Is it appropriate to put this in my profile
"Only ladies with big pussy lips please".
Thanks to all who responded.
[QUOTE=Maxamillion8;5895585]Go scientific to hash out the dumbos.
Luicious Virtical Lips.[/QUOTE]I love the "Luscious Vertical Lips". So I'll update my profile to include " Well endowed Luscious Vertical Lips".
Sketchy random text message
I deleted my SA account after that fiasco with the bipolar chick down in Fayetteville to wash my hands of the scene completely. That situation really opened my eyes to how insane most of the women in this hobby are (especially the attractive ones on SA).
Anyways, I woke up to an ominous text on my burner from an unknown number saying: "Just wait until everyone finds out you're a sugar daddy, it's going to be so embarassing". No clue who it was, how they got the burner number, or what their goal was. Didn't even entertain them with a response. Guessing it was the first step in a blackmail attempt. The length these skanks will go through to try and get the upper hand and make a quick buck!
Take this tale as a sign to be more careful out there gentlemen. Even though my precautions will (hopefully) pay off, I know that there are a plethora of guys in the scene who don't look out for themselves like they should. Below are some of the steps I've taken to protect my identity. Some of them are admittedly pretty extreme, but highly recommended if you want to rest easy when faced with dumb threats or crazy SBs.
1) Get a proper burner phone. Google Voice / TextNow doesn't count. Get a proper shitty phone with a fake name and pay with a gift card (if possible) or cash. If you're on a sugar daddy website you should be able to afford this without a hitch.
2) Come up with a good fake name. My best advice is to pick a name that starts towards the opposite end of the alphabet. Avoid using the name of anyone tied closely with your real social media profiles (if you have any). Don't want your real profile to show up recommended next to your friend's whose name you used, do you?
3) If you insist on using real pictures of yourself: take unique ones specifically for your profile and blur / crop your face out of it. Take them in places that aren't necessarily associated with you. Never send saveable pictures of yourself thru any media channels and never use those pictures anywhere else.
4) Most younger women on SA want to talk via a social media app. Make a fake account. Use a unique username, fake display name, etc. I recommend you only install the app on a burner phone as well. Do not link any identifiable information to your fake account.
5) Hopefully by now you've established a vague and easy-to-remember pseudo-identity for yourself. Unless you're outright marrying an SB, never ever reveal any real details about who you really are and what you really do.
6) When in doubt, back out. If you have any reason to think you're being played, set up, toyed with, or if she's asking too many questions: ask yourself if she's really that good of a lay and if it's worth putting you and your career at risk. The answer should almost always be "no".
7) Remember: you are nothing but a cash cow to most of these women. They can and will turn on you if they see an opportunity to milk you for more money. Give them nothing to work with.
Hope this helps someone out there.
