"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=BigTigger; 1732921]1. Always take care of home first.[/QUOTE]Good advice but unfortunately the reason most of us step out is because we are not happy at home, Right?

So it is very hard to act normal when you are banging these nubile young lasses several times / week. Other societies have it right where it is acceptable / expected for a gentleman of substance to have his concubine on the side. In those cases he is expected to take care of the home front and she to look the other way when he is visiting his "niece"

These are good tips to maintain security. It's amazing how far we have come in the last few years.

Re email: go directly to the email host server to use your clandestine email and don't keep copies of emails on your computer. Watch out for the Petraeus problem. Its probably even better to use anonymous accounts. For one such, which I haven't tried, see:

[url]https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2012/11/tutorial-how-create-anonymous-email-acc[/url]

Re computer: study encryption methods, some are better than others. Encrypt any sb related files on your computer, like those pussy pix you took and love so much to look at when you're apart.

Re license plates: anyone solve this problem other than by renting a car or hiding your car?

[QUOTE=Revvo; 1732377]LikeMike,

Thanks for all of the great answers. I am following in your path on the LT SB one at a time. Taking my time with her and it is working out great.

But a couple of other questions.

[QUOTE1. Did you keep a bench going as backup or did you just play with the one? I am torn on this one since the bench makes for a lot more work. But you get the benefit of an abundance mentality. ]

For my LT. I did not keep a bench warmer. Your right. Can be alot of trouble and she keeps me pretty happy. If I want something a bit different I would go to a body rub place and get a jack or maybe a BJ but never did search out the muffin. Over the last 1. 5 yrs. Have only done the BR place maybe 4x.

[QUOTE.2. What would you say was the most important thing in not getting caught by your wifey? For me so far is that my wife is not the jealous type. But then I encountered a fucking crazy be* scammer that almost blew everything. Now I am on the radar.]

This is tough. Are you talking LT or ST baby. Short term is easy. Stay as incognito as possible. They never new my real name. Where I lived. Where I worked. Etc. As mentioned before I had an advantage in using a friends house. If LT. Does she have a BF she really cares about. If so. She likely will not dick you over because she does not want to be found out. I have had only had 2 babies that knew alot about me and one is my current lady. So give as little info as possible. If you do not want to fake an entire profession. Choose a parallel profession that you can talk about intelligently.

[QUOTEWhat is the quality of your LT Babies? ]

The 2 LT I have had. Are reasonable 7's. Both were in school. Bright. Worked or was an athelete so their schedule is busy. One was a single mom with work and school so she was like. It would be nice to have someone stable as she did not have time to party and dick around with her age guys while going to school. Working and a kid. FYI. At a later point I did meet her child and had seen her a numbers of times but kept distance as we both agreed the child should not really become attached to me.

[QUOTE=BigTigger; 1732921]1. Always take care of home first.

2. Have a normal routine where you have alone time (I. E working out, trips, visiting relatives / friends). Work your SB time in with normal activities.

3. Use non-traditional hours for SB time. I've been finding that many just love the 9am-12pm Tiggabounces.

4. Always answer your phone or call back within 10 mins. Also have some times when you are in the house with spouse and she calls and your phone is accidentally on silent. That will come in handy later.

5. Always think in advance about red flags that you could send off and go out of your way to do the opposite.

6. Keep a normal routine at home and a normal routine of affection, compliments and sex with spouse. What ever that routine is, just keep it.

7. Be very careful with your money. I have my own green dot. Also, make it a habit of getting $20-$40 cash back when making purchases. Put those to the side, it can add up quickly and will not raise suspicion.

8. Date your wife, keep her happy.[/QUOTE]FANTASITCO advice

[QUOTE=Literal2; 1733130]These are good tips to maintain security. It's amazing how far we have come in the last few years.

Re email: go directly to the email host server to use your clandestine email and don't keep copies of emails on your computer. Watch out for the Petraeus problem. Its probably even better to use anonymous accounts. For one such, which I haven't tried, see:

[url]https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2012/11/tutorial-how-create-anonymous-email-acc[/url]

Re computer: study encryption methods, some are better than others. Encrypt any sb related files on your computer, like those pussy pix you took and love so much to look at when you're apart.

Re license plates: anyone solve this problem other than by renting a car or hiding your car?[/QUOTE]We don't have this problem in Virginia. To the best of my knowledge, license plate info is in a secure data base that is only accessible by state and local LE and DMV. If you know of a way to get into these data bases, I'd like to know.

ASL

[QUOTE=AllSeasonLv; 1733286]We don't have this problem in Virginia. To the best of my knowledge, license plate info is in a secure data base that is only accessible by state and local LE and DMV. If you know of a way to get into these data bases, I'd like to know.

ASL[/QUOTE]Same up my way. Only police and the courts have access to that info. There are several companies on the web that state they can run a plate, but they're all bogus. Even if a baby had a relative in LE, she would be asking them to do something that is closely monitored, and could in fact get them in trouble themselves. It's a non-issue as far as my research has shown. More likely she finds your registration info in the glove box.

Scott

I could ask quite a few of my local Dep. Sher. Here in the rural county, and they would run the number. I agree that in the cities the cops probably would not. But out here in the sticks, it is pretty easy!

[QUOTE=AllSeasonLv; 1733286]We don't have this problem in Virginia. To the best of my knowledge, license plate info is in a secure data base that is only accessible by state and local LE and DMV. If you know of a way to get into these data bases, I'd like to know.

ASL[/QUOTE]

I'm glad you brought that up. It was 3am or so and I was struggling to get my thoughts out. So when I say "Take Care of Home First". I mean take care of your responsibilities, make sure bills are paid, grass is cut, cars are washed, don't miss soccer games, etc. Be a great husband in all the other areas and as you said, do the best you can to act normal in the bedroom.

[QUOTE=Hernando; 1733069]Good advice but unfortunately the reason most of us step out is because we are not happy at home, Right?

So it is very hard to act normal when you are banging these nubile young lasses several times / week. Other societies have it right where it is acceptable / expected for a gentleman of substance to have his concubine on the side. In those cases he is expected to take care of the home front and she to look the other way when he is visiting his "niece"[/QUOTE]

Is marriage a viable institution anymore? I read recently that 56% of children are born to unwed parents in the USA, so that is not the excuse. The thing is, when a relationship (marriage or otherwise) is good it can be really great, but when it sours, we log on to USASG. So I'm wondering if I will opt to live the SB life going forward if I divorce someday? I know some of you are single and seem to be fulfilled by your SBs, yet you don't incur the huge financial penalty if you want to call it quits. Just musing.

My AA HCB flake who "couldn't do it " when I was outside her dorm to pick her up last week texted last night "if you want to have sex with me I need $500 first" Ha! So she is a reluctant flaky, GPS Garden Tool. I countered with $1. 50 and did not hear back. Everyone has their price. $500 will not be my price for Uma Thurman ___wweeeelll, I lied. I'd go $1000 for her. She'll probably be back when she realizes no one is going to give her that PPO for a hit and run. She is essentially an UTR who does not want a "relationship " but just a quick pay day.

My New ATF HCB has stepped up. I floated the idea out there to see her more than one / week for the same $. She wants to so she is becoming more of a GF / SB I appreciate that she is not greedy and likes my company enough to see me for the company.

AM SDM want to be has either flaked or is waiting until I finish studying my new S&M literature.

SDFM HCB who flaked after Text sex has been nibbling on the line again, but I haven't been able to get her to a M&G. Time will tell there.

[QUOTE=Literal2; 1733130]These are good tips to maintain security. It's amazing how far we have come in the last few years.

Re email: go directly to the email host server to use your clandestine email and don't keep copies of emails on your computer. Watch out for the Petraeus problem. Its probably even better to use anonymous accounts. For one such, which I haven't tried, see:

[url]https://www.eff.org/deeplinks/2012/11/tutorial-how-create-anonymous-email-acc[/url]

Re computer: study encryption methods, some are better than others. Encrypt any sb related files on your computer, like those pussy pix you took and love so much to look at when you're apart.

Re license plates: anyone solve this problem other than by renting a car or hiding your car?[/QUOTE]I like the way they do it in the bond flicks where the plate just rotates. Got to get one of those. Or in transporter where the guy has like 20 different ones in his garage

[QUOTE=FredMoore; 1733522]Is marriage a viable institution anymore? I read recently that 56% of children are born to unwed parents in the USA, so that is not the excuse. The thing is, when a relationship (marriage or otherwise) is good it can be really great, but when it sours, we log on to USASG. So I'm wondering if I will opt to live the SB life going forward if I divorce someday? I know some of you are single and seem to be fulfilled by your SBs, yet you don't incur the huge financial penalty if you want to call it quits. Just musing.

My AA HCB flake who "couldn't do it " when I was outside her dorm to pick her up last week texted last night "if you want to have sex with me I need $500 first" Ha! So she is a reluctant flaky, GPS Garden Tool. I countered with $1. 50 and did not hear back. Everyone has their price. $500 will not be my price for Uma Thurman ___wweeeelll, I lied. I'd go $1000 for her. She'll probably be back when she realizes no one is going to give her that PPO for a hit and run. She is essentially an UTR who does not want a "relationship " but just a quick pay day.

My New ATF HCB has stepped up. I floated the idea out there to see her more than one / week for the same $. She wants to so she is becoming more of a GF / SB I appreciate that she is not greedy and likes my company enough to see me for the company.

AM SDM want to be has either flaked or is waiting until I finish studying my new S&M literature.

SDFM HCB who flaked after Text sex has been nibbling on the line again, but I haven't been able to get her to a M&G. Time will tell there.[/QUOTE]Marriage is a legal contract and is good if you are wanting a family. Other than that I see no reason for it. Although you can marry more money in one day that you can earn in a lifetime. So if paris hilton is ready, I might be too.

[QUOTE=Revvo;1732377]What would you say was the most important thing in not getting caught by your wifey?[/QUOTE]1. Fuck the wife with the same frequency in the same old way.

2. Be mindful the wife's radar is always on. If anything happens to cause suspicion the radar goes on steroids and won't return to the normal setting. Anything we are ever asked to explain will never be explained to the wife's satisfaction. Her questions are statements telling us her thinking. Every question is a bad sign she is adding something up.

3. Our electronic media is our undoing.

4. Never admit to anything.

[QUOTE=John G Smith;1732960]I'll just add that a gym membership is your best friend. And get a gym membership which has multiple locations if possible. Not only does the gym give you some regular "off-the-grid" time (I always leave my phone in the locker when I'm working out) but you have a reliable place to shower if necessary. It also doesn't set off alarm bells when you're packing a change of clothes with you and leaving the house with a travel bag. In your gym / travel bag always carry the exact same soap and shampoo. This way your FC visit can very easily mimic a gym workout. Women are very sensitive to smells, so if you use the same soap and shampoo at the FC as you would the gym, then to the SO you'll smell like you just came from the gym.[/QUOTE]I do this, except I hadn't thought about using the same soap at home. Good idea. Actually I have multiple sets of exactly the same clothes and often carry a duplicate set in the gym bag to change into after the "workout." I also always have a plastic garbage bag in the gym bag to carry the clothes that were present in the FC. It contains their smell until I can get them washed. Some times I've just thrown away a set of clothes in the bag. Underwear in particular of course, but just one of those long single strands of beautiful hair left on your shirt can change your life forever. If you let your SO do your laundry, you'd better get your gym clothes sweaty after a "workout" before she handles them.

[QUOTE=Pats Fan1;1733044]Today's baby below (image 123) in bra garter set.[/QUOTE]Very pretty girl. Thanks for the pix. Congratulations.

[QUOTE=Pats Fan1; 1733044]she suggested a nearby motel. 23 yrs old 5'4" 120 lbs and hot. I knew she was only available time wise for a one pop meeting. Very fun.[/QUOTE]So how do you manage discretion with such a short motel visit? Cash and no I'd required? Maybe I'm paranoid, but the thought of leaving behind footprints with my real name and address around at motels makes me squeamish.

I don't regularly travel so I don't have that cover story to hide behind.