General Reports

[QUOTE=Stoner]I do concur with my man, JMG and Steel. Though I do understand where Garthy is coming from. However, if a woman wants a no holds barred response from a gent, this is the place to get it. None of the boards can give it. More over, you can't quite call up a hotline or advice column for this shit.

Gothic,

I've been at this game for a few years and know plenty of gents online and off who've been at this game. It is nothing new. There is nothing new under the sun. When a woman gives a man undivided attention and strokes his ego or shows herself to be in need of a man, well...men do what men have always wanted to do.

Rip their shirts, remove their ties, and reveal the (S) on their chest. Men are doers. They see a need and rush to fill it. Its in our nature. Some men develop an oversized ego when it comes to helping a lady.

Be that as it may, what you are facing is something that goes on constantly in strip clubs. If you want good advice from a stripper, you may want to befriend a few and see where it takes you.

If you want a male perspective, understand this: lonely hearts seek loneliness. If you show a man your loneliness, he will think that he can fill his loneliness and meet your need at the same time. Show them your LACK of loneliness, while striking a balance of seduction and desire, and you may find the equilibrium you seek. It will not work for all, mind you, but for many. It will also cost you a few dollars here and there, for the sake of your sanity.

Always be careful however of disturbing an illusion. If you think a stalker is truly a stalker, especially in the physical sense, you should be 100% aware that things could turn beyond ugly. You should never hesitate to call in community resources to assist you.

One thing I can't believe you've done...and I caution you to end it...is to invite men into your address. Its a huge no-no. For you, and all of your clients. Reconsider.[/QUOTE]Well at the moment I can only operate from my residence. I'm reconsidering it greatly though. Perhaps only repeats can come home and new clients I meet somewhere else?

Thing is, with the latest unfolding of drama on CL I'm growing more and more weary to even meet new clients. The fact remains that I am highly addicted to sex. And moderately addicted to cash. So. I won't stop this for a while.

On the stalkers I know if I say something wrong do something wrong or anything in the like one can snap. And I can't risk that. I've been doing good though, I speak gently to them, hold eye contact, touch their arm and tell them if they gave me their heart, I would crush it, and it's nothing personal. This seems to have worked for now.

Well seeing he said I could be useful for tips for men, here are some in order of importance.

Baby powder. You want oral contact, powder up the boys ;)

Chewing gum if you're a kisser

Don't be embarrassed if you finish fast, it is the biggest compliment a woman in this business can receive.

Pick the proper size glove!

Bring her a flower, even a 99 cent rose from the local getty mart will make her wetter than anything and more 'into the scene'.

Tipping, if she wasn't too hot toss her a $5, if she rocked your world, toss her no less than a $10.

Don't argue her compliments, ie;

Woman "I love how soft your hair is"

Man 'Meh I'm balding"

If she didn't like your hair, or whatever she complimented she wouldn't say anything. We look for things in clients to admire, to touch, to kiss, to please... to separate you from the man who was there before or the one coming by after. We like to make each man unique in our minds.

Remember we are humans and not just fawk-holes. that will get you farther than a crisp c-note.

I don't know if this was helpful, but it is fact.

Don't take it personally. An online persona needs a thick skin. People get flamed for a reason or for no reason at all. Some level of anonymity will make people spill out a lot more than they normally do. Venting frustrations, lying and exaggerating, or confessing, all the same. Things that many of us wouldn't dare say when in person or whenever our true identity would be known. It can become frustrating and making eveybody sick of reading. But, overall, I think some of this BS is good, as long as it doesn't completely take over (like it does on some other boards). Because sometimes we do need to remove the barriers that keep controlling our behaviour, especially if it can happen with no real harm done.

Back to the original reason of this thread: I must agree with Stoner and Steel and Co., postings from "the other side" are OK as long as they are not marketing. A different perspective is always a plus - the more info/insight the better.

And to make this a fair game: how about some questions from gents answered by the ladies? If you want feedback, give us some feedback, too. To start, here's a simple one: how many strippers and/or providers do you think are (semi)regularly reading this board?

happy holidays,
crv

PS - welcome back, Stoner - long time no post, where you've been?

[QUOTE=Crazytits69]There is no description of each forum saying bla bla bla you can't place ads here. Why would you yell at her like that? Someone obviously misinformed us. We didn't know, someone told us that we could place ads here and then there is a forum that says classified ads, well sounds like a place to post an ad at to me. As far as what she just asked, she was genuinely looking for an answer. When I messaged her about the flagging at craigs she was talking to me about the same problem, and I'm sure she wasnt trying to solicit me seeing as I am a girl and obviously not gonna buy since I am selling.

You are extremely rude. And grouchy and I'm thinking that maybe you need to get laid or something.

I do not understand people. Always soo rude everywhere you go it's the holiday season lighten up if a new person posts in the wrong spot pm them and let them know hey maybe you should try posting here. No one else complained about my ad except you just now. I got lots of messeges from people trying to see my pics.

Anyways. How's everyone liking this ice? Sux when your trying to make money though LOL.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=crvtbynu]To start, here's a simple one: how many strippers and/or providers do you think are (semi)regularly reading this board?[/QUOTE]Well. I would say possibly 100, or less. See if more women knew of this board they would say "check my reviews at usasexguide" instead of just tra, whatever that is, and big doggie.

I put a report on her under the hartford craigslist board. maybe I should have put it here. l8r

Some folks seem to think the only way a provider can learn about this site is from a monger. Most web savvy women can find it on their own.

For the record....I've never told a provider about this place. I don't want her to match me to my posts.

Certainly no adverts outside the proper place, but I enjoy their participation.

Baby Powder.....who knew?

Actually, the honey powder is the shit. But that only comes out for the extra special dates.

Small bit of advice...and I won't post in this thread any longer. This is the CLASSIFIED thread. Its not the advice column. Its for "MARKETING" if you so will.

So I shall create a new thread for folks to use instead.

One last thing...for the love of all things holy, do not post adverts, schedules or marketing outside of Classified. I know you haven't. But in case the thought crosses your mind...don't. Just trust. If you post pics, especially new ones, you will get plenty of attention. In fact, pics actually are seen across the country in moments. Not just CT. Just an FYI. Pics posted here are forever.

[QUOTE=Bud Waiter]Some folks seem to think the only way a provider can learn about this site is from a monger. Most web savvy women can find it on their own.

For the record....I've never told a provider about this place. I don't want her to match me to my posts.

Certainly no adverts outside the proper place, but I enjoy their participation.

Baby Powder.....who knew?[/QUOTE]

1st time I stopped at Magic, down in Waterbury, (since the place is closed), I mentioned about here.. They were kind of surprised about the site, and asked for the web address.

LOL! Baby powder, is more for chafing, than rash. at least in the adult method. Nobody likes sweaty balls anyways. (*GROSS!*)

Happy & safe holidays, Everyone!

Wanderer --:Those who wander, rarely are lost!

[QUOTE=Wanderer] Nobody likes sweaty balls anyways. (*GROSS!*)[/QUOTE]*smiles and nods* You got it :D

Here is the link to the arrest pf the operators of American Spa.

[url]http://www.connpost.com/ci_7795551[/url]

From The Norwalk Hour

A new law championed by state Sen. Bob Duff, D-25, tightens the standards in the massage therapy industry, putting pressure on dens of prostitution posing as legitimate massage parlors.

I am pretty web savvy imo, don't get me wrong.. but for the LIFE of me I can't find out where to change the link in this public profile from the *accidental* personal ******* to my business one I intended to post up! grr, will someone possibly give me some instruction?

Go to "USER CP" top of page above girls. Then select email address/password on left.

[QUOTE=Gothic Bbw]I am pretty web savvy imo, don't get me wrong.. but for the LIFE of me I can't find out where to change the link in this public profile from the *accidental* personal ******* to my business one I intended to post up! grr, will someone possibly give me some instruction?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Gothic Bbw]I am pretty web savvy imo, don't get me wrong.. but for the LIFE of me I can't find out where to change the link in this public profile from the *accidental* personal ******* to my business one I intended to post up! grr, will someone possibly give me some instruction?[/QUOTE]

Go to "User CP" at the top of the screen. Then on the left you'll find "edit email and password". Change whatever you want on the subsequent screen.

[QUOTE=Bubba261]Go to "User CP" at the top of the screen. Then on the left you'll find "edit email and password". Change whatever you want on the subsequent screen.[/QUOTE]The email address is correct. It is a link on my hompage on here to my space, I put the wrong one in. And on the user cp under email/pwrod change there is no option to change my hp around.