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[QUOTE=OverKill418;5445486]Kittkate was texting me and then hit me up for money. Claims her apartment flooded and needed to get a hotel room. Blocked instantly.[/QUOTE]That's complete bullshit. She lives in Central Bucks area. She is no where near the area that was hit even though her profile has something different.
I talked with her a while ago and I thought she was in the Levittown area which was hammered by rain and flooding, however, she is a total flake and I never met her thank god. KCON- she is a total ***** when I talked with her, way too many rules for the price of admission.
Be Safe.
[QUOTE=ReadyToTumble;5447828]That's complete bullshit. She lives in Central Bucks area. She is no where near the area that was hit even though her profile has something different.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;5448304]I talked with her a while ago and I thought she was in the Levittown area which was hammered by rain and flooding, however, she is a total flake and I never met her thank god. KCON- she is a total ***** when I talked with her, way too many rules for the price of admission.
Be Safe.[/QUOTE]Amazing that any of these girls still are getting responses, more guys need to be checking here. It's saved me a few headaches.
Mayfran on SA in West Chester, Pa.
Has anyone seen her? Would like to hear your experience. Please PM me.
Thanks,
PH.
[QUOTE=PinHead11;5450765]Mayfran on SA in West Chester, Pa.
Has anyone seen her? Would like to hear your experience. Please PM me.
Thanks,
PH.[/QUOTE]I had a terrible experience with her last year.
Initially she asked for $300.
I declined since she is on the heavier side and I prefer a more petite body.
Then we negotiated for $100 for just oral.
Told me she was doing this to save money to move out west and had a few regulars.
Told me her oral was the best.
She came to my house. Looked like her pics.
But when it came time to perform, she wanted to do it her way.
I kept telling her I didn't like how she was doing it (too hard) but all she.
Would say was I need to relax and let her do her "job" and "she's very good".
It got to the point it was uncomfortable and no pleasure no matter how many times I would tell.
Her I'm not enjoying it.
She Ended up letting me have sex. Busted quick and told her to leave.
Would not recommend or repeat.
If I am paying I like to give direction and communicate what I like.
She clearly didn't understand that.
Worst oral I have ever received.
But some may like her skills.
User comehereboys is a scammer. Makes plans to meet and then asks for you to send her cash at the last minute. Here's a link to her profile: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/73f7ce80-1231-4705-b437-b9c5d3f0aa71[/URL].
The profile is a little weird, asking to text or snapchat right away, but what the hell? Maybe worth a shot. We snapchatted and she sent a bunch of pictures--she's a model with an agency in Philly and her real name and info is easy to find. She sends real pics--but, she can barely keep the game up. Obviously not a very bright bulb. She can't stop herself from being rude in messages and has a hard time communicating. I might send "Looking forward to seeing you soon" and she would reply "What they hell is that supposed to mean?" And she would send lots of pics, so I felt compelled to reply something like, "You've got great eyes" and she would reply "Please don't comment on my appearance until you give me an allowance. ".
Anyway, right before we meet she wants me to send her some money and won't accept cash when we meet. Typical scam. Avoid.
[QUOTE=TheArgent;5456216]User comehereboys is a scammer. Makes plans to meet and then asks for you to send her cash at the last minute. Here's a link to her profile: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/73f7ce80-1231-4705-b437-b9c5d3f0aa71[/URL].
The profile is a little weird, asking to text or snapchat right away, but what the hell? Maybe worth a shot. We snapchatted and she sent a bunch of pictures--she's a model with an agency in Philly and her real name and info is easy to find. She sends real pics--but, she can barely keep the game up. Obviously not a very bright bulb. She can't stop herself from being rude in messages and has a hard time communicating. I might send "Looking forward to seeing you soon" and she would reply "What they hell is that supposed to mean?" And she would send lots of pics, so I felt compelled to reply something like, "You've got great eyes" and she would reply "Please don't comment on my appearance until you give me an allowance. ".
Anyway, right before we meet she wants me to send her some money and won't accept cash when we meet. Typical scam. Avoid.[/QUOTE]This has happened a lot to me the last few months and it's usually the women in their 20's.
They agree to meeting and then ask for money right before it's time. Always some excuse to get you to pay.
Unfortunately there must be guys outside there that actually do give money people to meeting.
[QUOTE=KenAllen;5452402]I had a terrible experience with her last year.
Initially she asked for $300.
I declined since she is on the heavier side and I prefer a more petite body.
Then we negotiated for $100 for just oral.
Told me she was doing this to save money to move out west and had a few regulars.
Told me her oral was the best.
She came to my house. Looked like her pics.
But when it came time to perform, she wanted to do it her way.
I kept telling her I didn't like how she was doing it (too hard) but all she.
Would say was I need to relax and let her do her "job" and "she's very good".
It got to the point it was uncomfortable and no pleasure no matter how many times I would tell.
Her I'm not enjoying it.
She Ended up letting me have sex. Busted quick and told her to leave.
Would not recommend or repeat.
If I am paying I like to give direction and communicate what I like.
She clearly didn't understand that.
Worst oral I have ever received.
But some may like her skills.[/QUOTE]She ]Started at $400, I agreed to 3.
I saw the big tits and was into it. Didn't notice the belly till we met but she was all happy and looking good otherwise so I continued with our M&G.
We got something to eat and it started off well.
Told me a while not exactly the same, similar story.
Was real flirty, rubbing on me and when we were almost done told me how much she needed sex constantly and "doesn't like latex".
She finished her drink and said lets go. I thought we were off to the races. But it was not to be.
Got out to the parking lot where there were others in and around and I said I would follow her back to her place and she says- oh no you misunderstood. What? Uh no I didn't.
Tells me she lives a hour away. Now we already aren't in West Chester but further north and you live a hour away? Why did we meet at this place? My guess to get a free meal and drinks.
Anyway the story ended soon thereafter. I am not going to argue about this shit. I had a good meal. (no I didn't pay anything since we didn't finish our date).
She called on the way home and said we can do it next time.
After a long pandemic break, I came back and was a member for just 30 days.
It takes time to filter the scammers, GPS and picture sellers, but met some great ladies for fun times.
I treat the lady w respect and treat the meet as I would with someone not on SA.
It works for me. I met nice, beautiful women for fun company.
Like others said, how you treat the potential SB determines what you end up with.
Good luck w your search.
[QUOTE=ReadyToTumble;5447828]That's complete bullshit. She lives in Central Bucks area. She is no where near the area that was hit even though her profile has something different.[/QUOTE]She asked me to pay her phone bill so that we could meet the next day, because it was about to get shut off. I said sure, I'll pay it direct to ATT wireless, just give me your name and zip. Crickets. Shows that she just wanted a cashapp. Keep moving.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/161a193b-7656-4365-b53a-da9506542d86[/URL]
This one is slippery. She didn't get anything but she makes it sound like she wants to meet for dinner and then go to a hotel afterwards. She is close by so she mentions a restaurant nearby. She says she would like me to send some $ for gas to get there. And her allowance. I said what? I don't know you; haven't met you; don't know if you have balls or what and you are asking for what? She then apologizes and says I can give her everything at the restaurant. I say I don't discuss anything about anything and anything I give you is after we become friends. Crickets. This is a typical encounter.
SA can be a very precarious adventure. It can be great also. It is potluck to say the least.
1. Scams. Scams can be avoided by following the rule, stop your communication once they ask for $ before you ever meet the person. When they ask for CashApps before meeting, you know they may be a guy or a girl it doesn't matter, they won't meet you. I don't give anything to any new meet until our meeting is done. Some will dash.
2. Mental illness and drug addicts. I have run into drug addicts and paranoid schizophrenics. And probably one was both. When communicating with them, look for sudden bursts of anger. You don't want to be alone with them. They are very unpredictable. Unfortunately I had one encounter like that. I ran as fast as I could.
3. Gage their mental health and physical health at meet and greets. Use the time with them to judge their state of mind. Sometimes you can't tell but if they are disheveled, you will know right away. Fentanyl and heroin users nod out frequently. Crystal Meth users rage.
4. When a woman reaches out to you from a far distance away and has no ties to the area, it usually means it's a story that's coming and an attempt to gain your sympathy for a payout. I have been reached about dying grandmothers without $ to bury her. They get very creative as they claim instant attraction towards you.
5. I have started a couple without intimacy with very small allowance and let the friendship grow. One worked out very well. She was a recent graduate at the time and thought the small amount was aiding her survival without hitting up her parents. It was very much appreciated. She gave me clues along the way.
Add anything else that you have experienced. The good experiences, not many, have been very easygoing. Most of the bad ones had clues.
This lists as her being in California but she sends guys favorites and messages saying she is in your City.
But she is also in Boston, as there is a discussion about her on the SB thread on her there.
https://www.seeking.com/member/bf68c598-acb5-4111-bf09-002f9d0bb83e
I haven't gotten to the request for deposit yet. I keep on asking to meet at a public place. She said her ppm is 300 for 3 hours. She is staying at the Westin. Never responds to meeting at a public place.
Any experience or intel on this date? Thanks for the help!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/905e1247-b334-4238-99fb-927d736d71f4[/URL]
[QUOTE=Runner8;5480423]Any experience or intel on this date? Thanks for the help!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/905e1247-b334-4238-99fb-927d736d71f4[/URL][/QUOTE]A friend of mine fucked her. She was fun. Her teeth are a mess so he didn't repeat. I forget the cost, but he never pays more than 300. He also said he thought she might have a pimp. But that was just speculation on his part. The fucked up teeth are first hand knowledge. LOL.
[QUOTE=HenryT458;5480766]A friend of mine fucked her. She was fun. Her teeth are a mess so he didn't repeat. I forget the cost, but he never pays more than 300. He also said he thought she might have a pimp. But that was just speculation on his part. The fucked up teeth are first hand knowledge. LOL.[/QUOTE]Definitely has a pimp / driver / candy problems.
I appreciate the confirmations. My spider senses seems to pick up some weirds vibes. This board is rocks!
[QUOTE=YellowLuvin;5481539]Definitely has a pimp / driver / candy problems.[/QUOTE]
Beeyou2 fulbaby.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/95e2ebb4-18d6-4f71-9258-4674f35d623c[/URL]
Fellow Mongers,
Looking for any assistance on the above prospect. Her link on SA [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b73f5c4c-ba1b-4fe8-8da0-622430aa3d6b.[/URL].
Got her number and we have been texting. She initially started at 6 bens but I have gotten her down to 400. No trips to Greece, cover required for main event. Very paranoid about how clean I am even though I get tested monthly with very recent results. She is in the snj area next week.
Let me know if you have partaken, will take the plunge if I get positive feedback.
Thanks and Be Safe.
[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;5492613]Fellow Mongers,
Looking for any assistance on the above prospect. Her link on SA [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b73f5c4c-ba1b-4fe8-8da0-622430aa3d6b.[/URL].
Got her number and we have been texting. She initially started at 6 bens but I have gotten her down to 400. No trips to Greece, cover required for main event. Very paranoid about how clean I am even though I get tested monthly with very recent results. She is in the snj area next week.
Let me know if you have partaken, will take the plunge if I get positive feedback.
Thanks and Be Safe.[/QUOTE]Looks like her profile is down.
Not sure why the link is not working. She is still on. She is a premium member so probably using the hidden feature to reduce messages. Her primary location is now philly, with other locations in ridgewood nj and kop.
Thanks and Be Safe.
[QUOTE=HenryT458;5493687]Looks like her profile is down.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;5493727]Not sure why the link is not working. She is still on. She is a premium member so probably using the hidden feature to reduce messages. Her primary location is now philly, with other locations in ridgewood nj and kop.
Thanks and Be Safe.[/QUOTE]I now assume she blocked me. LOL.
[QUOTE=HenryT458;5493924]I now assume she blocked me. LOL.[/QUOTE]You are probably not blocked. The link was incorrectly posted with a period at the end. Try this.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b73f5c4c-ba1b-4fe8-8da0-622430aa3d6b[/URL]
[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;5492613]Fellow Mongers,
Looking for any assistance on the above prospect. Her link on SA [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b73f5c4c-ba1b-4fe8-8da0-622430aa3d6b.[/URL].
Got her number and we have been texting. She initially started at 6 bens but I have gotten her down to 400. No trips to Greece, cover required for main event. Very paranoid about how clean I am even though I get tested monthly with very recent results. She is in the snj area next week.
Let me know if you have partaken, will take the plunge if I get positive feedback.
Thanks and Be Safe.[/QUOTE]Extra dots at end of link.
She is cute, good luck and hope that works out. I generally don't ever discuss $ before meeting as I have found once we have talked for a bit the arrangement is more to my liking but also understand some girls won't meet until that is agreed upon.
PH.
[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;5492613]Fellow Mongers,
Looking for any assistance on the above prospect. Her link on SA [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b73f5c4c-ba1b-4fe8-8da0-622430aa3d6b.[/URL].
Got her number and we have been texting. She initially started at 6 bens but I have gotten her down to 400. No trips to Greece, cover required for main event. Very paranoid about how clean I am even though I get tested monthly with very recent results. She is in the snj area next week.
Let me know if you have partaken, will take the plunge if I get positive feedback.
Thanks and Be Safe.[/QUOTE]Now that I fixed the link. That is Kayla. I fucked her. She was 400. She insisted on covered sex. She was 19 YO when I saw her and not a great fuck. She is cute and has a good body but she was 19 so that is to be expected at her age. I met her a second time hoping things would improve with familiarity. They did not. An average fuck at best. I didn't return.
I apologize for incorrect link. Thanks for the info even though it's disappointing that she is a lousy lay. Anybody else have similar experience with her?
Thanks and Be Safe.
[QUOTE=HenryT458;5494315]Now that I fixed the link. That is Kayla. I fucked her. She was 400. She insisted on covered sex. She was 19 YO when I saw her and not a great fuck. She is cute and has a good body but she was 19 so that is to be expected at her age. I met her a second time hoping things would improve with familiarity. They did not. An average fuck at best. I didn't return.[/QUOTE]
I am curious how to get around giving out my Mr and Mrs credit card numbers when trying to get in the door with SB. I now have purchased a master card debit card that they (master card) won't accept because its a subscription. Just curious if anyone has a work around to keep it on the down low at home?
I use to use visa vanilla card for SA and SB. They changed a few years back on what they would accept so now you have to use cards that can be used internationally like Amex gift cards or centurian Visa cards. Just remember to do the transaction via a vpn to conceal the transaction.
Best of luck and Be Safe.
[QUOTE=BawMore1;5498844]I am curious how to get around giving out my Mr and Mrs credit card numbers when trying to get in the door with SB. I now have purchased a master card debit card that they (master card) won't accept because its a subscription. Just curious if anyone has a work around to keep it on the down low at home?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BawMore1;5498844]I am curious how to get around giving out my Mr and Mrs credit card numbers when trying to get in the door with SB. I now have purchased a master card debit card that they (master card) won't accept because its a subscription. Just curious if anyone has a work around to keep it on the down low at home?[/QUOTE]I'm with BurbsMonger, the OneVannilla is the way to go with SA. That worked as recently as a month ago.
Not sure about SB however. Suggest you look on the FAQ section or contact Cust Svcs at SB and ask which prepaid cards they accept. That kind of question should be answered ASAP as they want to collect the $ and the only time SB gets paid is when you buy credits.
The point of the OneVanilla is that, I believe, it works with foreign transactions and I believe these sites use overseas processors? That maybe why the MC no worky? Hope if I'm wrong someone chimes in.
But kudos to you for looking for a way to keep this private! Pay cash for the purchase of the OneVanilla, wear your mask and don't buy it in any place you frequent.
But a question. Why SB? Seems like general reports are that SA is better than SB. Once one signs up with SA one can contact as many girls as they can/wish in a month. With SB you burn credits to contact girls and some reports suggest there are many fake profiles and even bots that contact you to get you to respond and spend credits. After all, the only thing SB is selling are credits, so the incentive is to get you to spend as many as possible, to have to buy more.
I appreciate the several of you that sent me dms on this one. I decided to pass as several of you confirmed that she is way overpriced and provides a very lackluster experience. I am grateful that you toftt and apologize for the poor return on investment. Saved me the time and expense.
Be Safe.
[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;5494481]I apologize for incorrect link. Thanks for the info even though it's disappointing that she is a lousy lay. Anybody else have similar experience with her?
Thanks and Be Safe.[/QUOTE]
Are students coming back to campus this semester? There seems to be a much lower number of college age girls on site than 2 years ago. One "student" I texted with says her semester already started. I am wondering if that is true.
[QUOTE=JohnLongDong;5518404]Are students coming back to campus this semester? There seems to be a much lower number of college age girls on site than 2 years ago. One "student" I texted with says her semester already started. I am wondering if that is true.[/QUOTE]Classes begin August 31. Move in days were this week. I've noticed a slight uptick in new profiles, but not what I have been hoping for.
Has anyone seen Mandee from West Chester? She messaged me but my account isn't active. She has a look I like and is nearby. If she's real I might pay for another month.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/05b00dbe-6d30-4292-8d19-dd4d1a95d518[/URL]
Agreed, I have seen some additional profiles but no where near the number in years past. After a few weeks in school, money starts to get tight so you might see lower expectations shortly, at least I am hoping.
Be Safe.
QUOTE=MerryIvory;5518506]Classes begin August 31. Move in days were this week. I've noticed a slight uptick in new profiles, but not what I have been hoping for.
Not sure if this is the right place to post this, but the SB I've been seeing for a few months is interested in being with a woman, either alone or in a threesome with us. She's looking to give DATY more than receive but I assume both. I suggested lining up an escort I know who sees women and I believe is gay IRL (Latte Luv) but she kind of balked at the pay for sex part of it (ironically).
I'm vaguely aware of swinger clubs like The Pleasure Garden Club over by Purple Orchid. Is that an option? Anyone know what it's like? Can she do a little girl on girl action there?
[QUOTE=JTerry26;5526504]Not sure if this is the right place to post this, but the SB I've been seeing for a few months is interested in being with a woman, either alone or in a threesome with us. She's looking to give DATY more than receive but I assume both. I suggested lining up an escort I know who sees women and I believe is gay IRL (Latte Luv) but she kind of balked at the pay for sex part of it (ironically).
I'm vaguely aware of swinger clubs like The Pleasure Garden Club over by Purple Orchid. Is that an option? Anyone know what it's like? Can she do a little girl on girl action there?[/QUOTE]
Why don't you join one of the Swinger websites? I'm guessing there is a list on The Pleasure Garden Club website. SLS comes to mind. That way BOTH of you can review the girl, trade emails with her and get a vibe or not. This is adult dating and now instead or two people having to vibe, you need to get 3 to vibe.
What you are looking for, a singe female (SF), is in the swinging world a unicorn! Everyone wants them: single guys, couples and other single females. So SFs figure this out early in their ventures in 'the lifestyle' and quite a few of them become divas. Even the BBWs! But just like the SB sites SFs on the swinger sites get TONNES of emails, so a no reply situation isn't uncommon. But with patience and the right attitude you should fin success!
Now if you venture into the Lifestyle, you need to be honest. Lots of drama and potential drama there so many will "interview" you to see who you are and what you are about as a way to avoid any drama. As such if there is a large age difference between you and your SB that will be noted and asked about that. What is your story going to be?
While Swinging is, in many ways, a "liberal" kind of thing, there are a number of unwritten rules out there that are VERY conservative. Thus, just like your SB doesn't want to engage a P2 P situation, many swingers look down on or frown on P2 P situations. It may be viewed as a risk situation. Pros could be looked at as unclean or unsafe. After all, this is recreational sex and in many swinger's minds anyone who has to P2 P must be "off" in some way.
Now a few questions that you could focus on [i](for you two, no need to answer here)[/i], and perhaps it was brevity that they weren't stated here. 1) How did her desire arise to play with a woman and what is behind that? 2) What EXACTLY is she looking for from the F2F contact? Kissing? Mutual touching? Toys? Give/receive DATY? Strap-on play? You said you assumed... 3) Are you part of the equation and how? Leaving them alone? Just watching? Watching and then joining in? All 3 together at once? Overall point is that most couples (and you two are a "couple") that are successful have excellent communication and discuss everything involved, all possibilities as a way to avoid in encounter speed bumps or drama.
But kudos to you! First, you found a SB that has hung around for several months! Then she feels comfortable enough with you to be willing to explore her sexuality with you!
It came up in conversation that when she got on SA she was also on Tinder looking for a woman. She's interested in the whole experience, but focused on giving oral. I offered to set her up with Latte Love who I'm pretty sure is gay IRL. It was just going to be the two of them, but if it worked out I would also be open to a threesome. That still might happen (the 2 of them), but Latte travels constantly and was already out of town when I reached out. As an aside, Latte also kind of chastised me for playing the middle man, saying she'd be more comfortable just hearing from the woman. I've never had a threesome (although I've thought about it with Stacey and Karla advertising them in DE) so it wasn't really my motivation, just trying to do something nice.
I guess I've been seeing her for about 6 months, 1-2 x / week. Sometimes a straight up booty call, but more often dates. Dinner, music, sports etc. She's met some of my friends as well. We've done a handful of overnights but that's a bit challenging with her kids. Next up is a weekend in NYC. Lots of contact outside of that as well, mostly texts. All in all it's been great. Part of that is being really open and honest about sex. For example, she asked me if I was having sex with other women so I said yes and told her more or less what (AMPs, stripper extras etc) but also said she's the only person I'm having unprotected sex with. She also asked how I met my last "SB" who was really just a prostitute who grew into a SB. No issues with either response, AFAIK. And the sex just keeps getting better. It's also pretty amazing to be involved with someone in this way who is NOT a drug user. I don't want to go through that again, ever.
I don't think I'm ready for the swinger thing, seems a bit much. Thanks for the low down. It just occurred to me it might be an option for her so I thought I'd ask.
[QUOTE=Shampoo55;5527817]Why don't you join one of the Swinger websites? I'm guessing there is a list on The Pleasure Garden Club website. SLS comes to mind. That way BOTH of you can review the girl, trade emails with her and get a vibe or not. This is adult dating and now instead or two people having to vibe, you need to get 3 to vibe.
What you are looking for, a singe female (SF), is in the swinging world a unicorn! Everyone wants them: single guys, couples and other single females. So SFs figure this out early in their ventures in 'the lifestyle' and quite a few of them become divas. Even the BBWs! But just like the SB sites SFs on the swinger sites get TONNES of emails, so a no reply situation isn't uncommon. But with patience and the right attitude you should fin success!
Now if you venture into the Lifestyle, you need to be honest. Lots of drama and potential drama there so many will "interview" you to see who you are and what you are about as a way to avoid any drama. As such if there is a large age difference between you and your SB that will be noted and asked about that. What is your story going to be?
While Swinging is, in many ways, a "liberal" kind of thing, there are a number of unwritten rules out there that are VERY conservative. Thus, just like your SB doesn't want to engage a P2 P situation, many swingers look down on or frown on P2 P situations. It may be viewed as a risk situation. Pros could be looked at as unclean or unsafe. After all, this is recreational sex and in many swinger's minds anyone who has to P2 P must be "off" in some way.
Now a few questions that you could focus on [i](for you two, no need to answer here)[/i], and perhaps it was brevity that they weren't stated here. 1) How did her desire arise to play with a woman and what is behind that? 2) What EXACTLY is she looking for from the F2F contact? Kissing? Mutual touching? Toys? Give/receive DATY? Strap-on play? You said you assumed... 3) Are you part of the equation and how? Leaving them alone? Just watching? Watching and then joining in? All 3 together at once? Overall point is that most couples (and you two are a "couple") that are successful have excellent communication and discuss everything involved, all possibilities as a way to avoid in encounter speed bumps or drama.
But kudos to you! First, you found a SB that has hung around for several months! Then she feels comfortable enough with you to be willing to explore her sexuality with you![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JTerry26;5527956]It came up in conversation that when she got on SA she was also on Tinder looking for a woman. She's interested in the whole experience, but focused on giving oral. I offered to set her up with Latte Love who I'm pretty sure is gay IRL. It was just going to be the two of them, but if it worked out I would also be open to a threesome. That still might happen (the 2 of them), but Latte travels constantly and was already out of town when I reached out. As an aside, Latte also kind of chastised me for playing the middle man, saying she'd be more comfortable just hearing from the woman. I've never had a threesome (although I've thought about it with Stacey and Karla advertising them in DE) so it wasn't really my motivation, just trying to do something nice.
I guess I've been seeing her for about 6 months, 1-2 x / week. Sometimes a straight up booty call, but more often dates. Dinner, music, sports etc. She's met some of my friends as well. We've done a handful of overnights but that's a bit challenging with her kids. Next up is a weekend in NYC. Lots of contact outside of that as well, mostly texts. All in all it's been great. Part of that is being really open and honest about sex. For example, she asked me if I was having sex with other women so I said yes and told her more or less what (AMPs, stripper extras etc) but also said she's the only person I'm having unprotected sex with. She also asked how I met my last "SB" who was really just a prostitute who grew into a SB. No issues with either response, AFAIK. And the sex just keeps getting better. It's also pretty amazing to be involved with someone in this way who is NOT a drug user. I don't want to go through that again, ever.
I don't think I'm ready for the swinger thing, seems a bit much. Thanks for the low down. It just occurred to me it might be an option for her so I thought I'd ask.[/QUOTE]Just a general dumb question, please don't shoot the messenger. But Latte Love is right. Why are you in the middle of this? IF F2 F is something the SB wants to do, let her do it. You can be supportive without driving the bus. Why would I want to pay some girl to hook up with my SB? Perhaps the SB would be put off by a hard core dyke or a pro sex provider?
There is a kinda unwritten rule in the Lifestyle. The women are really in charge. The women make the final decision as to who plays, so let her decide who she wants and then feel her out as to if you are welcome to join and what would be your role in the encounter. So let her do her thing, looking around. Resist the temptation to be "Mr. Fixit" in this situation, unless specifically requested.
But in general it sounds like she is more of a GF than a SB at this point? Not judging, just observing.
Good luck and have fun!
Well, she's never set up time with an escort before and I was willing to pay. I took Latte's chiding. She's right. So when she comes back around I'm make my offer to my SB again and send her the link. That said, as I mentioned in the other post she seemed uncomfortable about the 'paying for sex' part. I had zero issues with paying for a woman to hook up with her. It's something she said she wanted and I proposed a way to get (one she had not considered). Like any other gift.
As far as being girlfriend vs SB, in my mind if I'm paying a weekly stipend she's still a SB (and I am). That said, it's a very GFE situation, which I'm enjoying (and I think she is too). Sometimes I ask myself why do I prefer this kind of relationship right now and part of the answer is coming out of a long marriage I don't want to be in a relationship where I'm constantly trying to get sex. There's no question we're having sex when we see each, usually more than once. The other issue is my work and personal life is pretty complicated at this point so this was my way to simplify my sex life.
[QUOTE=Shampoo55;5528438]Just a general dumb question, please don't shoot the messenger. But Latte Love is right. Why are you in the middle of this? IF F2 F is something the SB wants to do, let her do it. You can be supportive without driving the bus. Why would I want to pay some girl to hook up with my SB? Perhaps the SB would be put off by a hard core dyke or a pro sex provider?
There is a kinda unwritten rule in the Lifestyle. The women are really in charge. The women make the final decision as to who plays, so let her decide who she wants and then feel her out as to if you are welcome to join and what would be your role in the encounter. So let her do her thing, looking around. Resist the temptation to be "Mr. Fixit" in this situation, unless specifically requested.
But in general it sounds like she is more of a GF than a SB at this point? Not judging, just observing.
Good luck and have fun![/QUOTE]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6044540e-c164-46e2-84b3-b7d1beffb4bc[/URL]
Gents any info on this one? I'm chatting with her but it's hard to get a handle on what she's really about.