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[QUOTE=Numero; 1634018]If we wanted to deal with a nagging pain in the a$$, we wouldn't be on this site. We'd be banging our wives and girlfriends. Anybody that "needs" a reference, please feel free to use me. What a joke.

For example, I PM'd EvyMe "for details" as she depicted in her first ad. What'd I get in return?

"Send me two references and like I said in my ad. I've been on this site before."

Thanks for those details. What a turn-on.[/QUOTE]Well how do we now that this provider Envyme was a provider and has been on this site before? If she was on this site before why does she not explain who she was and why she is running ads with a different title? Prehaps this provider should in fact give you two references did this provider ever posted a photo of herself yet? I'm just amazed on where a new provider with no photo will ask for seinors member of this board to prove who they are, yet there no proof that they are a provider of good standing.

That bring me to another thought I was having. What's to stop a new member from posing as a provider on this board getting info from members and trying to use that info for his own personal gain? Like setting up a date with someone elses handle and references that were given. This post is in no way meant to bash Envyme or new providers just merely trying to point something out for further topic of discussion.

[QUOTE=Sinful Dreams; 1634207]When I was just starting out yes I didn't take references, BUT just because I don't TELL you I don't do a reference, doesn't mean I am not checking them. When you call or text me I have a program I use that gives me your information. It tells me all I need to know. After what happened to me physically on this board, I check a lot more than I used to. IMHO.

Ally[/QUOTE]Ally.

So you have a program that tells you about people based on their burner phone number? I don't think so. Maybe if someone used their personal number or personal email address, but neither you or LE can find out anything on a burner phone. Especially one purchased with cash. I'm not trying to bash you in any way. Just saying that even you have seen people without doing a reference check.

The weak reference checks most providers do and relying on senior status gives both providers and clients a false sense of security. Everyone should enter each visit as it is the first visit. Always check your surroundings. Pay attention to if a provider is a little different on the phone this time versus the last time you talked to her. You never know if LE has gotten to the provider / client since the last time you saw him / her. Also, everyone should avoid putting too much detail on any site. My post count is low by design not because I'm new at this.

I got comfortable once with someone I had seen multiple times, I had to fight my way out of her apt that day. I was lucky no weapons were present and it was only a single guy. I was also lucky that I was able to escape before anyone called LE. There is no amount of reference checking anyone can do that will protect us from a boyfriend / pimp / wife that is hiding in the shadows waiting to catch their significant other cheating or whatever their intentions are. Be safe, be alert and never get comfortable.

[QUOTE=AdamP469;1634464]Sometimes newer providers will take a risk with newbies. That was how I managed to book with the first provider I saw. She screened me pretty soundly first, though. It was literally about 20 questions via text message, and then we finally spoke on the phone for a while before she was convinced that I wasn't LE, wasn't drunk, and was probably harmless.[/QUOTE]Well there are a few providers that do not screen on this board because they mostly run ads on backpage. Which they are also providers on this board asking for reference but runs ads on BP and it does not state that a reference is needed? Ally brought this topic up for open discussion because she cares for the saftey of other providers and members on the board. And there has been alot of good points made by several senior and new members. But to be honest I do not think the system will change one way or the other. Just throwing my two cents worth in the pot.

If this provider wants to play out one of her fantasies, who are we to judge her?

Sure, she will get bashed probably, most likely, but she shouldn't care. She should be herself, do what she wants and not think twice to what others say / think. That's my personal opinion.

I do think keeping it behind the scenes is best. As she has done. No open board talk of the " encounters ". That would only draw in the bashing.

I wouldn't judge her. I've no right to.

Neither does anyone else, especially us providers.

I say go for it girl if it makes you happy and fulfills your fantasy.

Be safe!

All the best,

Dawn

[QUOTE=Cowboy E;1634357]Pm me for time frames fri or sat. We Have had a wonderful response but there us a couple of questions from the provider on how our members and other providers would respect her for fulfilling such a request. Some support on her part would be appreciated from members and providers would help to complete her session. She is as much of a lady as each of us would want 1 on 1 but she is so much involved in making her clients happy as other providers but as all the ladies she doesn't want to loose the respect as a provider. This is why she's my ATF. SO If we can get a bravo or a no no from her clients as well as from other providers this will make or break the fantasy for all involved. I give a bravo. Anyone else?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CincyGuy123;1634002]Well there has to be SOME providers who don't require references otherwise how will newbies get into the game?[/QUOTE]Since I am rarely here and rarely have enough time to digest all the info here, I have wondered that a bit myself. I have never graduated to escort services myself since finances are not great for me, and it has been years since I've met anyone on the streets, though I got to know them a while before we "dated" so to speak.

Also, it would help if some of the ladies would state whether they do incalls only or outcalls. Most of you do but some of the new ones are not.

Regarding your response to my overnight at the Casino. Thanks for your intrest in joining me, I know you will ALWAYS be avalible when I call!

The Bootman

[QUOTE=Cowboy E;1634357]Pm me for time frames fri or sat. We Have had a wonderful response but there us a couple of questions from the provider on how our members and other providers would respect her for fulfilling such a request. Some support on her part would be appreciated from members and providers would help to complete her session. She is as much of a lady as each of us would want 1 on 1 but she is so much involved in making her clients happy as other providers but as all the ladies she doesn't want to loose the respect as a provider. This is why she's my ATF. SO If we can get a bravo or a no no from her clients as well as from other providers this will make or break the fantasy for all involved. I give a bravo. Anyone else?[/QUOTE]Pm me for dtails

I Lakersfan finally visited Ally at her upscale incall in NKY. Wow, it was awesome! Every aspect (conversation, looks, skills.) Really, I'm speechless, I was very impressed with her and the way she handles business. Will definitely get back with her in the future.

[QUOTE=Cowboy E;1635234]Pm me for dtails[/QUOTE]Its Friday big guy LOL.

[QUOTE=Numero; 1634018]If we wanted to deal with a nagging pain in the a$$, we wouldn't be on this site. We'd be banging our wives and girlfriends. Anybody that "needs" a reference, please feel free to use me. What a joke.

For example, I PM'd EvyMe "for details" as she depicted in her first ad. What'd I get in return?

"Send me two references and like I said in my ad. I've been on this site before."

Thanks for those details. What a turn-on.[/QUOTE]I also PMed EnvyMe, and asked her what her old handle was. No response.

A provider's greatest asset isn't what's between her legs, but a good reputation as providing a top notch companionship experience. It's not just about sex, but what goes on before, during, and after. I used to see a particular girl fairly regularly. I liked seeing her not because she was the prettiest or had the skills to join Cirque du Soleil. I repeated with her because from the moment she walked in the door, to the time she left, I had a great time; 20-25 in bed and 35-40 minutes hanging out and laughing. I remember the 35-40 minutes more than I do what happened in the bedroom.

The other side of the coin is that a provider's biggest hindrance to making money is a lousy reputation of cash-and-dash, clock watching, robotic sex, unhygenic policies, bait-and-switch, even shilling. (If you have a shill, even that will make customers not want to see you.).

If EnvyMe really is a provider using a different handle, I'm guessing that she has a bad rep. ; one that will cause customers to stay away. You know, a rep. Like HotSquirt does right now. That one newbie review by "Boom 72" didn't really help- made things worse, in fact. (I'm sure HS has her fans, and more power to them. I'm just stating an opinion that her rep isn't what a customer wants to read about.)

So, my opinion, for whatever it's worth, EnvyMe is "suspect" and I will not be seeing her. If she can prove that she was a provider in good standing, then I might change my mind.

This is why DD is and has remained one of the top notch providers.

To each their own and some things are better off not being said.

MM.

[QUOTE=Delicious Dawn; 1635129]If this provider wants to play out one of her fantasies, who are we to judge her?

Sure, she will get bashed probably, most likely, but she shouldn't care. She should be herself, do what she wants and not think twice to what others say / think. That's my personal opinion.

I do think keeping it behind the scenes is best. As she has done. No open board talk of the " encounters ". That would only draw in the bashing.

I wouldn't judge her. I've no right to.

Neither does anyone else, especially us providers.

I say go for it girl if it makes you happy and fulfills your fantasy.

Be safe!

All the best,

Dawn.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LakersFan29;1635271]I Lakersfan finally visited Ally at her upscale incall in NKY. Wow, it was awesome! Every aspect (conversation, looks, skills.) Really, I'm speechless, I was very impressed with her and the way she handles business. Will definitely get back with her in the future.[/QUOTE]She's a sweetie. Too bad she'll be out of the area until January 18.

My birthday is on the 7th. I'm totally bummed.

[QUOTE=Cowboy E;1634357]Pm me for time frames fri or sat. We Have had a wonderful response but there us a couple of questions from the provider on how our members and other providers would respect her for fulfilling such a request. Some support on her part would be appreciated from members and providers would help to complete her session. She is as much of a lady as each of us would want 1 on 1 but she is so much involved in making her clients happy as other providers but as all the ladies she doesn't want to loose the respect as a provider. This is why she's my ATF. SO If we can get a bravo or a no no from her clients as well as from other providers this will make or break the fantasy for all involved. I give a bravo. Anyone else?[/QUOTE]This fantasy was mine as a hobbiest. Not my providers she was kind enough to agree with some concerns of her reputation being tarnished with other members as well as providers. I as well as others have fantasies. And try to fulfill them thru my providers but I think this one needs to be let go. I want to apoligise. To my provider if I in any way tarnished her golden reputation she has been great to me over the years. Some times I guess I let my imagination get away. Again this was my fantasy and not hers Thank you to my fellow members that ask to take part un fortunately we couldn't put it together. But remember One Thing our ladies will go to extreme measures to please us. She didn't call this off I did. COWBOY

I travel a lot for a living. Will be visiting Vancouver, BC, Canada next month. This forum looks like it only covers the states. I checked the Washington Forum as they are closest but those guys / gals don't seem very active on this site. Any advice on the best way to get a review? Thinking about meeting Classyangel. Com while there. I don't suppose I am lucky enough anyone on here has met her (I think she may tour some).