Didn't know she was a sugar baby
A while back I remember reading about Golden Mans (pretty sure it was him) tactic of chatting up shop girls and dropping hints that would lead to an SB arrangement. He went out of his way to frequent places that typically hired PYT's. I thought it was interesting but figured it could never work for me due to my tight schedule and not having the time to invest in this type of pursuit.
One of the few social activities I engage in is the occasional fetish party. There is a big fetish scene in L. A. That I am not a part of but I drop in from time to time. 95%+ of the girls are pro-dommes with a few subs, strippers and adult performers of various types. But once in a while a curious amateur shows up. These girls always have a very strong fetish need that is not being met by their BF and they just can't take it any longer so they somewhat lower their standards and go slumming so to speak to relieve their anxiety.
Usually they do it once and never come back as they consider it creepy to display their private desires at a party or just too far out. Anyway one day I hookup with this straight off the ranch mexican girl (an unfulfilled fantasy of mine) with one of the strongest (to go unnamed here fetish) that I have ever encountered. As my skills in that area are well honed we had an instant connection. She immediately left and I did not see her again for a few months. She said she had a boyfriend and it all seemed too remote.
But over the course of a year I saw her at a couple other parties and we were always cordial and would hookup for a session or 2 and that was it. But we did exchange phone #'s. Finally one day a month or so ago I see her at a party and I say to her, "I know you like me, why don't we just meet at my place and fck". She says "I really like you but I can't" I ask why not and she says "you are a manhore", as she did know a little about my lifestyle from some conversations we had along the way. So I leave it at that and go home and forgot all about any chance of doing her.
Three days ago she calls me in a panic about a minor legal problem and I calm her down. She says she has to go to the court (which is right near my house) and will I pick her up because she is full of anxiety and wants to chill at my place for a little fetish fun (no charge). So I pick her up today. We go to my house and straight to the bedroom. With in minutes I pull out a $ and hand it to her. She looks at me surprised and says "is this for my birthday?". As coincidentally it was a couple weeks ago. I say yes and we proceed to chill for an hour.
Prior to leaving there was a little hugging and some minor kissing, followed by a little more in the car. Now since day one there has been awesome chemistry (but no physical affection displayed outside the fetish session) and that has led to nothing. The exact reason I never civi date. Way too much dancing around and uncertainty. A few hours later the heavy txting begins and I am going to talk to her tomorrow and see her next week. At my house she says she has to break up with her BF to pursue this. As she is strictly a one man type of woman and never dates guys that play around. Now it appears like it will progress no matter what. I admit I have my hopes up.
So is it a combination of a shared interest, a real physical attraction and maybe the $ combined that pushed her over the edge (almost)? We will see and I will let you know. She is a 7/9 spinner (rare for her cultural background and actually looked down on as unattractive) with a perfect fetish match. BTW. I did reveal all four of my regular SB's to her in detail so there is no deception.
What's Ya Flava? BigTigger = Middle Grounders, The Needy, Hot Young Babies
We have a number of categories for the women we tend to focus on (I apologize if I mess up the categories) What is your target group and order of precedence?
Nando 1s- (Desperate need your money for food, rent, etc. Age is irrelevant) [$] Low cash expenditure. Cash and FC are tied together. No Emotional Involvement.
Hot Young Babies. (Under the age of 25, possibly in College or working Part Time jobs, etc) [$$] Cash is mid-high, gifts are a big hit. Dating is optional, but has greater impact.
Middle Grounders. (Over 25, small imperfections, may need some bills covered, not desperate. But not really comfortable either) [$$-$$$] Cash is mid-high, Dating is preferred, potential high Emotional Involvement. Gifts and Dating have high impact.
Non Pros / UTRs. (Under the Radar, Met at their Part time workplace, CL, Don't know they are SBs, Possible 1 advertisement away from being pros) [$$-$$$] Dating optional, Cash outlay is moderate.
The Needy. (Needing Little to no money, but attention and a good screwing) [$$] [Low cash requirement, Dating is mandatory, potential high Emotional Involvement.
Converts. (Strippers and Escorts you are trying to turn into SBs) [$$$$] Cash is high. Lots of upfront work. Dating only at beginning.
SB Professional. (Allowance Types, Higher Costs, Had SDs before, Potentially GPS) [$$$$] High Cash component, Dating and Gifts Mandatory.
