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[QUOTE=Bobbyjones; 1366191]If the only part she didn't get to is your Johnson, then I'd say a HE is in your future. I'd propose to her that your next massage has "no draping". That has worked for me in the past in similar situations.
Bobby[/QUOTE]+1.
Agree completely.
[QUOTE=Carolina Dream; 1365958]In the last three weeks I've had two massage appointments with what has been known to be a "legitamate therapeutic provider". I didn't leave happy after the 1st, but the massage was really good, so I decided to repeat. At the end of 1st massage, she told me "that was fun". Now this caught me off guard, because it seemed like a standard covered massage with maybe a little more attention the buttocks, but not much more, and if you knew where I was you'd have been surprised too. When I responded "Really?" Her answer was "I really enjoyed it". Of course the pleasure was all mine.
So even without any add ons, I thought that a repeat would be worth it. Her massage skills are great. 2nd visit, similar massage with a little more attention to the buttocks, still no HE, but would be considered full body at "reputable" providers, her comment to me after dressing myself, and coming out of the room, she says "Sorry I didn't get to all of you. I hope you don't feel neglected."
So I'm wishfully thinking she's trying to tell me something, and trying to move to more without getting my naked ass kicked out. Might not be anything more than her effort at customer retention. If so, its working because I will return. Any suggestions at how to subtley encourage more?[/QUOTE]Who is this "therapist" what is her link?
[QUOTE=Bobbyjones;1366191]If the only part she didn't get to is your Johnson, then I'd say a HE is in your future. I'd propose to her that your next massage has "no draping". That has worked for me in the past in similar situations.[/QUOTE]Another +1 on Bobby's recommendation.
Since you've seen her twice she probably won't be freaked out if you "feel her out" when you call to make your next appt. You might even ask her if she's ready to take care of those part she missed last time.
[QUOTE=Lookin Good; 1366522]Another +1 on Bobby's recommendation.
Since you've seen her twice she probably won't be freaked out if you "feel her out" when you call to make your next appt. You might even ask her if she's ready to take care of those part she missed last time.[/QUOTE]I've been in this same situation where you don't quite know what the boundaries are. What I've done is just ask in a polite way, and accept "no" as an answer, if that is it. I saw one woman who was very good at massage and, after asking more than once over a period of years, she continued to tell me no, she doesn't want to get into that. One day she was giving me a scrub and when I turned over I was semi-hard and undraped. She just asked: would you like a release? Yes, please! It was very nice, and I think she enjoyed doing that for me. Afterwards she told me: we're friends, and I can do that for you. I've had numerous other experiences where the provider just told me no and that was it. Rarely has anyone gotten snippy with me. Just be nice and friendly and don't put pressure on her, is my advice.
-Dr D
[QUOTE=Bobbyjones;1365813]Sorry to hear things have changed, but in my (and many others) past experience, a massage with a manually-assisted stress reduction procedure was all that was available before. No side dishes on the menu. Maybe the rules changed several weeks ago, before my first visit?[/QUOTE]Visited there this past weekend in hopes that it hadn't changed any. Well it had. My prior visits allowed some roaming around with some teasing. This time there was no teasing and didn't come close to my crack (which I love) on the flip it was a very boring manual stimulation unlike my previous experiences. I went for the raoming and she said she was sorry that someone threatened her and the establishment because she wouldn't go as far with someone as they wanted. It was never an overwhelming experience, but on a short notice and great price I enjoyed my time there. Just my opinion.
Thanks!
[QUOTE=UNCguy2;1368068]I went for the raoming and she said she was sorry that someone threatened her and the establishment because she wouldn't go as far with someone as they wanted.[/QUOTE]Nice work, whichever dumbass pulled the stunt described above. One more reason to not share good info publicly.
[QUOTE=Bobbyjones;1369524]Nice work, whichever dumbass pulled the stunt described above. One more reason to not share good info publicly.[/QUOTE]I never knew there was anything available but a straight release. Oh well.
I am sort of amazed that this has gone on as long as it has. The management seems to be fine with it, even encouraging of it. I am sure it will end up with someone visiting a small room with a big barred window at some time.
[QUOTE=Bobbyjones;1369524]Nice work, whichever dumbass pulled the stunt described above. One more reason to not share good info publicly.[/QUOTE]Exactly, Bobby. PM with folks who can be trusted. Even then, some will push the limits of what's acceptable (I had that happen recently with info I shared via PM) , but it really reduces the possibility of this type of thing happening.
Buk
[QUOTE=Notatall; 1369537]I never knew there was anything available but a straight release. Oh well.
I am sort of amazed that this has gone on as long as it has. The management seems to be fine with it, even encouraging of it. I am sure it will end up with someone visiting a small room with a big barred window at some time.[/QUOTE]Yea, I guess now that the show is basically over there its not a big deal. But she got comfortable with me and said she enjoyed rubbing me before this happened. I was allowed to rub the shelves under her shirt and her ass under as well. That was on the 2nd time. She was a little younger that I thought also. But overall a nice girl who you could tell was a little freaked out about the possibility of someone saying something to the wrong people. I treated her with respect and she let me go a little further than some I guess.
[url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/relax-your-body-mind-and-spirit-with-christa-919-866-8566/7731802[/url]
I was thinking about dreaming about this one, but I can't quite figure out what services she offers. Any thoughts?
[QUOTE=TydeGuy; 1371501][url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/relax-your-body-mind-and-spirit-with-christa-919-866-8566/7731802[/url]
I was thinking about dreaming about this one, but I can't quite figure out what services she offers. Any thoughts?[/QUOTE]I want to say that I saw that she was legit on this thread. Definitely a little on the strange side if you ask me. The last picture is intriguing. I couldn't find the post where I saw this, but I'm pretty sure she's on the flaky side of legit at least.
I saw her a few months ago and by the pictures she posts you would think you might get a bit more than just a massage. I kinda hinted at wanting more and she wasn't too happy about it. It was a good massage but unless you know a secret I don't know. That is all it is. Just a good massage.
[QUOTE=SpankyHam;1372376]I want to say that I saw that she was legit on this thread. Definitely a little on the strange side if you ask me. The last picture is intriguing. I couldn't find the post where I saw this, but I'm pretty sure she's on the flaky side of legit at least.[/QUOTE]I had a session with her about three months ago. She is very nice, cute, and a little flaky as you say. I scheduled a mid afternoon appointment with her by phone. She is very personable on the phone and in person. Her location is in a business park in Durham that is safe and discreet. The only problem was she was thirty minutes late for my appointment. At least she did call and let me know. Since I had no where to be I waited for her arrival. Once there, she was very hospitable and dressed in scrubs, not the sexiest of attire, but I could tell she had a decent body. She led me to the table, ask me to get comfortable, then explained that although she did drape it was minimal. Basically it was small hand towel barely covering my happy zone. Her massage technique is different but actually pretty good. On the filp, she worked my front side as throughly as she had my back paying lots of attention to my thighs. There were a couple of "accidential brushes, some lingering light touches, but that was it. I did not push the envelope any further but my feeling is that once she knows and trust you there may be more there. She seems to have the type of personality and attitude that would be open to more indept dreams if she know you. I will try her again before long and let you know.
[QUOTE=TydeGuy; 1371501][url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/relax-your-body-mind-and-spirit-with-christa-919-866-8566/7731802[/url]
I was thinking about dreaming about this one, but I can't quite figure out what services she offers. Any thoughts?[/QUOTE]There are reports about her on this forum, if you do a search. That's your best option before inquiring.
[QUOTE=TydeGuy; 1371501][url]http://raleigh.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/relax-your-body-mind-and-spirit-with-christa-919-866-8566/7731802[/url]
I was thinking about dreaming about this one, but I can't quite figure out what services she offers. Any thoughts?[/QUOTE]I'm thinking this would be interesting no matter what happens