an expectation for a specific $ ballpark in terms of allowances? She pretty much rubber-stamp agreed to everything.
4. After we agreed to meet to test the waters, she came back with "are you available to meet (tomorrow) or (another day)?" which is weird because we just spent the previous 30 minutes talking about how I don't have schedule flexibility and won't be available until this weekend. Her question was like she wasn't even in the previous conversation. Very strange.
5. Very soon after changed the subject with a proposal to sell me pics / vids, etc for a donation. While I'm ok with offers to sell pics / vids I'd never pay given how much free is available out there. Anyway what was so odd was she went there after we agreed that we're going to meet soon. I told here that if she sent I'd add it to the reward for our first date. She asked me to pay for a bill that was due. I declined, explained that she was free to send may whatever she wanted but no allowances of any kind would happen until after we had our first date to test the waters, which she understood and was ok with. I wouldn't call this a red flag but rather simply awkward.
Anyway, when I add it all up I'm 60/40 on this in terms of believing that it is really her instead of some fat greasy dude in an RV park. At this point I'm wonder whether it's LEO running a honey pot sting, but why would they bother on SA? What do you think?[/QUOTE]Oh, so much to say and so little time. I'll keep this one simple. Move on, probably is a guy.
A quick rule. If a woman contacts you first, check to see if she viewed your profile. If not, she's basically contacting everyone. If a woman favorites you, check to see if she viewed your profile. If not, she's favoriting anyone.
I do not respond to messages that just say "hey". I do not respond to messages that don't have at least two sentences in it and says something about my profile. Like any type of dating service, you will need to be the aggressor. If you sit back and wait for people to contact you, you will only get scammers.
[QUOTE=KuatoKuato;4975602]... Is there something that people should know?[/QUOTE]I can't say one or the other is better. I have met girls off of Secret Benefits so at least some of their profiles are real.
There are a lot fewer of the weird rules on Secret Benefits and so you are somewhat more free to pursue whatever kind of deal you'd like. While I suspect messages are still monitored they aren't as aggressively monitored as SA.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;4975902]Oh, so much to say and so little time. I'll keep this one simple. Move on, probably is a guy.
A quick rule. If a woman contacts you first, check to see if she viewed your profile. If not, she's basically contacting everyone. If a woman favorites you, check to see if she viewed your profile. If not, she's favoriting anyone.
I do not respond to messages that just say "hey". I do not respond to messages that don't have at least two sentences in it and says something about my profile. Like any type of dating service, you will need to be the aggressor. If you sit back and wait for people to contact you, you will only get scammers.[/QUOTE]One caveat- women with premium profiles can hide that they viewed the profile. But if they aren't showing a premium profile they are spamming.
One thing that always works- have them take a picture with something specific- my favourite is car keys and their face- if they cannot produce the picture they are a scammer.
Also LEO has way better things to do than do seeking stings, I have never heard of a LEO sting off of seeking.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;4975902]Oh, so much to say and so little time. I'll keep this one simple. Move on, probably is a guy.
A quick rule. If a woman contacts you first, check to see if she viewed your profile. If not, she's basically contacting everyone. If a woman favorites you, check to see if she viewed your profile. If not, she's favoriting anyone.
I do not respond to messages that just say "hey". I do not respond to messages that don't have at least two sentences in it and says something about my profile. Like any type of dating service, you will need to be the aggressor. If you sit back and wait for people to contact you, you will only get scammers.[/QUOTE]Weird that you say this. She did view my profile before favoriting me. I checked. She also reached out with a real message, not just Hey. Weird?
She is a big tease. We had a meeting scheduled that she kept postponing for days and she ended up cancelling day before saying she had found two guys to do her at same time and for more money than arrangement we agreed. I see she is still on SA and given that she recently told me she got into the 2 guys arrangement then I don't know what her deal is.
[QUOTE=ByTemexo;4975536]Hi. I am wondering if anyone has experience with [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/29ba7b12-5f38-473e-8975-7f97b2577c58[/URL].
Thanks.[/QUOTE]