Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

Yeah, I hear you. I haven't been as active as I would have liked. I look for girls with a specific skill set. The online girls understand better than some of the locals I have met, but I'm still hoping that one of my choices here will soon pay off. Be careful with the cam sites, tho. I had been visiting one regularly. Then one day I went to the bank (to withdraw some roses to go see Delicious Dawn) and discovered my CC had been hacked. Whoever it was got almost 500 in different increments. Lots of hassle to fill out the forms to get it back.

[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;3266106]So, back in December, I started to be pretty broke. That caused me to stop hobbying. After a few weeks out, I started to think to myself things like, "What were you thinking? Why were you doing that?" I thought I had quit.

I returned to just jerking off to porn. But then, as the days passed, porn got boring again. So I started going to cam sites. I like when I can throw a few tokens at a girl and she responds. It's like a step up from porn.

Of course, for the past few days, my brain has started up: "Why spend money to see some girl's tits on your computer, when you can fuck hot girls anytime you want?

I guess I'm wondering if other people go through "cycles" with the hobby. Or if I just get lost in my head too much.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;3266106]So, back in December, I started to be pretty broke. That caused me to stop hobbying. After a few weeks out, I started to think to myself things like, "What were you thinking? Why were you doing that?" I thought I had quit.

I returned to just jerking off to porn. But then, as the days passed, porn got boring again. So I started going to cam sites. I like when I can throw a few tokens at a girl and she responds. It's like a step up from porn.

Of course, for the past few days, my brain has started up: "Why spend money to see some girl's tits on your computer, when you can fuck hot girls anytime you want?

I guess I'm wondering if other people go through "cycles" with the hobby. Or if I just get lost in my head too much.[/QUOTE]I understand what your saying. But for me its more like, I hate showing up to a dream and the girl in not very attractive, and I'm supposed to spend cash on someone I wouldn't even buy a drink at a club or bar. Because we gentelman have a different idea of what hot, sexy and beautiful is. I've spent a lot of time in strip club and had countless great times because I know what I'm getting or trying to. But it does suck when your walking out to the car and think, what a waste of time and money. Thank goodness for busty red, and a few utr that I have. OBR.

[QUOTE=LookingFun1;3266891]Haven't seen velvet on here in awhile, anyone know if she's ok? Have seen a few times and always had fun feel free to pm.[/QUOTE]She has an ad up. I just sent her a pm and hope to re-review her excellent skillset.

LM.

All providers reading this contact me immediately was contacted by someone with verysick fantasy as a mother I was extremely sick and offended please help me stop this monster.

[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;3266510]Maybe I need to go to sexaholics anonymous. I'll check into it as soon as I see this last lady. HL29.[/QUOTE]LOL there HL. It's always just one more.

GB.

[QUOTE=SayWhat719;3270020]Recently learned spouse is a lifelong hobbyist. Lookin for advice on how to cope. Leaving isn't an option.[/QUOTE]Something is missing in the relationship, mental or physical maybe both. Communicate without words and see what changes follow.

I cannot stress enough how important reference checks are thru are designed to keep us safe and peace of mind do not just tell me the guy is ok just to get me off your back for instance I sent a reference check out to several providers and realized I had sent wrong number before I could correct it I get an ok hes good guy text wow that is dangerous and has led ne to not trusting said providers so please for us all if you have seen him be honest if not just say so.

OK, I need a provider's input here. I recently tried to set an appointment with a girl (won't say who since she's already pissed at me). I texted to see if she was available that afternoon. She said yes. I texted back to see if we could meet in an hour at 4 pm. I was on a time crunch and couldn't wait forever. Anyway, I waited 45 minutes and got no confirmation on the time. Assuming I'd been blown off and running out of time to see someone, I contacted EE and was able to make an appointment. While I was on my way to my appointment, I got a text from the first girl asking if I was ready. (it was now about 4:20) I apologized for the confusion and told her that when she didn't confirm the time I made other arrangements. I got a very sarcastic text back informing me I was blocked. I'm confused. How long does a client need to reasonably wait before giving up? I figured 45 minutes was plenty. Thanks for any inputs. Stay Safe.

I always give an hour for communication. She may of been in another appointment. Personally, I won't see a girl unless I'm first that day. Chances are slim if making that appointment that late in the afternoon.

I would call her on her bullshit though. If she didn't respond, there is no appointment. She may of thought she had your money in the bank already but by not saying yes, she has nothing to block you for.

To flip it completely, you have the money, you should block her and call her out. That's bad business.

[QUOTE=FMichaels4533;3274350]OK, I need a provider's input here. I recently tried to set an appointment with a girl (won't say who since she's already pissed at me). I texted to see if she was available that afternoon. She said yes. I texted back to see if we could meet in an hour at 4 pm. I was on a time crunch and couldn't wait forever. Anyway, I waited 45 minutes and got no confirmation on the time. Assuming I'd been blown off and running out of time to see someone, I contacted EE and was able to make an appointment. While I was on my way to my appointment, I got a text from the first girl asking if I was ready. (it was now about 4:20) I apologized for the confusion and told her that when she didn't confirm the time I made other arrangements. I got a very sarcastic text back informing me I was blocked. I'm confused. How long does a client need to reasonably wait before giving up? I figured 45 minutes was plenty. Thanks for any inputs. Stay Safe.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FMichaels4533;3274350]OK, I need a provider's input here. I recently tried to set an appointment with a girl (won't say who since she's already pissed at me). I texted to see if she was available that afternoon. She said yes. I texted back to see if we could meet in an hour at 4 pm. I was on a time crunch and couldn't wait forever. Anyway, I waited 45 minutes and got no confirmation on the time. Assuming I'd been blown off and running out of time to see someone, I contacted EE and was able to make an appointment. While I was on my way to my appointment, I got a text from the first girl asking if I was ready. (it was now about 4:20) I apologized for the confusion and told her that when she didn't confirm the time I made other arrangements. I got a very sarcastic text back informing me I was blocked. I'm confused. How long does a client need to reasonably wait before giving up? I figured 45 minutes was plenty. Thanks for any inputs. Stay Safe.[/QUOTE]I'm with you in this topic. I understand not getting back to someone because your busy or just need time off. Thats fine. But if you do make contact stay with it until a time is set. Don't disappear for an hour and think I'm going to wait, we don't always have lots of time to play. So our time is valuable too. We read every day of no shows, crickets when we arrive, plenty of wasting our time. So lady's you must understand this is about service, our experience starts with the first text or call we send. If it was easy set up or a pain in the ass? Is how most reviews start. And the last thing we want to do is show up pissed off because you made it diffaucult to see you. This is supposed to be easy, quick and convenient for we the customer. It's a service we look for.

If she's mad, she mad because she messed up, not you! $ lost, is money lost. It took me 5 hr to get to see someone Sunday morning, well 2:30 in the afternoon. Being stood up by Brooklyn Marie, I know I went bottom feeding, LOL but I went through all of my favorites and no respones until hours laters. And I should say thank to Lexi for making time for me. Bottom line to me is my time is as valuable as much as the Ben Franklins in my pocket. If your services lady's is good enough you will get neither. Be safe OBR.

[QUOTE=FMichaels4533;3274350]OK, I need a provider's input here. I recently tried to set an appointment with a girl (won't say who since she's already pissed at me). I texted to see if she was available that afternoon. She said yes. I texted back to see if we could meet in an hour at 4 pm. I was on a time crunch and couldn't wait forever. Anyway, I waited 45 minutes and got no confirmation on the time. Assuming I'd been blown off and running out of time to see someone, I contacted EE and was able to make an appointment. While I was on my way to my appointment, I got a text from the first girl asking if I was ready. (it was now about 4:20) I apologized for the confusion and told her that when she didn't confirm the time I made other arrangements. I got a very sarcastic text back informing me I was blocked. I'm confused. How long does a client need to reasonably wait before giving up? I figured 45 minutes was plenty. Thanks for any inputs. Stay Safe.[/QUOTE]This doesn't require a providers input! You inquired about a 4 pm appointment, in order for that to work it is more than obvious that a reply is needed much sooner than 4 to allow for travel time. I call bullshit on this one and out her for acting so BS. You should have gotten a reply by 3:40 ish most likely to make it work. If you would be so kind as to PM me her name so I know not to waste my time with her. Thanks.

[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;3266106]So, back in December, I started to be pretty broke. That caused me to stop hobbying. After a few weeks out, I started to think to myself things like, "What were you thinking? Why were you doing that?" I thought I had quit.

I returned to just jerking off to porn. But then, as the days passed, porn got boring again. So I started going to cam sites. I like when I can throw a few tokens at a girl and she responds. It's like a step up from porn.

Of course, for the past few days, my brain has started up: "Why spend money to see some girl's tits on your computer, when you can fuck hot girls anytime you want?

I guess I'm wondering if other people go through "cycles" with the hobby. Or if I just get lost in my head too much.[/QUOTE]When a marriage goes bland, it's hard to get away from this game and I'll tell you why. I've had great regulars over the years, some which even enjoyed my company so much that they stopped charging me. I've had relationship with women who aren't providers but that never goes anywhere. Have you ever hooked up with a civilian girl and found her to be a really lame fuck? LOL. That's because not all women can fuck like a skilled escort. We are always looking for the next best thing is the way I see it. There's a certain rush or excitement when you open that door to see a brand new girl. I've paid a donation to see a new girl while I had a civilian girl texting me wanting dick. It's a strange game man, just know your not alone when you begin to think, "what the fuck am I doing"?

[QUOTE=FMichaels4533;3274350]OK, I need a provider's input here. I recently tried to set an appointment with a girl (won't say who since she's already pissed at me). I texted to see if she was available that afternoon. She said yes. I texted back to see if we could meet in an hour at 4 pm. I was on a time crunch and couldn't wait forever. Anyway, I waited 45 minutes and got no confirmation on the time. Assuming I'd been blown off and running out of time to see someone, I contacted EE and was able to make an appointment. While I was on my way to my appointment, I got a text from the first girl asking if I was ready. (it was now about 4:20) I apologized for the confusion and told her that when she didn't confirm the time I made other arrangements. I got a very sarcastic text back informing me I was blocked. I'm confused. How long does a client need to reasonably wait before giving up? I figured 45 minutes was plenty. Thanks for any inputs. Stay Safe.[/QUOTE]From what I read, you are totally in the right. You inquired about an appointment. You did not receive a reply to confirm anything. You did not know where to go. You waited a fair amount of time and then decided to seek other entertainment because lady #1 did not reply to your inquiry. You went and spent your discretionary income elsewhere.

A lot of these women think that their shit doesn't stink and that we should be honored to have sex with them. That philosophy works ONLY if they are having sex with us for FREE. They have the pussy, but WE have the money.

If what you had described had happened to me, I would have simply texted / said "You did not reply in a timely fashion so I thought you were occupied and I found someone who was available. " This is a business. Yes we all have providers that we also like personally or even are our friends, but they aren't our wives, girlfriends or Civie FWBs. We pay them for their attention. They don't have any claim on us.

The woman who FINALLY contacted you 20 minutes after the requested time deserves to be put on your personal Banned list. Her attitude shows immaturity and naivete as to how to gain customers and win regulars. If she had been understanding, maybe even a little flirtatious when you said you had found someone else, she would have garnered your interest and you MIGHT have called her again when you had the urge. All she did is alienate a customer.

[QUOTE=Twisted69;3274475]This doesn't require a providers input! You inquired about a 4 pm appointment, in order for that to work it is more than obvious that a reply is needed much sooner than 4 to allow for travel time. I call bullshit on this one and out her for acting so BS. You should have gotten a reply by 3:40 ish most likely to make it work. If you would be so kind as to PM me her name so I know not to waste my time with her. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Consensus. If you aren't hearing from them 20 -30 minutes beforehand, forget it. It's called common courtesy, of which some people are obviously lacking.

[QUOTE=BTBear;3274517]From what I read, you are totally in the right. You inquired about an appointment. You did not receive a reply to confirm anything. You did not know where to go. You waited a fair amount of time and then decided to seek other entertainment because lady #1 did not reply to your inquiry. You went and spent your discretionary income elsewhere.

A lot of these women think that their shit doesn't stink and that we should be honored to have sex with them. That philosophy works ONLY if they are having sex with us for FREE. They have the pussy, but WE have the money.

If what you had described had happened to me, I would have simply texted / said "You did not reply in a timely fashion so I thought you were occupied and I found someone who was available. " This is a business. Yes we all have providers that we also like personally or even are our friends, but they aren't our wives, girlfriends or Civie FWBs. We pay them for their attention. They don't have any claim on us.

The woman who FINALLY contacted you 20 minutes after the requested time deserves to be put on your personal Banned list. Her attitude shows immaturity and naivete as to how to gain customers and win regulars. If she had been understanding, maybe even a little flirtatious when you said you had found someone else, she would have garnered your interest and you MIGHT have called her again when you had the urge. All she did is alienate a customer.[/QUOTE]I agree with everything you said but I believe the power is in the pussy. Read the sexual addiction thread or how long can you go without the Pussy. Now we can chose where to spend the money but the forum is full of stories of providers who give poor service but even after 2-3 times ofbeing treated poorly mongers still give them another chance. Try fucking your money, not much satisfaction in that. You or I may not give a bad provider another chance but they really don't care for most part. Some monger will always pay them. Power is in the pussy, hence the term pussywhipped.

Oh come on, you don't need a provider's input here. You don't need anybody's input here. You are senior enough to know that you were %110 right on this. Don't worry yourself too much when you are on the right side of the issue.

Like someone already said, you should be the one blocking her.

[QUOTE=FMichaels4533;3274350]OK, I need a provider's input here. I recently tried to set an appointment with a girl (won't say who since she's already pissed at me). I texted to see if she was available that afternoon. She said yes. I texted back to see if we could meet in an hour at 4 pm. I was on a time crunch and couldn't wait forever. Anyway, I waited 45 minutes and got no confirmation on the time. Assuming I'd been blown off and running out of time to see someone, I contacted EE and was able to make an appointment. While I was on my way to my appointment, I got a text from the first girl asking if I was ready. (it was now about 4:20) I apologized for the confusion and told her that when she didn't confirm the time I made other arrangements. I got a very sarcastic text back informing me I was blocked. I'm confused. How long does a client need to reasonably wait before giving up? I figured 45 minutes was plenty. Thanks for any inputs. Stay Safe.[/QUOTE]

Hey guys I'm not sure if you're aware but dawn is not in good health if you get a chance please reach out to her and let her know she's in your thoughts she's been having kidney problems and its hard to hear she's sick her and I have been friends for years so just keep her in your prayers get well dawn I'm rooting for you.

[QUOTE=DeepBlue798;3274990]Oh come on, you don't need a provider's input here. You don't need anybody's input here. You are senior enough to know that you were %110 right on this. Don't worry yourself too much when you are on the right side of the issue.

Like someone already said, you should be the one blocking her.[/QUOTE]Yes dear, deep blue is correct, you as a senior member, you should know that this was Bullshit! That is like when I tell someone I am not available until an hour from now, hear nothing back until exactly and hour later, asking me if I am ready yet, and then the guy getting pissed when telling him I already booked someone else because of the lack of communication and assumption this guy made that because I said an hour, he did not need to confirm or set a thing up in stone with me!! She knows she is wrong hun! Screw it! We won't block you FMichaels?

Re: the girl not getting back to you and then getting pissed, she answered once, if she was too busy she wouldn't have answered. If she had time to answer once she had time to immediately communicate to you her availability or schedule, not leave you hanging. So she was wrong and that's all there is to that.

Re: the money we spend on providers, just think, as an individual you are not buying a house that you will lose if the relationship goes sour, you are not buying a wardrobe that goes out of style every 4 months, you are not putting 3 kids through college, you are not paying 20 - 30 thousand for a wedding. Even if you are spending 500 month, even more, its still less expensive than a wife and kids. Not to mention cars, insurance, and tons and tons of aggravation and worry. I have a daughter in the joint, you want to talk about aggravation and worry? Believe me, find a few reliable babes, have fun, make sure they know you value them, and your life will be so much easier.

As they say, if I only knew then what I know now...

Just sayin.

Cheech.

[QUOTE=Fatmando;3278613]After driving to see Brandycincychk and leaving empty handed. I called Sexybaby1110, who texted back right away. We went over rates and services. Then when it was time to setup a meeting she went crickets. I tried numerous times to contact her to no avail and just wasted time. Frustrated I contacted Bri.

[URL]http://cincinnati.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/saturday-early-bird-special/34688536[/URL]

Bri was easy to contact. She offered both incall and outcall. Upon learning my location, she suggested that I come to see her. I drove to western Cincinnati to a not so great neighborhood. She spoke with me on the phone until I was in her room. As soon as I entered her room I noticed an elderly black man in the living room. I was startled, but she was cute. If you like short and petite then she's your girl. She looks better than her pictures.

We walked into the bedroom.

It was a relatively nice place. A comforter on on a plastic sheet. She asked for the donation upfront. I told her no. She asked to place the donation on top of her TV. I told her no. I showed her the donation and told her that I was already nervous with the guy in the other room. She agreed to take the donation afterwards.

She is cute and and proceeded to BBBJ. As soon as that was done. She asked for the donation again stating "business is business". I told her I'd pay afterwards. Then we went to CG. I had the first POP. She stopped afterwards and DEMANDED that I pay now. I got frustrated, she refused to proceed to the second half of the hour stating once again that "business is business" I told her that I don't want this to feel like a business arrangement and then paid half.

We went to a few different position before finishing with BBJCIM. I paid the remainder as I always do. She then continued to talk about business being business. She just doesn't know how to make a guy feel special.

She is cute but all business. She never makes you fell like it is all about you! Her nagging never allowed me to relax. I might see her again but just for a quick visit under the condition I pay afterwards and she doesn't nag, and there is no one in the room.

She is really cute and I enjoyed the services. If she could work for EE for awhile I think her and her clients would benefit. Between the nagging and the guy in the room I think many abstain from this little cutie.[/QUOTE]I saw Bri last week. I agree very cute girl. Since she has been reviewed on here an is not known to be a rip off, I think you should have put the donation on the TV. I always place it in open site as I walk in. Again, it would be different if she wasn't reviewed.

Johnny.

[QUOTE=JohnnyDoe;3278903]I saw Bri last week. I agree very cute girl. Since she has been reviewed on here an is not known to be a rip off, I think you should have put the donation on the TV. I always place it in open site as I walk in. Again, it would be different if she wasn't reviewed.

Johnny.[/QUOTE]Just because a girl doesn't rip someone on Monday doesn't mean she won't do it on Tuesday or lower the threshold of service after payment. I told her I would pay her afterwards. She agreed and then continued to nag. Why should I be with a provider that does not agree to the terms of the deal? Her nagging ruined the session. I have other options if I want to be with someone that nags.

There was a man in the other room and I should have left then. Seriously, you were not there, and who are you to say what I should have done in that situation? I reported it as it happened you can do whatever you want in your adventures.

[QUOTE=Fatmando;3278938]Just because a girl doesn't rip someone on Monday doesn't mean she won't do it on Tuesday or lower the threshold of service after payment. I told her I would pay her afterwards. She agreed and then continued to nag. Why should I be with a provider that does not agree to the terms of the deal? Her nagging ruined the session. I have other options if I want to be with someone that nags.

There was a man in the other room and I should have left then. Seriously, you were not there, and who are you to say what I should have done in that situation? I reported it as it happened you can do whatever you want in your adventures.[/QUOTE]You are right, I should not have suggested what you should do. I should have worded differently. Didn't mean to get you worked up, just discussing as this is a forum. Take care.

[QUOTE=JohnnyDoe;3278985]You are right, I should not have suggested what you should do. I should have worded differently. Didn't mean to get you worked up, just discussing as this is a forum. Take care.[/QUOTE]I appreciate your comment, and see how you might have done it differently.

[QUOTE=JohnnyDoe;3278903]I saw Bri last week. I agree very cute girl. Since she has been reviewed on here an is not known to be a rip off, I think you should have put the donation on the TV. I always place it in open site as I walk in. Again, it would be different if she wasn't reviewed.

Johnny.[/QUOTE]It amazes me how people on this board try to tell someone how they should conduct their business. He didn't ask for your opinion, he was stating what happened and he did what he thought was right and by all accounts was probably the right thing. Everything in the forum says never give money up front and I might add he did say another person (male) was in the house. And just because she is reviewed doesn't mean she wouldn't rip somebody off if given a chance.HL29

[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;3279226]It amazes me how people on this board try to tell someone how they should conduct their business. He didn't ask for your opinion, he was stating what happened and he did what he thought was right and by all accounts was probably the right thing. Everything in the forum says never give money up front and I might add he did say another person (male) was in the house. And just because she is reviewed doesn't mean she wouldn't rip somebody off if given a chance.HL29[/QUOTE]Dude. I apologized. I was out of line.

Johnny. You made it all good with your reply to Fatmando and he seemed good with it. Like many other topics on these forums, you have to take your face slaps by the high post count seniors who know all, be all, and participate in all conversations. You earned respect by your reply earlier.

[QUOTE=JohnnyDoe;3279237]Dude. I apologized. I was out of line.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TenBucks22;3279275]Johnny. You made it all good with your reply to Fatmando and he seemed good with it. Like many other topics on these forums, you have to take your face slaps by the high post count seniors who know all, be all, and participate in all conversations. You earned respect by your reply earlier.[/QUOTE]Good Point TB. I would think my 12 years contributing on this forum would be worth something! Ha.

Back on topic. Another great review for Grace. She is a sweetie and has a nice safe residential incall.

[QUOTE=JohnnyDoe;3279237]Dude. I apologized. I was out of line.[/QUOTE]I just voiced my opinion. HL29.

[QUOTE=TenBucks22;3279275]Johnny. You made it all good with your reply to Fatmando and he seemed good with it. Like many other topics on these forums, you have to take your face slaps by the high post count seniors who know all, be all, and participate in all conversations. You earned respect by your reply earlier.[/QUOTE]Just voiced my opinion like you just voiced yours. And I also don't participate in all conversations. Apparently I had a valid point he did apologize to Fatmoando I just wrote my comment and didn't see his apology. But it seems like you are doing what you accused me of doing, participating in another persons conversation. Which is what you are allowed to do on this forum.HL29

[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;3279822]I just voiced my opinion. HL29.[/QUOTE]I thought this thread was a free forum, I. E. , nothing is out of line. Much is stupid, ignorant and uninformed, but nothing is out of line.

My condolences to the ladies that have clearly let their A-game go in the toilet while simultaneously advertising, "... [i]Tired of being disappointed?[/i]".

They are mentally incapable.

[QUOTE=TheGenteelMan;3280112]My condolences to the ladies that have clearly let their A-game go in the toilet while simultaneously advertising, "... [i]Tired of being disappointed?[/i]".

They are mentally incapable.[/QUOTE]They don't know the half of it. But then when 'we' find the gems, it can be hard to top what has been found. Disappointed will happen (alot) in this pastime.

I tend to ignore the headlines, and then as other do. RESEARCH! .

GB.

I was watching this girl waiting for a couple of reviews. After she received a couple reviews she has not posted again.

What's the normal "first contact" protocol? I usually send a text. But, given the number of times girls don't text me back, I think I must be doing it wrong. LOL.

Who's got advice??

[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;3285051]What's the normal "first contact" protocol? I usually send a text. But, given the number of times girls don't text me back, I think I must be doing it wrong. LOL.

Who's got advice??[/QUOTE]I always send a text that asks 1 question " Hello are you available ". I usually get a respond saying " yes I am ". That the and gets the ball rolling. I have very few no shows. I'm quick and to the point plus I've done lots of research to see what I'm getting as far as response time and service. HL29.

[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;3285133]I always send a text that asks 1 question " Hello are you available ". I usually get a respond saying " yes I am ". That the and gets the ball rolling. I have very few no shows. I'm quick and to the point plus I've done lots of research to see what I'm getting as far as response time and service. HL29.[/QUOTE]I send a text to girl requesting a date about 3 to 5 days in advance with request for ever how many hours I want on a given day at a specific time (I always do multi-hour dates) and if she tells me that she will schedule it then I book it and check back a couple of times to verify it is still a go, if girl tells me she is booked at that time then later on I will give her another try for another specific day, however if I get a response back telling me to contact her on the day requested then I say forget it if girl does not schedule in advance. I have less than a 10% crickets or no show once I have set up date by doing it this way.

[QUOTE=SinsinnatiToy;3285218]I send a text to girl requesting a date about 3 to 5 days in advance with request for ever how many hours I want on a given day at a specific time (I always do multi-hour dates) and if she tells me that she will schedule it then I book it and check back a couple of times to verify it is still a go, if girl tells me she is booked at that time then later on I will give her another try for another specific day, however if I get a response back telling me to contact her on the day requested then I say forget it if girl does not schedule in advance. I have less than a 10% crickets or no show once I have set up date by doing it this way.[/QUOTE]Do you plan your events with USASG girls only or are BP girls included? I plan events with ladies I've seen before because I know they will work out I hate no shows and crickets, most BP girls want you to text when ready most put it in their ads. I'm guessing it works better for you because you're wanting multiple hours and they don't want to screw up that kind of cash, me I'm 30 minutes or less. I'd be mad if I set up multiple hours and Mr. Happy did a disappearing act on me, that little motherf# has been known to act a fool on me. HL29.

[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;3285408]Do you plan your events with USASG girls only or are BP girls included? I plan events with ladies I've seen before because I know they will work out I hate no shows and crickets, most BP girls want you to text when ready most put it in their ads. I'm guessing it works better for you because you're wanting multiple hours and they don't want to screw up that kind of cash, me I'm 30 minutes or less. I'd be mad if I set up multiple hours and Mr. Happy did a disappearing act on me, that little motherf# has been known to act a fool on me. HL29.[/QUOTE]I typically will send an initial text and allow for 1 hour response time. I assume that the provider may be engaged in a dream and I would not want a provider to interrupt my dream to reply to a text. Although, I did have one reply to a text in the middle of the deed, appropriately- I thrust just a bit harder at that precise moment.

I would agree that scheduled visits a few days in advance so far have been most productive.

[QUOTE=Cinc34;3285485]I typically will send an initial text and allow for 1 hour response time. I assume that the provider may be engaged in a dream and I would not want a provider to interrupt my dream to reply to a text. Although, I did have one reply to a text in the middle of the deed, appropriately- I thrust just a bit harder at that precise moment.

I would agree that scheduled visits a few days in advance so far have been most productive.[/QUOTE]Planning is the only way to go unless you just have to go. If I just have to go I send 3 text out and the first to reply gets my business. If planning I use p-411 or another service that escapes me at this moment. Anytime dealing with BP girls especially days in advance is usually a waste of time.

[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;3285051]What's the normal "first contact" protocol? I usually send a text. But, given the number of times girls don't text me back, I think I must be doing it wrong. LOL.

Who's got advice??[/QUOTE]I normally contact them the day I'm looking to dream. A fair number of them don't do well with planning ahead, and my schedule and work load changes a lot, so I prefer to contact the day of. Sometimes I'll call instead of text so I can get a better feel for what they're like if I don't know them.