I missed this in my self-absorbed state
[QUOTE=Madaboutmax; 1335365]Its been less than two weeks, but we've already had 5 overnights. We've had a minimum of 4 rounds every night with her initiating most of them. Looking at the sugar / round, I may have one of the best deals going. I don't know how long this will last, but I sure am enjoying the ride.
I've decided she needs a new acronym. HYN (Hot Young Nympho).[/QUOTE]Good God, Max!
Four rounds per night! Your Viagra bill must be through the roof! Keep at it, my man, you are my hero.
Seriously, though, isn't the sugar / round rate ultimately far better than any other route? Sure it takes more work, sure we delve into their, and our, private shit a little too much from time to time, and sure there are misses and spit hooks as well as hits and landings, but isn't it so worth it in the end?
I realize I am speaking as a man who has just set his world back in order, and so may be wearing an unusually rosy shade of eyeglasses at the moment, but the truth is still the truth. This is a sport for those who love the pursuit as much as the prize. Fly fishing vs bait casting. It's not for all anglers, but for those who have tried and been successful, I believe there is no turning back.
Scott
Living vicariously, and long-distance at that
Gentlemen,
I am out of town on business, and have been behaving myself, but I was really hoping to log in tonight and read about [B]somebody[/B] doing [B]something[/B]!
Let's get busy out there, my brothers! The holidays are fast approaching, and I am guessing we will all pull in our horns a bit, so this is really the last weekend to cut loose. Get those babies into bed, pronto!
I'll be checking back later, and I'm sure I'm not alone in saying I'd love to read some posts before bedtime.
All the best,
Scott
New to this Forum-1st SB report
I'm new to this forum but have been a contributor for some time in other Richmond forums. Sorry, but had to change my User I'd because it was too close to my email name and I don't want my current SB to recognize me. I've been lurking here for a long time and have learned a lot thanks to you all. I have been trying to get into the SB world and out of the escort world for some time now, with limited success until recently. Paid for the SDFM site for about 6 months but never really knew how to use it then. After reading some posts here and on the Baltimore site, decided to try the CL route for free. I am not yet found my ATF like some of you (definitely my goal) , but have had some recent success and am still learning.
I have posted on CL about 4 times now over a 2 month period. Most were not successful except for one particular add that got a half dozen or so good candidates.
-2 were BBW types that didn't interest me when we met up at all. But got a BBBJ from one of them on the first meeting after dinner and drinks at a local Applebees. Just not my type for a LTR.
-1 was a real looker around 30, divorced with small child. I met her at a bar and we had a good chat for a couple of hours. I could not get her to respond to my emails after that so must not have been her type. I'll try again in a month or so, but don't expect to hear from her again.
-1 was a BBW that went right to the "come to my place instead" response. I don't think she is a pro, but she certainly was interested in the cash more than anything else. Her place was a mess and she was not my type, but we did a quick 30 minute session and I got out of there. She contacted me a couple of times since but I'm not at all interested.
-The only long term candidate is a young lady around 30, currently going to VCU and waiting tables on the side. Although a bit on the heavy side, she is clean, well educated, pleasant to be around, and pretty good in bed She actually got cold feet before our first meeting and stood me up. Then we met first at a place she picked out and things went pretty well but no physical contact on that date. On the second date, I went all out and took her to one of the nicest places in town. I spent a bundle but still nothing physical. I was about ready to give up, but struck gold on the 3rd and 4th dates. She was a lot of fun, especially on the last date, and I will keep you all posted on how it goes from here.
I do not see her as a LTR at this point, but am certainly having fun. I plan to post new adds about once a month and eventually want that HYB or HCB that a few of you are so excited about. I'm not sure I have the patience, but am going to give it a hell of a try anyway.
Keep up the good posts.
Alias
A cautionary tale, sort of
Gentlemen,
It has been a few days since I got back from my celibacy tour of the near south, and I am at work for a few days before the holiday. As anticipated, I spent a wonderful morning and early afternoon on Monday with my ATF at what is now our favorite trysting spot. A very interesting, high-design small inn, with a fantastic restaurant attached. I will share more later, but my evenings alone on the road gave me ample time to reminisce, and I wanted to share a tale with you that might help us all out.
I was on the road for business and had contacted some babies beforehand as usual, and had successfully landed a very sweet single mom in her late 20's the night before, (should that be its own acronym - HSM - "hot single mom"?) and was feeling smug and rosy about the current night's contact, a very attractive, thin HCB. As is my wont, I had gotten her cell number a few days before, and called her once I was done for the day so we could make plans to meet, and hopefully fuck.
Now here's where things start to go sideways, at least apparently. It was late, I had already had dinner, and was having trouble getting back to the hotel due to an accident on the highway. Long story short, the baby and I were talking off and on to update the situation. She seemed rational and coherent and non-threatening during all these calls, so much so that I suggested we skip drinks and just meet at my hotel room, a concept to which she readily agreed. I gave her the hotel and room number and signed off, a smile on my lips and a stiffie in my pants.
As I was nearing the hotel, I recalled her last few sentences, which went something like this: "I'm really glad you can meet me. I've had some really bad luck lately, some bounced checks, overdrawn accounts, I'm late with my rent, and I've lost about 20 pounds, so I really can use the help." Yikes, did I just invite a crack ho back to my room? What was I thinking, or more accurately, what was I thinking with? What if she shows up and is a wreck? How can I get rid of her without too much drama? Will there be a big, angry boyfriend waiting for me as well? These, and many more similarly-paranoid thoughts ran through my head, and I quickly found a bar, texted her that I had a change of plans and said I would like to meet her for a nightcap instead, got a table next to the bouncer and waited.
As it turned out, I needn't have feared. She was adorable, sweet, and funny; she just had had a string of bad luck. The bounced checks were her last two paychecks from a place that had suddenly gone out of business, and this obviously had put her in a tight spot. I bought her dinner and then took her back to the room for a truly astounding session. She was a tight, wet spinner of the first order, with a thin little body and tiny boobs that were a surprising turn-on for me, and very vocal and appreciative. As she left and I staggered back to the bed to collapse with fatigue, I laughed at my earlier concerns, but the next day the moral of the story hit me: never arrange to meet with any baby without an "interview" in a safe, open public place first, no matter how normal they seem on the phone. We do [B]not[/B] want to end up on the local news.
On another note, I wish you all, my brothers, a happy holiday, whatever you may call it, and urge you to make the new year full of wonderful babies, and baby stories.
All the best,
Scott
Additions to "how to tell if the SB you're communicating with is really a pro"
If in her first message to you she addresses you with any of the following: sweetie, hun, babe, doll or handsome (this last especially if you have no public picture posted) , or if she uses the phrase "I'm so horneee".
Scott
A cautionary tale for real this time
Gentlemen,
Last night I opened an email whose two word message might have otherwise sent fear coursing through my veins,"get tested." I was not worried since it was from a baby that I had only briefly corresponded with, but had never met with. She just gave off a skanky vibe, and I drifted away. I am guessing that she sent out an email blast to everyone in her contacts list, as there were several other names besides mine in the "To" slot.
It did make me think, however, that it is easy in the SB world to become complacent, lulled by the sometimes false idea that these are all amateurs that we deal with, and thus are free from STDs. My take-away from this is to trust my spidey sense, and if something seems not quite right, walk away. There's another baby or two just around the corner.
Happy holidays to all my brothers out there, and remember to always play safely.
Best,
Scott.
PS. Drock and Dru, pm me for her info. I don't know if she is still on the SA site, but you don't want to accidentally run into her, I'm guessing
Patience + persistence = pussy
[QUOTE=BuckDancer;1346088]I have been communicating with a SB for two weeks now without meeting for the first time yet. I have already gotten the picture of her life, and while it doesn't seem all that bad, no drug problem as I can tell etc. She is down on her luck and the relationship with her family is bad. Now I'm a sucker for a damsel in distress and this all of the sudden emotional attachment has me in quite the quandry, I want to help her instead of fuck her. I have enough emotional attachment at home, don't need to go find more. Not sure if any of this makes sense to other people, Not sure the SD route is my ticket just yet.[/QUOTE]Buck,
Keep at it, my brother! It took me over a month to land my first baby, but things magically got easier after that. It's like learning any new skill, motivation alone is not enough to get the little fish in the net. You have to practice, and learn from what works and what doesn't work. I actually had a seasoned baby walk me through my text line by line and tell me where the red flags, turn-offs and stupid lines were, as well as what was working. I don't quite know why she did this, since we had already met and did not feel the spark, so it was not because she was hot to get into my pants, LOL.
Oddly, after I had landed my first baby, I started getting regular hits. It's like I had gotten in the groove, so to speak. You need to look at all aspects of your game: profile text, first contact text, second contact text, first meeting approach, second meeting approach, and so on. Also, keep in mind that a baby that did not rise to your presentation the first time might just bite the second time around. A lot of them just bide their time in their holding spots, waiting to see what hits the water.
This is a hobby for the patient man who enjoys the pursuit almost as much as the netting. It's not like dialing a number and getting laid by any means, but the babies are so much finer. As for their personal lives, as long as it's not like an episode of Teen Moms or whatever that show is, don't let yourself get deterred. We all have baggage, and ups and downs of fortune. That's just life. Keep your eye on the prize, though, which is fucking her. You can feel compassion, help her out of a jam, and so on, but the goal is to bed her.
Keep up the good work, my friends, and don't forget to write.
Best,
Scott
Another perspective, perhaps
Gentlemen,
I have been reading all your observations and advice to our friend Nando, and, in addition to feeling they are also directed at me, I'd like to offer yet another perspective for group consideration. I realize I am speaking from Nando's side of the fence on this point, but why [I]should[/I] he sublimate his feelings and expectations in regards to his ATF's treatment of him if it bothers him?
I have made a career out of making deals of one sort or another, and I have developed a simple philosophy: anyone can envision and embrace the "upside" of a deal, namely that we get the whished-for positive outcome. When we are successful in this manner, we think we have power over the situation. I have observed over the years that it is only when we examine the "downside" of the deal, ie the negative outcome, and are ok with that, that we are in a true position of power. We can't be made to do anything for which we are not prepared.
Using Nando's, or my, situation as a real life example, if we are willing to accept that our babies might bolt on us, there is no harm in making our feelings, or in this case Nando's irritations, known. In my particular case, I had a frank talk with my ATF about her strange "aloofness" and we sorted it out and now things are golden again. I wonder if I had not had that talk with her, but rather kept it to myself for fear of ruining things, if it might not have had a negative effect on our relationship in that I would have behaved differently towards her, she would have sensed it and reacted, and so on downwards.
In the end, I guess, we are all looking for a connection, at times some deeper than others. "Honesty" is a word that gets used a lot in the SB world, which on one hand is ironic given the forum in which we are operating, but on the other hand is something that many of these little fish are obviously not getting elsewhere. Could it be that they view honesty as power? An interesting idea to ponder.
In any event, keep up the good work, gentlemen.
I know I am not alone when I say that I await some salacious reports.
All the best,
Scott
I have a total thing for cute accents!
[QUOTE=Cantwinlosin;1346759]Met a new baby yesterday. South African (with that lovely accent) , intelligent and funny, quite possibly the finest body I've ever seen. Initial meeting went very well. We get together this coming week for a play date. Keeping my fingers crossed.[/QUOTE]Hey Win,
Congratulations on your new contact. When I was down south not too long ago, I was out of my mind with all those fabulous babies and their adorable accents. I've got wood just thinking about them.
Good luck to you, and keep your brothers informed!
Scott
