NEVER-EVER Pay for a meet and greet!!
[QUOTE=Psylon53;5560406]First post, yey!
I signed up a few days ago and my experience has been sour so far. I probably contacted 25+ women in a week. Lots of them aged 18 to 25 are just scammers, asking you to send them something on cashapp with empty promises, or want you to buy their pics / videos. Some say ok to meet, but then don't show up or get cold feet at the last minute.
The only one I had a good vibe with was this one: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e68758f3-4d7a-444d-9ab6-5a562a585aad[/URL] , I even paid her on site $200 for the first meet and greet for coffee. I thought we clicked, she was ok with PPM, but then after we said we would meet again soon and she left, she sent me a message saying that she supposedly was not comfortable with me not being single. Well my profile says separated, not married, but she would not even read my subsequent messages? She is a beautiful college student and I wonder if she is just a plain scammer, or if she really has principles. Anyhow, why would she care about someone's marital status if is she is taking money for meeting + fun?? Thoughts?[/QUOTE]Buying them lunch / dinner or drinks for a meet and greet?- sure that's reasonable- pay them for just meeting you? Hell no. I'd be insulted if I felt like I needed to pay a chick to have a cup of coffee. I have had plenty of them suggest that to me and I have never agreed to it- and I've done quite well on SA. If they give you any nonsense about "their time spent" explain its your freaking time too!!
Think about it- Why would a chick sleep with you if she can take $200 off of you for a coffee date? She doesn't care about your married status- that's just the line she laid on you.