I Hate You and I don't even Know You
[QUOTE=JayMalibu;2003294]Had the opportunity to do a 4-way with Sasha, CC and a trusted friend. Words can't do justice in describing the experience. I generally only post when I experience something exceptional and this hour was all that and more. This was so fun that we were already talking about how soon we could work out round two. There are some things that A2 just can't get in the Southern Hemisphere... ;-)[/QUOTE]Mr. Malibu, I hate you for carrying through on the idea I had a month ago for these two. He who hesitates comes in second.
The value of an appointment is about $500 or more
[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;2003402]Set up an appointment with Sexy Sass last night for today between 10:30 & 11 am I set it up like that because of my work schedule, I explained this to her last night I also told her that I would call in the morning and let her know what time for sure. Since I had seen her before and she kept my phone number in her phone I'm thinking everything is cool. Wrong. After the 10:30 am time was established she called to make sure I was coming I assured her I was but I did incure a slight setback at the bank but if I was late it would be no more tan 5-10 min.
She said that was fine, when I got 2 exits away I called her, her reply was didn't you get my text? No I hadn't we had been talking over the phone now we are texting WTF? She had to get some medicine for her family member but she assured me she would be back by 11 am ,since I had already driven 23 miles to her location I told her I would wait. At 11 am I received another text stating she would be there at 11:30 . At 11:30 I called no response I then sent her a text stating that I guess my time money and gas means nothing to you, and left it at that.
I am heated I drove 46 miles round trip wasted over 2 hours of my time and I get nothing, I don't know who she thinks she is maybe she is getting the big head over her reviews I don't know, but this is BS. I wasn't a regular but I have seen her before we got along great I respect every woman I've seen on this board and that was bull shit. I wouldn't have even wrote this had she called or text and offered up an apology or even given a lame explanation, but here it is 3 hours later and I've heard nothing.
Good luck to you Ms. Sassy. From a very pissed off and dissatisfied customer.[/QUOTE]I think this phenomenon, where a provider just takes an appointment and a customer for granted is born out of real world habits. There, who has the vagina rules the dating scene. Let's be honest, getting laid if you are a woman, is easy. However, here in the hobby, cash money makes the rules.
We hire providers to scratch an itch. If not one provider, someone else would be more than willing to provide the service. We still get the itch scratched, while they still do not have the cash. Vagina has POTENTIAL value, cash has real value. With that real value of cash, we can get other vaginas, or a steak dinner, or a new iPad.
Unlike cash, whose value only diminishes because of inflation, a vagina's potential value is affected by reviews. That $150 appointment she just blew off? The review of the bad experience just steered 2 other customers away and into another provider's vagina. If it happens to be an influential monger, perhaps more. So that $150 she freely gave up, is really around $500. The flip side is if she does a bang up job and gets a glowing review, someone who was on the fence would be more inclined to give her a call and she suddenly has $500 more than when she started her week. Then add in the residuals for repeat business, then all of a sudden she is no longer worried about next month's rent.
Since those duo photos of Sasha and Cupcake came out, and the hot glowing reviews of those duo sessions have gone on to legendary status, how many more appointments have they had? Guys who didn't consider a threeway is now is skipping Skyline and calling Buddha instead.
Your reputation is the only real commodity you have. Mongers will ignore age, a beauty defect, a bad in call location, or even a bad BJ technique. But they will never ignore a string of bad reviews.
All About Opportunity Cost
Very well said. I never understood how it is so many people simply don't consider ramifications beyond the here and now. So, as an example, say I save $50 every 6 months by not changing my car's oil and filter. Great, I can grab a nice steak dinner (once) as a result. Or maybe get a quick blow 'and go. You get the picture.
However, my myopia will cost me the ability to get to said dinner (or blow 'and go) because my car's engine will seize at some inopportune time at some inopportune location. The equation: 2-3 nice dinners = an engine rebuild? I'm sure most of us would agree that's foolish. The opportunity cost is far too high.
OK. Off my soap box. All that said, Sexy Sass doesn't have a reputation of missing many calls. So I might be inclined to give her a pass on this one.
And one more thing, oh yeah, Buddha knows his marketing, and well! I am scraping together the cashola to make a personal appearance in that shower scene! Oh, yeah!
[QUOTE=DNut;2003449]I think this phenomenon, where a provider just takes an appointment and a customer for granted is born out of real world habits. There, who has the vagina rules the dating scene. Let's be honest, getting laid if you are a woman, is easy. However, here in the hobby, cash money makes the rules.
We hire providers to scratch an itch. If not one provider, someone else would be more than willing to provide the service. We still get the itch scratched, while they still do not have the cash. Vagina has POTENTIAL value, cash has real value. With that real value of cash, we can get other vaginas, or a steak dinner, or a new iPad.
Unlike cash, whose value only diminishes because of inflation, a vagina's potential value is affected by reviews. That $150 appointment she just blew off? The review of the bad experience just steered 2 other customers away and into another provider's vagina. If it happens to be an influential monger, perhaps more. So that $150 she freely gave up, is really around $500. The flip side is if she does a bang up job and gets a glowing review, someone who was on the fence would be more inclined to give her a call and she suddenly has $500 more than when she started her week. Then add in the residuals for repeat business, then all of a sudden she is no longer worried about next month's rent.
Since those duo photos of Sasha and Cupcake came out, and the hot glowing reviews of those duo sessions have gone on to legendary status, how many more appointments have they had? Guys who didn't consider a threeway is now is skipping Skyline and calling Buddha instead.
Your reputation is the only real commodity you have. Mongers will ignore age, a beauty defect, a bad in call location, or even a bad BJ technique. But they will never ignore a string of bad reviews.[/QUOTE]
Huntladys and cincys fellas!
Hunt ladys;.
I am sorry for this. I think it was a misunderstanding. I really don't that my friends or my apts for granted and I appreciate each and everyone of you and I m respectful of your time it just happened to be the morning my grams ask me to get her medication.
She and he doctor inssit she needs to take it at the same time each day. I am truely sorry and I will make it up if you was to so kindly let me make amends. As always thank you.
Xoxox-SS.
[QUOTE=HuntLadys29;2003402]Set up an appointment with Sexy Sass last night for today between 10:30 & 11 am I set it up like that because of my work schedule, I explained this to her last night I also told her that I would call in the morning and let her know what time for sure. Since I had seen her before and she kept my phone number in her phone I'm thinking everything is cool. Wrong. After the 10:30 am time was established she called to make sure I was coming I assured her I was but I did incure a slight setback at the bank but if I was late it would be no more tan 5-10 min.
She said that was fine, when I got 2 exits away I called her, her reply was didn't you get my text? No I hadn't we had been talking over the phone now we are texting WTF? She had to get some medicine for her family member but she assured me she would be back by 11 am ,since I had already driven 23 miles to her location I told her I would wait. At 11 am I received another text stating she would be there at 11:30 . At 11:30 I called no response I then sent her a text stating that I guess my time money and gas means nothing to you, and left it at that.
I am heated I drove 46 miles round trip wasted over 2 hours of my time and I get nothing, I don't know who she thinks she is maybe she is getting the big head over her reviews I don't know, but this is BS. I wasn't a regular but I have seen her before we got along great I respect every woman I've seen on this board and that was bull shit. I wouldn't have even wrote this had she called or text and offered up an apology or even given a lame explanation, but here it is 3 hours later and I've heard nothing.
Good luck to you Ms. Sassy. From a very pissed off and dissatisfied customer.[/QUOTE]
[blue]I allowed this post because it wasn't a defense, it was an offer to fix a bad experience. Hunt I'm not saying you should do it, I'm only saying that A2 likes to encourage providers taking responsibility for screwing up and offering to make amends.
A2[/blue]
Re: Your Sasha and CC 4-Way
[QUOTE=JayMalibu;2003294]Had the opportunity to do a 4-way with Sasha, CC and a trusted friend. Words can't do justice in describing the experience. I generally only post when I experience something exceptional and this hour was all that and more. This was so fun that we were already talking about how soon we could work out round two. There are some things that A2 just can't get in the Southern Hemisphere... ;-)[/QUOTE]It sounds like you had a memorable time. I thought that your A2 taunt was a bit risky, however, the experience that you shared must have really impressed him. Otherwise A2 would have spanked your ass for use of the ellipses and the chat room style winky face! You continue to push the envelope in more ways than one. Thank you for the report.
Last Heather update and then time to move on
[QUOTE=JJLuvv;2004470]I'm not the "buddy" he is referring to, however this is one of those things that makes me irate. When providers don't have the phone glued to their hand all day is beyond me. Understandably during another appointment I'm not going to get a response, but FFS if you know someone is en route for a date KEEP YOUR EYE ON THE PHONE! When I'm in contact with a provider, I check it 100 times a minute. Timely responses are a must.[/QUOTE]My buddy told me it went down like this, first text at 3:45, explained he was a senior on here, offered to provide references, asked for availability. She texted back within a minute saying she would love to meet. He sent one back asking if 5 pm was cool and for donation requested.rate sent back within minutes, confirmed time. Getting ready to leave at 4:30, sent a text stating he was on his way and he would CALL (key word) when he got close. She sent one back telling him to make sure he brought the donation requested which had increased by $10, no big deal, he was already in route.
When he got near he sent text right about 5 asking which exit, received an answer right away...got to the exit, sent another and no reply.he turned down a dead end side street, got stuck in snow for a minute, got back on the road, sent another text, no answer. Pulled off and parked, sent another, no answer, 10 minutes later said fuck it, sent one last one blowing her off and then put her number on his spam list.
He looked last night and had received a text at 5:44, saying "you said you was going to call, not text, I was in the tub".
So, benefit of doubt, he did say call...don't know if that makes any difference in my mind...if you have a 5 pm and you don't check your phone for almost 45 minutes? Maybe she ignored the text alerts coming in, waiting for a call? Maybe she decided at few minutes after 5 to take a long, soaking hot bath? Regardless, I call BS.
I don't buy into the checking you out carefully scenario either, that is total crap if they do that with no intention of meeting. To waste almost 1.5 hours of a mongers time for what? It did not serve any value to the provider as this post proves.
Time wasted but $ saved for another day.