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[QUOTE=ParlorShogun;6760938]My worst nightmare are the stories below about a crazy one contacting a mongers SO. Got me thinking out of curiosity. Those with an SO, why do you monger?? And, are there limits to your mongering such as HJ only or more?

For me- marriage is good, but last few years sex has dwindled considerably due to kids. It's a lie I tell myself, so feel free to judge me. I am strictly an HJ only monger. I've prepared a justification level in my head that it's the most detached form of release and the lowest risk. But I admit I do think about more a lot. Stay safe out there.[/QUOTE]Yeah, after nine months of honeymoon period of the relationship (and with a beautiful Latina), with the best intimacy of my life, her drive went over a cliff. Been like this for years now, even before kids. She has a lot of issues she needs to work through. She at one point recently was fine with me having sex with others as long as it was only physical but got worried about feelings after seeing texts with a FWB. I need touch so badly, though. So yeah, I'm newer here, trying to figure this out as I don't have a ton of funds for this hobby. Massage HJs are nice, but I would love to figure out a great, ideally Latina, GFE escort.

Stay safe.

[QUOTE=ParlorShogun;6760938]My worst nightmare are the stories below about a crazy one contacting a mongers SO. Got me thinking out of curiosity. Those with an SO, why do you monger?? And, are there limits to your mongering such as HJ only or more?

For me- marriage is good, but last few years sex has dwindled considerably due to kids. It's a lie I tell myself, so feel free to judge me. I am strictly an HJ only monger. I've prepared a justification level in my head that it's the most detached form of release and the lowest risk. But I admit I do think about more a lot. Stay safe out there.[/QUOTE]When I was married I didn't monger my wife left me for a coworker may they live happy ever after. I monger because I wasnt ready to be in another relationship, I am now but women are worst than men in fact they are the new men stone players. The better they look the less you can trust them. So mongering is fast cheaper no strings attached its like ordering a pizza. Most of these women might as well post ads because they just as bad as providers stacking up body counts demanding money. So for anyone not wanting to get into the dating scene mongering is the way to go. Because of our kids I let her have everything moved here from LA and started over. I am looking for a nice down to earth lady to date not one of them short dress wearing long finger nails chest out thots. Providers provide a good service for those in need and for those in greed. When I meet my mate I will know longer monger I am not a cheater even after being cheated on.

[QUOTE=LuccaMac;6761279]Here is an update: And thank you for all the responses and thoughts.

I use burner phone numbers and pay attention to protecting personal indentifiable information. My number is from another area code and not traceable with open source tools. (LE could find it most likely). Overall I think my opsec is tight with this hobby. Clearly not tight enough. The person contacting my sig other is from Miami area. Of the two I met one was Colombian and the other Russian in South Beach. I have never seen them active in North Carolina- so don't worry as its not anyone posting here. I've concluded it is one of these two. They only way I think she received my info was from the hotel there. I did check-in and kept my real name and not an alias for the contact screen. Perhaps the front desk provided info? IDK. All I know is she contacted her via DM on social media. (IG). I traced the IG account and its some new account with few followers. I wish I could figure out a way to unveil the sender there. Unfortunately there is no phone number to cross reference and search.

I have been separated for some time now and allowed to see others, but this really could F up the agreement. Frustrating to say the least.[/QUOTE]Ok cool. Thanks. For the update. As. Damange control you could easily say your were hacked? Kinda sounds like you have it mitigated? I would not put it past anyone to get info from a desk clerk. Sucks that this happened but seems like it could have been way worse, which of course is a platitude in a way but got to stay positive. Adapt and overcome yea.

Mongering started for me as I was so freaking horny all the time. Masturbation never satisifed me. A buddy turned me on to the AMPs in Greensboro 20+ years ago. I got hooked! Lately I have tried the civilian dating scene. My last date was 150 with only a hug at the end and no future date. Being married seems like it would be great. But married guys say it's not. 100 rawdawg all the time, endless creampies LOL. I think I'm 100% spoiled now and ruined for marriage LOL. If I were to marry it would be to a retired escort LOL, this way I would never have to hide my past LOL. I agree, I think a HJ is least troublesome activity.

[QUOTE=ParlorShogun;6760938]My worst nightmare are the stories below about a crazy one contacting a mongers SO. Got me thinking out of curiosity. Those with an SO, why do you monger?? And, are there limits to your mongering such as HJ only or more?

For me- marriage is good, but last few years sex has dwindled considerably due to kids. It's a lie I tell myself, so feel free to judge me. I am strictly an HJ only monger. I've prepared a justification level in my head that it's the most detached form of release and the lowest risk. But I admit I do think about more a lot. Stay safe out there.[/QUOTE]Two years ago I made an attempt at rekindling our sex life, but my wife was against the idea. I tried, but she was frigid as hell. Thought I would get frost bite. She asked if I wanted a bu and I sad yes. I stopped it quickly since she was very mechanical with no feeling at all. I found a provider in Greenville, SC that was basically a nymph and it felt good to feel a woman's body again. She only visited about every other month. From what I read on the boards there was no talent from Charlotte to Greenville SC. My provider disappeared the first of last year and I went without until November when I visited an AMP. I have always had a thing for Asian women and with what I had been reading, this was the best thing to do. I enjoyed the experience, but it was more of a snack that satisfied me for a while. I would like to have something more sustaining, but affairs are not going to happen. I enjoy rubbing a woman's body and how great it feels. My last AMP visit, the woman spent more time on the table than I did as I caressed and kissed her body and licked her pussy.

I would prefer my wife, but I know that is not going to happen.

[QUOTE=Oldguy1960;6761990]Two years ago I made an attempt at rekindling our sex life, but my wife was against the idea. I tried, but she was frigid as hell. Thought I would get frost bite. She asked if I wanted a bu and I sad yes. I stopped it quickly since she was very mechanical with no feeling at all. I found a provider in Greenville, SC that was basically a nymph and it felt good to feel a woman's body again. She only visited about every other month. From what I read on the boards there was no talent from Charlotte to Greenville SC. My provider disappeared the first of last year and I went without until November when I visited an AMP. I have always had a thing for Asian women and with what I had been reading, this was the best thing to do. I enjoyed the experience, but it was more of a snack that satisfied me for a while. I would like to have something more sustaining, but affairs are not going to happen. I enjoy rubbing a woman's body and how great it feels. My last AMP visit, the woman spent more time on the table than I did as I caressed and kissed her body and licked her pussy..[/QUOTE]I remembered this a few moments after I made my post. Several years ago we went to Amsterdam. As we were walking somewhere the path took us back through the red light district. It is very interesting that as you walk you pass a cafe and a shop and then a couple of windows with barely dressed women. Later in the day my wife said she would pay for me to visit a prostitute and wanted to watch me have fun. WTF! Yeah I want to fuck another woman while my wife watch (sarcasm). I declined because I still wanted to fuck only my wife which did not happen. It did not like thought of going into a room with a woman, fucking her, and leave without any type of foreplay. I still wonder what would happen if I took her up on her request offer. I am still shocked by it. There were a lot of gorgeous women, but the sex seemed so sterile. I wonder now was that a signal to go and enjoy myself with other women.

As you guys know, my brother, who also is a monger, has a weird way of thinking. As mentioned before, he will go see an escort then when they aren't looking he'll cut the condom so he can fuck them raw and nut in them without their knowledge. Yeah, he thinks that they don't know or by the time they realize he nutted in them he's already left. Here's his next thing he told me yesterday.

There was a girl I introduced him to a number of years ago that I either met off Craigslist or Backpage. I guess back then she was probably 19 or 20 yrs old. Poor and uneducated, probably didn't even finish high school. She was no where near attractive. Cute in her own way. Skinny. Probably weighed 90 lbs but she had descent boobs on her. And when I say cheap, she was CHEAP. We use to hook up for like $20 a pop. No, she didn't post on any escort site. She was just known around as the neighborhood jumpoff for a few dollars. Anyway, when I would hook up with her I think the most I ever gave her was $40 but that quickly dropped down to $20. And she would let you fuck raw and nut in her. Definitely not GFE so she would basically lay there till you nut in her. My brother started seeing her, upon my introduction, and they kicked it for a while. At one point I heard she moved out of state. Little did I know a short time later she moved back and her and my brother continued to hook up. My brother told me the other day that she was back in town and had been for a few years so he gave me her new number. I hit her up and tried to negotiate with her. She did quote $30 but we never could get together because she was worried that I would go back and tell my brother that she and I were hooking up again. It's not like she didn't already know we talked because I introduced her to him back then.

Come to find out she has feelings for my brother but since my brother has a steady GF she says she's tired of him just treating her like just a side piece. Well. . . . isn't that what you are? Ok, I was talking to my brother yesterday and he brings her up. Saying stuff like "I wonder if she has ever done a gangbang or a three-some. I told him probably not. He then tells me that he is just tired of her just laying there, so nothing has changed in the years since I last hooked up with her. He said that he's offered her more money to maybe change positions, to let him nut in her mouth, or on her face, or even do anal and she has declined. His theory is that because he's paying her for pussy she should do any and everything he asks or wants to do. He can't understand how she can let him fuck her raw and nut in her pussy but she won't let him nut on her face, in her mouth, or do anal. I told him that not every girl wants to be treated like that and simply because she sells pussy that doesn't mean you can get every fantasy met for $20 or $30 a pop. This girl won't even take more money to do it so she obviously has her limits. Again, he can't understand why not. "She's selling pussy so why can't I get satisfied for what I'm paying for?" In his mind, I'm giving you money let me treat you like a porn star. He then says that his gf does anal, loves anal, will let him nut in her mouth or on her face so it's not like his requests aren't being met so why won't this other girl do it? I posed this question to him. I said, "given your gf will do anal and let you nut on her face and in her mouth would you push the envelope with her and ask her to do a gangbang, a three-some, or let some other guy fuck her while you sat and just watched?" Using his own logic against him, I mean if she does anal, nut on her face or in her mouth why wouldn't she do those other things simply because you ask, right?

I hate to say it but I honestly think my brother has a sex addiction problem. He treats these girls like they are his personal sex slaves. He has sent me pics of a number of girls he's fucked in the past few years and has even gotten a hotel room for the $20 chic but he said they only fucked once while in the room and he was mad about that. He sent me a pic of one girl he was going down on and you can tell in the pic she is obviously smoking crack. He told me that he fucked her while she was smoking crack then when she passed out he fucked her again.

Yeah, my brother has a problem. He doesn't or can't understand why he should give these girls money and they won't do everything he asked. I told him "look, you're only giving the girl $20 or $30, be happy she's letting you fuck at all. " Then he keep wondering about her sexual history. Why do you care if she's had more than one guy at a time or has done a 3-some?

[QUOTE=FourthTwin;6765167]As you guys know, my brother, who also is a monger, has a weird way of thinking. As mentioned before, he will go see an escort then when they aren't looking he'll cut the condom so he can fuck them raw and nut in them without their knowledge. Yeah, he thinks that they don't know or by the time they realize he nutted in them he's already left. Here's his next thing he told me yesterday.

There was a girl I introduced him to a number of years ago that I either met off Craigslist or Backpage. I guess back then she was probably 19 or 20 yrs old. Poor and uneducated, probably didn't even finish high school. She was no where near attractive. Cute in her own way. Skinny. Probably weighed 90 lbs but she had descent boobs on her. And when I say cheap, she was CHEAP. We use to hook up for like $20 a pop. No, she didn't post on any escort site. She was just known around as the neighborhood jumpoff for a few dollars. Anyway, when I would hook up with her I think the most I ever gave her was $40 but that quickly dropped down to $20. And she would let you fuck raw and nut in her. Definitely not GFE so she would basically lay there till you nut in her. My brother started seeing her, upon my introduction, and they kicked it for a while. At one point I heard she moved out of state. Little did I know a short time later she moved back and her and my brother continued to hook up. My brother told me the other day that she was back in town and had been for a few years so he gave me her new number. I hit her up and tried to negotiate with her. She did quote $30 but we never could get together because she was worried that I would go back and tell my brother that she and I were hooking up again. It's not like she didn't already know we talked because I introduced her to him back then.

Come to find out she has feelings for my brother but since my brother has a steady GF she says she's tired of him just treating her like just a side piece. Well. . . . isn't that what you are? Ok, I was talking to my brother yesterday and he brings her up. Saying stuff like "I wonder if she has ever done a gangbang or a three-some. I told him probably not. He then tells me that he is just tired of her just laying there, so nothing has changed in the years since I last hooked up with her. He said that he's offered her more money to maybe change positions, to let him nut in her mouth, or on her face, or even do anal and she has declined. His theory is that because he's paying her for pussy she should do any and everything he asks or wants to do. He can't understand how she can let him fuck her raw and nut in her pussy but she won't let him nut on her face, in her mouth, or do anal. I told him that not every girl wants to be treated like that and simply because she sells pussy that doesn't mean you can get every fantasy met for $20 or $30 a pop. This girl won't even take more money to do it so she obviously has her limits. Again, he can't understand why not. "She's selling pussy so why can't I get satisfied for what I'm paying for?" In his mind, I'm giving you money let me treat you like a porn star. He then says that his gf does anal, loves anal, will let him nut in her mouth or on her face so it's not like his requests aren't being met so why won't this other girl do it? I posed this question to him. I said, "given your gf will do anal and let you nut on her face and in her mouth would you push the envelope with her and ask her to do a gangbang, a three-some, or let some other guy fuck her while you sat and just watched?" Using his own logic against him, I mean if she does anal, nut on her face or in her mouth why wouldn't she do those other things simply because you ask, right?

I hate to say it but I honestly think my brother has a sex addiction problem. He treats these girls like they are his personal sex slaves. He has sent me pics of a number of girls he's fucked in the past few years and has even gotten a hotel room for the $20 chic but he said they only fucked once while in the room and he was mad about that. He sent me a pic of one girl he was going down on and you can tell in the pic she is obviously smoking crack. He told me that he fucked her while she was smoking crack then when she passed out he fucked her again.

Yeah, my brother has a problem. He doesn't or can't understand why he should give these girls money and they won't do everything he asked. I told him "look, you're only giving the girl $20 or $30, be happy she's letting you fuck at all. " Then he keep wondering about her sexual history. Why do you care if she's had more than one guy at a time or has done a 3-some?[/QUOTE]What's the point of you telling us what your brother is doing. He's not here to give his side of the story or defend himself. Also for this to be your brother, you sure do know a lot of the details. I'm starting to believe these are your stories and your trying to pass them off on your brother. Also if this is truly your brother then why have you not reported him to the police? If you feel comfortable enough to tell strangers about the crimes your brother is committing then you should have no problem telling the police.

[QUOTE=King0453;6765452]What's the point of you telling us what your brother is doing. He's not here to give his side of the story or defend himself. Also for this to be your brother, you sure do know a lot of the details. I'm starting to believe these are your stories and your trying to pass them off on your brother. Also if this is truly your brother then why have you not reported him to the police? If you feel comfortable enough to tell strangers about the crimes your brother is committing then you should have no problem telling the police.[/QUOTE]Get a grip dude. We all are here because we're fucking around or our girlfriends or wives. Don't place yourself on a pedestal like you're some moral authority. I know the details because my brother told me this.

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[QUOTE=FourthTwin;6765663]Get a grip dude. We all are here because we're fucking around or our girlfriends or wives. Don't place yourself on a pedestal like you're some moral authority. I know the details because my brother told me this.[/QUOTE]Just sayin.

SG.

[QUOTE=FourthTwin;6765663]Get a grip dude. We all are here because we're fucking around or our girlfriends or wives. Don't place yourself on a pedestal like you're some moral authority. I know the details because my brother told me this.[/QUOTE]1. I'm single so don't try to group me in with you or the others. Any man that cheats on his wife or girlfriend with an escort is a coward. Just be a man and end the relationship.

2. I'm not placing myself on a pedestal, but I won't defend garbage like you and your brother.

That guy sounds like a narcissistic sociopath and honestly even if he were my brother I'd likely disassociate with him.

There is hobbying and then there's whatever that guy is doing. I sorta wish I hadn't even read that. Obviously in the back of my mind I know that there are folks out there like that, but hearing of specifics doesn't sit well with me at all.

[QUOTE=FourthTwin;6765167]As you guys know, my brother, who also is a monger, has a weird way of thinking. As mentioned before, he will go see an escort then when they aren't looking he'll cut the condom so he can fuck them raw and nut in them without their knowledge. Yeah, he thinks that they don't know or by the time they realize he nutted in them he's already left. Here's his next thing he told me yesterday.

There was a girl I introduced him to a number of years ago that I either met off Craigslist or Backpage. I guess back then she was probably 19 or 20 yrs old. Poor and uneducated, probably didn't even finish high school. She was no where near attractive. Cute in her own way. Skinny. Probably weighed 90 lbs but she had descent boobs on her. And when I say cheap, she was CHEAP. We use to hook up for like $20 a pop. No, she didn't post on any escort site. She was just known around as the neighborhood jumpoff for a few dollars. Anyway, when I would hook up with her I think the most I ever gave her was $40 but that quickly dropped down to $20. And she would let you fuck raw and nut in her. Definitely not GFE so she would basically lay there till you nut in her. My brother started seeing her, upon my introduction, and they kicked it for a while. At one point I heard she moved out of state. Little did I know a short time later she moved back and her and my brother continued to hook up. My brother told me the other day that she was back in town and had been for a few years so he gave me her new number. I hit her up and tried to negotiate with her. She did quote $30 but we never could get together because she was worried that I would go back and tell my brother that she and I were hooking up again. It's not like she didn't already know we talked because I introduced her to him back then.[/QUOTE]This sounds outlandish first of all. Secondly, "thou protesters too much" as Shakespeare would say. Meaning: you may be publicly lamenting what you ratify in private. In short no moral to your declaration. Rather odd you would use this forum to anonymously attack an anonymous person.

My last post was deleted by admin, so I guess all I can say is your brother is a real nice a guy. A great member of the hobby community, a real gem.