Anyone else have this technical problem with SA web site?
When I "hide members" that viewed me, they don't stay hidden. When I hide members that favorited me, they stay hidden. I contacted their tech support and they have been ineffective. Anyone else notice that problem?
Anybody seen her or have any info on her
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f72bab10-3be3-40b4-bbcf-c4fa6205cd07[/URL]
Without revealing too much
[QUOTE=TennisNut;3613515]I'd love to know your "rundown on what a nice SD can do to enrich a POT life to become a worthy SB". What did you say to her? Come on, be honest. Then maybe we can tell you why she didn't reply. Or not.[/QUOTE]My approach is to respond to each POT in an individualized way that is tailored to my read on their profile and their "type" Suggestive, sexpot revealing pics, down to earth, educated, party girl. Etc. I used to have a generic response that covered a lot of bases, fun, convo, travel, allowance, mentor and on. Now I make sure to personalize the message- introduce myself, give my name, acknowledge her name or handle in some way, a compliment about her is helpful and direct the message based on info in her profile. Without revealing a secret family recipe, develop some game, make her curious enough to want to learn more. Obviously they want sugar, but I never ask about arrangements or money, I let them do that first. For this particular POT in question, I let her know each situation is unique and will develop based on how two people's chemistry interacts, that's what nice about this site etc. We're here to help each other in the ways we're best able to assist each other in a meaningful way and blah blah. Basically, you want sugar, I want the honey. If they come out with how much allowance or "gifts" as their primary focus, then I lose interest real quick because it seems like a bidding war. My #1 sb is looking to have all her senses stimulated, cerebral, emotional, economic, and their sexuality. Nothing is perfect, but a good balance of this at a comfortable $ is all I ask.