What kind of relationship to maintain with a (regular) provider?
I'm the kind of people who are easy to have feelings for a girl. Not just being sexually attracted but also wanting to feel loved. I know, I would probably be better off looking for a real girlfriend instead of trying to get what I want from a provider. That being said, how do you guys get along with your favorite regular providers? If you ever grow affections, how do you manage it?
Me, I want to hang out in occasions other than just in her room, I want to know more about each other, and I want to feel "special" to her while not being taken as an atm. I'm willing to spend some money with unclear / indirect returns (say, buying gifts, treating her to dinner), but I don't think I want to be in a sugar relationship just now. I'm not single and I can't commit to something like that. Am I fundamentally wrong to that end?
In my experience, many providers have issues like drug addiction, drinking, family dramas, boyfriend dramas, LOL, I don't know. And at the end of the day, they make money from men who desire them. Trying to be friends with them feels different from making friends with ordinary people. I always have to question myself if she's pretending to be friendly or just trying to get money. But sometimes I also have the illusion (that someone treats me as her friend, and I might be able to receive emotional values from her. I think I already have a soft spot for her and feel vulnerable. I feel hard to reject her requests and I even feel a bit jealous as she talks about her work. All happens when I am not able to tell if she is just trying to take advantage of me or if she also wants to develop some kind of relationship more than just buyer / seller (at this point, I don't even know what kind of relationship I should call it, to call it "friendship" is probably a misnomer, which goes back to the question I asked in the title.).
Any advice is much appreciated.
Serafina Wilde fka Lucky Aisling
[QUOTE=VTwelveMpg;6741870]Anyone have any experience with the (new?) oneluckygirl? Found a number of posts from the past saying it's a psuedonym for Serafina Wilde but the current post certainly seems like someone else. Solid number of reviews and vouches though, shared account?
[URL]https://www.tnaboard.com/member.php?318059-Oneluckygirl[/URL][/QUOTE]That person is thinking of Serafina's former moniker (Lucky Aisling) which is in no way associated with OneLuckyGirl.
Agree With "Be Professional"
I tend to have a very small number of providers that I see regularly. I have had this approach to the hobby for many years. The advantages are levels of access that they might not be giving to the client that sees them three or four times. I make sure that they are aware that it is a business relationship, nothing more. I don't let them 'borrow' money. Also, I make it vary clear that if you ghost me, you will be fired. Some of the best times I have had in the hobby are with regulars I have seen for 2+ years. Definitely making it clear rhat you are there for the sex makes it less like for bs.
Looks very hot. Anyone experienced her?
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See. Her posts very consistently. Photos look really hot. Any gents with info on her?
Carmen. Ghosted twice two days in a row
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Contacted her on Tuesday and agreed to a time on Wed. Enthusiastic and responsive. Came wed morning. No respond till 5 pm giving excuses about phone died. Rescheduled for Thursday enthusiastically. Then Thursday morning around 8 responded enthusiastically too.
When it came to meet up time around 12, ghosted again. Don't know if you guys have experience with her but a total time waster.
We've gone full circle again.
[QUOTE=DrtyHarry;6739511]Yeah great question. This seems to be a trend on the other board. They literally want the big bucks but their list of things they hate is a mile long and what they actually "like" is money and low quality service. Let's face it, we are being treated like ATM machines.[/QUOTE]Much as TRB had issues, at least it was a board run by hobbyists for hobbyists. TNA has just become Big Doggie and we've gone full circle again where its all about money.